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@VenusAquarius
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Mens, Does Lack of Sex Make You Angry, Irritable, Mean?
Posted by Damous
It definitely throws my whole shit off. Sometimes I want a girlfriend, sometimes I don’t, sometimes I wanna try an open or polyamorous relationship.
No real lack of ability. Complete lack of desire to go into situations where women I’d be interested in would be at/out into the world, period.
Certain things I need to fix with myself and my home, don’t really care to bring women around much.
I don't understand this part: "...lack of desire to go into situations where women I’d be interested in would be at/out into the world, period."
I feel like men who don’t enjoy sex are serial
Killers.
Killers.
Posted by macmiller
Depends. Sometimes I’m happier outside a relationship than within
We talking about sex here... relationship or not. Do you hafta have it to be cool?
Posted by tiziani
I don't think it does but I haven't had enough experience to really know.
"Enough experience" being with it or without it?
Posted by DefineTruth
Nah, not anymore.
What was it like to be this way?
What changed? You got some in house now?
Posted by macmillerPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by macmiller
Depends. Sometimes I’m happier outside a relationship than within
We talking about sex here... relationship or not. Do you hafta have it to be cool?
I guessclick to expand
How mean, irritable, angry do you get?
Posted by Impulsv
Is that the new mangry
Lol, it's not new... some women just don't know a man. But, you're just joking.
Not me....
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tiziani
I don't think it does but I haven't had enough experience to really know.
"Enough experience" being with it or without it?
Not enough sex to know.click to expand
You get enough to match your sex drive?
Posted by Ixion
If the sex tap is off for a very long time while in a relationship I get cranky. I blame my Cap Rising because...why not?
What about when single?
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Not me....
What about when single?click to expand
Virgo moon. I can hold it in.
That's a yes.
Posted by Antiochus
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
Aaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
What other outlets though?
Posted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Antiochus
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
Aaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
What other outlets though?
For me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.click to expand
I don't understand this part:
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tiziani
I don't think it does but I haven't had enough experience to really know.
"Enough experience" being with it or without it?
Not enough sex to know.
You get enough to match your sex drive?click to expand
LIBRA?!
Posted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Antiochus
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
Aaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
What other outlets though?
For me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.
I don't understand this part:
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
Sex, love, relationship etc.
They are more brotherhood oriented and don't put that much focus on finding an SO.click to expand
That sounds gay....jk.
But, you don't have to loose interest, right?
What's your Sun and Mars Mr. Brotherhood?
Posted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Antiochus
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
Aaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
What other outlets though?
For me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.
I don't understand this part:
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
Sex, love, relationship etc.
They are more brotherhood oriented and don't put that much focus on finding an SO.
That sounds gay....jk.
But, you don't have to loose interest, right?
What's your Sun and Mars Mr. Brotherhood?
Interest in those topic on a personal level is pretty low. They are way more interesting to me as concepts and general tendencies.
Aqua sun, Sag Mars.click to expand
Thanks!
Y'all Aquas is sumpin else. I like breaking down that Aqua ego. Sun in exaltation vs. Sun in detriment.
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
I'm talking about straight folks, I don't know how gays work
this last post wasn't mean toward you tiziani, lol, you ninja'ed my post
It does for me. I'm very entitled once I start getting good sex on the reg.
Posted by hydorah
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Men are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.
Posted by tizianiPosted by hydorah
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
It's about finding the sweet spot between the two for me.click to expand
there's definitely a sweet spot (no pun intended) to be reached.
too much sex turns you into a pessimistic, worn out, empty shell of a man. Not enough turns you into an overly excited optimistic beta orbiter.
It's literally the difference betwen ands and firebunny
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hydorah
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Men are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.click to expand
rage is caused by the over exploitation of males in physical and stressful works, like mine digging, military, farming, etc...
This happens within the neolithic revolution that was the invention of the city and the transformation of humans into cattle.
Posted by hydorah
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
true for me...I've done this and I really had to just stop looking at women altogether in order to function....
Posted by hydorahPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hydorah
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Men are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.
rage is caused by the over exploitation of males in physical and stressful works, like mine digging, military, farming, etc...
This happens within the neolithic revolution that was the invention of the city and the transformation of humans into cattle.click to expand
Causation vs. correlation.
Testosterone plays zero into this in your mind I guess.
Because only men have stress from physical and stressful work. Right. That 30% more pay must help out a teeny tiny bit.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by hydorah
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
I was just rabbit hole thinking because of experience with angry chasing, stalking, flirting.
Also, my lil Pisces has a Sag angry flirting w/ her... square attraction, I guess.
