How do men feel about being stalked?

This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by whatisthisallabout on Monday, January 21, 2019 and has 52 replies.
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I’m curious cuz a lot of my female friends complain that guys that they met online often turn into some sort of stalkers. Ironically, they stalk the men they are interested in as well (eg going through their ig and FB, doing background checks, driving by the guy’s place when he told her he was going to be busy that day to see if there’s an unfamiliar car, etc etc to see if the guy is likely dating someone else). How do you feel about this? Do you see a difference between a male stalker and a female stalker? Do you feel annoyed or do you secretly enjoy the attention?
Posted by Arielle83

Your friends sound like they’re too arrogant to realise they have problems.
We are too old for this shit! So keep your opinion to yourself. Lol

I don’t even know wtf is this about! Lmao
Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

@hydorah

Stalk me please! I want to know what it feels.

@therabbit

Don’t you there...well...whatever
Looking at a public social media profile is not stalking. Get real.
Depends on the type of stalking. I stalk my loverfriend Cap on FB from time to time, but I never make it obvious. And yes, I currently cannot help it. It’s a part of the healing process. As long as you don’t go postal over some changes that you are afraid of/don’t want to happen - you’re fine. That’s why accepting change is important. Also, if anybody ever tells you that they have never online stalked anybody - they can drink piss, because they’re lying.

Now, if somebody is maliciously stalking you, like dropping by your whereabouts or house in the creepiest way, follow you on the street, etc. That, my dude, is DIFFERENT. That’s scary and reportable shit.
Posted by whatisthisallabout

I’m curious cuz a lot of my female friends complain that guys that they met online often turn into some sort of stalkers. Ironically, they stalk the men they are interested in as well (eg going through their ig and FB, doing background checks, driving by the guy’s place when he told her he was going to be busy that day to see if there’s an unfamiliar car, etc etc to see if the guy is likely dating someone else). How do you feel about this? Do you see a difference between a male stalker and a female stalker? Do you feel annoyed or do you secretly enjoy the attention?
Yeah yeah we all know guys can't be trusted, that's why we stalk.

I was chill and relaxed , no stalking or anything, boom, I got cheated

TRUST BUT verify ! That's my motto, unless you have a ring on your finger a guy isn't to be trusted, even then you gotta be careful
Posted by _kitten_

The question is, by who?

Stalked by a Pisces: Relax

Stalked by a Scorpio: brb faking my death
I'm dying Big Grin Big Grin Big Grin

I'll get you a coffin, in case you need protection from scorps Looooll
Stalking is not cool. Had that happen to me
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Posted by whatisthisallabout

I’m curious cuz a lot of my female friends complain that guys that they met online often turn into some sort of stalkers. Ironically, they stalk the men they are interested in as well (eg going through their ig and FB, doing background checks, driving by the guy’s place when he told her he was going to be busy that day to see if there’s an unfamiliar car, etc etc to see if the guy is likely dating someone else). How do you feel about this? Do you see a difference between a male stalker and a female stalker? Do you feel annoyed or do you secretly enjoy the attention?
Yeah yeah we all know guys can't be trusted, that's why we stalk.

I was chill and relaxed , no stalking or anything, boom, I got cheated

TRUST BUT verify ! That's my motto, unless you have a ring on your finger a guy isn't to be trusted, even then you gotta be careful
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Posted by RamOfPeace

Depends on the type of stalking. I stalk my loverfriend Cap on FB from time to time, but I never make it obvious. And yes, I currently cannot help it. It’s a part of the healing process. As long as you don’t go postal over some changes that you are afraid of/don’t want to happen - you’re fine. That’s why accepting change is important. Also, if anybody ever tells you that they have never online stalked anybody - they can drink piss, because they’re lying.

Now, if somebody is maliciously stalking you, like dropping by your whereabouts or house in the creepiest way, follow you on the street, etc. That, my dude, is DIFFERENT. That’s scary and reportable shit.
I never stalked anybody .

