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Why would
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Is he referring to himself as a high value man? 🤣
Posted by Antiphates
Why do you think women do it?
It's probably for the same or similiar reasons.
i'm thinking about this too but this guy would always say: "Good women will put up with everything from men." and i thought isn't that low value behavior too? he had ideals that clashed with each other. if she forgave for everything, then she must have very little options and therefore unattractive. but if too many men find her attractive, then she must be a hoe secretly scouting for someone else. you can't ever win with this dude.
I don't think humans were ever meant to be truly monogamous creatures. I think we are def pack animals but even pack animals change mates.
@Antiphates
so for him, emotional suffering was something very 'feminine'. in fact, he found it offensive to cry over a woman. what in the ancient greek? lol.
but if she did, it's very unattractive. if she was too chill and gave him too much freedom, it was very 'hoe-ish' but maybe he might actually find that more attractive. yet he STILL will start fights and drama over it.
pisces moon is very weird on a man. i never really understood why people kept saying that on here before but now i do.
so for him, emotional suffering was something very 'feminine'. in fact, he found it offensive to cry over a woman. what in the ancient greek? lol.
but if she did, it's very unattractive. if she was too chill and gave him too much freedom, it was very 'hoe-ish' but maybe he might actually find that more attractive. yet he STILL will start fights and drama over it.
pisces moon is very weird on a man. i never really understood why people kept saying that on here before but now i do.
Posted by alexscaries
The question is why do you care?
do you like smooth peanut butter or chunky peanut butter?
Posted by alexscaries
The question is why do you care?
Have you just tried to make any sense of post on dxp? 🤔
Posted by SeaLion
I don't think humans were ever meant to be truly monogamous creatures. I think we are def pack animals but even pack animals change mates.
that wasn't really the crux of it but whatever
Because she's a Pisces sun to his Pisces moon...
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SeaLion
I don't think humans were ever meant to be truly monogamous creatures. I think we are def pack animals but even pack animals change mates.
that wasn't really the crux of it but whateverclick to expand
I was focused on the cheating part of it.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
Mental health issues
Did you know Santa Claus has Mental Elf issues?click to expand
🎅 🤪🙃
Posted by Undine
Because she's a Pisces sun to his Pisces moon...
right coz this dude is so nice to her. he's such trash. she keeps posting sad quotes on her fb and what kind of a dude ghosts on his pregnant gf for 2 weeks and keep texting and calling his ex? this why i just wanna talk to her about anything but this hoe.
this dude so gross.
Just, leave him be. 😐
And try to move on, or at least.... focus all the energy you waste on him - on yourself or something more productive (anything that works - is better than obsessing over a lost cause). The sooner and the further away you distance yourself from him - the better. Talking from experience and not just my own (there's quite a lot of people who share/d your experience - obsessing over someone that should be a thing of the past by now). I get that you still feel bad - for wasting your time on/with him - it's why you have a hard time letting go, but... latter on - you'll also feel bad for the time you obsessed over him: dude's still living in your head - even tho, he stopped paying the rent for quite some time - as in - you don't have a life with him anymore for how long? 🤨
I'm sure you'll see my point, eventually... since that's the only thing left for you to do. So hey, i'd say good luck - but this is one those situations where you have to make your own luck (stop leaving things to chance - as if things will magically work in your favor - just cause you did the right thing and got cheated in return). He's just one of many - someone you used to know...
While for him - you're probably just someone he used to drill...
And try to move on, or at least.... focus all the energy you waste on him - on yourself or something more productive (anything that works - is better than obsessing over a lost cause). The sooner and the further away you distance yourself from him - the better. Talking from experience and not just my own (there's quite a lot of people who share/d your experience - obsessing over someone that should be a thing of the past by now). I get that you still feel bad - for wasting your time on/with him - it's why you have a hard time letting go, but... latter on - you'll also feel bad for the time you obsessed over him: dude's still living in your head - even tho, he stopped paying the rent for quite some time - as in - you don't have a life with him anymore for how long? 🤨
I'm sure you'll see my point, eventually... since that's the only thing left for you to do. So hey, i'd say good luck - but this is one those situations where you have to make your own luck (stop leaving things to chance - as if things will magically work in your favor - just cause you did the right thing and got cheated in return). He's just one of many - someone you used to know...
While for him - you're probably just someone he used to drill...
