Riddle me this

This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by runthejewels on Tuesday, July 14, 2015 and has 6 replies.
Is it odd for a guy (who has only known a woman for a short span of time) to wish to have raw sex with her? And...then ejaculate inside with no qualms? Is this a normal behavior of American culture or...wtf? I was surprised to hear this and I'm curious. I did ask him and I don't really accept his answer fully. Do tell. Give me the cold and hard truth please.
Posted by runthejewels
Is it odd for a guy (who has only known a woman for a short span of time) to wish to have raw sex with her? And...then ejaculate inside with no qualms? Is this a normal behavior of American culture or...wtf? I was surprised to hear this and I'm curious. I did ask him and I don't really accept his answer fully. Do tell. Give me the cold and hard truth please.

Yes it is common.
It is-
Commonly stated publicly. [[Through tech media; a tad less common in person]]
And since young men believe their own attraction-value through the response of females, they will go to drastic measures to get it from her. Then he will show it off to his mates.
That is, if he is serious about his offer. If not serious, then he was probably just saying something 'drastic' to show off how 'spontaneous' his personality is to you.
It is the country of a lot of shows, after all. Has its advantages and disadvantages but TongueP some people just eat it up.

Really depends on all the context around
his statement, though.
Thanks for your responses. Well, I totally understand where you all are coming from. I could actually relate. I guess I should've included a few deets. 1) We haven't had sex and we are both waiting until we are ready. He is not sexually forward and is very controlled/leveled. There have been a few times where passions were heavy and he probably could have had it but we both had to immediately separate in order to stay true to our word. 2)Trust me, he doesn't need to manipulate in that manner in order to get some raw sex. He's very very attractive (physically, mentally and financially) and women practically throw themselves at him. 3) He is the type to say what he means and mean what he says, without cutting cards. We can jjust about talk about anything with complete honesty and truth, without holding back. Lol, he doesn't want to get me pregnant nor do I want to be pregnant [fact].

But I guess you all helped me figure it out and maybe I just need to accept it and stop looking for trouble. His reasoning was that he wanted to be as close to me as humanly possible. Sometimes I don't believe how sweet he is because he's so rough around the edges. Plus I guess I'm recovering from a bad situation and I need to get used to it and accept it as complete truth.
Oh. And he's not really a true American (but he's been here for years so I figured he's acclimated to the same cultural socialism).
Posted by LillyBlossom
"I want to get you pregnant" is NOT a compliment. And many American men are sluts.

As are American women. Men will call a woman on it beforehand, women call a man on it after he fails to call them back. Then they sit at home cramming their face full of ice cream and decide to live a lonely life with cats. Big Grin
Ummm...O-k! *slowly nods my head*