How do I find out if she's freaky?

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by hellosaggy on Friday, April 19, 2019 and has 14 replies.
How do I find out if a girl is "open" without grilling her about what she likes and doesn't like, without rushing to the conversation? My ex-scorpio and I were having a regular conversation when she mentioned to me she loved to give BJs and take it up the butt. we hadn't even had sex yet, but I was instantly enamored. I was legitimately trying to just be her friend, as I was pursuing other things, and I instantly took her off my friend zone...

I don't want to come across frustrated when I have a gal pal, realize she is pretty vanilla, or even against some vanilla sex acts, and I want to dump her.

One of my very good female ex-fwb, who is now engaged lol... told me. if you want to cum on her face, and she doesn't want/let you, there is another woman out there that will. Which is completely sound advice, but I would rather not have to drop someone because the sex is below par.

SO LPDR..... how can you figure out sex chemistry early on without slow knowledge gathering, so you don't have to go through process of dumping her.

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what about the anti-bj/ enough to shut you up bj givers... news flash on the "enough to shut you up" bj givers... its never enough....
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Posted by Hapis

Try to slip a thumb in her butt.. tells you all you need to know
pffft. I've had plenty that take a finger or tongue...plugs, etc.... as Soon as I ask to stroke it a little, I get a "hell no, you are too big".....
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Ask her if she knows what a "shocker" is. If she can answer that question, she probably is freaky.
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Sometimes it depends on how big your dick is. For me, smaller dicks get more variety.
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Posted by Hapis

Try to slip a thumb in her butt.. tells you all you need to know
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what about the anti-bj/ enough to shut you up bj givers... news flash on the "enough to shut you up" bj givers... its never enough....
Road head. I've always noticed women who give road head actually love giving head. Its awkward, it's easy to be caught in public.

Try to get road head and slip a thumb in. If its a negative call her an uber. JK.
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lol.... this aqua I'm dating, she's anti BJ... but after a drink or two. its road head, or she is sucking like she's trying to take my soul out of me.... any other time..... she makes fake gagging sounds anytime I request one.

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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by Hapis

Try to slip a thumb in her butt.. tells you all you need to know
pffft. I've had plenty that take a finger or tongue...plugs, etc.... as Soon as I ask to stroke it a little, I get a "hell no, you are too big".....
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Ah, just like I said... sorry charlie. Smaller dicks get more play.

You jus can't have it all. It's fucking painful... shit, dammit, you.
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Sometimes it depends on how big your dick is. For me, smaller dicks get more variety.
That's discrimination! I feel, if you taking things off menu, then I should be able to as well.

case in point, aqua im dating loves butt play, but we've done it one time in 15 months.... and she always jokes about how she misses anal.... but anytime I suggest it, I get a Hellllllll no. she said if I was white she'd do it (her words not mine)... she said women don't want a dick in there bigger than the poop that comes out.

I need to find a girl on a sugar daddy site or something where I can spell out what I like, and just match on it.
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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Sometimes it depends on how big your dick is. For me, smaller dicks get more variety.
That's discrimination! I feel, if you taking things off menu, then I should be able to as well.

case in point, aqua im dating loves butt play, but we've done it one time in 15 months.... and she always jokes about how she misses anal.... but anytime I suggest it, I get a Hellllllll no. she said if I was white she'd do it (her words not mine)... she said women don't want a dick in there bigger than the poop that comes out.

I need to find a girl on a sugar daddy site or something where I can spell out what I like, and just match on it.
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Don't forget to tell 'em your dick length and width too.

Your dick size took it off the damned menu, son.
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Posted by Hapis

Try to slip a thumb in her butt.. tells you all you need to know
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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Sometimes it depends on how big your dick is. For me, smaller dicks get more variety.
That's discrimination! I feel, if you taking things off menu, then I should be able to as well.

case in point, aqua im dating loves butt play, but we've done it one time in 15 months.... and she always jokes about how she misses anal.... but anytime I suggest it, I get a Hellllllll no. she said if I was white she'd do it (her words not mine)... she said women don't want a dick in there bigger than the poop that comes out.

I need to find a girl on a sugar daddy site or something where I can spell out what I like, and just match on it.
Don't forget to tell 'em your dick length and width too.

Your dick size took it off the damned menu, son.
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lol. it's only big because they choose to see it as such. its a decent size. it's not porno size, but I'm comfortable saying I'm above average in length, width, and girth....

If I had a donkey dick I could see it being an issue, I just need her to have some perseverance.

your main categories are: vag, mouth, and booty... hands don't count..... being limited to one is BS.
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I don't think you can tell.

I don't talk about what I do sexually when I first meet a guy and I get annoyed if a guy asks me the blow job question. I don't even know why guys ask this.

I will ask a guy if he does "everything" and if he says "no, I don't do this or that" I will question him more. I'm pretty up front and will tell a guy that I'm pretty open to different things. He can take it as an interpretation of whatever he wants. But I don't like being asks specific question, since I don't tell a guy that I don't do stuff.

I want a guy to use his imagination. Maybe he has some new ideas that we can try! Big Grin

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Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Sometimes it depends on how big your dick is. For me, smaller dicks get more variety.
That's discrimination! I feel, if you taking things off menu, then I should be able to as well.

case in point, aqua im dating loves butt play, but we've done it one time in 15 months.... and she always jokes about how she misses anal.... but anytime I suggest it, I get a Hellllllll no. she said if I was white she'd do it (her words not mine)... she said women don't want a dick in there bigger than the poop that comes out.

I need to find a girl on a sugar daddy site or something where I can spell out what I like, and just match on it.
Don't forget to tell 'em your dick length and width too.

Your dick size took it off the damned menu, son.
lol. it's only big because they choose to see it as such. its a decent size. it's not porno size, but I'm comfortable saying I'm above average in length, width, and girth....

If I had a donkey dick I could see it being an issue, I just need her to have some perseverance.

your main categories are: vag, mouth, and booty... hands don't count..... being limited to one is BS.
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The fact that you don't give measurements says it all buddy.
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