Ladies...would you ever Fight for a man, to make him Yours?

Posted by pooface222

Warning..I DON'T MEAN A PUNCH-UP TYPE FIGHT!


Yes Yes Yes..

To those of you who know my story, I'm harking back to this Pisces guy but having different thoughts this time.

Being a feminine guy he seems very much to want a woman to be more like a man.

Eg when a man fights for a woman he wants. Men being the hunters etc.


If a man is unhappy in his relationship but wants You, BUT is having trouble leaving her for you (insecurity, fear of the unknown), would you fight for him?

And I mean a guy you are so deeply in love with that you cannot live without him. You have connection, shared interests, you are very compatible, 'get' each other, chemistry both out and in the bedroom..and more.


Eg Pushing him over and over, to leave her (and by Push I mean Firmly Encourage, not to push him around).

Being vulnerable with him, to really show him you want him; giving him ultimatums if he doesn't leave her.

And any other shows of passionate behaviour including getting angry at him, then crying, storming off!

Ok a bit drama queen there but!


And Nooo


I don't want to hear NO GUY IS WORTH IT!


Thats too easy to say.


What if you felt a guy was worth it and you wanted him that badly with everything you have with each other.


I always felt this Pisces guy needed a proper level of security from me to know he will be ok leaving her for me.

He is very very insecure! Is Depressive. Disorganised. And Always talked about his craving for Security & Safety.


But i never really showed just how much I TRULY wanted him.

I was quiet and wishy-washy with him.


And as a Capricorn my natural reserve, and slow-to-open-up, slow to trust (sadly known as Capricorns COLDNESS), caused him to actually call me an Ice Queen about 2yrs ago!


I hated this because he didn't see that I had given him options for us to be together, and easily too; but he only wanted things to happen His way!

I guess that may have been his Aries Mars at workt though!


Anyway, would you emotionally and verbally Fight for a guy to leave his partner for you?


Or..


Would you just think that if a guy is THAT MUCH EFFORT, he's not worth it?

Posted by nanobotz

You actually sound extremely delusional. If he felt the same way about you and he felt like you were worth it too - he wouldn’t be with another woman right now.

Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It’s not going to happen unless he wants to leave. Being scared to leave = not leaving ever.

You leave when it’s harder to stay than it is to leave.


Fighting for something like this is not a good idea. It’s more like banging your head against a wall. My opinion is you give a person an opportunity & then it’s up to them. You go live your life & if they truly want you they will make themselves available. Otherwise they don’t truly want you. Actions not words..

Posted by hydorah

Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

You might not realize it , but the first part of your post is just going to convince her that she has to fight for them.

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It’s not going to happen unless he wants to leave. Being scared to leave = not leaving ever.

You leave when it’s harder to stay than it is to leave.


Fighting for something like this is not a good idea. It’s more like banging your head against a wall. My opinion is you give a person an opportunity & then it’s up to them. You go live your life & if they truly want you they will make themselves available. Otherwise they don’t truly want you. Actions not words..

Exactly!

And for me, it was harder to stay than it was to leave.

My Aries husband would scream at me with his Control because I refused to obey him. I'm not a goddamn doormat!

And when he was not behaving like that,I got silent treatment, refusing sex, affection and conversations.

Then telling me he Loves me!

It SCRWED with my head & heart!


The Pisces guy talked to me, shared himself, connected himself to me. And I to him. And he got to know me in ways my husband never ever even came close to at all.

So I craved the Pisces as could no longer bear the cold empty harsh pain of mycontrplling husband!

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Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

Posted by pooface222

Posted by nanobotz

You actually sound extremely delusional. If he felt the same way about you and he felt like you were worth it too - he wouldn’t be with another woman right now.

He was with her when we met.

They were already in a long-term rship together.

And..he lives in Her house.

So..

What he was trying to do, was get me to leave my husband, family,home, life and security FIRST, while he moves out of Her house, into Mine - after Divorce.


Bear in mind that She (the partner), left her husband, family, home, life and security, for Him to move in to her house, after Divorce.


But..

Because I wasn't leaving my partner FIRST, before he left his partner, he got insecure, and waited More until I left First.

I mean sh*t!

What guarantee did I have that he will even leave her!? None!

So i suggested we Rent together so we BOTH leave our partners at the same tome.

But he said "I don't want to rent."

Yeah because he didn't want to pay out any money to be with me.


I was expected to give up everything for him, to put a roof over his head - just like his partner did - yet he won't pay out a small amount of money on rent Just to start our life together.!?


Basically he was trying to keep his cash for himself - like he did with his partner - while I subsidise Him!


He even used to call me to moan about his partner to me and he would literally say..

"My partner picks fights with me about Money!"


Err well Yeaahh!

She put a roof over his head and gave him security and a life while he keeps all his cash for himself.

Then he wanted the same deal with me.!


Life is Not a Free Ride!

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

Thank you x x


I Love EVERYTHING you said x


Now..

I was exactly that with him. Sweet Funny Kind Caring Loving Charming etc..

I never pursued him!

I was just all of those things.

AND I told him I want to leave my husband for him.

He told me he wants to leave his partner for me.


