Help me choose a lesbian escort.

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Heading to Barcelona, Paris, Berlin, and Amsterdam for my 31st in March.

Amsterdam is home to one of the only lesbian-owned / for lesbian escort services which I read about in article posted on Vice.

Should I hire a girl for my 31st?

Look for other reviews on that escort service. I somehow don't trust Vice anymore.

If different reviews say the same things, go for it.

If you have the time and money, go for it.
and if so....which of the three options appeal to you based on their website description:

option A:



"Nice lady,

Are you looking for an elegant and sensual companion for an exciting date? Then you've come to the right place. Mutual respect and pleasure are my priorities. I am a confident young woman with a calm and feminine appearance. I can enjoy it immensely to train myself and to seduce you.

Even if it is your first time (with a woman), you do not have to be afraid of me. I ask the right questions and together we explore your desires.

And who am I? I actively work for a better world, dance for many years (including classical ballet and burlesque) and the academic circles are not strange to me either. I will certainly not shy away from an animated conversation at dinner or evening out.

I love women in all shapes and sizes: masculine, feminine, full and slender:

you are beautiful as you are.

See you soon? I am looking forward to meeting you!

tattoos: yes

piercings: yes (septum & nipple piercings)

option B :

Hi, I work as a researcher at the university, but I compensate my nerdiness with a huge desire to experience exciting adventures together with you. and being loving, but also kinky and naughty ...

Which side do you want to discover?

I'm half Dutch / half American, highly educated, in my early thirties.

I have long brown hair and an enticingly slender, feminine frame. Dancing, long hikes in nature, reading, and playing with my adorable cats are some of the things I love to do.

Perhaps because I was raised between two cultures. I have different sides within me. I am sweet and tender, caring and sincere, with nothing to give me greater joy than pleasing you.

Or do you dare to summon my darker side? Let me take you by hand to the pain and pleasure.

Through loving domination I will allow you to express your desires to the fullest, who you have dreamed about.

Note that in any type of play I prioritize your limits and safety as well as my own.

Explore yourself with me, use me for your pleasure and your pleasure. Let me take you on an adventure! "

tattoos: no

piercings: no

option C:

"Creating beautiful moments together with you, with a smile to think back ... What do you think about now?

Together dining together in a warm bath or enjoying a good glass of wine

or feeling a fine sexual tension? and together, within your limits.

I like when you surprise me. Take me into what you fine. If you prefer that I take the lead, then I do too much.

I'll make sure you can complete yourself to be and to enjoy what you so desire and

you will see that everything will go by itself, let's go in search of passion.

I am a beautiful, slim, tall woman of 28 years. Brown hair and blue eyes. Highly educated, artistic, sensitive and open-minded.



tattoos: no

piercings: 1 nipple piercing

option D.

"I thave been told that I see beauty everywhere - and, let me tell you, they really do it: that is my call, with Eros as well as my soul, my whole body is eager to court you with the deeper respect: only if you please Consent is perennial key.


And if you're a bit afraid, there's no need to refrain, let's go slowly, and check on the way.

May a massage roll out our road, or maybe a warm dance wake up your dream.


Whether your desire is urban or wild, mine is wrapped around your lips, willing to follow your beat.


I am almost thirty years of age. My body is slender, and my flowing locks are long and brown. My hair grows as freely, just as my heart smiles.

Out of my palms, if you feel like it, you will receive Reiki as well. From my tarot deck, if you dare, fluttering cards poised to reveal their portents.


I am a playful and queer being: I delight in toys, different roles, welcoming, and giving too. And whether you approach with implacable hunger, shy curiousity, or fun-loving confidence, I hope you remember, I'm not here to judge.

Behind the foliage of this pride you can find the hard contours or masculine as well, hidden from view in this binary world. I'm here, I'm gentle, I am wild; let's caress and roar for the times that rise.

