Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeyeah i notice that.
Because they don't have money. It's generally broke men who think like this
Posted by -Flo-
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
Posted by -Flo-The second video is exposing the guy .... the pays actresses to do this .... he is a fake ..
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
Posted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lol
Posted by LittleFairyi saw that.Posted by -Flo-The second video is exposing the guy .... the pays actresses to do this .... he is a fake ..
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
He could not find women to in reality who are like this ...obv
Look at the second video ..the girl is exposing him.click to expand
Posted by LittleFairywell, she is loaded lolPosted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lolclick to expand
Posted by iCloud9it doesn't matter. there are some young men who just have been conditioned like that,
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lol
Posted by iCloud9oh you're talking about a woman cougar who has alot of money??Posted by LittleFairywell, she is loaded lolPosted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lolclick to expand
Posted by -Flo-yeah that's obviously very very bad.Posted by lisabethur8If a man is throwing a fit because the woman he may be interested in, is in fact involved with a man who makes more money than him? That's just obvious insecurity.Posted by -Flo-
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
some men can't offer alot, but they shouldnt put down other women who marry rich men.
it's weird. like why are they angry?
i see it alot on youtube comments, like when Tiger Woods married the ex, who he cheated on.
they called her a golddigger and she was the one cheated on. It's a disgrace in a way because they refused to see that she has been a mother and wife and has been loyal. It's like all they see is the money.
and also on youtube comments such as Mel Gibson who very wealthy and married Oskana,
it's like she gets abused and she didnt even take his money when she was offered alot for alimoney if she didnt expose his truth about him, so she lost millions,
but men still call her golddigger.
there's some serious weirdos out there, who dont like women.
BUT, There are women out there who do seek men solely for the money, there is both negatives to this spectrum. Like if they were in a relationship and she ends up leaving him for a guy who makes more and offers her all the material items she wants... come on. That hurts.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8she is not that oldPosted by iCloud9oh you're talking about a woman cougar who has alot of money??Posted by LittleFairywell, she is loaded lolPosted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lol
ok then, well same thing. if she can get love and protection from the younger guy and it's an exchange that is healthy and they love eachother too, and he takes care of her, i dont see it a problem at all.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8He is disquisting prick! Whew!Posted by LittleFairyi saw that.Posted by -Flo-The second video is exposing the guy .... the pays actresses to do this .... he is a fake ..
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
He could not find women to in reality who are like this ...obv
Look at the second video ..the girl is exposing him.
there is this video, made by a russian guy,
his accent is evident.
and i'm glad to see that alot of commentors tell him that it's disgraceful and horrible to do that to women.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiWell if this is the way he behaves in public one can only guess what he does in private. He gives me the shivers.Posted by lisabethur8He is disquisting prick! Whew!Posted by LittleFairyi saw that.Posted by -Flo-The second video is exposing the guy .... the pays actresses to do this .... he is a fake ..
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
He could not find women to in reality who are like this ...obv
Look at the second video ..the girl is exposing him.
there is this video, made by a russian guy,
his accent is evident.
and i'm glad to see that alot of commentors tell him that it's disgraceful and horrible to do that to women.click to expand
Posted by iCloud9Posted by lisabethur8she is not that oldPosted by iCloud9oh you're talking about a woman cougar who has alot of money??Posted by LittleFairywell, she is loaded lolPosted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lol
ok then, well same thing. if she can get love and protection from the younger guy and it's an exchange that is healthy and they love eachother too, and he takes care of her, i dont see it a problem at all.
she made it by working for a startup at the right time
even older men she dated want her money lol
edit: and most of them were selfish assholes. they sure had love for $ $ $ lolclick to expand
Posted by tizianiWomen find scamps irresistible. The Aladdin archetype.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeto be honest, i can't imagine a poorer man to be with you.Posted by lisabethur8Really foundationally they're insecure. They can use the excuse of why women don't want them..because they're all are gold diggers ...that's why they reject me...or they'll never want me.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeyeah i notice that.
Because they don't have money. It's generally broke men who think like this
they are broke so they're afraid of some woman taking away their money.
they better stay single then.
cause they not into sharing.click to expand
Posted by cornmaizesharkyes i see what you mean. i know a few women like that in real life, who like down on their luck guys.Posted by tizianiWomen find scamps irresistible. The Aladdin archetype.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.
