I fucking hate boys*

I have a real animosity towards them. And I can't stop it. I know it's wrong and unhealthy, but it's overtaken me as of late. I can feel it polluting me and aging me but I don't know how to snap myself out of this mindset.

*by boys, I mean adult males, not actual underage male children.

Posted by Andalusia
I have a real animosity towards them. And I can't stop it. I know it's wrong and unhealthy, but it's overtaken me as of late. I can feel it polluting me and aging me but I don't know how to snap myself out of this mindset.

*by boys, I mean adult males, not actual underage male children.

What's the reason?

Posted by Andalusia
I have a real animosity towards them. And I can't stop it. I know it's wrong and unhealthy, but it's overtaken me as of late. I can feel it polluting me and aging me but I don't know how to snap myself out of this mindset.

*by boys, I mean adult males, not actual underage male children.

Head over to @Whorpio 's lesbehonest thread. She's taking signups for an experiment she's looking to do.

Posted by PossessionSt
What is your issue with them?

All lines are busy. We will get to you in 24 to 240 hours. Your call is very unimportant to us. Have a good day if you can! Beeeep

Posted by Ellygant
Find someone who's been there and come out the other side. That's the only thing that helped me. It's hard.

Mine was less animosity and more a deep seeded hatred and rage against them. Which over time fossilized into disgust and the inability to trust. Like you I knew t wasn't good for me. But I was so stuck in my cycle no one could break me of it. Most people couldn't understand the intensity of why I felt that way and thought I was rediculous.

Then I met someone who'd experienced the same. She understood and validated my reasons for feeling so intensely. While gently showing me how I was letting myself be ruled by the hatred and it wasn't protecting me like I thought, but was hurting me even more and keeping my old wounds open. She helped me feel the benefit to letting go and seeing things with a new perception.

Yes. To all of this.

You are so wise elly. Thank you for again putting into words what I was trying to say.

It's really hard not to. But women can be as bad. That's the thing... why continue a cycle instead of choosing to break it? That's like mindlessly surrendering yourself to society's mess. It's like when you were abused as a child, you're apparently most likely to continue it. It's a matter of having strong will to not be influenced and fall into bad patterns around us and be above it. The reality is most people are weak

They are called men. Too difficult of a word for you to say?

I'm a woman. I hate girls like you. The worst types of cunts out there - the man hating ones.

So buzz your hair and go roam the streets being the crazy assed bull dyke feminazi you were born to be.

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Posted by Andalusia
I know it's wrong and unhealthy, but it's overtaken me as of late. I can feel it polluting me and aging me

Not that this was the point of your thread, but that's damn good writing

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Awwh, thanks tizzy.

As you should. Nobody wants an adult boy. You need to start looking for real men, not guys posing as one, aka "boys."

Posted by 81gems
They are called men. Too difficult of a word for you to say?

I'm a woman. I hate girls like you. The worst types of cunts out there - the man hating ones.

So buzz your hair and go roam the streets being the crazy assed bull dyke feminazi you were born to be.

And I hate women like you who immediately take on the male mindset of stigmatizing "lesbian" with man haters.

You are of the ignorant and cunty type, which is worse than the type you're crying about. Go back to the kitchen, bitch.

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Posted by 81gems
They are called men. Too difficult of a word for you to say?

I'm a woman. I hate girls like you. The worst types of cunts out there - the man hating ones.

So buzz your hair and go roam the streets being the crazy assed bull dyke feminazi you were born to be.

And I hate women like you who immediately take on the male mindset of stigmatizing "lesbian" with man haters.

You are of the ignorant and cunty type, which is worse than the type you're crying about. Go back to the kitchen, bitch.

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After you, honey...

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by 81gems
They are called men. Too difficult of a word for you to say?

I'm a woman. I hate girls like you. The worst types of cunts out there - the man hating ones.

So buzz your hair and go roam the streets being the crazy assed bull dyke feminazi you were born to be.

Shut up dickhead.

She's having a whine.

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whiney little bitches.

Posted by Andalusia
I have a real animosity towards them. And I can't stop it. I know it's wrong and unhealthy, but it's overtaken me as of late. I can feel it polluting me and aging me but I don't know how to snap myself out of this mindset.

*by boys, I mean adult males, not actual underage male children.

Take people as you find them to be. We all have our triggers. Just realize and explain them to people.

I am sorry if you have been hurt. You can heal. Healing should be your priority.

It's not necessary for you to have a relationship in life. Healing is necessary for life though.

I know how you feel. I have much much healing to do. But we can do it. 🙂

And do you know what?? If someone bad guy has hurt you..it's ok to HATE HIM.

Funny thing is ...most guys would hate him too if they knew what he had done etc.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
As you should. Nobody wants an adult boy. You need to start looking for real men, not guys posing as one, aka "boys."

Jesus good point!