Now, will you let me blow some magic on your neck, sweetheart? "

Tattoos: yes

Piercings: none


Languages: English, Italian (native), Portuguese (brasileiro), Castilian, French (and peu rouillé)
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

and if so....which of the three options appeal to you based on their website description:

option A:



"Nice lady,

Are you looking for an elegant and sensual companion for an exciting date? Then you've come to the right place. Mutual respect and pleasure are my priorities. I am a confident young woman with a calm and feminine appearance. I can enjoy it immensely to train myself and to seduce you.

Even if it is your first time (with a woman), you do not have to be afraid of me. I ask the right questions and together we explore your desires.

And who am I? I actively work for a better world, dance for many years (including classical ballet and burlesque) and the academic circles are not strange to me either. I will certainly not shy away from an animated conversation at dinner or evening out.

I love women in all shapes and sizes: masculine, feminine, full and slender:

you are beautiful as you are.

See you soon? I am looking forward to meeting you!

tattoos: yes

piercings: yes (septum & nipple piercings)

option B :

Hi, I work as a researcher at the university, but I compensate my nerdiness with a huge desire to experience exciting adventures together with you. and being loving, but also kinky and naughty ...

Which side do you want to discover?

I'm half Dutch / half American, highly educated, in my early thirties.

I have long brown hair and an enticingly slender, feminine frame. Dancing, long hikes in nature, reading, and playing with my adorable cats are some of the things I love to do.

Perhaps because I was raised between two cultures. I have different sides within me. I am sweet and tender, caring and sincere, with nothing to give me greater joy than pleasing you.

Or do you dare to summon my darker side? Let me take you by hand to the pain and pleasure.

Through loving domination I will allow you to express your desires to the fullest, who you have dreamed about.

Note that in any type of play I prioritize your limits and safety as well as my own.

Explore yourself with me, use me for your pleasure and your pleasure. Let me take you on an adventure! "

tattoos: no

piercings: no

option C:

"Creating beautiful moments together with you, with a smile to think back ... What do you think about now?

Together dining together in a warm bath or enjoying a good glass of wine

or feeling a fine sexual tension? and together, within your limits.

I like when you surprise me. Take me into what you fine. If you prefer that I take the lead, then I do too much.

I'll make sure you can complete yourself to be and to enjoy what you so desire and

you will see that everything will go by itself, let's go in search of passion.

I am a beautiful, slim, tall woman of 28 years. Brown hair and blue eyes. Highly educated, artistic, sensitive and open-minded.



tattoos: no

piercings: 1 nipple piercing

option D.

"I thave been told that I see beauty everywhere - and, let me tell you, they really do it: that is my call, with Eros as well as my soul, my whole body is eager to court you with the deeper respect: only if you please Consent is perennial key.


And if you're a bit afraid, there's no need to refrain, let's go slowly, and check on the way.

May a massage roll out our road, or maybe a warm dance wake up your dream.


Whether your desire is urban or wild, mine is wrapped around your lips, willing to follow your beat.


I am almost thirty years of age. My body is slender, and my flowing locks are long and brown. My hair grows as freely, just as my heart smiles.

Out of my palms, if you feel like it, you will receive Reiki as well. From my tarot deck, if you dare, fluttering cards poised to reveal their portents.


I am a playful and queer being: I delight in toys, different roles, welcoming, and giving too. And whether you approach with implacable hunger, shy curiousity, or fun-loving confidence, I hope you remember, I'm not here to judge.

Behind the foliage of this pride you can find the hard contours or masculine as well, hidden from view in this binary world. I'm here, I'm gentle, I am wild; let's caress and roar for the times that rise.

Now, will you let me blow some magic on your neck, sweetheart? "

Tattoos: yes

Piercings: none


Languages: English, Italian (native), Portuguese (brasileiro), Castilian, French (and peu rouillé)
Really, you should be answering this question on your own lol.