Plus a down on his luck guy sometimes triggers their #nurturinginstincts
Power triggers their submissive instincts. It's their woman wires and their mothering wires being crossed with broke dudes.click to expand
onesty, alot of women are like that, DELICATE..
but it's unheard of when a man is so delicate. it happens and it's true!!! there are some men who are too delicate.Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8He is disquisting prick! Whew!Posted by LittleFairyi saw that.Posted by -Flo-The second video is exposing the guy .... the pays actresses to do this .... he is a fake ..
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
He could not find women to in reality who are like this ...obv
Look at the second video ..the girl is exposing him.
there is this video, made by a russian guy,
his accent is evident.
and i'm glad to see that alot of commentors tell him that it's disgraceful and horrible to do that to women.click to expand
he is gross. like super cocky. i dont know what type of woman would take him. but i'm sure there are plenty.
Posted by goatdont worry, i think there are women for those types and women for the other types.
The truth is most women have a price. The Disney movies were wrong. Some men actually want a woman that likes him for who he is not what he has.
However, i see nothing wrong with a woman that wants a man that's doing something for himself. A lot of chicks out there just take it too far.
Posted by iCloud9sounds like she can't find love.Posted by lisabethur8she is not that oldPosted by iCloud9oh you're talking about a woman cougar who has alot of money??Posted by LittleFairywell, she is loaded lolPosted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lol
ok then, well same thing. if she can get love and protection from the younger guy and it's an exchange that is healthy and they love eachother too, and he takes care of her, i dont see it a problem at all.
she made it by working for a startup at the right time
even older men she dated want her money lol
edit: and most of them were selfish assholes. they sure had love for $ $ $ lolclick to expand
Posted by iCloud9then it's suggestive she find a man who makes money so they can both sign PRENUP.Posted by iCloud9Posted by lisabethur8she is not that oldPosted by iCloud9oh you're talking about a woman cougar who has alot of money??Posted by LittleFairywell, she is loaded lolPosted by iCloud9I like to think it's a rare thing.
a friend of mine always date shameless male gold diggers so it's not a gender thing lol
ok then, well same thing. if she can get love and protection from the younger guy and it's an exchange that is healthy and they love eachother too, and he takes care of her, i dont see it a problem at all.
she made it by working for a startup at the right time
even older men she dated want her money lol
edit: and most of them were selfish assholes. they sure had love for $ $ $ lol
they wanted to marry her until she proposed prenup lol
geez. what did they expect? she can be stupid in love but not that stupid to lose her hard earned $ $ $ to someone who does not really love her lolclick to expand
Posted by tizianiif my husband passes away or dies (in an accident) ect. Lord God i hope we die old age and live to see our grandchildren.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.click to expand
Posted by lnana04it's hard in today's modern world for a single individual.
I do find that men are just as bad as women...if not, worse.
Posted by 5TwentyOnewow. the first one...reminds me of Arielle who posts here and she had a husband who smoked weed alot.
I know a woman who has stayed with her husband through thick and thin. He's never had much. He's never been goal oriented or career driven. His only goal in his 20's was smoking weed. Lol No joke, but she's always love him.
Knew a Doctor's daughter who dated a guy that had nothing, she had everything. They made a great couple. The only thing that separated them in the end was she was more goal oriented than he was, but it was never about money.
Posted by tizianiCompromise?Posted by cornmaizesharkPosted by tizianiWomen find scamps irresistible. The Aladdin archetype.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.
Plus a down on his luck guy sometimes triggers their #nurturinginstincts
Power triggers their submissive instincts. It's their woman wires and their mothering wires being crossed with broke dudes.
