Posted by ACsquareplutoJust once for you. Mind stating his/their signs.
Attracted to many things other than looks. If the attractive man negs me, etc that's the main thing which erodes my respect for him. Unless the criticism my way is perceivably true
Gemini/11th Venus; Venus cazimi sun, trine Saturn, quincunx Pluto, sextile ascendant
Posted by rejuvenatedheartHappens often?
Yes.
Venus in Virgo
House III
Semisquare Ascendant
Semisextile Sun
Semisquare Moon
Conjunct Mercury
Biquintile Uranus
Sesquiquadrate Neptune
Square Pluto
Semisquare Chiron
Conjunct Black Moon Lilith
Posted by nikkistarDamn, your post is almost exactly my experience.
Yup. It's happened at least twice for me.
Right after I got divorced, I had a FWB that was a Scorpio. The sex was amazing, probably the best I have ever had. But dating him? Nope. Not in the least, didn't want to. The last time I saw him for a weekend, he kept bringing up how someone was gonna catch feelings. To the point, it really got on my nerves, because I thought he was accusing me of wanting more. I dropped him, and about a year later, caught up with him randomly, and found out he wanted more.
The other one, was very much the same. Morning after, he said something along the lines of "Now don't go falling in love." I laughed at him, and told him for me to do that, I would have to want to date him, and I didn't. Pretty face, but vapid af. I don't like stupid.
This was in my teens, but there was one more in there. But I don't count that one.
Posted by ACsquareplutoI had sex with a Libra I loathed. He didn't "neg' me. I just found him vulgar. He finally got me with witty vulgarity, begging, acting like a frog prince.Posted by VenusAquariusNegging: picking apart your appearance or feeding your insecurities seemingly for the purpose to diminish your self-value. Its happened a few times but I don't feel my examples fit the OP too well. I've had people I considered unattractive neg me (Leo, Virgo) but when my attractive Pisces ex did it I loved him anyway due to his kind, nurturing, confident and responsible sidePosted by ACsquareplutoJust once for you. Mind stating his/their signs.
Attracted to many things other than looks. If the attractive man negs me, etc that's the main thing which erodes my respect for him. Unless the criticism my way is perceivably true
Gemini/11th Venus; Venus cazimi sun, trine Saturn, quincunx Pluto, sextile ascendant
What turned you on?
Nagging made him a no?
examples of negging: "You're weird" (Virgo said it) "You'll never be considered anything but a junkie bitch" (Leo said it) "You have a 7-head" (Pisces said it) yet they continued seeking me out: if you have such a low opinion of me why does it have to be me to cut contact? diminishes my respect
This happens on a more casual level and I instantly respect the person less since I'm not the type to seek this type of communication. Won't name signs though, don't always know them.
The main things I'm attracted to are stoicism and integrityclick to expand
Posted by EllygantI think he did that to set "the tone" of the relationship that he wanted. He liked you but wanted a power dynamic that you can only get through his manipulative tactic... he wanted to see if you would crawl or were thirsty enough to "not date" leaving the door open for whateva.
Yeah a fwb I had a few years ago. Great looking dude. Women would be all over him constantly when out.
But early on, after our 2nd or 3rd date, I made a comment about how we were dating. He bluntly said ‘I don’t date.’ It flipped my switch off and never went back. We fucked around for another month or two. I stopped seeing him when I met someone I really liked.
Later found out he really liked me. He said that to look tough. Fecking cancer placements(he had cancer mars) always say the opposite of what they actually want. He spent the last two years asking me out again and again. He was hot and the sex was great but I never really wanted to, not even for a casual repeat fling.
Tho I almost did go out with him. He asked at a time I was on the rebound and didn’t wanna sit at home and mope. Wanted to have fun. Then he got a stomach virus and had to cancel so I took it as a sign to stay on the road I always felt was best for me with him, away. Lol.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartYour placements look very contemplative. Don't seem like you'll fall for much. Ever had your heart broken? Doesn't seem so. Very sharp in matters of the heart... no?
Yes.