Which one makes you wet your panties?
Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

and if so....which of the three options appeal to you based on their website description:

option A:



"Nice lady,

Are you looking for an elegant and sensual companion for an exciting date? Then you've come to the right place. Mutual respect and pleasure are my priorities. I am a confident young woman with a calm and feminine appearance. I can enjoy it immensely to train myself and to seduce you.

Even if it is your first time (with a woman), you do not have to be afraid of me. I ask the right questions and together we explore your desires.

And who am I? I actively work for a better world, dance for many years (including classical ballet and burlesque) and the academic circles are not strange to me either. I will certainly not shy away from an animated conversation at dinner or evening out.

I love women in all shapes and sizes: masculine, feminine, full and slender:

you are beautiful as you are.

See you soon? I am looking forward to meeting you!

tattoos: yes

piercings: yes (septum & nipple piercings)

option B :

Hi, I work as a researcher at the university, but I compensate my nerdiness with a huge desire to experience exciting adventures together with you. and being loving, but also kinky and naughty ...

Which side do you want to discover?

I'm half Dutch / half American, highly educated, in my early thirties.

I have long brown hair and an enticingly slender, feminine frame. Dancing, long hikes in nature, reading, and playing with my adorable cats are some of the things I love to do.

Perhaps because I was raised between two cultures. I have different sides within me. I am sweet and tender, caring and sincere, with nothing to give me greater joy than pleasing you.

Or do you dare to summon my darker side? Let me take you by hand to the pain and pleasure.

Through loving domination I will allow you to express your desires to the fullest, who you have dreamed about.

Note that in any type of play I prioritize your limits and safety as well as my own.

Explore yourself with me, use me for your pleasure and your pleasure. Let me take you on an adventure! "

tattoos: no

piercings: no

option C:

"Creating beautiful moments together with you, with a smile to think back ... What do you think about now?

Together dining together in a warm bath or enjoying a good glass of wine

or feeling a fine sexual tension? and together, within your limits.

I like when you surprise me. Take me into what you fine. If you prefer that I take the lead, then I do too much.

I'll make sure you can complete yourself to be and to enjoy what you so desire and

you will see that everything will go by itself, let's go in search of passion.

I am a beautiful, slim, tall woman of 28 years. Brown hair and blue eyes. Highly educated, artistic, sensitive and open-minded.



tattoos: no

piercings: 1 nipple piercing

option D.

"I thave been told that I see beauty everywhere - and, let me tell you, they really do it: that is my call, with Eros as well as my soul, my whole body is eager to court you with the deeper respect: only if you please Consent is perennial key.


And if you're a bit afraid, there's no need to refrain, let's go slowly, and check on the way.

May a massage roll out our road, or maybe a warm dance wake up your dream.


Whether your desire is urban or wild, mine is wrapped around your lips, willing to follow your beat.


I am almost thirty years of age. My body is slender, and my flowing locks are long and brown. My hair grows as freely, just as my heart smiles.

Out of my palms, if you feel like it, you will receive Reiki as well. From my tarot deck, if you dare, fluttering cards poised to reveal their portents.


I am a playful and queer being: I delight in toys, different roles, welcoming, and giving too. And whether you approach with implacable hunger, shy curiousity, or fun-loving confidence, I hope you remember, I'm not here to judge.

Behind the foliage of this pride you can find the hard contours or masculine as well, hidden from view in this binary world. I'm here, I'm gentle, I am wild; let's caress and roar for the times that rise.

Now, will you let me blow some magic on your neck, sweetheart? "

Tattoos: yes

Piercings: none


Languages: English, Italian (native), Portuguese (brasileiro), Castilian, French (and peu rouillé)
Really, you should be answering this question on your own lol.

Which one makes you wet your panties?
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none lol
Posted by Ram416

Look for other reviews on that escort service. I somehow don't trust Vice anymore.

If different reviews say the same things, go for it.

