Posted by virgoOPPP*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….
made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.
Posted by MyStarsShinecould be but why disrespect your mom like that?Posted by virgoOPPP
made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.
*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPMaybe he lost respect for the mother because she allowed the father to cheat on her?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPP
made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.
*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….
could be but why disrespect your mom like that?
but could make sense coz he said that tho his mom dominated the household, it was supposedly 'common and accepted' should his father run around with sidechicks or whatever which is funny coz he'd always brand himself as a 'conservative country boy'
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Posted by AcutelyUnawarei feel like men who pursue women out of their league or just pure attraction are the genuine nice guys
I used to wonder this and then realized I was going for women out of my league. Now that I'm not focused on looks as much as I am attraction and personality I just let it go.
Posted by Basicmeh i've found a dude attractive even when he's 51 but then again he was a leo and a musician. i'd say a dude is still 'marketable' before the mute/vegetative state.
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
Posted by BasicWhat's nasolabial folds? Wondering if I got it.
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
Posted by EggrollI saw a hairline wrinkle nasolabial fold in the mirror today while I was at the barbers I almost had an anxiety attack if I actually knew what that was 😅Posted by Basic
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
🤣 shit. I smile way too much, I already have them.click to expand
Posted by Strobeuhm no he's not a virgo
Maybe he wants to fuck the kid?
But then that would be my 8th house Scorp Pluto being extreme.
I dunno, I like quirky people and tend to not have any vision for beauty but yeah I don't date extremes.
It could also just be trhe fact you have biases and are projecting. It could be he loves her but wishes to fix her like most of you Virgo's try to do?
Toxic Virgo issues, never take their own medicine.
Posted by Basic😂🤣
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
Posted by Undinei just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
Posted by Strobeyeah it was like talking to a brick wall
Maybe he hates her but keeps her around so he gains? Narcissism?
If you were that interested though I am sure you would go in and wreck the relationship or reach out to her?
Posted by ITSNOTENOUGH😆😆Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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Posted by ITSNOTENOUGHIt's a girl in a relationship thing, they're like "I'm in a relationship so I am hot and confident I'm gonna flirt with guys"
But it’s like the 9th time that a girl in couple flirt with me, and sometimes their bf is like 2 meter next to me and I’m like yeah idk wtf ?
That’s weird
Posted by Walk_on_bymight even apply to both genders from millennials to gen z.
Hoeflation.
Posted by StrobeNo I was chasing after women I had no chance with. Then I humbled myself and found a great woman.Posted by AcutelyUnaware
I used to wonder this and then realized I was going for women out of my league. Now that I'm not focused on looks as much as I am attraction and personality I just let it go.
So you dated people out of your league, the you let go and now are dating people in your league? Then say you are now not into looks?
Is this some mind game?
Here, I date any woman I really get along with no matter how she looks, it's simple as that, but from what the OP described I am more interested in the guys motivations as they did say he is an abusive asshole, but then I found the fact the OP is a Virgo fnny because they have a fixer-upper attitude with many partners they get with lol.click to expand
Posted by IceStormmight vary probably.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I don’t think it’s about lack of attraction but more likely lack of respect. There are tons of beautiful women that are abused every day by ugly men who want to control/trap them… abuse is a control tactic that has very little to do with attraction .
Tina turner was abused by Ike Turner and she was obviously far more attractive than he was.
Same as Rihanna, Chris brown was very much attracted to her. Lol those are just a couple of celebrity couples I could think of off hand… I have never heard of a man abusing a woman because he wasn’t attracted to her. Much more likely a man is abusive in an attempt to keep a woman under his control .
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Posted by IceStormWhat about those handsome clean shaven men with long hair along with a masculine facial features with hard angles? It's very obvious I wanna look like that. They too have been known to physically abuse attractive women. That's one reason it's best unattractives stick to their own kind. An unattractive lady with a good personality won't back down.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
I don’t think it’s about lack of attraction but more likely lack of respect. There are tons of beautiful women that are abused every day by ugly men who want to control/trap them… abuse is a control tactic that has very little to do with attraction .
Tina turner was abused by Ike Turner and she was obviously far more attractive than he was.
Same as Rihanna, Chris brown was very much attracted to her. Whitney Houston was better looking than Bobby… Lol those are just a couple of celebrity couples I could think of off hand… I have never heard of a man abusing a woman because he wasn’t attracted to her. Much more likely a man is abusive in an attempt to keep a woman under his control .