Venus in Virgo
House III
Semisquare Ascendant
Semisextile Sun
Semisquare Moon
Conjunct Mercury
Biquintile Uranus
Sesquiquadrate Neptune
Square Pluto
Semisquare Chiron
Conjunct Black Moon Lilith
Posted by rejuvenatedheartThat comment was about 3 different exes 😅Posted by YodiThe Scorpio you made a comment about today? 😂
I almost posted a comment yesterday saying " I wanna man that'll bring that crazy out of me.. still not in love"
Idk when was the last time I was really in love..
Damn I don't want to become a cold crab 😅click to expand
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by YodiAHAHAPosted by rejuvenatedheartThat comment was about 3 different exes 😅Posted by YodiThe Scorpio you made a comment about today? 😂
I almost posted a comment yesterday saying " I wanna man that'll bring that crazy out of me.. still not in love"
Idk when was the last time I was really in love..
Damn I don't want to become a cold crab 😅
Scorp with a aqua moon
Virgo with a libra moon
And a scorpio with a libra moon
But maybe your right..the last time was with the lazy azz scorpio with the libra moon.
I don't let men pass a certain depth with me anymore
... Tell me about the Scorp with the Aqua Moon... Can DM me.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaOMG with the emotional connection. What? How? With someone you don't know?Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
I feel that way about the LEO sun Taurus moon
like he looks good
but really no emotional connectionclick to expand
Posted by JaimeSome sorta supposed script flippin like "catch me, kiss me." But, I wasn't playing that game so no "script flippin." I'm very difficult to screw the first time.Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by ACsquareplutoI had sex with a Libra I loathed. He didn't "neg' me. I just found him vulgar. He finally got me with witty vulgarity, begging, acting like a frog prince.Posted by VenusAquariusNegging: picking apart your appearance or feeding your insecurities seemingly for the purpose to diminish your self-value. Its happened a few times but I don't feel my examples fit the OP too well. I've had people I considered unattractive neg me (Leo, Virgo) but when my attractive Pisces ex did it I loved him anyway due to his kind, nurturing, confident and responsible sidePosted by ACsquareplutoJust once for you. Mind stating his/their signs.
Attracted to many things other than looks. If the attractive man negs me, etc that's the main thing which erodes my respect for him. Unless the criticism my way is perceivably true
Gemini/11th Venus; Venus cazimi sun, trine Saturn, quincunx Pluto, sextile ascendant
What turned you on?
Nagging made him a no?
examples of negging: "You're weird" (Virgo said it) "You'll never be considered anything but a junkie bitch" (Leo said it) "You have a 7-head" (Pisces said it) yet they continued seeking me out: if you have such a low opinion of me why does it have to be me to cut contact? diminishes my respect
This happens on a more casual level and I instantly respect the person less since I'm not the type to seek this type of communication. Won't name signs though, don't always know them.
The main things I'm attracted to are stoicism and integrity
Sometimes I feel like men want sex and think by fucking you, it'll bring you down a few pegs others think it it makes you fall in love. Now, it can't do both. Dick ego thinking dick is magic. Where do they learn that? I had one guy wanna screw cause he was jealous. Thought I was a snooty, rich bitch.
Then, they get shocked when it didn't... didn't call, didn't speak, etc. I didn't care cause you gave me no reason to care. I guess they think I mistake sex for love.
Then, if thy try to play "feminine" games, I get a wee bit sinister to show em how just fucking cold I can really be.
Lol @ them trying to play feminine games... biggest turn off ever. I’d drop him like a hot potatoclick to expand
Posted by Black-MambaNo, I don't understand. I'm heavy air. Please explain to me how you expect to connect. Sincere here.Posted by VenusAquariushes not easy to connect withPosted by Black-MambaOMG with the emotional connection. What? How? With someone you don't know?Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
I feel that way about the LEO sun Taurus moon
like he looks good
but really no emotional connection
you understand
thats why i prefer waterclick to expand
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou had expectations of decent intelligence? I talk to 'em for a while. Or, did they fake smart?
Yea that happened, mostly because those guys are physically attractive but dumb as a rock. Hate stupid people.
Posted by JaimeSee, this I halfway understand. You waited a fairly appropriate amount of time, even after sex, and he wasn't.... what?
Yes it’s happened a couple of times.
