Condoms

Posted by MoonshineLeo
sorry to be in the Man Cave but quick question for the guys; If you never buy condoms and expect the girl you're seeing to always buy them for you is that a bad thing?

I personally dont see that as a bad thing but my friends do?! What do you guys think? Is it bad to ask the girl to buy them for you?

Kinda curious to see what girls think too.

Posted by Gob_Shite
It really should be the man's responsibility, in the same way that the pill is the woman's responsibility.

Besides, as a man, I would insist on being in control of that aspect, as there are some unscrupulous women out there (read: deliberately punctured condoms).

Posted by MoonshineLeo
sorry to be in the Man Cave but quick question for the guys; If you never buy condoms and expect the girl you're seeing to always buy them for you is that a bad thing?

I personally dont see that as a bad thing but my friends do?! What do you guys think? Is it bad to ask the girl to buy them for you?

Kinda curious to see what girls think too.

Posted by Gob_Shite

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Gob_Shite
It really should be the man's responsibility, in the same way that the pill is the woman's responsibility.

Besides, as a man, I would insist on being in control of that aspect, as there are some unscrupulous women out there (read: deliberately punctured condoms).

He knows i would never, we are on the same team here :p

He should still make it his responsibility. I could understand if he ran out and you had some.

IMHO, it's a sign of concern for the well-being of both parties involved. He's wearing the condom, not you.

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Posted by Gob_Shite

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Gob_Shite
It really should be the man's responsibility, in the same way that the pill is the woman's responsibility.

Besides, as a man, I would insist on being in control of that aspect, as there are some unscrupulous women out there (read: deliberately punctured condoms).

He knows i would never, we are on the same team here :p

He should still make it his responsibility. I could understand if he ran out and you had some.

IMHO, it's a sign of concern for the well-being of both parties involved. He's wearing the condom, not you.

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Posted by Gob_Shite
It really should be the man's responsibility, in the same way that the pill is the woman's responsibility.

Besides, as a man, I would insist on being in control of that aspect, as there are some unscrupulous women out there (read: deliberately punctured condoms).

He knows i would never, we are on the same team here :p

He should still make it his responsibility. I could understand if he ran out and you had some.

IMHO, it's a sign of concern for the well-being of both parties involved. He's wearing the condom, not you.

Im not sure what his deal is, we've been seeing each other for over four months now and he has never had them but i always have to buy some which i dont mind at all cause its for the both of us but my friends are making it seem like its this huge horrible red flag?

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
sorry to be in the Man Cave but quick question for the guys; If you never buy condoms and expect the girl you're seeing to always buy them for you is that a bad thing?

I personally dont see that as a bad thing but my friends do?! What do you guys think? Is it bad to ask the girl to buy them for you?

Kinda curious to see what girls think too.

Posted by MiZLeo
I've had guys ask if I have any if they are coming over to my place but if I'm going to his place then I expect him to have some. If he doesn't then we both go to the store and he buys them if he wants to do it. If you're worried about it, keep some at your place and if you are at his place make him get some for there. Id be concerned with the fact that he doesn't keep any on hand for when you are over.... like is he using condoms with other ppl or do other women let him get away with not having any.