Makes sense. So how does Prince Ali compromise with her, when he takes over? Just sort of allows himself to be nurtured and pretends he doesn't know any better?click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I just don't believe women I've met are all that interested a man's material success, when it boils down to it. Like OneKnight is saying.Posted by tizianiif my husband passes away or dies (in an accident) ect. Lord God i hope we die old age and live to see our grandchildren.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.
but i would not want to marry again, because around middle age, all the men have been either married and thinking everyone is a gold digger, so it's kind of gross
plus no man is gonna be better or ever than the one youre with.
also, if i were NEVER married, never met my man and had a family and i have been single all this time, by middle age, past 35 years old,
alot of men are so JADED. gross.
who are gonna point at you like you're a gold digger if you only work in a small office or a waitress, full time.
better to be single forever and take care of your parents then to be with some man who will shame you and make you feel like shit. GROSS!!!
that's not love at all. alot of these men cannot love when they think like that.
so it's better to give your love to people who deserve it. not men who put you down and tear you apart.
Even a real solid "golddigger" (not just the part-timers who are trying it out because they're bored and need something to do with their time) will have her own reasons, probably rooted in emotional security, for her choices. It's strange to me that a man would choose to take her choices personally. But the world turns!click to expand
Posted by 5TwentyOnelol cap sun too. both.Posted by lisabethur8Those Cap Moon auntys.Posted by 5TwentyOnewow. the first one...reminds me of Arielle who posts here and she had a husband who smoked weed alot.
I know a woman who has stayed with her husband through thick and thin. He's never had much. He's never been goal oriented or career driven. His only goal in his 20's was smoking weed. Lol No joke, but she's always love him.
Knew a Doctor's daughter who dated a guy that had nothing, she had everything. They made a great couple. The only thing that separated them in the end was she was more goal oriented than he was, but it was never about money.
the 2nd one, well, she most likely has alot of money or inheritance that she doesn't care about money and has a good job too, maybe. So it's not the motivating factor. the main factor was to find love.
i think that's the problem with alot of people out there.
they are the outsiders looking in.
and they are trying to control other people's relationship choice.
just like the scenerio i mentioned with our auntys, older women ect who are successful.
they are single and never found a man up to their standards but when they look at their young nieces or daughters or younger sisters, or friends who have daughters nieces, they are so controlling that they tell the younger women who they should choose.
it's really intrusive and not their business either but i know their meaning is well and good.
but if they didnt find a man on their own to worry about, since they were more focused on their own successes why are they so worried about the younger women who found a young man who isn't driven enough or goal oriented enough in THEIR standards that they have to be controlling and noisey?
really honestly!!!
it's like their love lives are zero, so leave the younger women alone to choose a man who works even a job that is in the gas station?
annoying.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I think your thread needs @halalbae to weigh in because she's very well read on those kind of issuesPosted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I just don't believe women I've met are all that interested a man's material success, when it boils down to it. Like OneKnight is saying.Posted by tizianiif my husband passes away or dies (in an accident) ect. Lord God i hope we die old age and live to see our grandchildren.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.
but i would not want to marry again, because around middle age, all the men have been either married and thinking everyone is a gold digger, so it's kind of gross
plus no man is gonna be better or ever than the one youre with.
also, if i were NEVER married, never met my man and had a family and i have been single all this time, by middle age, past 35 years old,
alot of men are so JADED. gross.
who are gonna point at you like you're a gold digger if you only work in a small office or a waitress, full time.
better to be single forever and take care of your parents then to be with some man who will shame you and make you feel like shit. GROSS!!!
that's not love at all. alot of these men cannot love when they think like that.
so it's better to give your love to people who deserve it. not men who put you down and tear you apart.
Even a real solid "golddigger" (not just the part-timers who are trying it out because they're bored and need something to do with their time) will have her own reasons, probably rooted in emotional security, for her choices. It's strange to me that a man would choose to take her choices personally. But the world turns!
what is a part time golddigger?
the goal of this post is wondering why men have to put down women like that?
alot of men are really jaded and really deep down do NOT like women, they have this deep seated hate about women.
i think this comes from their upbringing and mothers. Maybe they saw their mothers as gold digging because their fathers were hateful and cruel to women, and treated the wives awful so they sided with the father. Who knows.
maybe the mother /son didnt have a close relationship so his world view has been tainted in how he sees women. so he will aways rage against women in his deep seated hate.click to expand
Posted by 5TwentyOneomgPosted by lisabethur8Those Cap Moon auntys.Posted by 5TwentyOnewow. the first one...reminds me of Arielle who posts here and she had a husband who smoked weed alot.
