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Nov 04, 2005Comments: 233 · Posts: 8226 · Topics: 348
for those of you guys in a relationship or something similar??_
when your chick is on the rag??_ how do you treat her or the situation? how do you comport yourself?
actually??_ first lemme ask??_ do you have any idea what we're going through???
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Nov 04, 2005Comments: 233 · Posts: 8226 · Topics: 348
of all theories, i believe this one the most??_
our estrogen and progesterone levels are at their lowest during the cycle, which means our testosterone/estrogen ratio is more evened out??_
higher testosterone ratio = horniness
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Dec 27, 2013Comments: 15 · Posts: 2575 · Topics: 9
I act normal as I always would. Why would I change my behavior for one week a month, because someone else is on an emotional roller coaster?
I somewhat know what you are going through, but the more important point is that YOU know what you are going through. It's been happening most of your lives, yet many ladies still have no idea how to handle it. Being on your period gives you no right to treat me, or anyone else like shit, so I don't give get out of jail free cards.
It's your period, it comes once a month -- every month, learn to deal with it. You know what is happening so get off everyone else's ass, and quit using it as an excuse for your shitty behavior. Take a Xanax and chill the eff out.
What was the question again? .....
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Nov 04, 2005Comments: 233 · Posts: 8226 · Topics: 348
i won't speak for all of women, but i do know the important thing. the question is??_ do you MEN know what we are going through?
many of us know how to prepare for it, but to "handle" it is an entirely different thing that is arguably impossible. it's not that simple when you are talking about hormones that effect emotions which are a part of every day life. every day life being kind of a wild card. and when you are in a relationship??_ emotions are very much a part of every day life. and this is just one aspect of the ordeal. there's the whole physical part??_ which all by itself??_ is a force to be reckoned with.
and i would never use any of it as an excuse for bad behavior. not ever. i don't condone it either.
but really... when at times even the max strength morphine derived pain killer can't quell the physical agony that you are in??_ "learn to deal with it" is one of the most insensitive things that could be said.
but i don't expect guys to know this. or at least the gravity of all of it. i see how many of you are??_ pretty shy about the whole subject. and most women don't wanna go into the gory detail! so we're not really helping you help us at all.
i bring all of this up because my sweet bf of 3 months and i had kind of a bad night a week ago when i closed up and sort of iced him out. i knew i was in a bad mood and didn't want to project it onto him and he was having a hard time understanding my self conscious issues. bless his macho heart, he actually googled "how to make a woman feel better while on her period"
holy shit.
we had a lengthy discussion about what happens??_ i told him all the signs that i notice when it's around the corner. i told him exactly what i go through, and if i'm feeling bad??_ i told him exactly what he could do if he wanted to help me.
now it all makes sense to both of us. smooth sailing isn't guaranteed from here on out, but i know we'll be able to navigate with few problems!
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Nov 21, 2013Comments: 22 · Posts: 11927 · Topics: 87
Mostly the biggest thing that would help and that I want is to be cuddled and coddled a little because things hurt, my mood is all over and I want to be soothed. It's as simple as that.
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Nov 04, 2005Comments: 233 · Posts: 8226 · Topics: 348
and my point is??_
i know many couples have issues, arguments, around the time of the woman's period.
as much as we all wanna pass the buck??_ let's be honest??_ both parties have to deal. it effects both men and women in relationships.
knowledge is power!
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Oct 17, 2013Comments: 386 · Posts: 8654 · Topics: 308
Ok. Just a simple question.
WHY IS THIS TOPIC IN THE MAN CAVE?