Let me start by saying I am a Virgo woman. My ex and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We were together for 1 year. In our relationship I have caught girls in his phone a couple of times but I didn’t break up with him. He apologized and swore he would never do it again. I eventually stopped looking through his phone because I didn’t want to know if he was still communicating with other women ( I know that sounds a little silly). 1 month before we broke up, he text me saying that he needs some time away. I asked him if this meant we were breaking up and he told me I was free to do whatever I wanted to do.
5 days went by and I haven’t heard from him. I end out going out with a few friends and gave my number out to a guy, only because I felt single. Two days later, my boyfriend reach back out to me after a week of no contact. Although I was upset he went a whole week without talking to me I was also glad to hear from him. I deleted the guy’s number out of my phone because I know how jealous and possessive my Taurus man is and I didn't want it to be a problem.
He asked me if I have been talking to anyone during the week we didn't speak and I lied and said no. I lied because, I wasn’t talking to anyone I just gave my number away, nothing serious. Fast forward, he came to my house saying that he had this strong feeling I was talking to someone and asked to look through my phone. I gave it to him. He didn’t find anything. He started to accuse me of deleting things out my phone and I confessed. I told him that I did give my number out only because I felt single and he went 7 days without talking to me. He broke up with me. Called me a liar and cheater. I printed all out my phone calls/ and text messages records from my mobile carrier to prove that I had been faithful to him. He still doesn’t believe me.
I don’t get how he so quick to walk away. After I found girls in his phone I stayed. I gave my phone number out while we were on a so called break and he breaks up with me. He even told me he start talking to other girls. This broke my heart. I need help... Do you think my Taurus man will return?
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Did he just test you and you failed by chance?
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
will he come back? probably.
and when he does, you should tell him to turn back round again and go out the way he came in.
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Jan 13, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 2045 · Topics: 19
This Taurus man of yours: "Do as I say, not as I do."
He did it, he's paranoid and feeling guilty, so he tested you and you just allowed him to feel better about the break up. You just exactly as he wanted you to.
Don't go back. Think the texting other girls will stop? It won't.
And now he basically can do whatever he wants. He will go through your phone when he wants now, but try to go though his and he'll flip out.
Leave that boy.. Too many games girl. Not worth it.
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Jun 04, 2016Comments: 1035 · Posts: 5643 · Topics: 48
He probably will return. But you shouldn't welcome him back with open arms, or at all for that matter. He seems like the darker side of a Taurus man, controlling and possessive. Possessive and jealousy is kinda cute in my opinion, but not this kind. This is very controlling and there's a total double standard going on here. He knows you love him and will do anything to keep him and he's using that as an advantage. Leave him, it'll hurt? , but it's for the best.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
Do not go back. The guilt trip is real.
He will come back but just so you know, he got broads in atlanta.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
So what is he depressed about?
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
I'll tell you If we don't have our shit together we won't let you stay, will let you go until we do. But still be possessive of you. So idk.
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Jan 28, 2016Comments: 96 · Posts: 1833 · Topics: 28
Deadass this is funny, sounds like my Aries ex boyfriend
Almost everything exact expect I did "cheat" while on our break and I would never print out a damn thing for a man to prove I'm not lying.
No good will come from this please the last thing you want is this emotionally unstable and abusive person coming back into your life for anything.
He's psycho. And you should never have to feel like you owe something to a man who isn't prepared to give you even 50% of the same effort back.
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Nov 10, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 3254 · Topics: 48
Well I think everyone said it already but this bull is a manipulative asshat. Yes, he will be back, the bad ones ALWAYS come back and usually more than once. Just remember he is bad news and you deserve better.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Well in that case see ya don't let the door hit you in the ass.
Shake this off@Op. No one should be treated like this.
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Nov 24, 2015Comments: 3706 · Posts: 7112 · Topics: 18
I say stop, drop and roll - I know it hurts but get back out there and get a few more numbers and lose his ...
he did the wrong and is trying to make it sound like it's all your fault - look what you did blah blah - F him !