How to make sex with condoms suck less...

This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by LadyNeptune on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 and has 32 replies.
...because their kinda essential if you aren't looking to populate the earth little-house-on-the-prairie style .

Alright guys (and gals!) I need some suggestions. What are your favorite brands of condoms and why? Common, don't be shy!

I personally like Trojan bare skin, but I've heard nice things about Crown condoms as well.
I only have time for gold wrappers. Thin.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Lol condoms

Dirty ass nigga.

Ew
You can't, they suck.

Have 1 partner you can trust, and who knows how to sex/pull out in time, imo.
Posted by RamOfPeace
You can't, they suck.

Have 1 partner you can trust, and who knows how to sex/pull out in time, imo.

How much can you ever trust someone though?

Also the pull out method is not foolproof. If the dude has masturbated recently than there can be left over swimmers swimming in his precum.

Also the majority of guys are carriers of the HPV virus, which causes cervical cancer. So no thanks.
Posted by ramparts
Also in monogamous relationships I track my cycle and don't have sex during my fertile/ovulation week. I don't want to speak out of turn but if I've researched correctly you can only get pregnant within like a 5 day window every month. Obviously not something you'd want to chance but if you track your cycles you can get a pretty good estimation of when is a definite safe time to have sex and when it reaches the time of month you should be more careful.



My mom did this method and that's how my baby brother was conceived.

NEXT!!
Posted by ramparts
Also in monogamous relationships I track my cycle and don't have sex during my fertile/ovulation week. I don't want to speak out of turn but if I've researched correctly you can only get pregnant within like a 5 day window every month. Obviously not something you'd want to chance but if you track your cycles you can get a pretty good estimation of when is a definite safe time to have sex and when it reaches the time of month you should be more careful.



There's no way im leaving that to chance
Posted by 9waterlion9
Birth control is always an option, there's all different kinds now which are more reliable than condoms. Honestly I don't think the thinness matters because you're still feeling rubber, not skin, regardless of how thick or thin the rubber actually is. If I'm using them I like the Skyn brand, but yeah they're all similiar

I've had bad reactions to birth control so it's not an option for me.

Yeah the latex is horrible. It makes your skin taste all rubbery and not the funnest thing if you want to keep playing, especially in regards to oral.

Haven't ever tried skyn. Any particular ones you like?
Posted by 9waterlion9
Posted by LadyNeptune
...because their kinda essential if you aren't looking to populate the earth little-house-on-the-prairie style.

Alright guys (and gals!) I need some suggestions. What are your favorite brands of condoms and why? Common, don't be shy!

I personally like Trojan bare skin, but I've heard nice things about magnums as well.

Also, "magnum" only refers to the size of the condom, not a difference in type. They're extra large
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Whoops wrong name, just checked my amazon order. Their Crown condoms. Gonna give them a whirl. Bonus, their pink.
Please consider STDs and STIs before making yourself a cumdumpster for a guy. Please go get tested regularly.

Good luck and happy fucking.
Posted by 9waterlion9
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 9waterlion9
Birth control is always an option, there's all different kinds now which are more reliable than condoms. Honestly I don't think the thinness matters because you're still feeling rubber, not skin, regardless of how thick or thin the rubber actually is. If I'm using them I like the Skyn brand, but yeah they're all similiar

I've had bad reactions to birth control so it's not an option for me.

Yeah the latex is horrible. It makes your skin taste all rubbery and not the funnest thing if you want to keep playing, especially in regards to oral.

Haven't ever tried skyn. Any particular ones you like?

These are the ones I like to have on hand, there latex free so less icky:
http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/lifestyles-skyn-premium-polyisoprene-non-latex-lubricated-condoms/ID=prod6052624-product

What kind of birth control did you try? I feel like there's something for everyone now, like the IUD for example is estrogen free...there's the regular pill, the depo shot(what I have), & the implant...I don't even really trust condoms because they do break, so I only use them to avoid STDs...if you're worried about hpv though you should get the vaccine!

