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This is for the men of Dxp

If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?

This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.

What would you do?

Thanks ⭐️

Depends if he's bigger and stronger than me or if he's in a situation where he's got nothing to lose and I have a lot to lose by engaging in a physical altercation. Like he will call the cops If I have to fight and get me in shit but he's already fucking lowlife so it wont effect him as much, am I going to get hurt. If all that is the case I'll just leave.

If not then just stand up to him he's probably a pussy, I'm guessing the former is the scenario here otherwise he would have already been put in his place.

Thanks guys

Wouldn’t any of ye file a police report against him? What if he does it again?

Posted by bonobo
Kick him out, majority rules.


Unless he's on the lease, then move out.

That can’t happen until he physically assaults someone according to the landlord.

Posted by Bumboklaat
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.


The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.


If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.

The other housemates are scared of him

and won’t take action….

Posted by MyStarsShine
Thanks guys

Wouldn’t any of ye file a police report against him? What if he does it again?

You answered it in your other post, what are they gonna do? I guess if there are women in the house the police might take action but still not likely that they will do shit. And then you've given him more power because he's seen the police turn up and do nothing. And he's pissed at you.

Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.

file a missing person report. then buy some tomato plants.

Posted by Weeds
file a missing person report. then buy some tomato plants.

Bingo! 😃🤣

Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Bumboklaat
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.

The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.

If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.

The other housemates are scared of him

and won’t take action….
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What about the landlord? If everyone talked individually with the landlord about it. Seems reasonable, although I know there are so many unreasonable people. If they can tolerate it, its not gonna go away.

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Landlord won’t do anything about it

Seems the housemates are cowardly and just tolerate him

Yes you’re right, it won’t go away.

Posted by Walk_on_by
Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.

In what way?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Walk_on_by
Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.

In what way?

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It things get physical and someone gets hurt, idk I'm not a lawyer

Posted by Walk_on_by

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Walk_on_by
Actually calling the cops could start a paper trail to get you out of trouble.

In what way?

It things get physical and someone gets hurt, idk I'm not a lawyer

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Okay thanks

So calling the police would be a good move as in for protection?

Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.

Posted by Stony

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action

This is for the men of Dxp

If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?

This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.

What would you do?

Thanks ⭐️

Really depends on my mood that day and how much has actually gone on. Usually people can talk all kinds of shit to me without me wanting to get physical. I'm not a fighter for the most part. I would likely get loud back immediately tho. If on a bad day, that switch in my head is flipping as soon as I hear a threat against me.


If everyone is afraid to confront him and the landlord won't do anything, I would try to plan a time to meet with my other housemates and we could each tie a bar of soap in a sock and beat that motherfucker up. No 1 on 1s given. Everyone beat his ass into a corner and keep going. You could do this with almost anything. Treat it like fucking (US) jail if the dude doesn't wanna respect the house. There's also the option of jumping him while he's asleep if you wanna get REALLY grimy. Start breaking his stuff/car whenever possible (although you obviously run the risk of him doing it back). Piss on his toothbrush. Groom my pubic hair with it. Eat his food. Steal from him in general (hide somewhere completely unrelated to you, we don't want cop calling and searches of your objects only to find his stuff in a bookbag in the house or something). Take a pebble and press it against the tire inflation spots on his car. Don't straight up flatten them, but let out a lot of air of each one. Make sure to put the caps on again. Dump any trash you have onto his bed so he can enjoy his mess.

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😃

Is a moron like that worth doing time for?

The chances are you’d get arrested Stony ?

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.

Would you risk going down for an idiot?

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action

This is for the men of Dxp

If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?

This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.

What would you do?

Thanks ⭐️

I just look at people who make threats, let them have a heart attack not me. More to the point people who make threats of violence rarely do it.


If it's an option I would move.

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I like this👍

To brawl with a moron kind of brings yourself down to his level ….