If you have the time and money, go for it.
yeah it's hard to find reviews

a quick google search has returned dismal results...like 2 reviews ...one was the business owner

which is a bad sign lol
Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
I saw three sites for lesbian escort services in Amsterdam. Not sure which one you picked though.
Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
and pictures!!
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
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If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.
Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.
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how come?
Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.
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I agree ☝️ 😄
a mix between option C and B sounds like my type.

C sounds like a pisces
Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
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LOL why...elaborate
i have so many aqua friends ...and for me there's just no sex appeal
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

i have so many aqua friends ...and for me there's just no sex appeal
Then most likely a Venus/Moon Aqua. But you'd need their birth info to find out.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate
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In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

i have so many aqua friends ...and for me there's just no sex appeal
Then most likely a Venus/Moon Aqua. But you'd need their birth info to find out.
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i dated one of those.......

meh
Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate


In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
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i feel like this describes me

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

i have so many aqua friends ...and for me there's just no sex appeal


I just love air with fire in it. That is just me.

Obviously you have to find what is right for you. What signs do you find sexually appealing?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

i have so many aqua friends ...and for me there's just no sex appeal
Then most likely a Venus/Moon Aqua. But you'd need their birth info to find out.
i dated one of those.......

meh
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Yeah but for escort, it's completely different from dating someone with those placements. Expectations firstly are very different.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate


In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
i feel like this describes me

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I feel like this is self-flattery.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate


In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
i feel like this describes me

click to expand


Lol Now that you mentioned it describes me too 😄 but that is how I see aqua placements for sure.
Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate


In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
i feel like this describes me

I feel like this is self-flattery.
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well the last bit isn't confirmed....but the rest is from homies.

pisces sun

libra moon

merc aqua

venus taurus

cap mars
Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate


In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
i feel like this describes me



Lol Now that you mentioned it describes me too 😄 but that is how I see aqua placements for sure.
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yeah that's like a lot of pisces women i know

caring open minded fun..adventorous in the bedroom

spontaneous
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Option A sounds interesting. (Plus she's probably really flexible lol)

Option B is 50/50 for me (her ad seems a tad bit try hard)

C : Not enough info

D : 50/50 (the Reiki part sounds promising though)
lol i asked for star sign info
If there's an Aqua sun or moon amongst the 4, pick that one.


I agree ☝️ 😄
LOL why...elaborate


In my experience... super fun, good conversations, open minded, up for anything, caring and great in bed 😄👌
i feel like this describes me



Lol Now that you mentioned it describes me too 😄 but that is how I see aqua placements for sure.
yeah that's like a lot of pisces women i know

caring open minded fun..adventorous in the bedroom

spontaneous
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Yeah 😄
Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

i have so many aqua friends ...and for me there's just no sex appeal


I just love air with fire in it. That is just me.

Obviously, you have to find what is right for you. What signs do you find sexually appealing?
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pisces women

really just one........

energy wise i am drawn to pisces women the most though....

ex was a pisces with aqua venus.

Posted by Ram416

I saw three sites for lesbian escort services in Amsterdam. Not sure which one you picked though.
post the links here!!!
Posted by Ram416

I saw three sites for lesbian escort services in Amsterdam. Not sure which one you picked though.
The Naught Woman!!!
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

I saw three sites for lesbian escort services in Amsterdam. Not sure which one you picked though.
The Naught Woman!!!
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oh De Stoute Vrouw? There's two others, why not try those as well?
Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

I saw three sites for lesbian escort services in Amsterdam. Not sure which one you picked though.
The Naught Woman!!!
oh De Stoute Vrouw? There's two others, why not try those as well?
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i'd love to do more research!!!

could you post links to the other two?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Ram416

I saw three sites for lesbian escort services in Amsterdam. Not sure which one you picked though.
The Naught Woman!!!
oh De Stoute Vrouw? There's two others, why not try those as well?
i'd love to do more research!!!