Posted by alexscariesPosted by neves
Just, leave him be. 😐
And try to move on, or at least.... focus all the energy you waste on him - on yourself or something more productive (anything that works - is better than obsessing over a lost cause). The sooner and the further away you distance yourself from him - the better. Talking from experience and not just my own (there's quite a lot of people who share/d your experience - obsessing over someone that should be a thing of the past by now). I get that you still feel bad - for wasting your time on/with him - it's why you have a hard time letting go, but... latter on - you'll also feel bad for the time you obsessed over him: dude's still living in your head - even tho, he stopped paying the rent for quite some time - as in - you don't have a life with him anymore for how long? 🤨
I'm sure you'll see my point, eventually... since that's the only thing left for you to do. So hey, i'd say good luck - but this is one those situations where you have to make your own luck (stop leaving things to chance - as if things will magically work in your favor - just cause you did the right thing and got cheated in return). He's just one of many - someone you used to know...
While for him - you're probably just someone he used to drill...
Isn't Goyte a known womaniser?click to expand
idk anything about Goyte - above songs were chosen for the message not the artist
Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
Because she's a Pisces sun to his Pisces moon...
right coz this dude is so nice to her. he's such trash. she keeps posting sad quotes on her fb and what kind of a dude ghosts on his pregnant gf for 2 weeks and keep texting and calling his ex? this why i just wanna talk to her about anything but this hoe.
this dude so gross.
What she's saying to you doesn't match what he's saying to you: "I can't even buy things for myself anymore. She always checks my phone."
I think you are being played by them both!click to expand
nah i think she's honest. he gives her money coz they have a baby and that's expensive so yeah. i warned her that he keeps 2 phones and she found it and he was forced to surrender the other one. the other he says he needs for work. but she told me he bought another one that he never lets her touch.
it's so disgusting how he tells me that he can't have his phone when he had my phone for months when we were together and i had to ask permission every time i had to use MY OWN phone.
bastard.
Brain disease via redpill reddit. RIP to him.
Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Idk i think he just wasnt ready, but hes fuccboi years stopped hes now a dad,
you guys are nuts. i might be out on a date with a cap tho lol i never learn. he's 4 years younger than me too so idk i might ghost 👻👻
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Idk i think he just wasnt ready, but hes fuccboi years stopped hes now a dad,
you guys are nuts. i might be out on a date with a cap tho lol i never learn. he's 4 years younger than me too so idk i might ghost 👻👻click to expand
Do you ever take a break from dating!? I'm seriously impressed with your stamina!
Posted by ArgusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Idk i think he just wasnt ready, but hes fuccboi years stopped hes now a dad,
you guys are nuts. i might be out on a date with a cap tho lol i never learn. he's 4 years younger than me too so idk i might ghost 👻👻
Do you ever take a break from dating!? I'm seriously impressed with your stamina!click to expand
😅😅
i like to travel with other people so sometimes it's just that plus i have libra mars
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by ArgusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Idk i think he just wasnt ready, but hes fuccboi years stopped hes now a dad,
you guys are nuts. i might be out on a date with a cap tho lol i never learn. he's 4 years younger than me too so idk i might ghost 👻👻
Do you ever take a break from dating!? I'm seriously impressed with your stamina!
😅😅
i like to travel with other people so sometimes it's just that plus i have libra marsclick to expand
Derrppp... right! I completely forgot about your libra Mars! Sometimes I wish I had anything else Libra in my chart other than the Pluto rx 0_o. Anyway, best of luck in your adventures! 🖖
Posted by Hypnotoad
Dude you bought this shit into your life.
You used to have these threads. "I just want a man that doesn't care and is detached so I can be detached"
And some other shit like that. Every thread was like that.
needing constant validation all the time does not make him detached
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Hypnotoad
Dude you bought this shit into your life.
You used to have these threads. "I just want a man that doesn't care and is detached so I can be detached"
And some other shit like that. Every thread was like that.
needing constant validation all the time does not make him detached
True, however you're always stating that you want detachment, and that you're the detached one, or trying to portray yourself as anti-romance. It's pretty obvious though that's not what you need and want on a deeper level, going by your recent threads on this dude. You're quite in need of some real wholesome connection.click to expand
i never said that i didn't.
but i understand why you'd interpret it that way coz most people often don't understand what i'm talking about even tho i describe it in detail.
what i'm saying i can come off detached even when i'm not and it can be frustrating even to me.
Posted by kachi_cake
I don't get the whole attempt to insult single mothers. Most single mothers I know are great but I think it really depends what flock you try to hang with 🤷🏾♀️.
"dude go for a woman he looks down on?"
-The type of dude who preys on a woman who he can overpowe. This type can be dangerous, the super abusive in all forms.
The type of dude that sees nothing wrong regardless if he cheats, beats his woman or goes to jail. This type of dude who doesn't see a woman as intelligent, respectable, resilient, competent.
The truth is, these type of dudes are mentally and emotionally fragile especially if they've experienced trauma, manifesting in various areas of his life. The type of dudes who don't want to break out of their unhealthy comfort zone that they have to mask it with toxic masculinity.
