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Posted by alexscaries

I can answer this as a man. I know it's the powder room.

Yes to the first question. I personally don't, I did the no fap challenge and made it permanent. I feel more in control and attractive for doing so.

It varies. The experience changes. As a teen a swimsuit model was like hardcore pornography, bearing in mind this was before most people had the internet in their house.

As sad as it sounds imagination played a large part in it. As my sexual experience was limited there wasn't much to draw from. Arousal is slightly different for me now where as before seeing say a woman in a low cut when I was say 13 was a massive turn on, now it does nothing and if anything I will feel guilty for objectifying her. Now though what turns me on has changed, a good passionate 😘 is better than seeing a naked woman.

Libido does go down with age, but sex gets better. If someone had told the 11 year old me I would have the experiences I've had I would probably think he was lying.


Like no fap thing ever?
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Posted by Phantom_Limbo

You'd probably get more accurate answers in the Man Cave. lol!

My answer is that I think most do, yes, but they're not going to be like a 13-year-old popping a boner every time the wind blows or a girl in yoga pants walks by.


Get yourself an Aries Venus/Mars man (age is irrelevant).

You'll learn something new every day.

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Second oldest man on DXP ATM, but I don't claim to be talking for evrybody

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-males produce sperm all throughout their lives on a daily basis and it needs to be released regularly so masturbation is not only a thing, it's also required for health

-my libido didn't go down, if anything it went up around the age of 35 for some reason. I supect it's due to a peak of testosterone. Could also be a minimum of testosterone idk.

-I don't get as easily aroused as when I was 12 in the sense that I can choose not to be aroused by sthg. I can shrug off a sexy stimulation. Being a 12 yo boy is not always easy. It's all about curiosity and the forbidden fruit.

-Even though I lost all illusions and intellectual curiosity about the female gender, my lack of attraction to the penis makes me an heterosexual stoicist.

-my masturbation went from about once every 2 days in my 20s to about once every 3.5 days now. The change is mostly due to loss of curiosity and intellectual habituation. More than 6 days without, and my brain chemistry will start to change and my social behaviour too.

-Chronic masturbation is not caused by porn, it's the other way around. Porn exists because of chronic masturbation. But too much porn will indeed cause excessive masturbation. It's good to exert moderation. Once or twice a week sounds like a good average. Also porn gives bad opinion about relationships and women in general. But it's not limited to porn and our whole culture is defined by the pursuit of bad relationship and unrealistic female ideals.

-my lowest masturbation count was when I was married, but long term sexual exclusivity is not in the natural order of things. Yes most married men mastubate too.

-My IRL sexuality is going well too. I suppose there must be an age fetish thing going on among females, becuase the older I get, the more sollicitations I get. I'm starting to think about taking some distance from all this to preserve my health and peace.

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