MEN: Where do you feel safe? ☽
This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by xxAjuxx on Sunday, November 19, 2023 and has 37 replies.
Where do you get to feel the PAUSE in the world?
Is there anything that brings you peace?
Is there anything that brings you peace?
Laying my head on a woman I love's lap or her twirling my hair
In genuinely dangerous situations, but I'm in control.
Posted by xxAjuxxIn some pussy
Where do you get to feel the PAUSE in the world?
Is there anything that brings you peace?
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Posted by route666aybbI back this as wellPosted by xxAjuxx
Where do you get to feel the PAUSE in the world?
Is there anything that brings you peace?
In some pussyclick to expand
Laying my head on a woman's lap was mentioned already. That one is true for me.
Also sitting next to each other side by side and just being. No talking is necessary just vibing and being there for each other.
The other is being alone in silence in the sun light and meditating.
Also sitting next to each other side by side and just being. No talking is necessary just vibing and being there for each other.
The other is being alone in silence in the sun light and meditating.
With my gun strapped to my side, hollow points loaded.
In my bed, about 2 hours before I officially wake up for the day.
In my bed, about 2 hours before I officially wake up for the day.
Posted by WarAngel79No secrets in this chamber, just some deathly hollows.
With my gun strapped to my side, hollow points loaded.
Posted by KimboSliceI hope I never have to use it but I am prepared to land six shots center mass.Posted by WarAngel79
With my gun strapped to my side, hollow points loaded.
No secrets in this chamber, just some deathly hollows.click to expand
Posted by KimboSliceJust call him Harry ShottaPosted by WarAngel79
With my gun strapped to my side, hollow points loaded.
No secrets in this chamber, just some deathly hollows.click to expand
Posted by rotiGas 🔥Posted by KimboSlicePosted by WarAngel79
With my gun strapped to my side, hollow points loaded.
No secrets in this chamber, just some deathly hollows.
Just call him Harry Shottaclick to expand
Posted by rotiLolPosted by KimboSlicePosted by WarAngel79
With my gun strapped to my side, hollow points loaded.
No secrets in this chamber, just some deathly hollows.
click to expand
Just call him Harry Shottaclick to expand
@Lionheart917
You don't mind me taking plates from your BBQ and letting us guys eat do you? 😅 (Aka Posting your pictures here in the thread)
I don't eat meat but I remember the taste and it looks so good. Food is one of my safe places as a man. Carry on, fellas. Post away. You're not judged.
* my favorite food is Pizza
You don't mind me taking plates from your BBQ and letting us guys eat do you? 😅 (Aka Posting your pictures here in the thread)
I don't eat meat but I remember the taste and it looks so good. Food is one of my safe places as a man. Carry on, fellas. Post away. You're not judged.
* my favorite food is Pizza
nowadays, i feel safe/peace when my spouse is simply snoring/breathing next to me in bed. (he doesn’t snore that loudly. it’s a quiet snore) lol
i feel happy that he’s alive. and feel kinda warm inside.
cuz him snoring means he’s safe and alive lol
he’s had health issues in the past (fluid in his lungs when he was in his early twenties) and was hospitalized for it so i’m just happy/relieved that he’s alive and simply breathing next to me.
other than that, i feel peaceful when i’m relaxing in nature. or when i’m reading a book. drinking tea also calms my nerves.
i feel peaceful just knowing that my loved ones are alive and well though (family too even if i don’t get along with some of them at times 😅 lol)
i feel happy that he’s alive. and feel kinda warm inside.
cuz him snoring means he’s safe and alive lol
he’s had health issues in the past (fluid in his lungs when he was in his early twenties) and was hospitalized for it so i’m just happy/relieved that he’s alive and simply breathing next to me.
other than that, i feel peaceful when i’m relaxing in nature. or when i’m reading a book. drinking tea also calms my nerves.
i feel peaceful just knowing that my loved ones are alive and well though (family too even if i don’t get along with some of them at times 😅 lol)
I've probably said this many times, but for me it's far out in nature. Like where I know I'm likely 100% not being watched or noticed by any human. Just by nature. Also I feel even more at peace when I swim and meditate in a clean natural stream, and can feel complete disconnected from human society. I think one of my best meditative experiences was laying in a shallow stream, where I could feel the water flowing past my body, and could hear the flow of the water from my ears being underwater. Yet every now and then I'd open my eyes. I could only see the trees standing tall all round me, the blue sky, and sometimes birds flying above. All that combined with the water was probably one of the best experiences of my life tbh.
^^^hahahaha
Op I feel safe in the woods
Op I feel safe in the woods
What’s this about laying your head on her lap? More like laying your head on her boobies! 😅
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
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DM or just post in the second page
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(Special words from users' comments
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@Solo
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lol take is ez
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
Posted by neveare you kidding meeee
I found them, Aju!
Ty for including me 💗
you found them aaaalll that fast wow holy!
welldone
Posted by xxAjuxxi found “alive” lol on the very bottom line lol
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
not sure if anyone else can relate but i also find city lights and night landscapes really comforting. i sometimes like to go to bars that are on like the 40th-50th floor of a building at night and just watch the city lights and take in the night view.
i like feeling like i’m just a drop in this vast ocean of people lol my problems seem really small when i’m looking down on the city. it’s almost like time stops for a while. it’s a calming feeling.
i like watching videos like these on youtube too lol
i like feeling like i’m just a drop in this vast ocean of people lol my problems seem really small when i’m looking down on the city. it’s almost like time stops for a while. it’s a calming feeling.
i like watching videos like these on youtube too lol
Posted by IaorstA place that always brings you peace.