I know a woman who has stayed with her husband through thick and thin. He's never had much. He's never been goal oriented or career driven. His only goal in his 20's was smoking weed. Lol No joke, but she's always love him.
Knew a Doctor's daughter who dated a guy that had nothing, she had everything. They made a great couple. The only thing that separated them in the end was she was more goal oriented than he was, but it was never about money.
the 2nd one, well, she most likely has alot of money or inheritance that she doesn't care about money and has a good job too, maybe. So it's not the motivating factor. the main factor was to find love.
i think that's the problem with alot of people out there.
they are the outsiders looking in.
and they are trying to control other people's relationship choice.
just like the scenerio i mentioned with our auntys, older women ect who are successful.
they are single and never found a man up to their standards but when they look at their young nieces or daughters or younger sisters, or friends who have daughters nieces, they are so controlling that they tell the younger women who they should choose.
it's really intrusive and not their business either but i know their meaning is well and good.
but if they didnt find a man on their own to worry about, since they were more focused on their own successes why are they so worried about the younger women who found a young man who isn't driven enough or goal oriented enough in THEIR standards that they have to be controlling and noisey?
really honestly!!!
it's like their love lives are zero, so leave the younger women alone to choose a man who works even a job that is in the gas station?
annoying.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8She knows all about how issues get transmitted between generations inside of a family and how it affects outlook on partnersPosted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I think your thread needs @halalbae to weigh in because she's very well read on those kind of issuesPosted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I just don't believe women I've met are all that interested a man's material success, when it boils down to it. Like OneKnight is saying.Posted by tizianiif my husband passes away or dies (in an accident) ect. Lord God i hope we die old age and live to see our grandchildren.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.
but i would not want to marry again, because around middle age, all the men have been either married and thinking everyone is a gold digger, so it's kind of gross
plus no man is gonna be better or ever than the one youre with.
also, if i were NEVER married, never met my man and had a family and i have been single all this time, by middle age, past 35 years old,
alot of men are so JADED. gross.
who are gonna point at you like you're a gold digger if you only work in a small office or a waitress, full time.
better to be single forever and take care of your parents then to be with some man who will shame you and make you feel like shit. GROSS!!!
that's not love at all. alot of these men cannot love when they think like that.
so it's better to give your love to people who deserve it. not men who put you down and tear you apart.
Even a real solid "golddigger" (not just the part-timers who are trying it out because they're bored and need something to do with their time) will have her own reasons, probably rooted in emotional security, for her choices. It's strange to me that a man would choose to take her choices personally. But the world turns!
what is a part time golddigger?
the goal of this post is wondering why men have to put down women like that?
alot of men are really jaded and really deep down do NOT like women, they have this deep seated hate about women.
i think this comes from their upbringing and mothers. Maybe they saw their mothers as gold digging because their fathers were hateful and cruel to women, and treated the wives awful so they sided with the father. Who knows.
maybe the mother /son didnt have a close relationship so his world view has been tainted in how he sees women. so he will aways rage against women in his deep seated hate.
why her?click to expand
Posted by AneemA08would you do that?
Man. I don't understand why men downgrade woman by calling them golddiggers.
I mean, duh. It's quite a smart move. For you to get a man's money without doin' none but you can get all the luxurious things and be happy about that.
That's intelligence, right there.
~provocative movement
Posted by AneemA08Posted by lisabethur8Nah. I'll feel worthless.Posted by AneemA08would you do that?
Man. I don't understand why men downgrade woman by calling them golddiggers.
I mean, duh. It's quite a smart move. For you to get a man's money without doin' none but you can get all the luxurious things and be happy about that.
That's intelligence, right there.
~provocative movement
for yourself?click to expand
Posted by AneemA08yup.Posted by lisabethur8Exactly, my preference too.Posted by AneemA08Posted by lisabethur8Nah. I'll feel worthless.Posted by AneemA08would you do that?
Man. I don't understand why men downgrade woman by calling them golddiggers.
I mean, duh. It's quite a smart move. For you to get a man's money without doin' none but you can get all the luxurious things and be happy about that.
