Posted by hellosaggyYou're a PERFECT!!!! FWB
Ladies,
What are the requirements/expectations of a FWB, that has gone on for awhile. I have a few my longest one currently is 6 months with a virgo, 2 months with a scorpio.
Of course you have pillow talk and friendship stuff. Personally I help with things they need (as long as my aqua bi gf) doesn't find out. but do you expect a regular FWB to help you out?
I really don't do the real relationship stuff... ie talk every day, going out out. but we check in and sext.... reason I ask is, scorpio just moved into her new place, she was strapped for cash and I took care of a few things for her. I know scorpio isn't seeing anybody else, and she wants more, but I just think that's being a good friend
Posted by hellosaggyI'll send you my cash app info!
Ladies,
What are the requirements/expectations of a FWB, that has gone on for awhile. I have a few my longest one currently is 6 months with a virgo, 2 months with a scorpio.
Of course you have pillow talk and friendship stuff. Personally I help with things they need (as long as my aqua bi gf) doesn't find out. but do you expect a regular FWB to help you out?
I really don't do the real relationship stuff... ie talk every day, going out out. but we check in and sext.... reason I ask is, scorpio just moved into her new place, she was strapped for cash and I took care of a few things for her. I know scorpio isn't seeing anybody else, and she wants more, but I just think that's being a good friend
Posted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
Posted by VenusAquariusI'm sure she has her line up waitingPosted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
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Posted by STILLYep, read his last post. She's bi with a jealous lesbian girlfriend that knows he's with her.Posted by VenusAquariusI'm sure she has her line up waitingPosted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
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Posted by hellosaggyI don't know why, but this makes me sad for the aqua. As if her gay friends wouldn't accept that she can be bisexual or even love regardless of gender.
yeah I am trying to navigate. aqua's birthday is Sunday, so I have to kind of get them satisfied through weekend.
I actually like the polygamy life, other than the financial stretching, I get to juggle so I'm not bored. Yeah the aqua wants a don't ask, dont tell policy with me. I try to respect it. when she drinks she's suuuupppper possessive(she's Puerto Rican), and says how much she loves me and wants a future. but as soon as she's around her gay friends, shes like he has a penis, that's why we aren't together.
She's not comfortable just being gay and not a full "lesbian", because I guess being Bi is a crime or something. I laugh at her because we've been together over a year, but we don't acknowledge it, but her lesbian girlfriend demands social media posts and for her not to talk to me while she's around.
I told her Friday why doesn't she just go be with the girl and move out. She said because even if I moved out I still want you, so I will cheat on her with you. She's a mess. so I don't want to add to it by her knowing while she's trapped by her girlfriend I have two fwb.
Posted by VenusAquariusWe always do. Whether we're interactive with them or not, there's always someone in line.Posted by STILLYep, read his last post. She's bi with a jealous lesbian girlfriend that knows he's with her.Posted by VenusAquariusI'm sure she has her line up waitingPosted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
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Posted by STILLUnderstand what you mean by "we always do?"Posted by VenusAquariusWe always do. Whether we're interactive with them or not, there's always someone in line.Posted by STILLYep, read his last post. She's bi with a jealous lesbian girlfriend that knows he's with her.Posted by VenusAquariusI'm sure she has her line up waitingPosted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
BOOM
I read most of his posts on the Aqua and have observed something. I'm still waiting to see if my theory is correct.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusLol No. Always have someone else in line.Posted by STILLUnderstand what you mean by "we always do?"Posted by VenusAquariusWe always do. Whether we're interactive with them or not, there's always someone in line.Posted by STILLYep, read his last post. She's bi with a jealous lesbian girlfriend that knows he's with her.Posted by VenusAquariusI'm sure she has her line up waitingPosted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
BOOM
I read most of his posts on the Aqua and have observed something. I'm still waiting to see if my theory is correct.