I will say the Absolute WORST condoms ever are the Trojan ecstasy, not sure if they still make them by I've literally had 4 or 5 of them break on me lol


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I've gone through several under my doctors guidance years ago and had various negative reactions, both physical and psychological. It may be an option I revisit in the future but there would need to be several other factors in play first. I would need to feel completely secure and trusting of my partner and I would need to live with them as well. But for my situation right now, it's really not worth the risk to my well being just for a slight increase in pleasure.

Thanks for the link! Latex free is always a plus. I feel like I might be slightly allergic to latex as my skin always feels itchy afterword. TMI alert.

Posted by ramparts
Posted by DMV
Posted by ramparts
Also in monogamous relationships I track my cycle and don't have sex during my fertile/ovulation week. I don't want to speak out of turn but if I've researched correctly you can only get pregnant within like a 5 day window every month. Obviously not something you'd want to chance but if you track your cycles you can get a pretty good estimation of when is a definite safe time to have sex and when it reaches the time of month you should be more careful.



There's no way im leaving that to chance

Yeah, it's not the most effective form of birth control because a lot of women have irregular cycles but it's worked for me.
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Axtually if it's done right, it's as effective as the pill.
@9waterlion9 Forgot to add! Knowing what I know about how the drug industry works I'm always wary of new vaccines and pills. Side effects, especially long term, seem to emerge.

I've read about various side effects and deaths linked to the HPV (Gardas). Considering that cervical cancer is detectable and treatable the potential risk outweighs and benefit for me.

Sad

Posted by LadyNeptune
@9waterlion9 Forgot to add! Knowing what I know about how the drug industry works I'm always wary of new vaccines and pills. Side effects, especially long term, seem to emerge.

I've read about various side effects and deaths linked to the HPV (Gardas). Considering that cervical cancer is detectable and treatable the potential risk outweighs and benefit for me.

Sad



Dammit

*Gardasil
and
*any benefit

Sheesh fingers
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by LadyNeptune
@9waterlion9 Forgot to add! Knowing what I know about how the drug industry works I'm always wary of new vaccines and pills. Side effects, especially long term, seem to emerge.

I've read about various side effects and deaths linked to the HPV (Gardas). Considering that cervical cancer is detectable and treatable the potential risk outweighs and benefit for me.

Sad



Dammit

*Gadasil
and
*any benefit

Sheesh fingers
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You can edit posts now fyi. Hit the more button and type out your corrected message Big Grin
Yes what Vixen said... Best bets condoms be suffocating...
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 9waterlion9
Posted by LadyNeptune
...because their kinda essential if you aren't looking to populate the earth little-house-on-the-prairie style.

Alright guys (and gals!) I need some suggestions. What are your favorite brands of condoms and why? Common, don't be shy!

I personally like Trojan bare skin, but I've heard nice things about magnums as well.

Also, "magnum" only refers to the size of the condom, not a difference in type. They're extra large

Whoops wrong name, just checked my amazon order. Their Crown condoms. Gonna give them a whirl. Bonus, their pink.
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I wonder how your man is going to respond to that
Yea I guess I forgot to mention that due to severe PCOS there are no kids in my future. Sorry ladies Big Grin

But in regards of "trusting someone", I don't know man, if you have had a stable partner for a long time and they gave you all the reasons for trust, why the heck not?
Posted by Magenta_Azure
Please consider STDs and STIs before making yourself a cumdumpster for a guy. Please go get tested regularly.

Good luck and happy fucking.

Smh
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by DMV
I only have time for gold wrappers. Thin.

Wtf?! Are they making Magnum thins now?
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Yes and ribbec
Ribbed
Posted by virgowithasoul
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 9waterlion9
Posted by LadyNeptune
...because their kinda essential if you aren't looking to populate the earth little-house-on-the-prairie style.

Alright guys (and gals!) I need some suggestions. What are your favorite brands of condoms and why? Common, don't be shy!

I personally like Trojan bare skin, but I've heard nice things about magnums as well.