So many factors determine how mental health can manifest from support system, expected roles to carry, socioeconomic status, part of the world one lives in, etc.
Personally, I don't want to be involve with these type of dudes because I want someone who helps me heal and not make me relive or live another trauma.
he's so emotionally-manipulative, always threatening to leave this pregnant girl. what a dumbazz 🙄🙄 but this just the kind of thing that makes him feel powerful, causing someone emotional damage. this why i was almost always stoic around this dude. absolute vulture. she's being too needy, too available and he feeds off on that. disgusting POS 😡😡
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by kachi_cake
I don't get the whole attempt to insult single mothers. Most single mothers I know are great but I think it really depends what flock you try to hang with 🤷🏾♀️.
"dude go for a woman he looks down on?"
-The type of dude who preys on a woman who he can overpowe. This type can be dangerous, the super abusive in all forms.
The type of dude that sees nothing wrong regardless if he cheats, beats his woman or goes to jail. This type of dude who doesn't see a woman as intelligent, respectable, resilient, competent.
The truth is, these type of dudes are mentally and emotionally fragile especially if they've experienced trauma, manifesting in various areas of his life. The type of dudes who don't want to break out of their unhealthy comfort zone that they have to mask it with toxic masculinity.
So many factors determine how mental health can manifest from support system, expected roles to carry, socioeconomic status, part of the world one lives in, etc.
Personally, I don't want to be involve with these type of dudes because I want someone who helps me heal and not make me relive or live another trauma.
he's so emotionally-manipulative, always threatening to leave this pregnant girl. what a dumbazz 🙄🙄 but this just the kind of thing that makes him feel powerful, causing someone emotional damage. this why i was almost always stoic around this dude. absolute vulture. she's being too needy, too available and he feeds off on that. disgusting POS 😡😡click to expand
He probably knows how you feel about him despite you acting stoic. Well, not just you but anyone who is friends with the woman he's mistreating and knows about this situation. He probably loves the fact that his shameless and remorseless actions triggers people and that makes him feel drunk in power.
Honestly, I try to stay away from people that are always involved in some messy drama. Either perpetrators or enablers/perpetual victims. I'm not going to give my time, energy and give my emotional support to someone who doesn't want to change their situation. And I'm not going to be outraged, angry, and obsessed/perplexed by yet another predictable, power hungry jerk with poor morals.
I'm not telling you to ditch your friend. Offer advise and be supportive but know when to step back or quit. Protect your energy.
Posted by alexscaries
You can't control other people. Don't try to understand the psychology of why people do things I gave up a long time ago. Some people are dumb, some people do things because they can get it away with it, some people do things because they lack awareness. Either way it doesn't matter. Feels like you are wasting your time and energy.
It actually feels good not to give a flying fuck when it comes to these people.
A lot of people who act like assholes and at the same time "hard to figure out" love the sense of power they get when others react to them with outrage because the outraged can't fathom their way of thinking or what drives their actions. If they had to communicate a response to the outraged person in text it would be with an emoji.
This one: 🙂 (I'm the evil mastermind, you can't figure me out, you can't read my poker face. Muahahaha!!!)
They look quite pathetic once you do figure them out and don't give a damn. You can sense their frustration, desperation and ego deflation when they sense your contempt, boredom, lack of caring to even know anything about them.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by kachi_cake
I don't get the whole attempt to insult single mothers. Most single mothers I know are great but I think it really depends what flock you try to hang with 🤷🏾♀️.
"dude go for a woman he looks down on?"
-The type of dude who preys on a woman who he can overpowe. This type can be dangerous, the super abusive in all forms.
The type of dude that sees nothing wrong regardless if he cheats, beats his woman or goes to jail. This type of dude who doesn't see a woman as intelligent, respectable, resilient, competent.
The truth is, these type of dudes are mentally and emotionally fragile especially if they've experienced trauma, manifesting in various areas of his life. The type of dudes who don't want to break out of their unhealthy comfort zone that they have to mask it with toxic masculinity.
So many factors determine how mental health can manifest from support system, expected roles to carry, socioeconomic status, part of the world one lives in, etc.
Personally, I don't want to be involve with these type of dudes because I want someone who helps me heal and not make me relive or live another trauma.
he's so emotionally-manipulative, always threatening to leave this pregnant girl. what a dumbazz 🙄🙄 but this just the kind of thing that makes him feel powerful, causing someone emotional damage. this why i was almost always stoic around this dude. absolute vulture. she's being too needy, too available and he feeds off on that. disgusting POS 😡😡click to expand
I think he particularly gets off on hurting and triggering women. He definitely has a disregard for them. Sounds rather mysogynistic.
Yet another damaged and brainwashed redpill NPC. Boring. Next.
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