WILL MY TAURUS LOVER EVER COME BACK!?

okay, well it's been a LONG time since we've broken up. But our break-up was simple yet complicated. It started off with me simply emailing him saying that i felt like we were distant because of school and stuff.. and the next day he emailed me saying that we should talk about it. Then the next time we had a chance to talk about it...He said that things were getting weird, and they werent the same anymore, and that we weren't into the relationship. but im pretty sure it was bettter than ever and he was scared that i was going to end things because i sent that "distant" email. im regretting that now. this is because he wouldnt let me explain,and what i meant by distant was that we didnt spend much time together and we always use to say "oh tomorrow, oh the weekend" but we just never had time...but we still loved each other so much because just the way he looked at me and like i dont know. you know the feeling? when i explained that thats what i meant by distant, he kind of ignored it, and said that he didnt want commitment. He said he "CHANGED" and that he needed a break because he was feeling "messed". However, he's hurt and it's like he's hurting himself and i cant do anything about it but i love him and i would do anything for him and if he wants to be alone now and wants to figure things out then i will give him space. im just scared that he thinks that im giving him space because i want time for myself. because that is not what i want. i want to be with him. he has changed my life and i just want to be with him because he just means everything to me. He always stares in the halls, and it seems like he wants to have me back. but i think he's just confused with what he wants now and hes kind of stringing me along. But really. why cant we just be together if we both feel that its right to some point. I feel that we should at least talk about it, but we havent had a full conversation since November when we broke up and hes on his own doing his own thing. and im stuck on him and i cant keep my mind off of him and its APRIL! its so frustrating because he use to be the person who i use to talk to all the time about anything but now its like he doesnt even exist. and i just want to have one simple conversation with him. Do you think he'll ever come back? We were so good to each other, I treated him so good. I even made strawberry tea for him everything morning hahahahahahah.. because he loved it so much, and i use to leave him little notes in his locker with his favourite truffles and we use to cuddle and watch moviess and omg it was just so good and then one day just BAM! i dont understand... He just doesnt see how good it can be right now. Well he probably can but his stubborness is hurting me. But oh well... if thats what he wants. then fine. i guess. but im just scared that hes gunna regret doing this to me in the end, and is going to want me back and then i wont be there for him. so thats why i want to wait for him, but its taking a long time. i dont mean that i want to have someone else, its just that i would much rather spend the time with him rather than by myself or someone else. But i guess if i wait then it'll be worth it in the end? and he'll see how much more im worth if i waited for him? HmMm guys tell me what i should do... should i wait? should i stop thinking about him? i just want a 5 minute conversation but he just doesnt talk. its so weird. he KNOWS i want him and that i love him to death and i know that he loves me to death but hes just scared i guess.. ahhh i hate having to say "i guess" because i want to knowww... but hes just playing this stupid gamee... i know for a fact that he has never felt this strong about a girl because he told me before and we got serious. and it felt so good but now just blah. everything just got put down the drain . what a waste of love. but hey, at least it happened. oh but i miss him. he seems to miserable in the hallways now and so do i, and our friends are like why arent

Maybe theres no more attraction anymore? but thats impossible since he always starres... i hate how hes not being honest with me. hes impossible to read so ill just let it be for now i guess. but its been so long and i have a feeling hes going to find someone else. but hes obvvviously going to miss me. you shouldve seen how crazy about me he was when we were at the "chase" ...thats what made me actually like this guy! he was so into me! but whatever... ill just wait it out..see what happens.

surprisingly, libras and tauruses get along better than most astrologists would suggest they would (maybe from their dual-rularship of venus); not to mention that a libra/taurus relationship is strangely common.

these two signs tend to be in harmony with one another becuz they both have a similar fondness for balance and peaceful relations. although appeasing each other is driven by different modivations, it can still work becuz it gets the "getting along" part done.

i mean, my childhood best friend is a libra, and she is the person that i spent the most time with throughout elementary and middle school. we enjoyed being in each other's company and had many common interests. in addition, i get along with libras fairly well -- no matter what mood i'm in.

i think that there is a favorable chance for a libra/taurus relationship to work, just becuz tauruses don't tend to get mad easily when around a libra. tauruses are, in general, slow to anger, but they do enjoy the fact that the libra doesn't even allow for an angry seed to be planted within them in the first place (although tauruses are known for having the capacity to destroy the world when they are in a real rage). and since libras don't like to disappoint, they keep the taurean anger locked up in a cage -- where it happily stays. the libra/taurus similarities are also effectively shown through everyday life (although my libra best friend used to always wonder how my mind happened to work, especially since she can never understand why i do the things that i do, or even think the way that i do. =p)

but too much harmony is boring for me, which is mostly becuz my venus is in aries and my mars is in gemini.