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

Posted by whatisthisallabout

I’m curious cuz a lot of my female friends complain that guys that they met online often turn into some sort of stalkers. Ironically, they stalk the men they are interested in as well (eg going through their ig and FB, doing background checks, driving by the guy’s place when he told her he was going to be busy that day to see if there’s an unfamiliar car, etc etc to see if the guy is likely dating someone else). How do you feel about this? Do you see a difference between a male stalker and a female stalker? Do you feel annoyed or do you secretly enjoy the attention?
Okay, for anyone that missed it. It's in bold.

It's not just social media... it's a list of behaviors.
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

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That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
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Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.

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"The location girl" thinks y'all in a committed relationship. Funny thing is when her parents introduced her to that, she rebelled like hell. Look how far she's come. They'd be so proud.
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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.

"The location girl" thinks y'all in a committed relationship. Funny thing is when her parents introduced her to that, she rebelled like hell. Look how far she's come. They'd be so proud.
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location girl tried to introduce me to her parents like 3 days after we met. unfortunately, her sexual performances, have me currently hanging on. she's a complete freak, and I rarely get and keep one of those, I just wish I had a normal girl that was wild. She's mentally draining. EVERY DAY, she asks what we are. I tell her we are dating and having fun. I told her I date other people. she says fine, she's focusing on herself, but writes me love notes and sticks them in my pocket/wallet and I find them randomly.... she literally told me she loved me after about a week and a half.

honestly this scorpio is a little cray cray.. she tried to add me on fb, but I haven't accepted, but I saw scrolling through she had a baby like two years ago... she has no stretch marks or noticeable signs of having a baby. so I'm blown away because as much as a succubus as she is, she's never mentioned the baby and the boy doesn't live with her. I guess the parents have him, but she's 27. maybe she's unfit?!?
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.

"The location girl" thinks y'all in a committed relationship. Funny thing is when her parents introduced her to that, she rebelled like hell. Look how far she's come. They'd be so proud.
location girl tried to introduce me to her parents like 3 days after we met. unfortunately, her sexual performances, have me currently hanging on. she's a complete freak, and I rarely get and keep one of those, I just wish I had a normal girl that was wild. She's mentally draining. EVERY DAY, she asks what we are. I tell her we are dating and having fun. I told her I date other people. she says fine, she's focusing on herself, but writes me love notes and sticks them in my pocket/wallet and I find them randomly.... she literally told me she loved me after about a week and a half.

honestly this scorpio is a little cray cray.. she tried to add me on fb, but I haven't accepted, but I saw scrolling through she had a baby like two years ago... she has no stretch marks or noticeable signs of having a baby. so I'm blown away because as much as a succubus as she is, she's never mentioned the baby and the boy doesn't live with her. I guess the parents have him, but she's 27. maybe she's unfit?!?
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LOL!

I absolutely love hearing about your dating life. When I was dating, I always wanted to hear about the guy's past and present experiences.

Don't take location girl's romantic ways too seriously. She probably just likes romantic illusions and practicing seduction. It's healthy. Not that it's not honest. It is but it isn't, if you know what I mean.
Turn on!
Posted by GemLover

Female stalkers is far more scarier than male stalkers. I'd rather get stalked by dudes than women if I had to make a choice. Some female stalkers are crazy.
Hahaha. Give me a crazy female stalker story that happened to you!
Posted by Arielle83

Your friends sound like they’re too arrogant to realise they have problems.
Yea they don’t realize that. Also, I always wonder, if they find those stalking behaviors annoying or unattractive, then why do they do the same to guys they like... and that’s why I’m curious if such stalking behaviors are annoying or unattractive to guys as well or actually flattering
Posted by JustBrowsing

It's happened before, I do not put up with it for long.
One of my friends like to play detective: she would go through a guy’s ig and see who liked his photos and then go through everyone who liked his photo’s profile and try to connect dots and identify if he might also be seeing any of those women. For example, she freaks out if she sees a photo of another woman with his dog and then she would try to find out if they walked the dog together that day etc and then confront the guy.

