Posted by SagicornNo I meant ultimately guys will - worst case scenario - fuck anything. Chicks will worst case scenario get a cat.Posted by enfant_terrible
When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy
unless there is a war and there's shortage of guys lol or unless women are willing to share lolclick to expand
Posted by enfant_terriblewhat? lol women out number men on this planet. i think its 1 man for every 7 women. so that needs to be flipped i think.
When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy
Posted by Cancan26yeah
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
Posted by WeedsYeah, she's jolly sunshine. I like how she moves.
Yes but Rebel Wilson is my fat standard
Posted by LadyNeptuneThere's a difference between an ass and a boonkey.
A fat ass is the most desirable part of a woman. Thanks for that Kim.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingAaaahh that makes more sense ...Posted by Cancan26yeah
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
the majority are lying for the most part when they say this what they mean is
i wouldn't date a skinny girl who had an eating disorder
not a skinny girl with a fast metabolism and a poor dietclick to expand
Posted by aquasnozYeah, my Virgo husband and I have a Virgo male friend that would date women who threw up their food. He didn't date them because of it though. My husband thought they were gross.
Fat from being unhealthy - no. but I can say the same for skinny from being unhealthy.
Posted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
Posted by AjuLol so iiiiinnnttterestingPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.click to expand
Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???click to expand
Posted by TheRabbitDamn no " health" dates for mePosted by Cancan26Girl, get your A1C levels under control, k?Posted by AjuLol so iiiiinnnttterestingPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???click to expand
Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.click to expand
Posted by ArkansassyYour such a dream boat..you just made me actually smile yes always and foreverPosted by Cancan26You're invited to my home for a first date. I'm making chicken fried steak, creamed spinach, and cabbage for dinner.. And we'll watch the first season of DBZ. You down?Posted by TheRabbitDamn no " health" dates for mePosted by Cancan26Girl, get your A1C levels under control, k?Posted by AjuLol so iiiiinnnttterestingPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???click to expand
Posted by solidsnakeMy point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-Posted by Cancan26trying to justify eating trash?Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk
You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.
I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitiousclick to expand
Posted by tizianiIs it for health reason? Right?Posted by Cancan26Might be time to ask DXP women the reasons behind dating taller guys just to get back at you.Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerkclick to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by Cancan26Posted by tizianiIs it for health reason? Right?Posted by Cancan26Might be time to ask DXP women the reasons behind dating taller guys just to get back at you.Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk
No of course not ...its cause they have a preference...but people don't wanna seem shallow so i bet they make up all kinds of dumb reasons...why they need/want a tall guy
When short men are just as capable of being loving, romantic, etc
"He has to be tall because...... because....... because it's MANLY all right? Now just leave me the f alone."
I understand what you're saying about us being polite.click to expand
Posted by iridium
attractiveness is annoyingly objective
Posted by Arielle83Posted by LadyNeptuneWasn’t it j.lo?
A fat ass is the most desirable part of a woman. Thanks for that Kim.
Kim just pushed the need for ass inplantsclick to expand
Posted by iridiumI need to do more research on this. But, and correct me if I'm wrong, but don't current celebrities/people in power influence perception of attractiveness strongly? I thought that was the reason why body shape/size preference varied for certain cultures. Albeit, I'm an american so perhaps we're(as in the history of our beauty standards) an anomaly.Posted by Bk201Posted by iridium
attractiveness is annoyingly objective
I thought what was considered attractive was largely influenced by social factors.
The subjective variability in all humans regarding looks is very minute. To suggest otherwise is defying basic biology. Most males find the same physical traits in females attractive. Large breasts, thin narrow waist, wide hips, round big ass (to different limits), etc. After all, looks are based on how the human brain perceives visual stimulus and whether it is rendered as indicative of reproductive health and sexual dimorphism or not.
Now stuff like clit shape, eye color, hair color, skin color is heavily influenced by environmental factors hence it being subjective. The subjectivity is blown out of proportion though. The whole "preference" emphasis is just a way to cope with the fact that some people don't really have someone out there for them. Those claiming to like conventionally unattractive women with a pubescent boy's build often have poor dating success so they conform their dating criteria according to what makes women feel better about themselves to exploit their emotional side and increase their dating success. In reality an absolute tiny slither of males genuinely find that attractive.click to expand
Posted by solidsnakePosted by Cancan26You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.Posted by solidsnakeMy point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-Posted by Cancan26trying to justify eating trash?Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk
You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.
I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious
So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldntclick to expand
Posted by AerialView
Yes. Anyways she'll get skinny later due to stress.
Posted by LaMadrinaDefine ‘right places’.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's always been in. In other cultures and sub cultures. Fat is not thick. Thick is curvy and stacked in the right places while still having a solid shape. Fat is disproportionate amounts of adipose, hanging and bulging... bursting out of the frame, if you will.
Define ‘fat’. Cause thick is in atm.click to expand
Posted by solidsnakeNo I absoulety agree that men can pick their partners based on their values ...the only thing im disputing ...is that people cant tell a person's health BEFORE deciding to get to know them ...once you do ...you can absolutely decide if you wish to continue dating them based on their life style choicesPosted by Cancan26You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.Posted by solidsnakeMy point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-Posted by Cancan26trying to justify eating trash?Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk
You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.
I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious
So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldntclick to expand
Posted by solidsnakeMaybe Virgos can but I can't. -_- ...im start sending pic of my possible dates you give them ole once over ....Posted by Cancan26I guess if someone is noticeably super skinny or super duper fat we instinctually believe the person is ill.Posted by solidsnakeNo I absoulety agree that men can pick their partners based on their values ...the only thing im disputing ...is that people cant tell a person's health BEFORE deciding to get to know them ...once you do ...you can absolutely decide if you wish to continue dating them based on their life style choicesPosted by Cancan26You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.Posted by solidsnakeMy point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-Posted by Cancan26trying to justify eating trash?Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk
You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.