Safe.
Safe.
Safe. Safe. Safe.
I am struggling to imagine or remember any places where i feel or felt truly safe... free from harm, immediate or potential.
I feel calm. For a while now, i have. Like i have incidentally occupied a zen state.
A spot somewhere no one knows but you.
that kind of place. It doesn't have to be safe
logically I suppose but to your mind, it brings pause.
Posted by IaorstSafety to me means balance.
What do 'safety' and 'feeling safe' mean to you, @xxAjuxx ?
When all needs are met, that is safety to me.
Recently I did a type of shadow work on nyself
and I unlocked a sense of safety within.
A sense of power that I didn't know was here..
and its because I've healed (healing)
an old trauma that kept me unbalanced* and not
connecting me to my wholeness.
Posted by xxAjuxxI ain't gon lie.. a girl who jacks resident evil as her calm place lol a goat in my book. I can tell I'll probably be tight if I play mk with you though or something like that smh I found the answeres to
Where do you get to feel the PAUSE in the world?
Is there anything that brings you peace?
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Posted by xxAjuxxMy name is horizonal.
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
I didn't find my comfort. I did find
SOS Cali and secrets law
Posted by LostthoughtsLap? It was vertically backward.Posted by xxAjuxx
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
My name is horizonal.
I didn't find my comfort. I did find
SOS Cali and secrets lawclick to expand
Cool thing. Making it into a word search.
I almost found the whole list before I went 😵💫 …
I almost found the whole list before I went 😵💫 …
Posted by xxAjuxxI found my safe word normal, and name horizontal. It took me a good 5 minutes to find my name tbh. I found my eyes dancing around all over the place. I had to really lock in and focus for it.
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
Posted by SoulYeah yours I had to double check multiple times.Posted by xxAjuxx
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
I found my safe word normal, and name horizontal. It took me a good 5 minutes to find my name tbh. I found my eyes dancing around all over the place. I had to really lock in and focus for it.click to expand
Here's the cheat sheet lol
https://postimg.cc/SnHSKxs3
Posted by poppyflower😈
Cool thing. Making it into a word search.
I almost found the whole list before I went 😵💫 …
Here is my cheat
Cheat link:
https://postimg.cc/SnHSKxs3
Posted by xxAjuxxThanks. Now that I see what other men said it's like I've always said, 90% of dxpnet men are truly dumb lol! Not you though.Posted by SoulPosted by xxAjuxx
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
I found my safe word normal, and name horizontal. It took me a good 5 minutes to find my name tbh. I found my eyes dancing around all over the place. I had to really lock in and focus for it.
Yeah yours I had to double check multiple times.
Here's the cheat sheet lol
https://postimg.cc/SnHSKxs3click to expand
Also now that I'm feeling silly, I won't lie. You could have not added my name whatsoever, and I probably would have spent literally hours trying to find it. Luckily you're one of the good ones. I actually enjoyed this, and thank you 😊
Let's just say I saw my screen name and safe place in the word search yesterday but just kept a low profile about it. It took a good minute to find my name but the safe place was a cinch.
Posted by SoulThank you @Soul.i really appreciate thatPosted by xxAjuxxPosted by SoulPosted by xxAjuxx
Thank You for posting*
Can you find your name*?
Your Safe Place* Words are within as well.
Backwards*, Horizontal*, Normal*.
I can send cheat answers in private
DM or just post in the second page
if we get that far.
(Special words from users' comments
were used if safe place was unclear)
@Solo
@Walk_on_by
@route666aybb
@neve
@__ixi__
@Lostthoughts
@serenidad
@Soul
@WarAngel79
@roti
@Jumpin_Jupiter
@ATGR
lol take is ez
I found my safe word normal, and name horizontal. It took me a good 5 minutes to find my name tbh. I found my eyes dancing around all over the place. I had to really lock in and focus for it.
Yeah yours I had to double check multiple times.
Here's the cheat sheet lol
https://postimg.cc/SnHSKxs3
click to expand
Thanks. Now that I see what other men said it's like I've always said, 90% of dxpnet men are truly dumb lol! Not you though.
Also now that I'm feeling silly, I won't lie. You could have not added my name whatsoever, and I probably would have spent literally hours trying to find it. Luckily you're one of the good ones. I actually enjoyed this, and thank you 😊click to expand
I felt that 🙏.
I just want to help us all rise* .
There's too much
of the opposite.
Posted by __ixi__
As I've given this some more thought I realized the feeling that something/someone/someplace is safe is rooted in my ability to adjust to that thing/person/place, or it's ability to hold me when I am feeling unbalanced.
Like I appreciate Nature for what it is because it does not judge, it just is. Familiar places because I know how to operate in those spaces. My shorty's care is comforting when she is locked in and committed...because in theory if she has made it to level of partner I know that she adjusts to me and I adjust to her, we both roll with the punches and it isn't me chasing around after her nor her I.
The above is not a complete thought or a definitive one. My thoughts on this are still developing.
“Like I appreciate Nature for what it is because it does not judge, it just is.”
i think this might be why activities like solo camping is becoming popular amongst dudes right now. soooo many youtube channels like this popped up in recent years lol they’re fun to watch. i was wondering why but i definitely think nature offers an escape, a chance to reflect, unwind, shed unnecessary burden, and get back to the basics/get back to their roots for many people. i mean, humans used to live in nature so i guess it makes sense for us to seek nature on a genetic level.
and yeah, feeling adjusted in a place/person is nice. we live in a very unpredictable world and it’s nice to have a few things that are safe and predictable such as a stable partner, a cozy home to relax in, a daily routine that brings you comfort etc.
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