In your case, did you let the woman know it’s annoying or you just stopped talking to her? How was it resolved ?
Posted by DrinkWater

Refer to the hot/crazy matrix.
This makes a lot of sense. I do notice most of my female friends who heavily stalk their love interests are pretty physically attractive themselves. But then I don’t get why they are so obsessed with a particular guy when they can easily get the attention of another ?
Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

This actually makes sense. But is there a way to hint a female that their behaviors can be creepy too? (eg driving to the guy’s place to see if he’s car’s home and there’s no other cars around to make sure that when he said he was home chilling and didn’t feel like to hang out, he really was home and was not actually going out with another woman, true story)
Posted by _kitten_

The question is, by who?

Stalked by a Pisces: Relax

Stalked by a Scorpio: brb faking my death
How about a Virgo? I know several Virgo stalkers... 😂
Posted by LadyNeptune

Looking at a public social media profile is not stalking. Get real.
But how if the woman look at every single picture to find out who liked those pictures and then go through every female who liked the same pictures’ profile too...
Posted by Amen2That

I get socmed stalking (never really done it before, it's better to meet up face2face), but driving by the person's house?? That's too far..

How do you draw the line??
Posted by RamOfPeace

Depends on the type of stalking. I stalk my loverfriend Cap on FB from time to time, but I never make it obvious. And yes, I currently cannot help it. It’s a part of the healing process. As long as you don’t go postal over some changes that you are afraid of/don’t want to happen - you’re fine. That’s why accepting change is important. Also, if anybody ever tells you that they have never online stalked anybody - they can drink piss, because they’re lying.

Now, if somebody is maliciously stalking you, like dropping by your whereabouts or house in the creepiest way, follow you on the street, etc. That, my dude, is DIFFERENT. That’s scary and reportable shit.
But is it still creep when it’s a woman who follows the guy though? Or is it actually hot? Lol
Posted by RamOfPeace

Depends on the type of stalking. I stalk my loverfriend Cap on FB from time to time, but I never make it obvious. And yes, I currently cannot help it. It’s a part of the healing process. As long as you don’t go postal over some changes that you are afraid of/don’t want to happen - you’re fine. That’s why accepting change is important. Also, if anybody ever tells you that they have never online stalked anybody - they can drink piss, because they’re lying.

Now, if somebody is maliciously stalking you, like dropping by your whereabouts or house in the creepiest way, follow you on the street, etc. That, my dude, is DIFFERENT. That’s scary and reportable shit.
But is it still creep when it’s a woman who follows the guy though? Or is it actually hot? Lol
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Posted by Amen2That

Posted by _kitten_

The question is, by who?

Stalked by a Pisces: Relax

Stalked by a Scorpio: brb faking my death
Lols!
sent you 2 pms, but they didnt go through.. lets talk lol.
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Sounds like you may have a good story to tell? 😂
Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by whatisthisallabout

I’m curious cuz a lot of my female friends complain that guys that they met online often turn into some sort of stalkers. Ironically, they stalk the men they are interested in as well (eg going through their ig and FB, doing background checks, driving by the guy’s place when he told her he was going to be busy that day to see if there’s an unfamiliar car, etc etc to see if the guy is likely dating someone else). How do you feel about this? Do you see a difference between a male stalker and a female stalker? Do you feel annoyed or do you secretly enjoy the attention?
Yeah yeah we all know guys can't be trusted, that's why we stalk.

I was chill and relaxed , no stalking or anything, boom, I got cheated

TRUST BUT verify ! That's my motto, unless you have a ring on your finger a guy isn't to be trusted, even then you gotta be careful
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I guess this explains. I was puzzled because most people don’t like to be stalked and I thought it was counterintuitive for a woman to heavily stalk her love interest because he prob won’t like it too much when he finds out.
Posted by nanobot

If he is attracted to her, he'll often times be weirdly turned on by it
I think that’s often the case. In fact, women who heavily stalk guys are usually very physically attractive... at least the ones I know of.
Posted by beautifulsoul74

Stalking is not cool. Had that happen to me
How did you handle the situation??
Posted by PurplePassion38

Posted by RamOfPeace

Depends on the type of stalking. I stalk my loverfriend Cap on FB from time to time, but I never make it obvious. And yes, I currently cannot help it. It’s a part of the healing process. As long as you don’t go postal over some changes that you are afraid of/don’t want to happen - you’re fine. That’s why accepting change is important. Also, if anybody ever tells you that they have never online stalked anybody - they can drink piss, because they’re lying.