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Posted by Eggrollright? it's usually cancer women too. and tbh of all zodiac women, i think they're the prettiest.
Ugh hearing about all of the beautiful women being abused by all these lizard looking dudes is making my blood pressure rise. I need a palate cleanser.
Posted by ITSNOTENOUGHjanuaryPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ITSNOTENOUGHPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
Wtf i did nothing wrong
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you just know i'm talking capricorn men
december or januaryclick to expand
Posted by ITSNOTENOUGHbeginningPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ITSNOTENOUGHPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ITSNOTENOUGHPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
Wtf i did nothing wrong
😆😆
you just know i'm talking capricorn men
december or january
january
fuck, END of january or beginning of January xdclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPI would not think of a lack of attraction, unless we are talking about a decades long relationship in which one partner let themselves go at some point.Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.click to expand
Posted by ITSNOTENOUGHShe goes home and fucks him for a couple hours, do you think he cares that much?Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by ITSNOTENOUGH
But it’s like the 9th time that a girl in couple flirt with me, and sometimes their bf is like 2 meter next to me and I’m like yeah idk wtf ?
That’s weird
It's a girl in a relationship thing, they're like "I'm in a relationship so I am hot and confident I'm gonna flirt with guys"
idk man if my gf do that in front of me, i just go home and told her its doneclick to expand
Posted by Strobejust a theory i have.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I am Earth Dom and have posted pics of myself with larger women and women who you say are out of my league, but I am not the person you are describing.
I think there is a problem in general with Earth signs and that is when they love they love hard, yes they take their time usually, but it's very hard for them to get back out of if it's not going well, this is very common on both sides of the gender fence.
As a Water sign I move on fast if it's truly not savable, this is likely due to my personal Earth planets aspecting Uranus though.
I don't understand the drama hype, Label any element sign and gender as disgusting, it's just human nature.
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Posted by Saturn_Returnsreally? i thought women just dream of becoming martha stewart around that time.Posted by virgoOPPP
do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive?
No, women are more guilty of this, due to their biological clocks.
I've known women, approaching the big four 0, make the most confounding and reckless relationship decisions because of this.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPYeah we try make ourselves all that.Posted by Walk_on_by
Hoeflation.
might even apply to both genders from millennials to gen z.
but to be fair, i'm personally pretty good at chores and my pisces is very handy around the house and won't even let me carry anything heavier than a jar of pickles.click to expand
Posted by ITSNOTENOUGHMost of them just like attention from flirting with you, then they go home with their partner. Just ignore them, or maybe they will introduce you to their friends.Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by ITSNOTENOUGHPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by ITSNOTENOUGH
But it’s like the 9th time that a girl in couple flirt with me, and sometimes their bf is like 2 meter next to me and I’m like yeah idk wtf ?
That’s weird
It's a girl in a relationship thing, they're like "I'm in a relationship so I am hot and confident I'm gonna flirt with guys"
idk man if my gf do that in front of me, i just go home and told her its done
She goes home and fucks him for a couple hours, do you think he cares that much?
i'm ok with that, because she wasnt worth it. those girls want to switch boyfriend for real, but why would i want someone who isnt loyal.click to expand
Posted by Saturn_Returnsokie and as always you overreactPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by virgoOPPP
do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive?
No, women are more guilty of this, due to their biological clocks.
I've known women, approaching the big four 0, make the most confounding and reckless relationship decisions because of this.
really? i thought women just dream of becoming martha stewart around that time.
LOL!
Another thread where you've put two and two together and have come up with seven...
As other dxpers have already mentioned, the guy is probably abusive and preys on specific types of women. This has NOTHING to do with settling.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPSo If I start hitting on famous women I can get a Virgal?Posted by StrobePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I am Earth Dom and have posted pics of myself with larger women and women who you say are out of my league, but I am not the person you are describing.
I think there is a problem in general with Earth signs and that is when they love they love hard, yes they take their time usually, but it's very hard for them to get back out of if it's not going well, this is very common on both sides of the gender fence.
As a Water sign I move on fast if it's truly not savable, this is likely due to my personal Earth planets aspecting Uranus though.
I don't understand the drama hype, Label any element sign and gender as disgusting, it's just human nature.