Yes I’ve heard many times about the ones who threaten don’t usually carry it out

Personally I’d choose black magic ….. 😈

Joking of course 😅

Good over comes evil and all that …

It doesn't necessarily have to get physical, but you're going to have to challenge him and call his bluff. There's no way I'm paying rent somewhere and another person is threatening me in my own house.

Posted by LuckyLibra7
It doesn't necessarily have to get physical, but you're going to have to challenge him and call his bluff. There's no way I'm paying rent somewhere and another person is threatening me in my own house.

How would you do this, LuckyLibra?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by LuckyLibra7
It doesn't necessarily have to get physical, but you're going to have to challenge him and call his bluff. There's no way I'm paying rent somewhere and another person is threatening me in my own house.

How would you do this, LuckyLibra?

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Sit him down and let him know he's gotta chill out. Give a brief explanation that we all have shit going on and his behavior is affecting different things.

His response leads to two choices:

1. Majority rules and he needs to move out

2. Me being threatened in my own house and now I tell him to step outside.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.

Would you risk going down for an idiot?

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I mean if push come to shove to the point of self defense I'll have my shootin iron get involve. I would try everything in my power to not let it escalate to that extinct. Though I wouldn't do what I would do if I were you. It's best to skip my post and listen to the others.

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Threaten to bash my pretty face in? I will tell him to go ahead and try it and see if you won't lose that hand. Nobody threatens me and think they gone get away with it. No law enforcements involve. All nice and legal.

Would you risk going down for an idiot?
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I mean if push come to shove to the point of self defense I'll have my shootin iron get involve. I would try everything in my power to not let it escalate to that extinct. Though I wouldn't do what I would do if I were you. It's best to skip my post and listen to the others.

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Thankfully it’s not me….I live in the land of peace 💚

Posted by failedd
Kill him with a knife when he is sleeping. 🤫

😈😬

This sucks.

There is no solution.

Update::

The guy who was threatened called in the Police and they visited the thug and told him

if he went anywhere near the housemate, instant arrest! They were amazing and for such a non physical crime spent a lot of time and energy on it.

They are taking him to Court….he has been getting away with shitty behaviour for so long and now he gets his karma!

Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
This sucks.

There is no solution.

Thankfully there is!

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action


This is for the men of Dxp


If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?


This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.


What would you do?


Thanks ⭐️

I would talk to him face to face.

Blunt but not polarizing.

Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?

I've done it on violent neighbors and they..

It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨

I would do that after. I talked.

.I would do this after.

Or....



I would talk to him face to face first.

And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.

It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,

guidance from those on the other side.

So I would always go to him facebto face

And have spirit get involved.

Either through prayer or banish*.

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action


This is for the men of Dxp


If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?


This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.


What would you do?


Thanks ⭐️

I would talk to him face to face.

Blunt but not polarizing.

Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?

I've done it on violent neighbors and they..
It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨

I would do that after. I talked.
.I would do this after.

Or....


I would talk to him face to face first.

And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.

It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,
guidance from those on the other side.

So I would always go to him facebto face

And have spirit get involved.
Either through prayer or banish*.

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All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏

He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.

For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action


This is for the men of Dxp


If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?


This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.


What would you do?


Thanks ⭐️

I would talk to him face to face.


Blunt but not polarizing.


Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?


I've done it on violent neighbors and they..

It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨


I would do that after. I talked.

.I would do this after.


Or....



I would talk to him face to face first.


And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.


It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,

guidance from those on the other side.


So I would always go to him facebto face


And have spirit get involved.

Either through prayer or banish*.

All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏
He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.
For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…

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Oh ok

I'm really sorry though,Stars.

Home is supposed to feel safe

not run by a barbarian.

Life is already stress because of bills

and constant pressure. Why add more to others?

People say they hate headaches but be that

to someone else.

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action

This is for the men of Dxp

If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?

This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.

What would you do?

Thanks ⭐️

I would talk to him face to face.



Blunt but not polarizing.



Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?



I've done it on violent neighbors and they..


It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨



I would do that after. I talked.


.I would do this after.



Or....



I would talk to him face to face first.



And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.



It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,


guidance from those on the other side.



