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This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by virgoOPPP on Monday, July 3, 2023 and has 62 replies.
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made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.

like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.

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made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.

like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.
*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….
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made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.


*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….
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could be but why disrespect your mom like that?

but could make sense coz he said that tho his mom dominated the household, it was supposedly 'common and accepted' should his father run around with sidechicks or whatever which is funny coz he'd always brand himself as a 'conservative country boy'

tho i suppose hoeing is a pretty ancient pursuit
I used to wonder this and then realized I was going for women out of my league. Now that I'm not focused on looks as much as I am attraction and personality I just let it go.
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
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made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.


*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….



could be but why disrespect your mom like that?


but could make sense coz he said that tho his mom dominated the household, it was supposedly 'common and accepted' should his father run around with sidechicks or whatever which is funny coz he'd always brand himself as a 'conservative country boy'


tho i suppose hoeing is a pretty ancient pursuit
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Maybe he lost respect for the mother because she allowed the father to cheat on her?

…he’ll prob go on to do the same thing

Weak man….

Thank God they’re not all whores….I know some good ones as I know you do 👍
Posted by AcutelyUnaware
I used to wonder this and then realized I was going for women out of my league. Now that I'm not focused on looks as much as I am attraction and personality I just let it go.
i feel like men who pursue women out of their league or just pure attraction are the genuine nice guys

my theory is that men who give you a hard time in relationships just aren't that attracted

unpopular opinion but if a relationship does not mutually serve your egos, wtf is the point?
Posted by Basic
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
meh i've found a dude attractive even when he's 51 but then again he was a leo and a musician. i'd say a dude is still 'marketable' before the mute/vegetative state.
Posted by Basic
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
What's nasolabial folds? Wondering if I got it.
“Some of them want to abuse you

Some of them want to be abuse”

If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
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Posted by Basic
Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds



🤣 shit. I smile way too much, I already have them.
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I saw a hairline wrinkle nasolabial fold in the mirror today while I was at the barbers I almost had an anxiety attack if I actually knew what that was 😅
Posted by Strobe
Maybe he wants to fuck the kid?

But then that would be my 8th house Scorp Pluto being extreme.

I dunno, I like quirky people and tend to not have any vision for beauty but yeah I don't date extremes.

It could also just be trhe fact you have biases and are projecting. It could be he loves her but wishes to fix her like most of you Virgo's try to do?

Toxic Virgo issues, never take their own medicine.


uhm no he's not a virgo

i'm not into ugly dudes i can't post on fb

the kind of 'fixing' i'm into is balancing the budget, updating your wardrobe, scheduling etc.

i'm no plastic surgeon
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Yes I will settle with a hambeast the moment I get nasolabial folds
😂🤣
Hoeflation.
Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”

If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.

everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.

these disgusting earth sign men yo.
If it really matters much (which it should) I think it's probably best to settle with the unattractives. Attractive people nitpick on and about everything and make small simple minor detail a top priority. Attractive people find faults at everything and will nag you to death. Some nags but not all. Attractive people might be one of those types you wanna tempt (goes for both men and women) but it's just something you might wanna think about before wanting to be with attractive people and do your research first.

Oh and don't worry. I'm not picking on attractive people because that would mean I'm picking on myself with this post of mine.
Posted by Strobe
Maybe he hates her but keeps her around so he gains? Narcissism?

If you were that interested though I am sure you would go in and wreck the relationship or reach out to her?
yeah it was like talking to a brick wall
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?


i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.

everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.

these disgusting earth sign men yo.



Wtf i did nothing wrong
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you just know i'm talking capricorn men
Posted by ITSNOTENOUGH
But it’s like the 9th time that a girl in couple flirt with me, and sometimes their bf is like 2 meter next to me and I’m like yeah idk wtf ?

