Is it odd for a guy (who has only known a woman for a short span of time) to wish to have raw sex with her? And...then ejaculate inside with no qualms? Is this a normal behavior of American culture or...wtf? I was surprised to hear this and I'm curious. I did ask him and I don't really accept his answer fully. Do tell. Give me the cold and hard truth please.
Thanks for your responses. Well, I totally understand where you all are coming from. I could actually relate. I guess I should've included a few deets. 1) We haven't had sex and we are both waiting until we are ready. He is not sexually forward and is very controlled/leveled. There have been a few times where passions were heavy and he probably could have had it but we both had to immediately separate in order to stay true to our word. 2)Trust me, he doesn't need to manipulate in that manner in order to get some raw sex. He's very very attractive (physically, mentally and financially) and women practically throw themselves at him. 3) He is the type to say what he means and mean what he says, without cutting cards. We can jjust about talk about anything with complete honesty and truth, without holding back. Lol, he doesn't want to get me pregnant nor do I want to be pregnant [fact].
But I guess you all helped me figure it out and maybe I just need to accept it and stop looking for trouble. His reasoning was that he wanted to be as close to me as humanly possible. Sometimes I don't believe how sweet he is because he's so rough around the edges. Plus I guess I'm recovering from a bad situation and I need to get used to it and accept it as complete truth.
Oh. And he's not really a true American (but he's been here for years so I figured he's acclimated to the same cultural socialism).
Ummm...O-k! *slowly nods my head*