We're married and my Virgo gets this way and he masturbates.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hydorah
1-masturbation is very common amongst the male population, and that's why men are generally less moody than females
2-lack of sex for a male doesn't make him cranky and irritable. The sexual hormones build up in the system and get to his head and they tend to actually make him more adventurous '( in every meaning of the term) and also more romantically inclined.
If a man stops having sex/masturbating for a few weeks to months he'll reach a point where every woman will appear extremely pretty and lovable to him and that will become a great distraction in everyday life.
Release by sex or masturbation puts an end to this madness and create a temporary state when the male can be intellectually focused and absolutely lucid.
Men are less moody than females because of biology and chemical makeup of the male body vs. female body. Not because of masturbation. Nice theory tho.
What men lack in moodiness they make up for in other emotions, notably rage.click to expand
Yes ma'am.
yes, married men masturbate. Just accept it.
If your husband doesn't masturbate, he's probably either gay or a serial killer
If your husband doesn't masturbate, he's probably either gay or a serial killer
Posted by hydorah
yes, married men masturbate. Just accept it.
If your husband doesn't masturbate, he's probably either gay or a serial killer
Read again... he gets cranky even though. It turns me on that he masturbates and would love it if he did in front of me (one day, I will have my way). So, anyway, still gets cranky.
I'm 24 years in this... with street miles... "yes, married men masturbate." Geeez.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AntiochusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Antiochus
No, not at all.
All that is needed is another outlet to express that tension.
Aaaah but the tension does exist. You funnel it before it becomes a tude or emotion.
What other outlets though?
For me it's working out, kickbox training and reading or just intellectual things in general.
I think tension was the wrong word. Abundance of energy would be more precise I think.
One source I found once pointed out that Mars dominant men withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy. This in turn puts them under a lot of internal pressure because that energy needs to find a healthy and productive way to be expressed. I think that fit's it quite well.
I don't understand this part:
"....withhold a lot of that energy by not being very interested in women and giving them that energy."
What do you mean by "withhold" and not giving women that energy?
Sex, love, relationship etc.
They are more brotherhood oriented and don't put that much focus on finding an SO.
That sounds gay....jk.
But, you don't have to loose interest, right?
What's your Sun and Mars Mr. Brotherhood?
Interest in those topic on a personal level is pretty low. They are way more interesting to me as concepts and general tendencies.
Aqua sun, Sag Mars.
Thanks!
Y'all Aquas is sumpin else. I like breaking down that Aqua ego. Sun in exaltation vs. Sun in detriment.
What do you mean by breaking down?click to expand
1st, how old are ya? I need to be age appropriate.
Posted by DefineTruthPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by DefineTruth
Nah, not anymore.
What was it like to be this way?
What changed? You got some in house now?
1. I dunno, a regular Sunday?
2. I take care of myself and have other things to keep me busy and focused elsewhere.
3. Yep.click to expand
Yeah, that in house. LOL!
If you want to watch a sane steady man derail into a wailing lunatic don't withhold sex, withhold food.
I give it 3 hours.
I give it 3 hours.
Posted by LadyNeptune
If you want to watch a sane steady man derail into a wailing lunatic don't withhold sex, withhold food.
I give it 3 hours.
Absolutely. That's worse than sex.
There was a bomb shelter under one of my previous jobs and everybody thought it was sooo cool.
Sheeeet, not me. I rather die at my desk.
Posted by ArkansassyPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Arkansassy
No
You are Aqua Mars and what Venus? Oh, Leo... hmm.
Aqua Marsclick to expand
Leo Venus?
I have my phases. I can go a week without penetration but fool around for the attention without getting an attitude. With work I can get in my own head so to be a giver to her can solve two birds with one stone. I can be an attention monster 1 month and the next absorbed by a hobby. Erotica can keep my attention with a little drawn out reward is close to the perfect scenario.
Posted by LibraSupreme
I have my phases. I can go a week without penetration but fool around for the attention without getting an attitude. With work I can get in my own head so to be a giver to her can solve two birds with one stone. I can be an attention monster 1 month and the next absorbed by a hobby. Erotica can keep my attention with a little drawn out reward is close to the perfect scenario.
Respect.
You bein real.
I do have to have it. I can go a day... maybe two without. Then I get cranky. I perform better in gym with a little abstinence, but if I have partners and I’m not getting any I tend to retreat and get grumpy....
As for sex. It feels good but I like to please so it’s more of a power thing than the act of doing it. I hate going days without because the first round will be over quick.
As for sex. It feels good but I like to please so it’s more of a power thing than the act of doing it. I hate going days without because the first round will be over quick.
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