Why do guys automatically assume that if a girl begins to lose interest
This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by whatisthisallabout on Monday, January 23, 2017 and has 27 replies.
it is because she felt he likes her too much? Please discuss.
Posted by P6X58DEWould you elaborate more?
She has hang ups, rather easy to see there.
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
Posted by SeraphlightExactly. It can be a number of things (e.g. personality clash).
Well it could be that he liked her too much. Or other things about him.
I think it is interesting that the guy just assumes that it is because she knew he likes her.
Posted by firebunnyReally? That's what you think too?
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
Posted by SeraphlightWould you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?Posted by whatisthisallaboutYa then I assume he is a psycho!Posted by firebunnyReally? That's what you think too?
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.click to expand
Posted by BuffaloBills28What is so funny?
"I just feel somethings off to be honest" lolll.
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis is genuis! Haven't thought about that. I think it is possible.
It sounds like that dude was saying it as a defense mechanism. Almost like he wanted to be corrected and assured the feeling was mutual or told it was a reason aside from that.
Just like when a beautiful girl asking a guy, is it because I am not beautiful so you don't like me? waiting for the guy to say, no no no you are the most beautiful girl I have met. something like that?
Posted by BuffaloBills28GotchaPosted by whatisthisallaboutShe's not interested, but the way she said it was pretty amusing. Nice girl who doesn't want to hurt anybodies feelings.Posted by BuffaloBills28What is so funny?
"I just feel somethings off to be honest" lolll.click to expand
Posted by PeanutButterandEllySpot on! the guy has mercuy in Pisces. Impressed!!Posted by whatisthisallaboutYeah pretty much.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis is genuis! Haven't thought about that. I think it is possible.
It sounds like that dude was saying it as a defense mechanism. Almost like he wanted to be corrected and assured the feeling was mutual or told it was a reason aside from that.
Just like when a beautiful girl asking a guy, is it because I am not beautiful so you don't like me? waiting for the guy to say, no no no you are the most beautiful girl I have met. something like that?
Water mercs do it a lot. Mercury in Gemini/Virgo do to a lesser extent as well.click to expand
cause the less ur into a girl the more she wants you
this is relationships 101
this is relationships 101
Posted by OphiuchusHas this been true based on your own dating experience???
cause the less ur into a girl the more she wants you
this is relationships 101
Lol it's because most females really don't know what they want so they end up giving mixed signals atleast that's what most guys think they're doing and we end up losing interest.
Posted by Seraphlightbut why?
She prob got scared off if he likes her a LOT.
Posted by Ophiuchusbut why?
cause the less ur into a girl the more she wants you
this is relationships 101
Posted by firebunnyI wonder the same thingPosted by Ophiuchusbut why?
cause the less ur into a girl the more she wants you
this is relationships 101click to expand
Posted by SeraphlightI see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI would cry.Posted by SeraphlightWould you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?Posted by whatisthisallaboutYa then I assume he is a psycho!Posted by firebunnyReally? That's what you think too?
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.click to expand
Posted by whatisthisallaboutUGGGHHH... BE NICE TO CATS! I will yell at her if I were you. @_@Posted by SeraphlightI see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI would cry.Posted by SeraphlightWould you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?Posted by whatisthisallaboutYa then I assume he is a psycho!Posted by firebunnyReally? That's what you think too?
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.
click to expand
Posted by firebunnyhaha ok. giving him a taste of his own medicine it is.Posted by whatisthisallaboutUGGGHHH... BE NICE TO CATS! I will yell at her if I were you. @_@Posted by SeraphlightI see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI would cry.Posted by SeraphlightWould you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?Posted by whatisthisallaboutYa then I assume he is a psycho!Posted by firebunnyReally? That's what you think too?
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.click to expand
Posted by SeraphlightIt really really bothers me and I have been thinking about it all day. Maybe we should put him down and save the catPosted by whatisthisallaboutWe must kill him.Posted by SeraphlightI see. I was trying to lecture my friend not to be mean to his cat. It totally broke my heart. Serena is the cat.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI would cry.Posted by SeraphlightWould you call him out on that if you see a guy being mean to your cat or his own cat in front of you?Posted by whatisthisallaboutYa then I assume he is a psycho!Posted by firebunnyReally? That's what you think too?
That's what I assume too but why do girls lose interest anyway? Interesting topic, btw.
I think it can be many other things, such as, he is mean to her cat.click to expand
Posted by sagsagsagthat's true. i don't think showing interest itself should be a turn off.
I think it's defense mechanism against rejection..
A likes B, B likes A: they meet halfway
A likes B, B doesnt like A: B pulls away and vice versa.
It has nothing to do with one showing interest. If showing interest becomes a turn off to B, then B is not ready for a relationship to begin with.
Posted by SeraphlightA
What about this cat then? Who do we have to punish?
Posted by firebunnyidk? maybe the more difficult something is to get the more valuable it appears to be?Posted by Ophiuchusbut why?
cause the less ur into a girl the more she wants you
this is relationships 101click to expand
Posted by Ophiuchusbased on your experience? are you a girl btw? coz when i like somebody and she likes me too, it's tango.Posted by firebunnyidk? maybe the more difficult something is to get the more valuable it appears to be?Posted by Ophiuchusbut why?
cause the less ur into a girl the more she wants you
this is relationships 101click to expand
Posted by Seraphlightmakes sense...
B only wants to take it so far. B realizes A likes B a lot more than B likes A and B doesn't want to risk Hurting A. Or more honestly B doesn't want to risk getting into a commitment with A.
She's a lesbian?
Posted by LuckyLibra979Hahaha exactly
We don't assume shit we know women are wishy washy its just a mans nature to dig for results while women leave shit hanging
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