Anal Queens

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by _Dazed on Friday, April 19, 2019 and has 62 replies.
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Or just fans of butt stuff..

How often to you incorporate anal play into your intimate activities, either with a partner or by yourself?

If with a partner, how often is anal intercourse a part of your ritual?
i'm looking for future mrs. hellosaggy's in this thread!
If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
What does that have to do with this thread?
@nanobot
I like a little play most of the time... thats about it...

If I want it. I ask.
I love 3 hole goddesses. Not ashamed to admit.

I had a girl back when I was younger, than was "saving" herself for marriage. BJs and Booty all the time. She would just lube up and push it in. not taking it slow or anything. then she wanted me to pretend it was her vag and go fast. I learned how to control my orgasms with her. I used to finish in 2 - 3 minutes just from her taking me up her butt.

I only met one woman out of countless after that girl, and that was my 2.5 year relationship with the scorpio. We used to have 3 hole nights or day of the week type things. it was fun and I miss it terribly!
Posted by _Dazed

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
What does that have to do with this thread?
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Since we’re on the topic and I know anal enthusiast will be joining, I thought I ask.
Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?


he is a homosekshual. and they love eating poo poo.
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Yeah, I have my suspicions about that.
Posted by aquarius09

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
What does that have to do with this thread?
Since we’re on the topic and I know anal enthusiast will be joining, I thought I ask.
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How about make a thread about it instead?
Rankings!!!

Tightness : Anal-->Vagina-->oral

Staying Power(good thing lol): Oral (if hand used) ---> Vagina --> Anal

Favorite: Oral -->Anal-->Vagina

Enslave: Vagina.-->Oral

Rest of life: Oral -->Vagina --> Anal


I like hitting G-spot and making a woman cum, but I'm bored with vag sex.... I've had way too much of it, with too many people. Oral and Anal are more carnal pleasure/skill set based, and I look forward to dominance and the submissive part of it. I love being edged super fun.
Posted by nanobot

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me
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How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.
I've only had one guy ask me for anal sex......Aqua sun and Mars

Didn't like it....weird things happened in my bum afterwards

Laughing
Well then lol
I've done anal

The only sign that was successful at it was a Gemini.....

I was close with a sag but way to rough without the proper equipment

Posted by nanobot

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by nanobot

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me


How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.
I guess it would depend on the existing relationship with him. I assume this is romantic, because otherwise what would it matter

If it's a man to potentially date, I would choose to not engage because I don't find that stipulation to be realistic as a requirement and it would concern me that he felt he NEEDED IT, that it's a defining characteristic in how he views women. It also would make me think that he would feel entitled to it and want it very often.

If it's a man you are already dating, it would be a cause for concern and I would likely disengage from the situation.

If it's someone you are in an actual committed relationship with and he is hugely opposed to vaginal sex, I would be crazy suspicious and do anything I could in my power to find out the truth. I have many gay friends, and more men than you'd think get with women, get married, have kids, only to be browsing grindr behind their wife's back.

I would not confront him about anything in any of these circumstances without proof. If he claims to be a straight man seeking women, there is no way you or anyone else could get him to admit it and push him out of the closet. That has to be a decision he makes on his own, or for you to investigate for yourself. The latter would likely come with consequences, but will set you free.
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Thank you for that detailed response. I’m the same way. My friend is in this situation and I wanted to know if it’s just me who finds this weird. I like your advice and will pass it on to her ☺️
Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.
Posted by Librasetting777

Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.


#humblebrag
Posted by jeane

Posted by Librasetting777

Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.


#humblebrag
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Blatant brag

😀
Posted by jeane

Posted by Librasetting777

Lol I've tried but woman would never let me..."its to big" 😂 so I gave up even trying to do that.


#humblebrag
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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole
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No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Posted by aquarius09

Posted by nanobot

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me


How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.
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I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....

but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking

I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.
Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by nanobot

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me


How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.


I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....

but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking

I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.
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Have you tried receiving anal sex?
I think if its not processing organically and naturally in a relationship but its rather a first night requirement, it just means the person in question watches too much porn and forgot how to do meaningful sex or is unable to smile

on either sides (males and females alike)

too much meaningless sex leads to more and more extremes bc people dont have a connection during sex so the only exciting thing about is to try anything really to make it less boring smile

jsut my experience

Amen to that

❤️
@LethalFantasia ^^^^
Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole


No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Maybe he gets off on her pain. Means she’s willing to suffer for his pleasure.
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I wonder how many women do this to please men? 🙄

I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?

