Posted by SoulWow! I love what you wrote!
I like pretending like I don't really care about them at first. That might sound like a bad way to attract women, but you will eventually end up with women who are honestly attracted to you for who you are, and not some delusional bs. Once I know the cards are in my favor, I give them anything they could desire emotionally, financially, and sexually. Most women have seen all types of men. If you are too nice they might friend zone you. If you act like a badass and they are normal minded with long term goals, they will likely want nothing to do with you in the long run. Though the type of men who are bad with good traits and secretly emotional and deep tend to attract the fuck out of women. Women love a man who can feel deeply, but also is strong and genuine. Someone who does what they say they will, and even if they fail they wipe the dirt off and become better. Just don't fake it with a woman because you think she is attractive. That will get you nowhere except hurt or confused, and what you need is someone that wants you for who you are. Not the person you pretend to be to gain their attraction. If they don't seem attracted to you then move on. You don't need a person like that in your life anyway, and there are millions of other people down the road that will be attractive in your eyes and end up truly perfect for you.
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