He could be the sexiest man alive but if I don’t feel a deep emotional connection I’m not going to be around long. Even if there’s a sexual connection, it fizzles out fast if that’s all there is.
Leo Venus in the 4th house
Posted by Black-MambaI don't think of that as an emotional connection. I just call it easy to talk to. There's a guy at work we hit it off right away with conversation. But, I wouldn't dear categorize it as an emotional connection... gross.Posted by VenusAquariusIt's simple as you feel comfortable talking to one another. There's no tension or second guessing.Posted by Black-MambaNo, I don't understand. I'm heavy air. Please explain to me how you expect to connect. Sincere here.Posted by VenusAquariushes not easy to connect withPosted by Black-MambaOMG with the emotional connection. What? How? With someone you don't know?Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
I feel that way about the LEO sun Taurus moon
like he looks good
but really no emotional connection
you understand
thats why i prefer water
For instance i was talking to this gentleman today, he told me what was up in his life, we chatted, i learned he races in sailboats, he invited me out to race with him
now he is getting married so it's not like that
but the conversation was easy, it didn't feel like i was pulling anything out of himclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, it seems you were able to bypass the dick.
Yeah many times
Beautiful beautiful man, opens his mouth and ruins it
Posted by Black-MambaMmm-mmm. I have people, strangers, tell me their deepest secrets in one day, even a week... spiritual, clean, connection. They get emotional but, I don't think romantic nor, do I want to fuck them because of it. If I did, I would be an opportunist... fucking people when they're emotionally vulnerable.Posted by VenusAquariustrue, but that easy connection leads to an emotional connection don't you think?Posted by Black-MambaI don't think of that as an emotional connection. I just call it easy to talk to. There's a guy at work we hit it off right away with conversation. But, I wouldn't dear categorize it as an emotional connection... gross.Posted by VenusAquariusIt's simple as you feel comfortable talking to one another. There's no tension or second guessing.Posted by Black-MambaNo, I don't understand. I'm heavy air. Please explain to me how you expect to connect. Sincere here.Posted by VenusAquariushes not easy to connect withPosted by Black-MambaOMG with the emotional connection. What? How? With someone you don't know?Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
I feel that way about the LEO sun Taurus moon
like he looks good
but really no emotional connection
you understand
thats why i prefer water
For instance i was talking to this gentleman today, he told me what was up in his life, we chatted, i learned he races in sailboats, he invited me out to race with him
now he is getting married so it's not like that
but the conversation was easy, it didn't feel like i was pulling anything out of himclick to expand
Posted by mudraYes ma'am been there. I ask for revelation. Sometimes I'm forced to draw them to see it. Sometimes, I get literal revelation. I was following my gut but, that one wouldn't leave me alone.
It recently happened because there is something there I just don't trust. The feeling is very strong about it. If your body and mind is repelling... listen.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
Posted by Black-MambaGot it.Posted by VenusAquariusWell that happens alot to me as well.Posted by Black-MambaMmm-mmm. I have people, strangers, tell me their deepest secrets in one day, even a week... spiritual, clean, connection. They get emotional but, I don't think romantic nor, do I want to fuck them because of it. If I did, I would be an opportunist... fucking people when they're emotionally vulnerable.Posted by VenusAquariustrue, but that easy connection leads to an emotional connection don't you think?Posted by Black-MambaI don't think of that as an emotional connection. I just call it easy to talk to. There's a guy at work we hit it off right away with conversation. But, I wouldn't dear categorize it as an emotional connection... gross.Posted by VenusAquariusIt's simple as you feel comfortable talking to one another. There's no tension or second guessing.Posted by Black-MambaNo, I don't understand. I'm heavy air. Please explain to me how you expect to connect. Sincere here.Posted by VenusAquariushes not easy to connect withPosted by Black-MambaOMG with the emotional connection. What? How? With someone you don't know?Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
I feel that way about the LEO sun Taurus moon
like he looks good
but really no emotional connection
you understand
thats why i prefer water
For instance i was talking to this gentleman today, he told me what was up in his life, we chatted, i learned he races in sailboats, he invited me out to race with him
now he is getting married so it's not like that
but the conversation was easy, it didn't feel like i was pulling anything out of him
all im saying is for me communication is key to even developing an emotional connection
like straight up open a $ $ communication, bare your soul raw communication
and yeah i can be physically into you super hard core, but communication sets me freeclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiMen feel this way all the time.Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
No! I can’t even comprehend what are you talking about.