That's intelligence, right there.
~provocative movement
for yourself?
i thought so.
lol
i have been courted by very wealthy men in the past. i couldnt do it. the feelings weren't there.
i have to feel something. but i dont put down other women who love wealthy men and get it.
let them be.
Also, to add. Building success with a man while you're involved is much more appealing. Gives you a sense of satisfaction. Like you can say to yourself, "I'm great because I can help him to be better."
That kind of stuff.click to expand
Posted by FishyDudeit's a prank.Posted by lisabethur8I haven't got too much money to part with, although I'm doing okay. I avoid gold digging females like a plague.
why do some men put alot of women down and call them golddiggers?
are you the type of man who is afraid of his money going away and running away from you? because you got with a woman who likes the luxury stuff?
what kind of mentality is this that is running around and what kind of man is that type that thinks this way?
here's a guy who is trying to expose golddiggers.
he is something else...
I haven't watched those video's, but good on that dude to expose gold diggers.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I can't because I still don't understand what she shared with me fully. When you both talk about how people see their mother/father and how it affects the kind of partner they attract, that's a relatively new subject for me.Posted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8She knows all about how issues get transmitted between generations inside of a family and how it affects outlook on partnersPosted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I think your thread needs @halalbae to weigh in because she's very well read on those kind of issuesPosted by tizianiPosted by lisabethur8I just don't believe women I've met are all that interested a man's material success, when it boils down to it. Like OneKnight is saying.Posted by tizianiif my husband passes away or dies (in an accident) ect. Lord God i hope we die old age and live to see our grandchildren.Posted by OneKnightFinally someone who noticed this - I always had way more luck attracting women when I was flat broke - what's that about? Weird phenomenon.
Women do not like money.
I lived in a foreclosure and dated models.
I lived in a mansion and could barely feel my ex wife.
If a woman wants you, that is the biggest sexual attraction there is. No money will get in a way.
but i would not want to marry again, because around middle age, all the men have been either married and thinking everyone is a gold digger, so it's kind of gross
plus no man is gonna be better or ever than the one youre with.
also, if i were NEVER married, never met my man and had a family and i have been single all this time, by middle age, past 35 years old,
alot of men are so JADED. gross.
who are gonna point at you like you're a gold digger if you only work in a small office or a waitress, full time.
better to be single forever and take care of your parents then to be with some man who will shame you and make you feel like shit. GROSS!!!
that's not love at all. alot of these men cannot love when they think like that.
so it's better to give your love to people who deserve it. not men who put you down and tear you apart.
Even a real solid "golddigger" (not just the part-timers who are trying it out because they're bored and need something to do with their time) will have her own reasons, probably rooted in emotional security, for her choices. It's strange to me that a man would choose to take her choices personally. But the world turns!
what is a part time golddigger?
the goal of this post is wondering why men have to put down women like that?
alot of men are really jaded and really deep down do NOT like women, they have this deep seated hate about women.
i think this comes from their upbringing and mothers. Maybe they saw their mothers as gold digging because their fathers were hateful and cruel to women, and treated the wives awful so they sided with the father. Who knows.
maybe the mother /son didnt have a close relationship so his world view has been tainted in how he sees women. so he will aways rage against women in his deep seated hate.
why her?
well if she's not here to weigh.
you can explain it too,
in your own words.
Here's a link to the whole topic in full: https://thebowencenter.org/theory/eight-concepts/click to expand
Posted by AneemA08that dont make sense. how is he a golddigger if you are both broke as hell??Posted by lisabethur8Well to be in a condition where both are totally broke can be harsh. Obviously i haven't experienced that.Posted by AneemA08yup.Posted by lisabethur8Exactly, my preference too.Posted by AneemA08Posted by lisabethur8Nah. I'll feel worthless.Posted by AneemA08would you do that?
Man. I don't understand why men downgrade woman by calling them golddiggers.
I mean, duh. It's quite a smart move. For you to get a man's money without doin' none but you can get all the luxurious things and be happy about that.
That's intelligence, right there.
~provocative movement
for yourself?
i thought so.
lol
i have been courted by very wealthy men in the past. i couldnt do it. the feelings weren't there.
i have to feel something. but i dont put down other women who love wealthy men and get it.
let them be.