Also, "magnum" only refers to the size of the condom, not a difference in type. They're extra large

Whoops wrong name, just checked my amazon order. Their Crown condoms. Gonna give them a whirl. Bonus, their pink.

I wonder how your man is going to respond to that
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I'll let you know
Winking
Posted by KinglyCrab
Posted by RamOfPeace
You can't, they suck.

Have 1 partner you can trust, and who knows how to sex/pull out in time, imo.


Lol @ pulloutintime what if he can't in time and either way that isn't 100% either.
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Then he sucks and it's their issue. I never had a dude who was such a rookie.
Oh and I have news for you. NOTHING is 100% , except celibacy, cap.
Posted by RamOfPeace
Posted by KinglyCrab
Posted by RamOfPeace
You can't, they suck.

Have 1 partner you can trust, and who knows how to sex/pull out in time, imo.


Lol @ pulloutintime what if he can't in time and either way that isn't 100% either.


Then he sucks and it's their issue. I never had a dude who was such a rookie.
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Oh? How many dudes have you had? Winking
Sex with condoms just sucks. There's really no way around it.

Best advice would be to have sex only with 1 person (that's been tested for all STD's) while you're on the pill.
Posted by KinglyCrab
Posted by RamOfPeace
Oh and I have news for you. NOTHING is 100% , except celibacy, cap.

That's why stay in school kids so if push comes to shove you can provide for the the people whose fate are intertwined with yours.
And completely unrelated but condoms are stupid unless you don't trust your partner has stds or not. I keep a box of pills stashed away and condoms incase well something "happens".
But i am still
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Posted by KinglyCrab
Ahh I can just imagine the scenario.

Him: Girl I'm almost about to bust my load.
Her: Ok. Just don't forget to pull out.
Him: Hey don't worry about it I won't.
Two seconds later.....
Him: Uhhhhhhhhh...
Her: Holy shit! God damnit Carl you said you would pull out! You piece of shit!
Grins like a hyena. He draws closer to her ear and whispers "I Lied"


Lol @Carl
Posted by Cricket808
Posted by RamOfPeace
Posted by KinglyCrab
Posted by RamOfPeace
You can't, they suck.

Have 1 partner you can trust, and who knows how to sex/pull out in time, imo.


Lol @ pulloutintime what if he can't in time and either way that isn't 100% either.


Then he sucks and it's their issue. I never had a dude who was such a rookie.

Have you heard of precum? If the guy has precum on his penis and he's inside you theres a risk. Like others said, the pull out method is risky. Learned about this in health class in High school. Smh
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That's not true, actually. Unless they came earlier and didn't pee afterwards I can link studies if needed.
Man, there was this kind my ex and I used from a sex shop once. It was some Japanese condom. To date, it's still the best condom I've ever used.

...fuck all if I know what brand it was, which drives me nuts because it'd be great to know haha. Closest to "nothing" I've come across.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Man, there was this kind my ex and I used from a sex shop once. It was some Japanese condom. To date, it's still the best condom I've ever used.

...fuck all if I know what brand it was, which drives me nuts because it'd be great to know haha. Closest to "nothing" I've come across.

okamoto?
Posted by Fox
Starting to hate contraceptive pills, my hormones are all over the place!

You are aware there are better options than pills, right?

Did you just start it? Birth control is supposed to level them out.

Posted by virgowithasoul
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Man, there was this kind my ex and I used from a sex shop once. It was some Japanese condom. To date, it's still the best condom I've ever used.

...fuck all if I know what brand it was, which drives me nuts because it'd be great to know haha. Closest to "nothing" I've come across.

okamoto?
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No idea. It's been ages since then and even then I had no idea what it was. I just know that we picked up a bunch of randoms, tried this one and I knew it was Japanese. I don't even remember what the packaging looked like. I've done some digging around on the internet to find out and came across a few brands that claims to be the thinnest out there.

I'd suggest just hitting up Amazon and see what the reviews say about these thin, Japanese condoms, tbh. That's where I was eventually led to. At least you have reviews to help you decide what ones to try.