That’s weird

It's a girl in a relationship thing, they're like "I'm in a relationship so I am hot and confident I'm gonna flirt with guys"
Posted by Walk_on_by
Hoeflation.
might even apply to both genders from millennials to gen z.

but to be fair, i'm personally pretty good at chores and my pisces is very handy around the house and won't even let me carry anything heavier than a jar of pickles.
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Posted by AcutelyUnaware
I used to wonder this and then realized I was going for women out of my league. Now that I'm not focused on looks as much as I am attraction and personality I just let it go.



So you dated people out of your league, the you let go and now are dating people in your league? Then say you are now not into looks?


Is this some mind game?


Here, I date any woman I really get along with no matter how she looks, it's simple as that, but from what the OP described I am more interested in the guys motivations as they did say he is an abusive asshole, but then I found the fact the OP is a Virgo fnny because they have a fixer-upper attitude with many partners they get with lol.
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No I was chasing after women I had no chance with. Then I humbled myself and found a great woman.
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?


i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I don’t think it’s about lack of attraction but more likely lack of respect. There are tons of beautiful women that are abused every day by ugly men who want to control/trap them… abuse is a control tactic that has very little to do with attraction .

Tina turner was abused by Ike Turner and she was obviously far more attractive than he was.
Same as Rihanna, Chris brown was very much attracted to her. Lol those are just a couple of celebrity couples I could think of off hand… I have never heard of a man abusing a woman because he wasn’t attracted to her. Much more likely a man is abusive in an attempt to keep a woman under his control .


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might vary probably.

coz even princess diana and megan fox gets abused.

but maybe it's just particularly this dude coz he was so specific about 'you gotta be desperate to date single moms.'
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?


i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.


I don’t think it’s about lack of attraction but more likely lack of respect. There are tons of beautiful women that are abused every day by ugly men who want to control/trap them… abuse is a control tactic that has very little to do with attraction .

Tina turner was abused by Ike Turner and she was obviously far more attractive than he was.
Same as Rihanna, Chris brown was very much attracted to her. Whitney Houston was better looking than Bobby… Lol those are just a couple of celebrity couples I could think of off hand… I have never heard of a man abusing a woman because he wasn’t attracted to her. Much more likely a man is abusive in an attempt to keep a woman under his control .


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What about those handsome clean shaven men with long hair along with a masculine facial features with hard angles? It's very obvious I wanna look like that. They too have been known to physically abuse attractive women. That's one reason it's best unattractives stick to their own kind. An unattractive lady with a good personality won't back down.
Posted by Eggroll
Ugh hearing about all of the beautiful women being abused by all these lizard looking dudes is making my blood pressure rise. I need a palate cleanser.
right? it's usually cancer women too. and tbh of all zodiac women, i think they're the prettiest.
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?


i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.

everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.

these disgusting earth sign men yo.




Wtf i did nothing wrong




😆😆


you just know i'm talking capricorn men



december or january
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january
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?


i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.

everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.

these disgusting earth sign men yo.





Wtf i did nothing wrong





😆😆



you just know i'm talking capricorn men




december or january




january



fuck, END of january or beginning of January xd
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”

If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?



i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.


everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.


these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I would not think of a lack of attraction, unless we are talking about a decades long relationship in which one partner let themselves go at some point.

In my family, my father was considered far more attractive than my mother, yet she was the abuser! In fact, much of the abuse was trigger by the attention he got from other women, even when he was not deliberately seeking it or encouraging it.
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But it’s like the 9th time that a girl in couple flirt with me, and sometimes their bf is like 2 meter next to me and I’m like yeah idk wtf ?

That’s weird





It's a girl in a relationship thing, they're like "I'm in a relationship so I am hot and confident I'm gonna flirt with guys"



idk man if my gf do that in front of me, i just go home and told her its done

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She goes home and fucks him for a couple hours, do you think he cares that much?
My dad married a woman who was kind, loyal, and in love with him, despite not being into her at all (he told me), because he was a single dad and didn’t know how to raise 3 small kids on his own at the time. It’s ulterior motives, whatever benefit they can get from it and at whatever cost. Maybe this made sense at the time, when he’s young and scared, so he justified it. But he used to tear her down regularly about her appearance and her weight. I remember she’d have potlucks at work and he would call her at work to make sure she wasn’t eating too much at the potluck. He really hurt her, she was a good lady.
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?


i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I am Earth Dom and have posted pics of myself with larger women and women who you say are out of my league, but I am not the person you are describing.