lol but i don't think that i really answered your question..


hmm.. i think that he definately still likes you; he's just scared that you will end up breaking his heart (again). tauruses are definately in relationships for the long haul, so if they don't see a pleasant future with their current partner to begin with, then they won't even allow for their heart to commit. it's definately not something that they plan ahead of time -- their reluctance just simply plays out by itself, naturally.

from how i see it, if you're really serious about wanting to be with him, then you should: (1) approach him, regarding the situation, and (2) tell him how you truly feel about it (or about him) -- but it's really all up to you. it seems like there is a reasonable possibility for this to work, becuz he seems to show a genuine interest in you. besides, tauruses don't primarily have staring problems when it comes to the opposite sex; they have eyes, of course, and may look (particularly the guys), but they wouldn't normally stare at somebody, day after day, as though they were addicted (unless they actually are lol).

but he's definately at a point where he can just give up his stubborness and directly expose his feelings to you, or just simply plod along through life without any regrets. taureans aren't the remorseful type, so they won't let the past bring them down. but the question is, do you want to be a part of his past or future?

don't make your decision based on how you think HE feels. do it soley on how YOU feel and what you think is right for you.

but i can tell you one thing -- i don't think that he's gonna come forth and bare his guts any time soon (based on what you wrote). i'm not saying, that there is not at all a chance for that to happen; what i am saying, is that it will definately take awhile to happen, especially since the chances of that even occurring were already slim to begin with. you're just gonna have to do the "stepping up" if you want any revelation/closure. and from what you had described, it sounds like you both, still, have pretty strong feelings for one another (no matter how deep you've hidden them). i also sense a lot of fear on both parts -- as though you're both scared to let your emotions overpower you. but still.. i've already told you what you'd have to do, so now it's your turn to decide whether or not you're going to do it.

but anywhoo -- if you just follow your own heart, things should work out for the better no matter what may happen. your soul can't steer you wrong, girl.


take care and good luck, Libra00. =]

OMG venus vixen, i love you! you gave me such a good insight... he MUST be scared that ill break his heart in the future. or he might even be scared that i might get broken hearted again, but i think itd be worth it... the funny thing is, is that i have already approached him by writing him an email! and i said that whatever happened, happened and then he replied that he felt "better" and that we should still be friends. But then he wrote a blog like a week later saying:

Have you ever gotten that feeling where your heart feels complete? when you lose your breath and everything feels right when you're together? when nothing else really matters? have you ever been at a loss of words, because your hearts racing and skipping beats? has she ever stopped you in your tracks? have you ever gotten lost in someone's eyes, and not wanted to be found? have you ever been affected by the littlest thing she says?

Has it ever hurt so much that you can't breathe? and your heart drops and feels empty everytime you think of what you could become? has it ever hurt to know that you care for a person more than the world, but they don't exactly how you feel?

so he was definitely hurt... i just dont understand him. its like he thinks that i broke up with him. its so frustrating just AHH!! i wish i could have a full conversation with him and just to resolve all of these miscommunications. But he's young and i guess he just doesnt want commitment for now. but thats so selfish just to leave me!! For some reason though, I feel like he's going to come back...

"He said that things were getting weird"

That is a horrible feeling... when things are getting 'weird' I am your typical Taurus and I don't know 'bout other bulls but I get worried when things change (almost even slightly) so if you add something to that it might send me running! and maybe hysterically screaming along the way lol Call me crazy but when my bf got a different haircut I felt weird cuz he looked so different... just weirddddd, maybbbbe a little panicked by it ah ha ha ha as a matter of fact, added to that was a little argument that sent me a packin' for a few days lol

But yeah, that was kinda dumb... I know things change but I feel better when I realize that things are fine and dandy anyway. I'll stop here cuz that was the only thing I read 😛 It caught my attention... read the whole thing tomorrow. Luck luck Libra... Btw I'd say that libra/taurus combo is a good one, personally I really like libras 🙂 Nighty nite Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

hahaha i dyed my hair blonde a couple of days before he said this too! hahah maybe that was it...hahah nahh couldnt beee... haha wanna know something funny... a couple of days ago i dyed it back brown and im doing the same whole hair style and hes noticing hahahaha. i caught him starring at me today🙂 felt kinda good...omg but i look desperate when it comes to him! this is soooo not like me... haha i think im going nuts. this boy has put me through too much... ahhhh.

but i know im gunna get him back, i just know...