Now, if somebody is maliciously stalking you, like dropping by your whereabouts or house in the creepiest way, follow you on the street, etc. That, my dude, is DIFFERENT. That’s scary and reportable shit.


I social media stalk the fuck out of men I'm interested in, google them, and do background checks. No shame in my game. As far as doing a drive-by and following them, I'm not about that life. Though showing up some where I know they will be looking my best and hoping to run into them isn't beneath me. Kill me, I'm human.
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Are you a Virgo or Cancer by any chance? Lol
Posted by tiziani

It's lame. Bored women do it.

Check your ego if you believe it's somehow flattering.
How if the female stalker is very attractive physically??? 😂
Posted by Impulsv

Had an ex say his fantasy was woman show up to his home unexpectedly

Wasn’t about to do that shit
Hahaha. I think some guys do enjoy that. I remember reading a story on the Libra board years ago ... a Sag female showed up to Libra’s home to bang him... I think it was a complicated story but in the end (week’s or months later) he admitted he loved her, something like that. Don’t remember all details.
Posted by Ellygant

checking social media constantly isn’t stalking. And saying it is kinda is an insult to anyone who has been actually stalked.

Granted it is quite sad if someone checks someone else’s social media to the point they know who is commenting and who is liking them reuuarly or who/what they like regularly. That’s more self torture for the person doing the digging. My motto is why dig. Anytime I felt the desire to go hunting for more info, my intuition was always right that something was off. Just bounce and never speak to them again, they often won’t admit the truth or give closure anyways, so don’t bother, disappear.

Now instances of actually stalking, I think a lot of people make and female get away with it. It’s very hard to prove and hold up in court. Only people I know who were able to have upheld restraining orders were abused spouses. DA’s, at least around here, don’t bother with stalking. They always plead people out.

My dad was stalked decades ago in his early 20’s. (He is in his 70’s now). But a woman he went on one date with then never called. She didn’t have his number or his address but called and showed up at his house. He was dating smeone else and told her to stop and leave but she’s still show up at his job. She finally quit when he got married to his first wife tho. It was very scary for him, said it was the first time in his life he realized he wasn’t invulnerable.
It’s good to know it can be scary to a guy too. I think the ones I know of are very attractive and some stalk coworkers they don’t know very well but secretly want (A friend went through the FB profile of the person’s whole family and then told me about what each of his relatives do for work and how many cousins he has etc), some have an on and off sexual relationship with the guy (usually met online; heavy stalking), others have had sex with the guy one or two times but not serious about them (met online; heavy stalking)...


Thank god I’m sagittarius


I forget The names I decided to stalk loool


I always forget their birthdays too


It’s a truly gift to be sagitta
Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

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Did you tell them No nicely or straight up? Lol
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.

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Is the location girl a Virgo?

The “what do you have to hide?” Reminds me of someone I know lol
Posted by Raakac

Stalking= insecure controling person, if you like people like that, you'll be turned on, if you don't, you'll think they are a creep, as for me, seems like a waste of time.. In all my years had only 2women that stalked me, one was literally 2much, all i did was smiled and said hi in the gym, helped her out to show some good exercises and she went stalking me, writing me poems and talking about the family that we will have, about our future together...Also she always seemed to be around in the gym when i went there, felt like stalking, even when i said i'm going away to live in the USA it didn't work, she said she was going with me, we weren't even dating or anything, had to tell her some brutal shit to make her lose interst and stop stalking because she was just 2 much..