You're always bi with a jealous lesbian girlfriend?click to expand
Posted by nikkistarits the LGBTQ+ community.... She and I were just fine until her friends shamed her back in July about divorcing a woman and being with me. now she's out to prove she's really "gay"... but she's not a full lesbian... she knows she's not... but I read some of her texts messages from her friends and they were saying some mean things to her. She likes Women and on rare occassions men, and that's ok. but between the hardships of being a lesbian and having people accept her and now being with me its probably caused some identity issues. Now I've gone from the full boyfriend, which is why I ventured out, to the ex "roommate"... that she secretly is still with.Posted by hellosaggyI don't know why, but this makes me sad for the aqua. As if her gay friends wouldn't accept that she can be bisexual or even love regardless of gender.
yeah I am trying to navigate. aqua's birthday is Sunday, so I have to kind of get them satisfied through weekend.
I actually like the polygamy life, other than the financial stretching, I get to juggle so I'm not bored. Yeah the aqua wants a don't ask, dont tell policy with me. I try to respect it. when she drinks she's suuuupppper possessive(she's Puerto Rican), and says how much she loves me and wants a future. but as soon as she's around her gay friends, shes like he has a penis, that's why we aren't together.
She's not comfortable just being gay and not a full "lesbian", because I guess being Bi is a crime or something. I laugh at her because we've been together over a year, but we don't acknowledge it, but her lesbian girlfriend demands social media posts and for her not to talk to me while she's around.
I told her Friday why doesn't she just go be with the girl and move out. She said because even if I moved out I still want you, so I will cheat on her with you. She's a mess. so I don't want to add to it by her knowing while she's trapped by her girlfriend I have two fwb.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusI do it for selfish reasons... I know women's libido is affected by stress, sooooo I remove stress and I can regularly remove panties lmao....Posted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
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Posted by saggurl88and you don't ask for nothing...
I have nothing to add to the story BFF Just trolling. I can never get guys to be like this with me lol I try the friendship and sex thing and they get annoyed. I'm always losing in this department!
Posted by hellosaggyI never ask for anything, just time and sex but that starts getting into dangerous relationship territory. I don't want a fwb and have sex every so often. I want to have it whenever I call the person. I like being a priority. I guess that's a no no for a fwb situation.Posted by saggurl88and you don't ask for nothing...
I have nothing to add to the story BFF Just trolling. I can never get guys to be like this with me lol I try the friendship and sex thing and they get annoyed. I'm always losing in this department!click to expand
Posted by hellosaggyBravo!!!!Posted by VenusAquariusI do it for selfish reasons... I know women's libido is affected by stress, sooooo I remove stress and I can regularly remove panties lmao....Posted by STILLThen #2 takes #1 spot.
If that Aqua finds out you're providing for other women. Smh
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plus what's the point of having someone with good sex and doing well for himself and he just smashing and dashing I think its tacky.
I know fwb should just be friends with sex, but its not like we are at the same level. I feel there is an obligation to help out if you can.
plus I am a sag, what I say is most important because I'm mostly honest. don't look at my actions, I am very generous, but if I told you its X, its Xclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88That's a fucbuddy. I wanted exactly what you wanted. Just lay out that expectation. I did and was successful with a Gemini, years ago.Posted by hellosaggyI never ask for anything, just time and sex but that starts getting into dangerous relationship territory. I don't want a fwb and have sex every so often. I want to have it whenever I call the person. I like being a priority. I guess that's a no no for a fwb situation.Posted by saggurl88and you don't ask for nothing...
I have nothing to add to the story BFF Just trolling. I can never get guys to be like this with me lol I try the friendship and sex thing and they get annoyed. I'm always losing in this department!
This is why I just continue to go back to my ex Scorpio. At least he doesn't complain or have any issues with giving me what I want. Can I just have the D!!!
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Posted by VenusAquariusHahahaha! Men don't know what they really want!
@saggurl88,
Duh,
Just thought about. It's their ego. Even if they don't want a relationship, we fuc with their ego if we don't want their ass either, lol.