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Recently, my friend and I have taken a liken for each other. Initially, we were exclusive travel buddies/ support friends... we’ve been friends now for 7 years (met in college). We started hanging out with eachother privately...like going on picnic, dinner, & museum dates.

Two week ago, he started a bathroom renovation in his house which limited him. So, he stayed at my house. He returned home this week on Tuesday.

Last night, I went by his place for a Netflix and chill night. He picked me up AND while he’s driving back to his place... he pulled up his tshirt and started AGGRESSIVELY rubbing, pushing, pulling, and playing with both his nipple and man boob. Meanwhile, he’s not becoming erect from this gesture.

I was SO in shock... because this is the first time he’s ever done this in front of me...that my face literally locked onto the passenger side mirror. Now when we reached his place.. while watching a comedy/series he began the aggressive nipples and man-boobs playing.

My thing is... I want to have a convo with him about how this makes me feel very uncomfortable AND is it a sexual indication for me to initiate sex? Plus I once read online that Cancer placements makes someone obsessed with breast. He has a 15 degree Moon & Mars in Cancer.
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LMAO

This was gross to read.

Just have a convo of how he is still in the friendzone and will always be in the friendzone and that he probably should start dating.

What grown man plays with himself in front of a person not showing any sexual interest?

Poor guy lol

Cancers placements and their side walking. I know a man with moon and mars in Cancer and he said it took him 3 years to get the courage to finally ask the girl out, he walked her home from school daily in high school.

What a waste of time all for her to not even like him like that.

Put your friend out of his misery and just be upfront and let him know that you enjoy his company in a friendly way, like he's a brother. That you couldn't imagine messing up the friendship that you have with him by including a sexual relationship.

Give him a compliment by saying he's a great guy, but it's you that will ruin it and you don't want t lose him as a friend and aren't even willing to risk the thought of it.

He may not take it as complete rejection or embarrassment because it isn't too harsh on his ego.
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LMAO

This was gross to read.

Just have a convo of how he is still in the friendzone and will always be in the friendzone and that he probably should start dating.

What grown man plays with himself in front of a person not showing any sexual interest?

Poor guy lol

Cancers placements and their side walking. I know a man with moon and mars in Cancer and he said it took him 3 years to get the courage to finally ask the girl out, he walked her home from school daily in high school.

What a waste of time all for her to not even like him like that.

Put your friend out of his misery and just be upfront and let him know that you enjoy his company in a friendly way, like he's a brother. That you couldn't imagine messing up the friendship that you have with him by including a sexual relationship.

Give him a compliment by saying he's a great guy, but it's you that will ruin it and you don't want t lose him as a friend and aren't even willing to risk the thought of it.

He may not take it as complete rejection or embarrassment because it isn't too harsh on his ego.

The very definition of Netflix and chill, is fucking.
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I read that, but she said she was uncomfortable in the car and watching the comedy show- I just assumed all the trips were friendly and no sex 🥴

If sex was already had- what would it matter if he was playing with his nipples?
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LMAO

This was gross to read.

Just have a convo of how he is still in the friendzone and will always be in the friendzone and that he probably should start dating.

What grown man plays with himself in front of a person not showing any sexual interest?

Poor guy lol

Cancers placements and their side walking. I know a man with moon and mars in Cancer and he said it took him 3 years to get the courage to finally ask the girl out, he walked her home from school daily in high school.

What a waste of time all for her to not even like him like that.

Put your friend out of his misery and just be upfront and let him know that you enjoy his company in a friendly way, like he's a brother. That you couldn't imagine messing up the friendship that you have with him by including a sexual relationship.

Give him a compliment by saying he's a great guy, but it's you that will ruin it and you don't want t lose him as a friend and aren't even willing to risk the thought of it.

He may not take it as complete rejection or embarrassment because it isn't too harsh on his ego.

The very definition of Netflix and chill, is fucking.
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But his eggplant wasn’t getting hard from him playing with his nipples and chest. Plus I mean, He’s a nice guy I wouldn’t mine taking it to that level but JUST SAY THAT YOU WANT TO DO IT... I mean at least touch me to let me know.....

But if not and he just likes to play with himself then I can’t take it to the next level because it makes me feel uncomfortable.
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Oh I think I misread it. So you're trying to start a relationship now and NOT keep him in the friendzone?

Take the lead and initiate. His playing with his own nipples was all he could muster up the courage to do.