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just a theory i have.
i'm with a dude who messaged IU(famous korean celeb with lots of fans) but not that she replied. tho i don't personally find her attractive, it makes me think he MUST be boyfriend material.
coz he doesn't settle which means he won't do that weird hostility crap in a relationship coz he has low self-esteem and resentment.click to expand
Posted by Walk_on_by😆😆Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by StrobePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
click to expand
I am Earth Dom and have posted pics of myself with larger women and women who you say are out of my league, but I am not the person you are describing.
I think there is a problem in general with Earth signs and that is when they love they love hard, yes they take their time usually, but it's very hard for them to get back out of if it's not going well, this is very common on both sides of the gender fence.
As a Water sign I move on fast if it's truly not savable, this is likely due to my personal Earth planets aspecting Uranus though.
I don't understand the drama hype, Label any element sign and gender as disgusting, it's just human nature.
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just a theory i have.
i'm with a dude who messaged IU(famous korean celeb with lots of fans) but not that she replied. tho i don't personally find her attractive, it makes me think he MUST be boyfriend material.
coz he doesn't settle which means he won't do that weird hostility crap in a relationship coz he has low self-esteem and resentment.
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So If I start hitting on famous women I can get a Virgal?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPP
made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.
*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….
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could be but why disrespect your mom like that?
but could make sense coz he said that tho his mom dominated the household, it was supposedly 'common and accepted' should his father run around with sidechicks or whatever which is funny coz he'd always brand himself as a 'conservative country boy'
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Posted by UndineSweet dreams indeed
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckenlightening
ok I have an enlightening anecdote for this thread
my Cap ex (w Aqua Mars) only ever spoke about 2 of his exes-- his daughter's mom who he broke up w like 17 years ago (who is beautiful and hadn't had any babies by that point), and his most recent ex from 12 years ago who was a "chubby" single mom on food stamps whose child asked him when they first met: "Are you my new dad?"
So the trashy ex cheated on him. I was trying to get to the bottom of why fat women are so appealing so I asked him if they have more stamina in cowgirl position. He said yes, she could go for hours, and it's because fat people have big abs under all that fat.
I figured there's no way they have the cardiovascular health for that, but apparently some do. so perhaps some men settle with a woman with lower SMV so he can be a pillow princess
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckI just threw up in my mouth reading all that 🤣
ok I have an enlightening anecdote for this thread
my Cap ex (w Aqua Mars) only ever spoke about 2 of his exes-- his daughter's mom who he broke up w like 17 years ago (who is beautiful and hadn't had any babies by that point), and his most recent ex from 12 years ago who was a "chubby" single mom on food stamps whose child asked him when they first met: "Are you my new dad?"
So the trashy ex cheated on him. I was trying to get to the bottom of why fat women are so appealing so I asked him if they have more stamina in cowgirl position. He said yes, she could go for hours, and it's because fat people have big abs under all that fat.
I figured there's no way they have the cardiovascular health for that, but apparently some do. so perhaps some men settle with a woman with lower SMV so he can be a pillow princess
Posted by trackstarWhere is the Myhusband?
Idk but why do single moms take shit from any man? Maybe I'll get lonely in five years not sure, but I fucking doubt it 🤣 but maybe it's because I'm a virgo. Not lonely enough to let a man live with me. And definitely never lonely enough to let a man talk to me like that. Maybe after the kid abandons me, but I just can't believe a word that comes out of any man's mouth anymore. I'm not jaded I swear. They're just all clowns I can't take seriously. Like I can hear the tones of deceit in their vocal flexion.
Posted by EggrollPretty women have it bad too because men believe they’ll one up
Ugh hearing about all of the beautiful women being abused by all these lizard looking dudes is making my blood pressure rise. I need a palate cleanser.
Posted by trackstarJeezuz RIP Taurus Virgo connection 😅Posted by BasicPosted by trackstar
Idk but why do single moms take shit from any man? Maybe I'll get lonely in five years not sure, but I fucking doubt it 🤣 but maybe it's because I'm a virgo. Not lonely enough to let a man live with me. And definitely never lonely enough to let a man talk to me like that. Maybe after the kid abandons me, but I just can't believe a word that comes out of any man's mouth anymore. I'm not jaded I swear. They're just all clowns I can't take seriously. Like I can hear the tones of deceit in their vocal flexion.
Where is the Myhusband?
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