I've only known one
Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole


No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Maybe he gets off on her pain. Means she’s willing to suffer for his pleasure.
I wonder how many women do this to please men? 🙄

I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?

I've only known one
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"I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?"

the ones who watch too much porn maybe yes smile

and the ones who refer to their ideal sex-partner as a 3 hole thing would maybe secretly want to experience it, having just 2 hole to offer thus feeling inadequatesmile

I am rarely vulgar but some answers in this topic call for it, knowing its just a showing off, lacking good excitement in their intercourse

it would be another thing, if they enjoyed sex in general, but it seems they are not, so showing off is not credible, imho

on the other hand, I have a female friend (cancer sun) who loves anal, and other things (pissing on her etc), true

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
Small dick. Tighter hole


No, the guy apparently has a big dick which is why it’s painful for my friend.
Maybe he gets off on her pain. Means she’s willing to suffer for his pleasure.
I wonder how many women do this to please men? 🙄

I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?

I've only known one
"I wonder how many men would be prepared to have an 8 or 9 inch dildo rammed up their arse?"

the ones who watch too much porn maybe yes smile

and the ones who refer to their ideal sex-partner as a 3 hole thing would maybe secretly want to experience it, having just 2 hole to offer thus feeling inadequatesmile

I am rarely vulgar but some answers in this topic call for it, knowing its just a showing off, lacking good excitement in their intercourse

it would be another thing, if they enjoyed sex in general, but it seems they are not, so showing off is not credible, imho

on the other hand, I have a female friend (cancer sun) who loves anal, and other things (pissing on her etc), true

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Haha, I don't agree, I think blokes that talk that way would be shouting "mummy, mummy" if a dildo was placed anywhere near them

Huge double standard 🙄
Lol everyone is different.

Some women love anal and it can be part of a good sexual relationship with someone 🙄

Posted by pisceswoman123

Lol everyone is different.

Some women love anal and it can be part of a good sexual relationship with someone 🙄

Sure it can, with someone that knows what they're doing.....
Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by nanobot

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?
A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me


How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.


I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....

but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking

I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.
Have you tried receiving anal sex?
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I’ve had finger probing... um... I said it’s not a deal breaker. I just have known the ones down for it are my kind of nasty 😬
I can't get past the notion of poop.

It's too disgusting for me.

I like butts. But no buttholes.

I don't want to taste poop. I don't poop on my dick.... just no.
bump! lol
Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?

😀
Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?

😀

I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
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Can't see it...paste to this page...
Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by aquarius09

If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?


he is a homosekshual. and they love eating poo poo.
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So you want all Dxp gay on your ass? 😱for THAT?
Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by pisceswoman123

Lol everyone is different.

Some women love anal and it can be part of a good sexual relationship with someone 🙄

Sure it can, with someone that knows what they're doing.....
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Hmmm...I am imagining someone who doesn’t know what he is doing...

Care to elaborate on that? 🤷‍♀️
Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂

@mystarsshine
We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...

I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷‍♀️
Posted by Gemitati

Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂

@mystarsshine
Were you there? Laughing

Well he was a kinky Aqua guy who'd no former opportunity to kink things up so I thought I'd oblige as you do lol.....but it was a little awkward to say the least, I think he was very excited and it became a bit rubbery haha.....i wasn't disappointed as I thought rather rubbery than a hard one up there .... all in all it was a bit of a fumble...lol...
Posted by Gemitati

We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...

I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷‍♀️
I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....
Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂

@mystarsshine
Were you there? Laughing

Well he was a kinky Aqua guy who'd no former opportunity to kink things up so I thought I'd oblige as you do lol.....but it was a little awkward to say the least, I think he was very excited and it became a bit rubbery haha.....i wasn't disappointed as I thought rather rubbery than a hard one up there .... all in all it was a bit of a fumble...lol...
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Rubbery huh? How did he even get there not being hard as a rock?

Hmmm? 🐛
Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...

I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷‍♀️
Thanks...I was looking for an explanation

I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....
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Thanks! I was looking for an explanation like that!!! 🙋🏼‍♀️
Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?

😀

I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...


https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0
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I had a quick look and saw you have mars in aqua in 5th....kinky creative sex. Went back to look again and can't see.

If you go to Astro com, create a chart and paste here, I'll look again....
Posted by HeartofIce

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?

😀

I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...


https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0
I had a quick look and saw you have mars in aqua in 5th....kinky creative sex. Went back to look again and can't see.