I think there is a problem in general with Earth signs and that is when they love they love hard, yes they take their time usually, but it's very hard for them to get back out of if it's not going well, this is very common on both sides of the gender fence.

As a Water sign I move on fast if it's truly not savable, this is likely due to my personal Earth planets aspecting Uranus though.

I don't understand the drama hype, Label any element sign and gender as disgusting, it's just human nature.


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just a theory i have.

i'm with a dude who messaged IU(famous korean celeb with lots of fans) before we met but not that she replied. tho i don't personally find her attractive, it makes me think he MUST be boyfriend material.

coz he doesn't settle which means he won't do that weird hostility crap in a relationship coz he has low self-esteem and resentment.
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do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive?

No, women are more guilty of this, due to their biological clocks.


I've known women, approaching the big four 0, make the most confounding and reckless relationship decisions because of this.

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really? i thought women just dream of becoming martha stewart around that time.
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Posted by Walk_on_by
Hoeflation.


might even apply to both genders from millennials to gen z.

but to be fair, i'm personally pretty good at chores and my pisces is very handy around the house and won't even let me carry anything heavier than a jar of pickles.
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Yeah we try make ourselves all that.
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But it’s like the 9th time that a girl in couple flirt with me, and sometimes their bf is like 2 meter next to me and I’m like yeah idk wtf ?

That’s weird






It's a girl in a relationship thing, they're like "I'm in a relationship so I am hot and confident I'm gonna flirt with guys"




idk man if my gf do that in front of me, i just go home and told her its done





She goes home and fucks him for a couple hours, do you think he cares that much?



i'm ok with that, because she wasnt worth it. those girls want to switch boyfriend for real, but why would i want someone who isnt loyal.

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Most of them just like attention from flirting with you, then they go home with their partner. Just ignore them, or maybe they will introduce you to their friends.
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do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive?

No, women are more guilty of this, due to their biological clocks.



I've known women, approaching the big four 0, make the most confounding and reckless relationship decisions because of this.





really? i thought women just dream of becoming martha stewart around that time.



LOL!


Another thread where you've put two and two together and have come up with seven...


As other dxpers have already mentioned, the guy is probably abusive and preys on specific types of women. This has NOTHING to do with settling.

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okie and as always you overreact
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?



i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I am Earth Dom and have posted pics of myself with larger women and women who you say are out of my league, but I am not the person you are describing.
I think there is a problem in general with Earth signs and that is when they love they love hard, yes they take their time usually, but it's very hard for them to get back out of if it's not going well, this is very common on both sides of the gender fence.
As a Water sign I move on fast if it's truly not savable, this is likely due to my personal Earth planets aspecting Uranus though.
I don't understand the drama hype, Label any element sign and gender as disgusting, it's just human nature.

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just a theory i have.

i'm with a dude who messaged IU(famous korean celeb with lots of fans) but not that she replied. tho i don't personally find her attractive, it makes me think he MUST be boyfriend material.

coz he doesn't settle which means he won't do that weird hostility crap in a relationship coz he has low self-esteem and resentment.
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So If I start hitting on famous women I can get a Virgal?
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Posted by Strobe
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Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”
If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?



