Posted by DamousI don't understand this part: "...lack of desire to go into situations where women I’d be interested in would be at/out into the world, period."
It definitely throws my whole shit off. Sometimes I want a girlfriend, sometimes I don’t, sometimes I wanna try an open or polyamorous relationship.
No real lack of ability. Complete lack of desire to go into situations where women I’d be interested in would be at/out into the world, period.
Certain things I need to fix with myself and my home, don’t really care to bring women around much.
Posted by macmillerWe talking about sex here... relationship or not. Do you hafta have it to be cool?
Depends. Sometimes I’m happier outside a relationship than within
Posted by tiziani"Enough experience" being with it or without it?
I don't think it does but I haven't had enough experience to really know.
Posted by DefineTruthWhat was it like to be this way?
Nah, not anymore.
Posted by macmillerHow mean, irritable, angry do you get?Posted by VenusAquariusI guessPosted by macmillerWe talking about sex here... relationship or not. Do you hafta have it to be cool?
Depends. Sometimes I’m happier outside a relationship than withinclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvLol, it's not new... some women just don't know a man. But, you're just joking.
Is that the new mangry
Posted by tizianiYou get enough to match your sex drive?Posted by VenusAquariusNot enough sex to know.Posted by tiziani"Enough experience" being with it or without it?
I don't think it does but I haven't had enough experience to really know.click to expand
Posted by IxionWhat about when single?
If the sex tap is off for a very long time while in a relationship I get cranky. I blame my Cap Rising because...why not?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWhat about when single?
Not me....
Posted by VenusAquariusVirgo moon. I can hold it in.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWhat about when single?
Not me....click to expand
Posted by AntiochusAaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
Posted by AntiochusI don't understand this part:Posted by VenusAquariusFor me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.Posted by AntiochusAaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
What other outlets though?
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusLIBRA?!Posted by tizianiYou get enough to match your sex drive?Posted by VenusAquariusNot enough sex to know.Posted by tiziani"Enough experience" being with it or without it?
I don't think it does but I haven't had enough experience to really know.click to expand
Posted by AntiochusThat sounds gay....jk.Posted by VenusAquariusSex, love, relationship etc.Posted by AntiochusI don't understand this part:Posted by VenusAquariusFor me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.Posted by AntiochusAaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
What other outlets though?
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
They are more brotherhood oriented and don't put that much focus on finding an SO.click to expand
Posted by AntiochusThanks!Posted by VenusAquariusInterest in those topic on a personal level is pretty low. They are way more interesting to me as concepts and general tendencies.Posted by AntiochusThat sounds gay....jk.Posted by VenusAquariusSex, love, relationship etc.Posted by AntiochusI don't understand this part:Posted by VenusAquariusFor me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.Posted by AntiochusAaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
What other outlets though?
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
They are more brotherhood oriented and don't put that much focus on finding an SO.
But, you don't have to loose interest, right?
What's your Sun and Mars Mr. Brotherhood?
Aqua sun, Sag Mars.click to expand
Posted by hydorahMen are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Posted by tizianiPosted by hydorahIt's about finding the sweet spot between the two for me.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hydorahMen are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.click to expand
Posted by hydorahtrue for me...I've done this and I really had to just stop looking at women altogether in order to function....
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Posted by hydorahCausation vs. correlation.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hydorahMen are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.
rage is caused by the over exploitation of males in physical and stressful works, like mine digging, military, farming, etc...
This happens within the neolithic revolution that was the invention of the city and the transformation of humans into cattle.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by hydorahI was just rabbit hole thinking because of experience with angry chasing, stalking, flirting.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Also, my lil Pisces has a Sag angry flirting w/ her... square attraction, I guess.
We're married and my Virgo gets this way and he masturbates.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYes ma'am.Posted by hydorahMen are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.click to expand
Posted by hydorahRead again... he gets cranky even though. It turns me on that he masturbates and would love it if he did in front of me (one day, I will have my way). So, anyway, still gets cranky.
yes, married men masturbate. Just accept it.
If your husband doesn't masturbate, he's probably either gay or a serial killer
Posted by Antiochus1st, how old are ya? I need to be age appropriate.Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusThanks!Posted by VenusAquariusInterest in those topic on a personal level is pretty low. They are way more interesting to me as concepts and general tendencies.Posted by AntiochusThat sounds gay....jk.Posted by VenusAquariusSex, love, relationship etc.Posted by AntiochusI don't understand this part:Posted by VenusAquariusFor me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.Posted by AntiochusAaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
What other outlets though?
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
They are more brotherhood oriented and don't put that much focus on finding an SO.
But, you don't have to loose interest, right?
What's your Sun and Mars Mr. Brotherhood?
Aqua sun, Sag Mars.
Y'all Aquas is sumpin else. I like breaking down that Aqua ego. Sun in exaltation vs. Sun in detriment.
What do you mean by breaking down?click to expand
Posted by DefineTruthYeah, that in house. LOL!Posted by VenusAquarius1. I dunno, a regular Sunday?Posted by DefineTruthWhat was it like to be this way?
Nah, not anymore.
What changed? You got some in house now?
2. I take care of myself and have other things to keep me busy and focused elsewhere.
3. Yep.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneAbsolutely. That's worse than sex.
If you want to watch a sane steady man derail into a wailing lunatic don't withhold sex, withhold food.
I give it 3 hours.
Posted by ArkansassyYou are Aqua Mars and what Venus? Oh, Leo... hmm.
No
Posted by ArkansassyLeo Venus?Posted by VenusAquariusAqua MarsPosted by ArkansassyYou are Aqua Mars and what Venus? Oh, Leo... hmm.
Noclick to expand
Posted by LibraSupremeRespect.
I have my phases. I can go a week without penetration but fool around for the attention without getting an attitude. With work I can get in my own head so to be a giver to her can solve two birds with one stone. I can be an attention monster 1 month and the next absorbed by a hobby. Erotica can keep my attention with a little drawn out reward is close to the perfect scenario.
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