If you go to Astro com, create a chart and paste here, I'll look again....
Have I asked you for a chart reading yet?
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I don't think so

I'm not into reading charts per se as it takes a lot of time and energy and also i have still a lot to learn, so i normally offer if the person has a question, like with Erz and her kinky sex Tongue
Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Lmao imagining he is in the ass and woman like ‘what are you doing’ and man is...’I don’t know...’ 😂😂😂

@mystarsshine
Were you there? Laughing

Well he was a kinky Aqua guy who'd no former opportunity to kink things up so I thought I'd oblige as you do lol.....but it was a little awkward to say the least, I think he was very excited and it became a bit rubbery haha.....i wasn't disappointed as I thought rather rubbery than a hard one up there .... all in all it was a bit of a fumble...lol...
Rubbery huh? How did he even get there not being hard as a rock?

Hmmm? 🐛
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Oh he was haha....it's just that he'd never done it before and he was nervous Tongue
Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...

I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷‍♀️
Thanks...I was looking for an explanation

I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....
Thanks! I was looking for an explanation like that!!! 🙋🏼‍♀️
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No problem...i have found unless they have kinky aspects in the chart, Aries men can be quite straightforward with sex. They like to try and dominate at times but not a hope in hell with women like you and me haha Tongue. They also love feminine women. One of my exes loved me to dress up ... French maid, hooker, etc etc

haha...
Posted by HeartofIce

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by HeartofIce

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory

I consider anal to be very personal and sacred because it can be divine or hell. It's the ultimate submission. Loved it with my Scorpio ex, as I loved every kind of love making with him. It was an emotional, spiritual act and I will cherish it forever. I find plain sex boring. Must be my weird Aries Sun Pisces Venus combo which makes me need a connection in order to be freaky. The sex for fun's sake is not my cup of tea.
Sorry about the pun lol, but do you have strong Uranus in your chart....i.e. Uranus in 7th or conjunct Venus etc, or anything in Aqua?

😀

I don't know about Houses and Aspects. Just that I have Mars in Aquarius. This is my chart https://imgur.com/a/daMj8os
Can't see it...paste to this page...


https://imgur.com/c3LZuK0
I had a quick look and saw you have mars in aqua in 5th....kinky creative sex. Went back to look again and can't see.

If you go to Astro com, create a chart and paste here, I'll look again....
Have I asked you for a chart reading yet?
I don't think so

I'm not into reading charts per se as it takes a lot of time and energy and also i have still a lot to learn, so i normally offer if the person has a question, like with Erz and her kinky sex Tongue
I have a question! Just wondering what the reason is that I'm attracting/becoming attracted to Taurus energy lately. Should I give you my progressed chart maybe? Let me know what type of chart you'll need and what asteroids/fixed stars should be included. Thanks. ^_^
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Asteroids and fixed stars make it too complicated....let me know what your progressed Venus is doing and in which house and that could give some answers...but apart from that just a natal chart would be good too

Be back tomorrow!!
Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

We had a casual conversation when he said he had anal once and he didn’t liked it because it feels un-natural because ass isn’t pussy...

I was like...well, that part is off the table...and I actually thought it’s strange because I thought ALL men love it and dream about it and feeling lucky if woman up to it. 🤷‍♀️
Thanks...I was looking for an explanation

I've been with two Aries guys....neither tried to "Ram"' it up there lol....I'm thinking it's because they love the feminine parts of us.....
Thanks! I was looking for an explanation like that!!! 🙋🏼‍♀️
No problem...i have found unless they have kinky aspects in the chart, Aries men can be quite straightforward with sex. They like to try and dominate at times but not a hope in hell with women like you and me haha Tongue. They also love feminine women. One of my exes loved me to dress up ... French maid, hooker, etc etc

haha...
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Oookey...here comes another strange shit about my Aries.

He grew up on streets if Staten Island with boys and they were into all sorts of mischief possible. Up until they’ve reached sexual age and even after they all had sex they were boys gang with no girls to date - just drugs, booze, rock and shit boys do. I’ve seen pictures. Lol

Then he was in a band for 10 years and all he had were dick sucking groupies and drugs, booze, rockNroll! Long hair, strange clothes etc...

Then he marries a weirdo who was bi. Kinks all the way!

Then he became a father and had changed 180 degree.

Then he divorced and got custody of the child because she is still weird.

Then we’ve met and he told me he had planned on few fucks but shit happens and at the moment he says that he wants normal life. And it’s because I am different.

Last conversation we had he said he used to enjoy kinky sex however at the moment he want it just the way it is and it’s regular family life and he is showing it.

So I am wondering if such change can take place and he actually grew up and transformed OR it’s a new thing he hadn’t seen yet and shit will eventually hit the fan? I don’t feel it will but still...one can wonder. And I am.🙋🏼‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️
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