i just feel bad everytime there's someone with abusive relationship stories and it just clicks in my head that it always boils down to lack of attraction. can't help but be grossed out by the motivations.
everytime this woman would post pics of her with their kid together and he's over there on fb acting like he's single.
these disgusting earth sign men yo.
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I am Earth Dom and have posted pics of myself with larger women and women who you say are out of my league, but I am not the person you are describing.
I think there is a problem in general with Earth signs and that is when they love they love hard, yes they take their time usually, but it's very hard for them to get back out of if it's not going well, this is very common on both sides of the gender fence.
As a Water sign I move on fast if it's truly not savable, this is likely due to my personal Earth planets aspecting Uranus though.
I don't understand the drama hype, Label any element sign and gender as disgusting, it's just human nature.
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just a theory i have.
i'm with a dude who messaged IU(famous korean celeb with lots of fans) but not that she replied. tho i don't personally find her attractive, it makes me think he MUST be boyfriend material.
coz he doesn't settle which means he won't do that weird hostility crap in a relationship coz he has low self-esteem and resentment.
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So If I start hitting on famous women I can get a Virgal?
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made a similar thread to this in the past but do men (more often than women) tend to settle at the moment with someone they don't even find attractive? coz i feel like a woman might or might not try to level up with another dude but to actually even BEGIN to get with someone you dislike as a principle just nah i can't see that.
like there's this dude who'd always believe in 'curbing single moms' like they're low level women to him BUT still ends up with one with like a 5-yr old kid or whatever. srsly sometimes i feel like people's motivation is just someone to do housekeeping. and this dude is even openly hostile to her like wtf (also claims she's fat and never posts pics on his fb or social media in general with her). she basically needs to be the one to approach him and 'woe' him in all arguments coz dude is way too proud too.


*Some* men want an extension of their mother or one they never had….
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could be but why disrespect your mom like that?

but could make sense coz he said that tho his mom dominated the household, it was supposedly 'common and accepted' should his father run around with sidechicks or whatever which is funny coz he'd always brand himself as a 'conservative country boy'

tho i suppose hoeing is a pretty ancient pursuit
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I've heard this before.

Who else would put of such disrespect other then someone in a bind like a single mom.

Plus his mother AND father issues.

He gets to work out his shit with someone who as less options.

Be sure to tell dude he isn't and doesn't have to be like his dad. as a "conservative boy" he knows that's wrong.

Or control people like his mom with put downs and nagging because mom didn't have control of anything else and husband was troubled.

I grew up as the oldest of 4 of a single mother. Things were hard. My mom did her best and worked multiple jobs.

Her ex husband had the same story as this dude and the excuse he had for his crap behavior, " that's what you do" "cuz that's what you know."



I don’t know, men lie, women lie, but passport stamps don’t.
Posted by Undine
“Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abuse”

If their dysfunctions complement each other, and so they make it work, most likely re-enacting patters they were familiar with during their upbringing, who are we to judge?
Sweet dreams indeed
There is a love triangle at work. The dude left his attractive wife for a heavy set slob and not even a nice person. All I know is another male gay coworker said she talked about anal

Sex a lot so there you have it.
I read an online study guy who go for heavy set women are poor. So it’s like a psychological cushion.

These type of males you speak of are all bottom of the barrel quality. They are pretty easy to spot cause all you’ve got to do is get them to talk. Those who end up with these males usually have some sort of low self-esteem issues.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
ok I have an enlightening anecdote for this thread

my Cap ex (w Aqua Mars) only ever spoke about 2 of his exes-- his daughter's mom who he broke up w like 17 years ago (who is beautiful and hadn't had any babies by that point), and his most recent ex from 12 years ago who was a "chubby" single mom on food stamps whose child asked him when they first met: "Are you my new dad?"

So the trashy ex cheated on him. I was trying to get to the bottom of why fat women are so appealing so I asked him if they have more stamina in cowgirl position. He said yes, she could go for hours, and it's because fat people have big abs under all that fat.

I figured there's no way they have the cardiovascular health for that, but apparently some do. so perhaps some men settle with a woman with lower SMV so he can be a pillow princess
enlightening
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
ok I have an enlightening anecdote for this thread

my Cap ex (w Aqua Mars) only ever spoke about 2 of his exes-- his daughter's mom who he broke up w like 17 years ago (who is beautiful and hadn't had any babies by that point), and his most recent ex from 12 years ago who was a "chubby" single mom on food stamps whose child asked him when they first met: "Are you my new dad?"