Also, to add. Building success with a man while you're involved is much more appealing. Gives you a sense of satisfaction. Like you can say to yourself, "I'm great because I can help him to be better."
That kind of stuff.
i would rather we BOTH are poor.
but that's just me.
however, i dont see it a problem for some reason when a woman or man goes for a richer man/woman.
i dont have any aniomosity for it. but i see alot of people get upset and start being MEAN!!!
it's like who the fuck cares? why are people so cruel and hateful??
is it because they didnt get offered?? why the hate?
But tbh I had been with broke ass guy, now he's my ex. My motivation to continue the relationship with him got lost as soon as i noticed he wasn't trying. Yes, there could be a possibility that he may have felt emasculated by my helping him a lotta times or he simply is a golddigger himself. But yeah, you get what I mean.
Yes, I agree with you. It's their life and if they dont get any bad impacts from them, then why the need to be upset about it, right?
Unless of course, just like what you said, if they get envious about it, then there may be the exact reason.click to expand
Posted by FishyDudeyou seem terribly suspicious of women if they dont work. what's wrong with you??Posted by lisabethur81. Yes the money is mine, I have a day job.Posted by FishyDudeit's a prank.Posted by lisabethur8I haven't got too much money to part with, although I'm doing okay. I avoid gold digging females like a plague.
why do some men put alot of women down and call them golddiggers?
are you the type of man who is afraid of his money going away and running away from you? because you got with a woman who likes the luxury stuff?
what kind of mentality is this that is running around and what kind of man is that type that thinks this way?
here's a guy who is trying to expose golddiggers.
he is something else...
I haven't watched those video's, but good on that dude to expose gold diggers.
the purpose was that he was doing it for fun, but it is degrading too.
because if you notice the women are not wanting any money.
many of them dont want it.
and if yuo dont have enough money, why does it bother you what other men have? if they have money and want a poor girl?
is it your money?
i hope you do find a good woman who isn't into money and i doubt that you will since you said you dont have any.
but it shouldnt be about $ $ .
2. I'm married to a good woman, a Capricorn woman, who I thought was a gold digger in the beginning, but then I realized she wasn't a gold digger. I found her a job so she can earn her own money.click to expand
Posted by AneemA08but you said both of you are POOR.Posted by lisabethur8I didn't say I was broke ?Posted by AneemA08that dont make sense. how is he a golddigger if you are both broke as hell??Posted by lisabethur8Well to be in a condition where both are totally broke can be harsh. Obviously i haven't experienced that.Posted by AneemA08yup.Posted by lisabethur8Exactly, my preference too.Posted by AneemA08Posted by lisabethur8Nah. I'll feel worthless.Posted by AneemA08would you do that?
Man. I don't understand why men downgrade woman by calling them golddiggers.
I mean, duh. It's quite a smart move. For you to get a man's money without doin' none but you can get all the luxurious things and be happy about that.
That's intelligence, right there.
~provocative movement
for yourself?
i thought so.
lol
i have been courted by very wealthy men in the past. i couldnt do it. the feelings weren't there.
i have to feel something. but i dont put down other women who love wealthy men and get it.
let them be.
Also, to add. Building success with a man while you're involved is much more appealing. Gives you a sense of satisfaction. Like you can say to yourself, "I'm great because I can help him to be better."
That kind of stuff.
i would rather we BOTH are poor.
but that's just me.
however, i dont see it a problem for some reason when a woman or man goes for a richer man/woman.
i dont have any aniomosity for it. but i see alot of people get upset and start being MEAN!!!
it's like who the fuck cares? why are people so cruel and hateful??
is it because they didnt get offered?? why the hate?
But tbh I had been with broke ass guy, now he's my ex. My motivation to continue the relationship with him got lost as soon as i noticed he wasn't trying. Yes, there could be a possibility that he may have felt emasculated by my helping him a lotta times or he simply is a golddigger himself. But yeah, you get what I mean.
Yes, I agree with you. It's their life and if they dont get any bad impacts from them, then why the need to be upset about it, right?