could you post links to the other two?
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I will PM you.
D for me, please Winking. No contest here. Massage, tarot, toys, imaginative, Reiki, Latin passion...
Posted by DrinkWater

I've seen your photos. You could easyly meet a higher quality women at a bar.
i like this idea because it's free
Sometimes I wish I could do this kind of thing lol

Go with B the nerdy ones tend to be freaky!
A

She seems professional but friendly
I like A and B
e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person
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then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.
Posted by jeane

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person


then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.
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a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person


then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.
a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

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Also escorts a lot of the time are more safe as well as having that control. And if worse comes to worse you could just chill with no strings attached and have a nice night.
I would totally do this

I’ve never had a lesbian experience but its a fantasy

Having the opportunity to create a safe environment where I can flirt with the idea is nice. If things click and we have sex, great

If I dont feel like I’m ready, great

I know she will be a professional and attentive either way

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person


then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.
a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

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a common misconception is that consent is freely given? shouldn't consent be freely given? are you advocating otherwise?

you can justify being a consumer of prostitution however you like. it's my opinion that it's distasteful to purchase another person in this way.

i don't agree with comparison that sex outside of prostitution is far more dangerous which means that buying an escort is necessary.
Posted by elllle

I'm enjoying this thread but it makes me ponder if the posts would be different if OP was a man.
Well if it was still a "lesbian" escort than yeah I'd imagine the responses would be different 🤣
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Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person


then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.
a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

a common misconception is that consent is freely given? shouldn't consent be freely given? are you advocating otherwise?

you can justify being a consumer of prostitution however you like. it's my opinion that it's distasteful to purchase another person in this way.

i don't agree with comparison that sex outside of prostitution is far more dangerous which means that buying an escort is necessary.
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consent isn't freely given in non escort scenarios.

that was my point.

women feel pressured to do things they don't want all the time even with other women....

but agree to disagree.

and while again it may not be necessary for you that is your own personal opinion based on your own experiences.

if you're willing to be open to this idea enough to learn about it at a later date and maybe challenge some of your assumptions you can read an article posted on vice and the services they provide here :

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/594wzz/what-ive-learned-from-working-as-a-lesbian-escort

Posted by elllle

I'm enjoying this thread but it makes me ponder if the posts would be different if OP was a man.
OF COURSE...it would be!!!

finally, a double standard that works in my favor lol.

one assumption which is true is that if i was a man i definitely would want to have sex with this escort.

as a woman who falls under the asexual umbrella...sex is most likely not going to happen tbh

but this is a safe , intriguing environment to at the very least have some wine , food and conversation with a niche sex worker in a legal highly regulated environment

the service offers teaser dates....which are more company/conversation orientated.

especially catering to first-timers and curious women who have never had a "lesbian encounter"

Posted by Black-Mamba

This is the weirdest thread ever.

A woman getting an escort

Good luck i guess.

and they say cancers are supposed to be kinky / sex positive lol
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.
i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person


then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.
a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

a common misconception is that consent is freely given? shouldn't consent be freely given? are you advocating otherwise?

you can justify being a consumer of prostitution however you like. it's my opinion that it's distasteful to purchase another person in this way.

i don't agree with comparison that sex outside of prostitution is far more dangerous which means that buying an escort is necessary.
consent isn't freely given in non escort scenarios.

that was my point.

women feel pressured to do things they don't want all the time even with other women....

but agree to disagree.

and while again it may not be necessary for you that is your own personal opinion based on your own experiences.

if you're willing to be open to this idea enough to learn about it at a later date and maybe challenge some of your assumptions you can read an article posted on vice and the services they provide here :

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/594wzz/what-ive-learned-from-working-as-a-lesbian-escort

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i've had quite a lot of first hand experience with women who work as prostitutes. they're not doing it because it's fun and it's their first choice of occupation.

but yeah agree to disagree. i could never support such an industry.
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