Cousin having a gender reveal party

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Blame covid for not coming and send gift

Lmfao

Covid reveal parties

Let’s play “who don’t got it, who gone get it, who already had it, who da carrier”
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😂😂 her baby shower will be in a couple of mo ths, this is a small celebration yo find out the baby's gender and they said no gifts so I'll probably not go. I'll be at her shower with gifts but I dont have time when I already know it's a girl
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How much do you care about your cousin?

Her boyfriend is my mother's sister's son so we grew up together but we havent been close in ages

If you really love her tell her not to have the party for her own good.
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It's not my decision, they're doing it at a coach house in the outer banks. Not a lot of people. Her daughter will be born almost exactly on my daughter's date a year ago so I have lit of hammy down clothes that are holiday and season appropriate for you.
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I thought I was her baby shower since I already know the gender.. what am I supposed to? Bring gifts? Is it rude to skip the gender reveal and come to the baby shower instead? This is my cousin's gfs first pregnancy... I just dont see any point in it plus, I have to fine someone yo watch my little ankle bitters to hang around and watch everyone else's reaction to the gender....


She's having a party during covid? Yikes. 🤦‍♀️

I would use that as a pretty damn good reason not to show up. And if she's zooming.. Fake a bad net connection 🤷‍♀️

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Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders
Posted by Solaristic
Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders
Posted by Solaristic
Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

How much do you care about your cousin?

Her boyfriend is my mother's sister's son so we grew up together but we havent been close in ages

If you really love her tell her not to have the party for her own good.

It's not my decision, they're doing it at a coach house in the outer banks. Not a lot of people. Her daughter will be born almost exactly on my daughter's date a year ago so I have lit of hammy down clothes that are holiday and season appropriate for you.

Nah go, fuck it. It might be weird but people need support and it's all to easy to say "oh that's lame and cringy and she's looking for attention" but maternal support systems are pretty weak in our society, we are so clinical about childbirth these days.
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I'll be at the baby shower in the outer banks in a few months, that should be fine. It is a big deal for a first time mother to feel celebrated... I should know, I've had mine twice in 2 years 😬
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Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders
Posted by Solaristic
Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders
Posted by Solaristic
Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

How much do you care about your cousin?

Her boyfriend is my mother's sister's son so we grew up together but we havent been close in ages

If you really love her tell her not to have the party for her own good.

It's not my decision, they're doing it at a coach house in the outer banks. Not a lot of people. Her daughter will be born almost exactly on my daughter's date a year ago so I have lit of hammy down clothes that are holiday and season appropriate for you.

Nah go, fuck it. It might be weird but people need support and it's all to easy to say "oh that's lame and cringy and she's looking for attention" but maternal support systems are pretty weak in our society, we are so clinical about childbirth these days.
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I 100% agree, we have become clinical about it and it's a hindrance unless the mom needs intervention.