So the trashy ex cheated on him. I was trying to get to the bottom of why fat women are so appealing so I asked him if they have more stamina in cowgirl position. He said yes, she could go for hours, and it's because fat people have big abs under all that fat.

I figured there's no way they have the cardiovascular health for that, but apparently some do. so perhaps some men settle with a woman with lower SMV so he can be a pillow princess
I just threw up in my mouth reading all that 🤣
Posted by trackstar
Idk but why do single moms take shit from any man? Maybe I'll get lonely in five years not sure, but I fucking doubt it 🤣 but maybe it's because I'm a virgo. Not lonely enough to let a man live with me. And definitely never lonely enough to let a man talk to me like that. Maybe after the kid abandons me, but I just can't believe a word that comes out of any man's mouth anymore. I'm not jaded I swear. They're just all clowns I can't take seriously. Like I can hear the tones of deceit in their vocal flexion.
Where is the Myhusband?
Posted by Eggroll
Ugh hearing about all of the beautiful women being abused by all these lizard looking dudes is making my blood pressure rise. I need a palate cleanser.
Pretty women have it bad too because men believe they’ll one up

Them or the can’t be good people either

So they try to break them down

A relative is like a model and all the guys are possessive and controlling. N don’t do nice things for her because they try to bring her down to their level
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Idk but why do single moms take shit from any man? Maybe I'll get lonely in five years not sure, but I fucking doubt it 🤣 but maybe it's because I'm a virgo. Not lonely enough to let a man live with me. And definitely never lonely enough to let a man talk to me like that. Maybe after the kid abandons me, but I just can't believe a word that comes out of any man's mouth anymore. I'm not jaded I swear. They're just all clowns I can't take seriously. Like I can hear the tones of deceit in their vocal flexion.




Where is the Myhusband?



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Jeezuz RIP Taurus Virgo connection 😅

My best friend (Libra sun, Cancer moon) felt it was required to try dating super attractive women most of his life. Him along with be were quite bullied and made fun of due to our looks or life style s growing up. Yet he always went for the most attractive females, and actually slept with a few. He had much better ratio then me with attractive women, yet I slept with more. Yet every single one of those attractive girls broke his heart. There was one time he ended up dating an actual 9 from a concert we went to, and at the same I was dating a chubby girl. One time when it was just him and I driving together, he said to me "This is crazy, it's like we switched places. I'm finally dating a hottie, and your dating someone below average." I literally almost pulled over and beat the fuck out of him. Like silently I was thinking of how I could actually kill someone I respected, then get away with hiding the body. Yet, as much as I could never admit this in the past, he truly has a positive spirit, and the best vibe ever.

The point of my story is he ended up dating someone on his own level of attractiveness, and lives happily with her. She was the best thing to happen in his life. Like the second he stopped dating based on attractiveness, and more along compatibility, he found the perfect woman. Meanwhile I'm now literally a goblin that sucks down an entire bottle of rum every night, lives alone, eats trash, and posts on dxpnet.
Best thing is to just be basic 😅
Also I just want to save grace for a second and admit the actual reason I don't date anymore is because I'm at absolute rock bottom of my own personal mental state, and don't want to bring other humans into my personal turmoil. I don't believe any human should have to feel the need to "fix" my problems. My mental state is at an all time low, yet I can just continue to function and survive because I'm resilient, and good at pretending. I can just write it out out here because this is all just text, and not actual life right?

Though there is an Aquarius woman I really like that asks me if I'm feeling ok every now and then. Yet as much as I deeply want to write back and express every single thing I'm feeling, I simply write little to nothing, because I refuse to lie, yet there is truly no good news. She doesn't need to know the reality of how I truly feel. Last thing I want to be is the bad vibe, or darkness in her life. She can find someone better with less baggage, and I will survive fine on my own. So I sent the idea of her to the void, and continue living life alone.
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