I think that’s the thing... it’s inresistable to some wome when a guy is nice to them but don’t want them... I think usually they interpret the kind gesture as interest.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Turn on!
She must be hot lol
Posted by Uglygirlnextdoor

If you tell them you stalk them then it's not really stalking. "Yeah, I really liked that blue shirt you wore right before going to bed last night". Fresh and fun imo. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Is it more cute or is it more creepy? Lol

I can’t decide.
Posted by Haruuka

Thank god I’m sagittarius


I forget The names I decided to stalk loool


I always forget their birthdays too


It’s a truly gift to be sagitta
Hahaha. That’s so sag lol
Posted by _kitten_

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by _kitten_

The question is, by who?

Stalked by a Pisces: Relax

Stalked by a Scorpio: brb faking my death
How about a Virgo? I know several Virgo stalkers... 😂

Don't underestimate them! Its better to insured your Big Penis before something bad happened
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What is your insurance company? Lol
I love being stalked. I share my location with my ex and find it entertaining how it affects him. Especially when he drives by me 😂
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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

Did you tell them No nicely or straight up? Lol

I just say it’s too early lol.... really I want to say hellllllll no
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.



Is the location girl a Virgo?

The “what do you have to hide?” Reminds me of someone I know lol
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Yea.... she’s a fake detective... good thing is... if I’m not lying she can’t catch me 🤷🏾‍♂️

The hardest part is arguing about them not coming over. Aqua is in house cok blocking
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Females don't know they are stalkers. They can't acknowledge their behaviors as creepy. A female creepy, naaaaaw? Only men can be creeps. They just want an emotional connection.

Exactly... females turn it into... concern and just wanting to be close... no, no, no... If I tell you I'm busy leave it at that.

The last few girls I've been talking to have asked me to turn my "read" notifications on and one even asked me to share my location. GTFOH

That's, um, disgustingly embarrassing.

What did you say to crazy bitches? And, is what they say about 'em true?
Honestly, its the ones in their 20s..... I laugh... and ask why... they never give me a response. Whether I read your comment or not? so what? it might not warrant a response or I am busy. it must be a early adult thing. I would think it would drive you crazy you know someone read your message and you are literally waiting on a response.

The location girl is awkward, she shared hers first. I asked why she did it. she said, in case I ever need you, you know where I am, and you should do the same. I just met you a few month ago, I survived just fine before that. I still haven't turned it on.

the location girl is the worse, its always "what's the big deal, do you have something to hide?" I still talk to her because of sex, but I can tell she's possessive/obsessive. I honestly look around when I am out and its very annoying.

"The location girl" thinks y'all in a committed relationship. Funny thing is when her parents introduced her to that, she rebelled like hell. Look how far she's come. They'd be so proud.
location girl tried to introduce me to her parents like 3 days after we met. unfortunately, her sexual performances, have me currently hanging on. she's a complete freak, and I rarely get and keep one of those, I just wish I had a normal girl that was wild. She's mentally draining. EVERY DAY, she asks what we are. I tell her we are dating and having fun. I told her I date other people. she says fine, she's focusing on herself, but writes me love notes and sticks them in my pocket/wallet and I find them randomly.... she literally told me she loved me after about a week and a half.

honestly this scorpio is a little cray cray.. she tried to add me on fb, but I haven't accepted, but I saw scrolling through she had a baby like two years ago... she has no stretch marks or noticeable signs of having a baby. so I'm blown away because as much as a succubus as she is, she's never mentioned the baby and the boy doesn't live with her. I guess the parents have him, but she's 27. maybe she's unfit?!?
LOL!

I absolutely love hearing about your dating life. When I was dating, I always wanted to hear about the guy's past and present experiences.

Don't take location girl's romantic ways too seriously. She probably just likes romantic illusions and practicing seduction. It's healthy. Not that it's not honest. It is but it isn't, if you know what I mean.
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I had my location showing on Snapchat, my ex has told me she looks into where I’m at sometimes didn’t care enough to turn it off. A week ago I was at Culver’s getting a burger she started texting me over snap. Got home to a text on snap saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sent me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s..

Dw is our dog and we used to go there to get him ice cream all the time. Why the fuck would you send me that
Very uncomfortable feeling. Notify your school immediately
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