Tell him the next time he does something like that, you will buy him some nipple clamps so he can keep his hands off of himself and put them where they need to be- ON YOU 😄
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LMAO

This was gross to read.

Just have a convo of how he is still in the friendzone and will always be in the friendzone and that he probably should start dating.

What grown man plays with himself in front of a person not showing any sexual interest?

Poor guy lol

Cancers placements and their side walking. I know a man with moon and mars in Cancer and he said it took him 3 years to get the courage to finally ask the girl out, he walked her home from school daily in high school.

What a waste of time all for her to not even like him like that.

Put your friend out of his misery and just be upfront and let him know that you enjoy his company in a friendly way, like he's a brother. That you couldn't imagine messing up the friendship that you have with him by including a sexual relationship.

Give him a compliment by saying he's a great guy, but it's you that will ruin it and you don't want t lose him as a friend and aren't even willing to risk the thought of it.

He may not take it as complete rejection or embarrassment because it isn't too harsh on his ego.

The very definition of Netflix and chill, is fucking.

I read that, but she said she was uncomfortable in the car and watching the comedy show- I just assumed all the trips were friendly and no sex 🥴

If sex was already had- what would it matter if he was playing with his nipples?
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No it hasn’t happen.. but at least he could touch on me to hint that he want it to happen.. and his eggplant doesn’t get hard from the gestures.
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Posted by ImperfectStorm

It’s very true about cancer placements lol I have cancer moon and my sons dad had cancer moon. His were not sensitive but mine are.. his cancer moon just made him out to be a boob guy lol


But did your son father at least touch on yours? I mean he hasn’t even initiated or hint anything to me that he wants to initiate anything with me. Plus his eggplant isn’t getting hard from him playing with himself.
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Posted by WarAngel
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LMAO

This was gross to read.

Just have a convo of how he is still in the friendzone and will always be in the friendzone and that he probably should start dating.

What grown man plays with himself in front of a person not showing any sexual interest?

Poor guy lol

Cancers placements and their side walking. I know a man with moon and mars in Cancer and he said it took him 3 years to get the courage to finally ask the girl out, he walked her home from school daily in high school.

What a waste of time all for her to not even like him like that.

Put your friend out of his misery and just be upfront and let him know that you enjoy his company in a friendly way, like he's a brother. That you couldn't imagine messing up the friendship that you have with him by including a sexual relationship.

Give him a compliment by saying he's a great guy, but it's you that will ruin it and you don't want t lose him as a friend and aren't even willing to risk the thought of it.

He may not take it as complete rejection or embarrassment because it isn't too harsh on his ego.

The very definition of Netflix and chill, is fucking.

But his eggplant wasn’t getting hard from him playing with his nipples and chest. Plus I mean, He’s a nice guy I wouldn’t mine taking it to that level but JUST SAY THAT YOU WANT TO DO IT... I mean at least touch me to let me know.....

But if not and he just likes to play with himself then I can’t take it to the next level because it makes me feel uncomfortable.
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Maybe he's neither a grower or a shower. RIP
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Posted by saggurl88

Oh I think I misread it. So you're trying to start a relationship now and NOT keep him in the friendzone?

Take the lead and initiate. His playing with his own nipples was all he could muster up the courage to do.

Tell him the next time he does something like that, you will buy him some nipple clamps so he can keep his hands off of himself and put them where they need to be- ON YOU 😄


But his eggplant wasn’t getting hard from him playing with himself... so like if he was getting up I could’ve initiated something.
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Posted by WarAngel
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LMAO

This was gross to read.

Just have a convo of how he is still in the friendzone and will always be in the friendzone and that he probably should start dating.

What grown man plays with himself in front of a person not showing any sexual interest?

Poor guy lol

Cancers placements and their side walking. I know a man with moon and mars in Cancer and he said it took him 3 years to get the courage to finally ask the girl out, he walked her home from school daily in high school.

What a waste of time all for her to not even like him like that.

Put your friend out of his misery and just be upfront and let him know that you enjoy his company in a friendly way, like he's a brother. That you couldn't imagine messing up the friendship that you have with him by including a sexual relationship.

Give him a compliment by saying he's a great guy, but it's you that will ruin it and you don't want t lose him as a friend and aren't even willing to risk the thought of it.

He may not take it as complete rejection or embarrassment because it isn't too harsh on his ego.

The very definition of Netflix and chill, is fucking.

But his eggplant wasn’t getting hard from him playing with his nipples and chest. Plus I mean, He’s a nice guy I wouldn’t mine taking it to that level but JUST SAY THAT YOU WANT TO DO IT... I mean at least touch me to let me know.....

