I am a Gemini needing some help and understanding on a Leo that I've worked closely with and best friends with for the last 9 years. About 5 months ago we decided to advance our friendship into a friends with benifits situation. Prior to then we had a sexting session a couple times but because we worked so closely together, he never wanted us to date. I no longer work there and that's when it progressed into fwb. Here's where I need all your Leo help... I'm pretty sure he has started dating someone this past week. We know everything about each other and he had just told me that he has felt very close to me for several years now and can tell me things that no one else knows. We wanted to make sure that our new fwb situation never came in between our friendship. In the beginning he would text me all day about work and then sexting what he wants to do to me, that he wants me again ect. The sex is amazing for both of us! He's said that he hasn't had much success in the sex area with other women because they could never keep up with him or they are dead fish and that he never knew what he was missing with me for 9 years! He said he can count on one hand how many good BJ's he's had and I am the best. Now...here's where I'm confused. If we are so close and have such a great connection, why wouldn't he want me as his girlfriend? He has 2 very busy sons that he has 50% of the time plus is very involved in their school and doesn't introduce women he dates to them so I know he doesn't date much and when he does date it doesn't last long due to his busy schedule. I'm an attractive, funny, smart woman and do not understand! Our great sex has put the cherry on top and I was kinda surprised when he started dating someone cuz I figured great sex and a best friend...I'd be in! Are those 2 things not enough for a Leo man to go for it? I'm sorry this is so long...I'll answer any questions you guys have! thank you!
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Posted by Suzeej616
Here's where I need all your Leo help... I'm pretty sure he has started dating someone this past week. We know everything about each other and he had just told me that he has felt very close to me for several years now and can tell me things that no one else knows. We wanted to make sure that our new fwb situation never came in between our friendship. In the beginning he would text me all day about work and then sexting what he wants to do to me, that he wants me again ect. The sex is amazing for both of us! He's said that he hasn't had much success in the sex area with other women because they could never keep up with him or they are dead fish and that he never knew what he was missing with me for 9 years! He said he can count on one hand how many good BJ's he's had and I am the best. Now...here's where I'm confused. If we are so close and have such a great connection, why wouldn't he want me as his girlfriend? He has 2 very busy sons that he has 50% of the time plus is very involved in their school and doesn't introduce women he dates to them so I know he doesn't date much and when he does date it doesn't last long due to his busy schedule. I'm an attractive, funny, smart woman and do not understand! Our great sex has put the cherry on top and I was kinda surprised when he started dating someone cuz I figured great sex and a best friend...I'd be in! Are those 2 things not enough for a Leo man to go for it?
OP, after 9 years.......of a great friendship you have advanced/progressed to........FWB's.....what else will he offer you next, to take over his lease when he moves in with his woman just before they get married? Sorry, not trying to be harsh, I would say that to my friend in a soft voice 🙂 sorry the only "in" you have is being in his bed, not his heart. 😢
Didn't take it as you being harsh..🙂 Thank you for talking like you would to a friend! I have never been in a fwb situation and we had both had an almost 2 year dry streak so it sounded fun! I honestly don't want to raise more kids since my daughter is now married but I guess it kept me guessing due to our connection.
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