I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious
So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt
But to pick a person out on the street and decide you want to ask for a date ... based on "health"
no one can do this (and it's weird that the dudes in this thread are saying they can)
no one can tell anyone's health status based off their looks ...
No one can look at someone on the street and tell if they eat pork
No one can look at that cute someone in the gym and decide if they are healthy....
World would be a much better place if they could but you can't? Or at least i cant
FYI I can definitely tell by touch of sight if someone has an over abundance of garlic in their dietclick to expand
Posted by solidsnakeso petty lmaoPosted by Cancan26Don’t do it. I’ll sabotage so I can have u all to myselfPosted by solidsnakeMaybe Virgos can but I can't. -_- ...im start sending pic of my possible dates you give them ole once over ....Posted by Cancan26I guess if someone is noticeably super skinny or super duper fat we instinctually believe the person is ill.Posted by solidsnakeNo I absoulety agree that men can pick their partners based on their values ...the only thing im disputing ...is that people cant tell a person's health BEFORE deciding to get to know them ...once you do ...you can absolutely decide if you wish to continue dating them based on their life style choicesPosted by Cancan26You must not understand how nit picky some people can be. For some people attraction goes further than the way u look & talk. It’s about values.Posted by solidsnakeMy point is most people don't find out that sort of thing till their already living together ...not when they met a woman somewhere for the first time trying to score a date ...you can't look at a girl on the street and be like nah shorty you look like you eat pork. -_-Posted by Cancan26trying to justify eating trash?Posted by AjuI'm not trying to be a pain in the ass I swear.Posted by Cancan26Posted by AjuLol so quick to be offendedPosted by Cancan26except guys that think beyond the flesh...
Guys and this healthy argument are so strange to me ...
Has any dude in the history of ever sat a skinny girl down ...looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Look Sara...im not keep fucking you if all your gonna have for dinner is whip its, gummy bears and cigarettes"
I highly doubt it ... -_-
yea I know.. lol
but we exist.
The quality of someone to me is their level of consciousness
and their heart. I stopped going to someone solely because of their
looks a long time ago, high school.
Im curious ...
For your health argument ....
When do you go over health information
Like what are you checking for?
Are you making blind assumptions based on weight
Or do you actually ask for like blood pressure, family history and pap smears results ....
Ooooorrr .....???
I don't even know if I want to respond lol...
sigh*
And I know this topic is sensitive for most women.....
It's the same for the issue of money for most men...
(men not having money, they are ignored etc etc)
this topic is about men dating those who are "over weight" though....
so being over weight (for both men or women) *can* be a sign of someone
not caring about their health yes?.. Or not aware of their health.
Yes other things can factor in on the reasons but in general.
And if they do not care about their health then certain things come to mind.
"Will this affect the quality of our relationship?"
"Will this affect the quality of our children?" etc etc
I'm just here to say that "yes", I will date someone in this state but only
if they "care" and their mindset is already where they want to be.
everything else will fall into place...its about the mind first.
I just know that we all have body type prefences (me included) and while (like I'm sure most of guys in this thread) I don't need my date to be super skinny, or in shape ..its even ok to have a dad bod ...but there is a point where attraction becomes an issue of the guy is too big...but girls don't really hide behind the "health factor" I guess ...which again ...i think most of the guys where trying to be gentle ...i dunno ...but um ...i wasn't trying to be a jerk
You can’t possibly think Virgos don’t care about health & wellness of our spouses.
I won’t penetrate a woman who consumes pork as part of her diet. She’s going to have to give that up. I’m very superstitious
So again that health argument ...is well ...weird ...you can't tell someone health status by their weight alone ...and does the health argument apply to all women or just when you guys find "fat" we both know it's about attraction which is why some men would or some men wouldnt
But to pick a person out on the street and decide you want to ask for a date ... based on "health"
no one can do this (and it's weird that the dudes in this thread are saying they can)
no one can tell anyone's health status based off their looks ...
No one can look at someone on the street and tell if they eat pork
No one can look at that cute someone in the gym and decide if they are healthy....
World would be a much better place if they could but you can't? Or at least i cant
FYI I can definitely tell by touch of sight if someone has an over abundance of garlic in their dietclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes but only to fattys 😜Posted by AerialView
Yes. Anyways she'll get skinny later due to stress.
Lol. Being with you is that stressful? 😜click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesYou're far-off (way off). 🙄 Tough, why think/imagine - when there's actually people who gather data to make statistics (that being their job: demographics)?! 🤨Posted by enfant_terriblewhat? lol women out number men on this planet. i think its 1 man for every 7 women. so that needs to be flipped i think.
When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guyclick to expand
Posted by tizianiIn a way... there are:Posted by nevesDamn, I thought there were more women too.Posted by WitchmitchAriesYou're far-off (way off). 🙄 Tough, why think/imagine - when there's actually people who gather data to make statistics (that being their job: demographics)?! 🤨Posted by enfant_terriblewhat? lol women out number men on this planet. i think its 1 man for every 7 women. so that needs to be flipped i think.
When unsure one thing is certain; there's a guy for every chick but not a chick for every guy
Male: 3,776,294,273
Female: 3,710,295,643
http://www.worldlifeexpectancy.com/gender-ratio-by-country
There are countries like Russia where there's more men than women - but human ingenuity always finds a way:
https://www.rosebrides.com/
https://www.russianbrides.com/mail-order-brides.htm
... 😏click to expand