But if not and he just likes to play with himself then I can’t take it to the next level because it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Maybe he's neither a grower or a shower. RIP
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All hopes are lost now 😩
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Oh I think I misread it. So you're trying to start a relationship now and NOT keep him in the friendzone?

Take the lead and initiate. His playing with his own nipples was all he could muster up the courage to do.

Tell him the next time he does something like that, you will buy him some nipple clamps so he can keep his hands off of himself and put them where they need to be- ON YOU 😄

But his eggplant wasn’t getting hard from him playing with himself... so like if he was getting up I could’ve initiated something.
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It probably had more to do with nerves than anything else. I wouldn't hold it against him. He's spent tons of time with you and has never got the courage to try anything and you still expect it from him now that you've agreed to try. Just tell him he needs to make the first move cause you're too shy.

Then he will have your "permission" and it will be easier on him. He may not feel so nervous, like he will be rejected.
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My brain instantly went, some kinda fungal disease. Get some tea tree body wash and slip it into his bag next trip.

On it, but he wasn’t scratching and nothing looks irritated. His face looks like he enjoys himself lol just his eggplant wasn’t erected.
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Maybe it was but... micropenis strikes again
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😳

Eww, I hope he was joking.

No like literally we were watching ‘Dirty John & Betty’ and for like 15 minutes straight he was playing with his man-boobs and nipples. Now I’m a chubby chaser, but I’ve never encountered this EVER !!

Geez, for 15 minutes? Were you too embarrassed to speak up? I hope you say something soon before he does it again cuz he just might think you like it. 🤢
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Okay, that’s the thing he’s a cancer moon and he’s a little touchy-touchy-sensitive sometimes. Because initially I was gonna text him to call me I want to talk about last night and tell him directly how I felt... BUT he’s grudge holding so I don’t want him to hold a grudge.
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You're letting that Aries moon and Leo mars go to waste! 😆

What's his sun sign?

The first time with my boyfriend who has a cancer mars, he literally went into the bedroom, laid on the bed and and called me into his room to ask me some random ass question.

I just hopped on the bed and straddled him, then answered it.

It got started from there.

I think women forget that men can be shy and have the same emotions as women do when it comes to this sort of thing.

He's been hanging out with you for years and now you see the reason that he hasn't been getting sex from you or probably others 😆 . Help the guy out some 😄
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Posted by saggurl88

You're letting that Aries moon and Leo mars go to waste! 😆

What's his sun sign?

The first time with my boyfriend who has a cancer mars, he literally went into the bedroom, laid on the bed and and called me into his room to ask me some random ass question.

I just hopped on the bed and straddled him, then answered it.

It got started from there.

I think women forget that men can be shy and have the same emotions as women do when it comes to this sort of thing.

He's been hanging out with you for years and now you see the reason that he hasn't been getting sex from you or probably others 😆 . Help the guy out some 😄


But at least get hard... so I can initiate something... send me a normal signal
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You're letting that Aries moon and Leo mars go to waste! 😆

What's his sun sign?

The first time with my boyfriend who has a cancer mars, he literally went into the bedroom, laid on the bed and and called me into his room to ask me some random ass question.

I just hopped on the bed and straddled him, then answered it.

It got started from there.

I think women forget that men can be shy and have the same emotions as women do when it comes to this sort of thing.

He's been hanging out with you for years and now you see the reason that he hasn't been getting sex from you or probably others 😆 . Help the guy out some 😄

But at least get hard... so I can initiate something... send me a normal signal
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lol

He went a little over board on the nerves express, IMO.

Would getting hard while doing that to himself seriously made you feel better about it? 😆

He wouldn't have needed you there, it would've been a one man show!

You two have been friends for years, it shouldn't be a big deal to talk it out with him.

Are you trying to plan a next time? If he hasn't initiated private time again, then he's probably embarrassed and feeling defeated.
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*UPDATE*

I spoke with him this afternoon about last night and how it made me feel. I anticipated his reaction. I told him that this was my first time experiencing this and how uncomfortable and shock I was..

He was offended and said “how am I making you uncomfortable...” I told him because I never seen a man infatuated with their nipples and chest in your way & I asked if he was into the opposite sex & he ended the phone call..

Well, I guess I’m on his fuck-off list now *shrugs*... 😂🤣😂🤣
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*UPDATE*

I spoke with him this afternoon about last night and how it made me feel. I anticipated his reaction. I told him that this was my first time experiencing this and how uncomfortable and shock I was..

