Posted by bonoboThat can’t happen until he physically assaults someone according to the landlord.
Kick him out, majority rules.
Unless he's on the lease, then move out.
Posted by BumboklaatThe other housemates are scared of him
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.
The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.
If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.
Posted by MyStarsShineYou answered it in your other post, what are they gonna do? I guess if there are women in the house the police might take action but still not likely that they will do shit. And then you've given him more power because he's seen the police turn up and do nothing. And he's pissed at you.
Thanks guys
Wouldn’t any of ye file a police report against him? What if he does it again?
Posted by MyStarsShineWhat about the landlord? If everyone talked individually with the landlord about it. Seems reasonable, although I know there are so many unreasonable people. If they can tolerate it, its not gonna go away.Posted by Bumboklaat
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.
The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.
If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.
The other housemates are scared of him
and won’t take action….click to expand
Posted by WeedsBingo! 😃🤣
file a missing person report. then buy some tomato plants.
Posted by BumboklaatLandlord won’t do anything about itPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Bumboklaat
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.
The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.
If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.
The other housemates are scared of him
and won’t take action….
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What about the landlord? If everyone talked individually with the landlord about it. Seems reasonable, although I know there are so many unreasonable people. If they can tolerate it, its not gonna go away.click to expand
Posted by Walk_on_byIn what way?
Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.
Posted by MyStarsShineIt things get physical and someone gets hurt, idk I'm not a lawyerPosted by Walk_on_by
Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.
In what way?click to expand
Posted by Walk_on_byOkay thanksPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Walk_on_by
Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.
In what way?
It things get physical and someone gets hurt, idk I'm not a lawyerclick to expand
Posted by Stony😃Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
Really depends on my mood that day and how much has actually gone on. Usually people can talk all kinds of shit to me without me wanting to get physical. I'm not a fighter for the most part. I would likely get loud back immediately tho. If on a bad day, that switch in my head is flipping as soon as I hear a threat against me.
If everyone is afraid to confront him and the landlord won't do anything, I would try to plan a time to meet with my other housemates and we could each tie a bar of soap in a sock and beat that motherfucker up. No 1 on 1s given. Everyone beat his ass into a corner and keep going. You could do this with almost anything. Treat it like fucking (US) jail if the dude doesn't wanna respect the house. There's also the option of jumping him while he's asleep if you wanna get REALLY grimy. Start breaking his stuff/car whenever possible (although you obviously run the risk of him doing it back). Piss on his toothbrush. Groom my pubic hair with it. Eat his food. Steal from him in general (hide somewhere completely unrelated to you, we don't want cop calling and searches of your objects only to find his stuff in a bookbag in the house or something). Take a pebble and press it against the tire inflation spots on his car. Don't straight up flatten them, but let out a lot of air of each one. Make sure to put the caps on again. Dump any trash you have onto his bed so he can enjoy his mess.click to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterWould you risk going down for an idiot?
Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.
Posted by alexscariesI like this👍Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
I just look at people who make threats, let them have a heart attack not me. More to the point people who make threats of violence rarely do it.
If it's an option I would move.click to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra7How would you do this, LuckyLibra?
It doesn't necessarily have to get physical, but you're going to have to challenge him and call his bluff. There's no way I'm paying rent somewhere and another person is threatening me in my own house.
Posted by MyStarsShineSit him down and let him know he's gotta chill out. Give a brief explanation that we all have shit going on and his behavior is affecting different things.Posted by LuckyLibra7
It doesn't necessarily have to get physical, but you're going to have to challenge him and call his bluff. There's no way I'm paying rent somewhere and another person is threatening me in my own house.
How would you do this, LuckyLibra?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineI mean if push come to shove to the point of self defense I'll have my shootin iron get involve. I would try everything in my power to not let it escalate to that extinct. Though I wouldn't do what I would do if I were you. It's best to skip my post and listen to the others.Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.
Would you risk going down for an idiot?click to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterThankfully it’s not me….I live in the land of peace 💚Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.
Would you risk going down for an idiot?