Unless of course, just like what you said, if they get envious about it, then there may be the exact reason.
i think the other reasons are relationship issues,
like his problem of being "emasculated"
that's his issues.
Ah! I never thought about that, that could be it, yeah!click to expand
Posted by Evoxxxscorpioany thoughts? lolPosted by lisabethur8Lol ?Posted by AneemA08yup.Posted by lisabethur8Exactly, my preference too.Posted by AneemA08Posted by lisabethur8Nah. I'll feel worthless.Posted by AneemA08would you do that?
Man. I don't understand why men downgrade woman by calling them golddiggers.
I mean, duh. It's quite a smart move. For you to get a man's money without doin' none but you can get all the luxurious things and be happy about that.
That's intelligence, right there.
~provocative movement
for yourself?
i thought so.
lol
i have been courted by very wealthy men in the past. i couldnt do it. the feelings weren't there.
i have to feel something. but i dont put down other women who love wealthy men and get it.
let them be.
Also, to add. Building success with a man while you're involved is much more appealing. Gives you a sense of satisfaction. Like you can say to yourself, "I'm great because I can help him to be better."
That kind of stuff.
i would rather we BOTH are poor.
but that's just me.
however, i dont see it a problem for some reason when a woman or man goes for a richer man/woman.
i dont have any aniomosity for it. but i see alot of people get upset and start being MEAN!!!
it's like who the fuck cares? why are people so cruel and hateful??
is it because they didnt get offered?? why the hate?click to expand
Posted by -Flo-What you described isn't a gold digger tho. Gd's know how to spot money, they don't waste time figuring out if a guy is nice or good. They have one objective and that's money. The successful ones don't lose sight of that. They don't waste time on men who present themselves as broke.
Yeah exposing these type of women doesn't seem like the best idea, but let's not give real gold diggers, a golden heart. There have been plenty who have thrown away good men and treated them horribly all because he doesn't have the money she desires.
Some men just don't make that amount of money but it doesn't mean he can't offer other great genuine capabilities to the relationship like; love, sincerity, affection, stability, good friendship, humbleness and so much more.
What makes me internally laugh? How these same women who only want money, turn around and cry that men treat them like a product that can be bought and trashed.
Let's be real with ourselves, because this is real life.
Posted by AneemA08i'm just wondering why men who have LESS money
You're trying something here, Lisbeth.
Posted by FishyDudePosted by lisabethur8I believe if any female wants a relationship with a working male, then she should have at least a part time job, so that she doesn't sponge off her partner entirely. Independence is a good thing for many people.Posted by FishyDudeyou seem terribly suspicious of women if they dont work. what's wrong with you??Posted by lisabethur81. Yes the money is mine, I have a day job.Posted by FishyDudeit's a prank.Posted by lisabethur8I haven't got too much money to part with, although I'm doing okay. I avoid gold digging females like a plague.
why do some men put alot of women down and call them golddiggers?
are you the type of man who is afraid of his money going away and running away from you? because you got with a woman who likes the luxury stuff?
what kind of mentality is this that is running around and what kind of man is that type that thinks this way?
here's a guy who is trying to expose golddiggers.
he is something else...
I haven't watched those video's, but good on that dude to expose gold diggers.
the purpose was that he was doing it for fun, but it is degrading too.
because if you notice the women are not wanting any money.
many of them dont want it.
and if yuo dont have enough money, why does it bother you what other men have? if they have money and want a poor girl?
is it your money?
i hope you do find a good woman who isn't into money and i doubt that you will since you said you dont have any.
but it shouldnt be about $ $ .
2. I'm married to a good woman, a Capricorn woman, who I thought was a gold digger in the beginning, but then I realized she wasn't a gold digger. I found her a job so she can earn her own money.
we have a Pisces sun uncle who married a Leo sun/Scorpio moon who never worked a job in her ENTIRE LIFE. alll she did was work with him in the farm.
would you call her a golddigger because she didnt EARN money? but helped him?
you all are kind of lame in my honest opinion if you think that way.click to expand
Posted by Evoxxxscorpioi dont really like the term,
I will never hate anyone who is a goldigger cause it is what it is. If you don't like em just stay away from em we all have choices.