He was offended and said “how am I making you uncomfortable...” I told him because I never seen a man infatuated with their nipples and chest in your way & I asked if he was into the opposite sex & he ended the phone call..

Well, I guess I’m on his fuck-off list now *shrugs*... 😂🤣😂🤣

You insinuated that he was gay?

Probably a good riddance though honestly. It's quite inappropriate to start touching yourself like that infront of someone, shows a lack of boundary's or understanding of consent.
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Yes, because I mean there are some guys who like the nipple play however..... they'll do the same to their partner. I mean he didn't touch me whatsoever.. so I had to ask him: "Are you into guys?"..... Like wth a kiss or a touch on my arm, legs... OR even let the eggplant get hard, so I'll know he's in THAT mood...
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Posted by geminiflyby

I'm sure questioning his manhood sent him running but I would have let him talk about why he did that before I hit him with how it made me feel. I don't think he'll be coming back around. Which is not a bad thing! 😂


I mean tbh it kinda is b/c he was a great friend and soon-to-be lover. Our dates were cool and we've traveled, but I couldn't help it.....because he never had a convo with me on how I might feel about certain fetishes, so I didn't feel any need to hold back.
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You're letting that Aries moon and Leo mars go to waste! 😆

What's his sun sign?

The first time with my boyfriend who has a cancer mars, he literally went into the bedroom, laid on the bed and and called me into his room to ask me some random ass question.

I just hopped on the bed and straddled him, then answered it.

It got started from there.

I think women forget that men can be shy and have the same emotions as women do when it comes to this sort of thing.

He's been hanging out with you for years and now you see the reason that he hasn't been getting sex from you or probably others 😆 . Help the guy out some 😄

But at least get hard... so I can initiate something... send me a normal signal
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You could have helped him out with a hand job?
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You're letting that Aries moon and Leo mars go to waste! 😆

What's his sun sign?

The first time with my boyfriend who has a cancer mars, he literally went into the bedroom, laid on the bed and and called me into his room to ask me some random ass question.

I just hopped on the bed and straddled him, then answered it.

It got started from there.

I think women forget that men can be shy and have the same emotions as women do when it comes to this sort of thing.

He's been hanging out with you for years and now you see the reason that he hasn't been getting sex from you or probably others 😆 . Help the guy out some 😄

But at least get hard... so I can initiate something... send me a normal signal

You could have helped him out with a hand job?
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he messed that up for himself... his eggplant wasn't hard, at least that would've been an indication for me to pursue further.. BUT oh well
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LMAO! I had a good laugh with this one. If someone was touching themselves in front of me (and I don’t care who you are), I’d look at you and ask, “what are you doing?” Him playing with his nipples is the same as jerking off in my eyes. I’m just baffled at the disregard that someone is sitting in front of you. Even if he’s throwing hints with this behaviour, it’s just so bizarre.

How does one stay quiet when people just do weird shit?
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I didn’t think manual stimulation of my man tits got me aroused. You have aqua placements so maybe the quirks are curious to you. That’s just fucking weird. Maybe y’all had a convo where something like that was discussed?

I know nothing about cancer placements but he seems beta ish. Do you like beta type guys? I thought aquas were into alpha types.
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You're letting that Aries moon and Leo mars go to waste! 😆

What's his sun sign?

The first time with my boyfriend who has a cancer mars, he literally went into the bedroom, laid on the bed and and called me into his room to ask me some random ass question.

I just hopped on the bed and straddled him, then answered it.

It got started from there.

I think women forget that men can be shy and have the same emotions as women do when it comes to this sort of thing.

He's been hanging out with you for years and now you see the reason that he hasn't been getting sex from you or probably others 😆 . Help the guy out some 😄

But at least get hard... so I can initiate something... send me a normal signal

You could have helped him out with a hand job?

he messed that up for himself... his eggplant wasn't hard, at least that would've been an indication for me to pursue further.. BUT oh well
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I never heard that being a reason not to give a helping hand lol
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I didn’t think manual stimulation of my man tits got me aroused. You have aqua placements so maybe the quirks are curious to you. That’s just fucking weird. Maybe y’all had a convo where something like that was discussed?

I know nothing about cancer placements but he seems beta ish. Do you like beta type guys? I thought aquas were into alpha types.

Well he is beta given It’s been years n he’s made no moves

Cancer Mars is beta
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