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I mean if push come to shove to the point of self defense I'll have my shootin iron get involve. I would try everything in my power to not let it escalate to that extinct. Though I wouldn't do what I would do if I were you. It's best to skip my post and listen to the others.click to expand
Posted by failedd😈😬
Kill him with a knife when he is sleeping. 🤫
Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownThankfully there is!
This sucks.
There is no solution.
Posted by MyStarsShineI would talk to him face to face.
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
Posted by xxAjuxxAll of that has been done thanks Aju🙏Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
I would talk to him face to face.
Blunt but not polarizing.
Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?
I've done it on violent neighbors and they..
It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨
I would do that after. I talked.
.I would do this after.
Or....
I would talk to him face to face first.
And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.
It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,
guidance from those on the other side.
So I would always go to him facebto face
And have spirit get involved.
Either through prayer or banish*.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineOh okPosted by xxAjuxxPosted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
I would talk to him face to face.
Blunt but not polarizing.
Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?
I've done it on violent neighbors and they..
It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨
I would do that after. I talked.
.I would do this after.
Or....
I would talk to him face to face first.
And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.
It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,
guidance from those on the other side.
So I would always go to him facebto face
And have spirit get involved.
Either through prayer or banish*.
All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏
He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.
For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…click to expand
Posted by xxAjuxxThe guy it’s happening to is very strong so i think it’ll be okay Aju 👍🙏Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by xxAjuxxPosted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
I would talk to him face to face.
Blunt but not polarizing.
Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?
I've done it on violent neighbors and they..
It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨
I would do that after. I talked.
.I would do this after.
Or....
I would talk to him face to face first.
And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.
It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,
guidance from those on the other side.
So I would always go to him facebto face
And have spirit get involved.
Either through prayer or banish*.
All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏
He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.
For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…
click to expand
Oh ok
I'm really sorry though,Stars.
Home is supposed to feel safe
not run by a barbarian.
Life is already stress because of bills
and constant pressure. Why add more to others?
People say they hate headaches but be that
to someone else.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineOkPosted by xxAjuxxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by xxAjuxxPosted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
I would talk to him face to face.
Blunt but not polarizing.
Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?
I've done it on violent neighbors and they..
It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨
I would do that after. I talked.
.I would do this after.
Or....
I would talk to him face to face first.
And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.
It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,
guidance from those on the other side.
So I would always go to him facebto face
And have spirit get involved.
Either through prayer or banish*.
All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏
He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.
For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…
click to expand
Oh ok
I'm really sorry though,Stars.
Home is supposed to feel safe
not run by a barbarian.
Life is already stress because of bills
and constant pressure. Why add more to others?
People say they hate headaches but be that
to someone else.
click to expand
The guy it’s happening to is very strong so i think it’ll be okay Aju 👍🙏click to expand
Posted by xxAjuxxOh thank you Aju….I’d appreciate that!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by xxAjuxxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by xxAjuxxPosted by MyStarsShine
…Action
This is for the men of Dxp
If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?
This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.
What would you do?
Thanks ⭐️
I would talk to him face to face.
Blunt but not polarizing.
Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?
I've done it on violent neighbors and they..
It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨
I would do that after. I talked.
.I would do this after.
Or....
I would talk to him face to face first.
And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.
It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,
guidance from those on the other side.
So I would always go to him facebto face
And have spirit get involved.
Either through prayer or banish*.
All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏
He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.
For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…
click to expand
Oh ok
I'm really sorry though,Stars.
Home is supposed to feel safe
not run by a barbarian.
Life is already stress because of bills
and constant pressure. Why add more to others?
People say they hate headaches but be that
to someone else.
click to expand
The guy it’s happening to is very strong so i think it’ll be okay Aju 👍🙏
click to expand
Ok
Let me know too
If you'd like me to add my prayer too?
It always works.
I know this situation will be better though🙏click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineFiling a police report may may not helpPosted by Bumboklaat
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.
The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.
If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.
The other housemates are scared of him
and won’t take action….click to expand