You want to fuck him but you don’t want to talk to him?
It must be ‘new age’ screw up!
Fuck! I am glad I am older...for no apparent reason except I would be...no...there is no word for that in dictionary...👀click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusI don’t ‘think’...Posted by GemitatiMen feel this way all the time.Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
No! I can’t even comprehend what are you talking about.
You want to fuck him but you don’t want to talk to him?
It must be ‘new age’ screw up!
Fuck! I am glad I am older...for no apparent reason except I would be...no...there is no word for that in dictionary...👀
Think about it.
Hence, all the DXP sob stories.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusAre they talking to you hoping you’ll put out? Are you sure?Posted by Black-MambaMmm-mmm. I have people, strangers, tell me their deepest secrets in one day, even a week... spiritual, clean, connection. They get emotional but, I don't think romantic nor, do I want to fuck them because of it. If I did, I would be an opportunist... fucking people when they're emotionally vulnerable.Posted by VenusAquariustrue, but that easy connection leads to an emotional connection don't you think?Posted by Black-MambaI don't think of that as an emotional connection. I just call it easy to talk to. There's a guy at work we hit it off right away with conversation. But, I wouldn't dear categorize it as an emotional connection... gross.Posted by VenusAquariusIt's simple as you feel comfortable talking to one another. There's no tension or second guessing.Posted by Black-MambaNo, I don't understand. I'm heavy air. Please explain to me how you expect to connect. Sincere here.Posted by VenusAquariushes not easy to connect withPosted by Black-MambaOMG with the emotional connection. What? How? With someone you don't know?Posted by VenusAquarius
Ladies.... Have you ever felt that way? I have. Been sexually attracted to a man but, you don't feel romantically inclined.
Very popular for men to feel this way, right?
From what I understand it's uncommon for us females.
Any other "uncommon" females out there? Do you know why you felt that way?
I would love to hear from guys who experienced women who were sexually attracted to them but, would not commit.
If possible list Venus sign, house, aspects.
I feel that way about the LEO sun Taurus moon
like he looks good
but really no emotional connection
you understand
thats why i prefer water
For instance i was talking to this gentleman today, he told me what was up in his life, we chatted, i learned he races in sailboats, he invited me out to race with him
now he is getting married so it's not like that
but the conversation was easy, it didn't feel like i was pulling anything out of himclick to expand
Posted by Black-MambaAll I can think about is that creep dude. Girl crying and he thinks it's time to put his hands up her legs. You that dude?
I can't really connect with airy or unemotional types. I'm an emotional person. I desire someone with the same ZEST
I need him to be vulnerable sometimes. i hate cold people
Posted by Black-MambaI expect that with anyone who wants to be in my circle. Have with all my friends and family, especially my dad. That's a must to be in any of my circles.Posted by VenusAquariusno but i recently had an interaction with a crab where we delved into lots of crazy subject mattersPosted by Black-MambaAll I can think about is that creep dude. Girl crying and he thinks it's time to put his hands up her legs. You that dude?
I can't really connect with airy or unemotional types. I'm an emotional person. I desire someone with the same ZEST
I need him to be vulnerable sometimes. i hate cold people
and it felt very close
i want that kind of closenessclick to expand
Posted by Black-MambaI told you...Posted by VenusAquariuswow okayPosted by Black-MambaI expect that with anyone who wants to be in my circle. Have with all my friends and family, especially my dad. That's a must to be in any of my circles.Posted by VenusAquariusno but i recently had an interaction with a crab where we delved into lots of crazy subject mattersPosted by Black-MambaAll I can think about is that creep dude. Girl crying and he thinks it's time to put his hands up her legs. You that dude?
I can't really connect with airy or unemotional types. I'm an emotional person. I desire someone with the same ZEST
I need him to be vulnerable sometimes. i hate cold people
and it felt very close
i want that kind of closeness
it seems we cant connect on an understand of what i am statingclick to expand