So I would always go to him facebto face



And have spirit get involved.


Either through prayer or banish*.

All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏

He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.

For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…

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Oh ok


I'm really sorry though,Stars.


Home is supposed to feel safe

not run by a barbarian.


Life is already stress because of bills

and constant pressure. Why add more to others?


People say they hate headaches but be that

to someone else.

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The guy it’s happening to is very strong so i think it’ll be okay Aju 👍🙏

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action

This is for the men of Dxp

If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?

This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.

What would you do?

Thanks ⭐️

I would talk to him face to face.


Blunt but not polarizing.


Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?


I've done it on violent neighbors and they..

It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨


I would do that after. I talked.

.I would do this after.


Or....


I would talk to him face to face first.


And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.


It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,

guidance from those on the other side.


So I would always go to him facebto face


And have spirit get involved.

Either through prayer or banish*.

All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏

He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.

For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…

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Oh ok

I'm really sorry though,Stars.

Home is supposed to feel safe

not run by a barbarian.

Life is already stress because of bills

and constant pressure. Why add more to others?

People say they hate headaches but be that

to someone else.

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The guy it’s happening to is very strong so i think it’ll be okay Aju 👍🙏

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Ok

Let me know too

If you'd like me to add my prayer too?

It always works.

I know this situation will be better though🙏

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MyStarsShine
…Action

This is for the men of Dxp

If a house mate who was aggressive to you and other residents, threatened to smash your face in, how would you respond? Would you back down and not do anything, call the police, take him to court, stand up to him, etc?

This guy is disruptive and keeps the housemates awake at night, is loud, messy, and a pain in the arse. The other housemates allow him to behave badly and don’t challenge his bad behaviour.

What would you do?

Thanks ⭐️

I would talk to him face to face.

Blunt but not polarizing.

Have you done a banish on someone , Stars?

I've done it on violent neighbors and they..

It worked is all I'll say. 🤭😨

I would do that after. I talked.

.I would do this after.

Or....

I would talk to him face to face first.

And then after say a sacred prayer on the issue.

It always always gets resolved when I ask for help,

guidance from those on the other side.

So I would always go to him facebto face

And have spirit get involved.

Either through prayer or banish*.

All of that has been done thanks Aju🙏

He’s a guy that never listens, is stubborn beyond measure and can’t be reasoned with.

For 2 years+ he has behaved very badly with no regard for others. I think now the Police are involved he will watch his behaviour. As I said above they are waiting to arrest him if he puts another foot wrong…

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Oh ok

I'm really sorry though,Stars.

Home is supposed to feel safe

not run by a barbarian.

Life is already stress because of bills

and constant pressure. Why add more to others?

People say they hate headaches but be that

to someone else.

click to expand

The guy it’s happening to is very strong so i think it’ll be okay Aju 👍🙏
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Ok


Let me know too

If you'd like me to add my prayer too?


It always works.


I know this situation will be better though🙏

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Oh thank you Aju….I’d appreciate that!

❤️

I sense it’ll turn out good too 🤗

@ xxAjuxx

I’ve lit this candle for peace, health and wealth

If you want I can send you some of the the energy from it as a thank you 🙏💚

Thanks to all you gents who posted on this thread … I really appreciate your time and input …

It’s good to get a male view on these matters

🙏💚

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Bumboklaat
Those are tough situations because there are many people involved. First I would try to talk to the other housemates or the owner/landlord. I would avoid all direct contact if possible with the arse cause usually those people are like tantrum throwing toddlers still stuck in that phase of emotional development.

The problem is not so much the one person but the collective that can't come to an agreement. Because there are always those kinds of people, and can't wait for a hero.

If I had to defend myself directly then of course I would take it to the end. I've actually had many bad neighbors and tried different methods, the best so far is to talk it out with the other neighbors and come up with a plan, and if not, then I move.

The other housemates are scared of him

and won’t take action….

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Filing a police report may may not help

Best is he look after himself and look for another place.

Damn you've got some good cops over there