But..he was constantly pushing me to leave FIRST!

It scared me!

Why should I leave FIRST with Zero guarantee (apart from his Words), that he would leave her?!?

Can you- as a woman with lots of Pisces man experiences - explain that to me?


So..seeing as i wasn't leaving - because I suggested we BOTH leave together- he got insecure and VANISHED!

And so started the famous Pisces Disappearing Act!

Disappear/Reappear/Disappear/Reappear.


He disappeared out of insecurity because I wasn't leaving my husband!


Now..

Get this..


You said NOT to Pursue a Pisces because they hate being controlled.

Yes. I do know this. I noticed it ages ago with him.


However..

His Disappearing triggered my already present insecurity from my controlling husband who gives me silent treatment!


So guess what??


I began Pursuing the Pisces!


I was lonely as hell in my marriage so with a deeply emotional Pisces guy (in love with each other), who began Disappearing on me, it HURT like f** having him vanish, so I began chasing/pursuing him.

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Posted by pooface222

And Nooo


I don't want to hear NO GUY IS WORTH IT!...

Posted by pooface222

...And I mean a guy you are so deeply in love with that you cannot live without him. You have connection, shared interests, you are very compatible, 'get' each other, chemistry both out and in the bedroom..and more...

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Posted by MyStarsShine

....I can’t be with a man I’d lose respect for

Posted by saggurl88

Nope. I don’t fight for a difficult guy. Especially not one attached to someone else.

But I’ve been told that’s part of the problem with me by them. 😅

For me it’s easier to move on then to deal with stress they are trying to put me through.


I value my self worth over love.


You can love the next 10 people you meet and date. It’s something that is constant and can happen often. People are always afraid to fall in love, cause it happens so easily.


Respect and valuing your partner is harder to find. Which is why I prefer this over love.

I like loving someone but could care less about it when it comes to stressful situations.

Love doesn’t factor in if I’m being disrespected.

Posted by jeane

no. fuck that shit. im not one for convincing people i am the best option. either they know or they don't.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Why are you making it seem like he is trapped at her house and doesn’t have the financial security to rent with you? Doesn’t he own his own home separate from her where his son is living.


If he wanted to be with you he would leave her, move you and your child into his house and be a Brady bunch family together.


Your love for him keeps you making excuses for why he hasn’t chosen you when you’ve chosen him again and again.

Posted by cake

Earth signs always with the uphill battle when it comes to romantic relationships.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by MyStarsShine

....I can’t be with a man I’d lose respect for

Lose? This man would never have earned my respect with this type of BS.

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Posted by Undine

Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL

Posted by cake

Earth signs always with the uphill battle when it comes to romantic relationships.

Bah waste of time, but I’m not a capricorn male I’m a sag stellium

Nah, you are a broken record...

Stop projecting your bad day on me, let me live my life like I want, demon.


Pisces females are certified evil for capricorn male in one simple quote !!! But I’m not a capricorn I’m a sag stellium

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Posted by pooface222

.....he lives in Her house.


So..

What he was trying to do, was get me to leave my husband, family,home, life and security FIRST, while he moves out of Her house, into Mine - after Divorce.


Bear in mind that She (the partner), left her husband, family, home, life and security, for Him to move in to her house, after Divorce.


...I suggested we Rent together so we BOTH leave our partners at the same tome.

But he said "I don't want to rent."

Yeah because he didn't want to pay out any money to be with me...


Basically he was trying to keep his cash for himself - like he did with his partner - while I subsidise Him!

Posted by pooface222

Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It’s not going to happen unless he wants to leave. Being scared to leave = not leaving ever.

You leave when it’s harder to stay than it is to leave.


Fighting for something like this is not a good idea. It’s more like banging your head against a wall. My opinion is you give a person an opportunity & then it’s up to them. You go live your life & if they truly want you they will make themselves available. Otherwise they don’t truly want you. Actions not words..

Exactly!

And for me, it was harder to stay than it was to leave.

My Aries husband would scream at me with his Control because I refused to obey him. I'm not a goddamn doormat!

And when he was not behaving like that,I got silent treatment, refusing sex, affection and conversations.

Then telling me he Loves me!

It SCRWED with my head & heart!


The Pisces guy talked to me, shared himself, connected himself to me. And I to him. And he got to know me in ways my husband never ever even came close to at all.

So I craved the Pisces as could no longer bear the cold empty harsh pain of mycontrplling husband!

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Posted by ScorpArie

Posted by hydorah

Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

You might not realize it , but the first part of your post is just going to convince her that she has to fight for them.

You mean when I told her that that Pisces guy asked why I didn't fight for him? If so, I thought that too...

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Posted by nanobotz

You actually sound extremely delusional. If he felt the same way about you and he felt like you were worth it too - he wouldn’t be with another woman right now.

He was with her when we met.

They were already in a long-term rship together.

And..he lives in Her house.

So..

What he was trying to do, was get me to leave my husband, family,home, life and security FIRST, while he moves out of Her house, into Mine - after Divorce.


Bear in mind that She (the partner), left her husband, family, home, life and security, for Him to move in to her house, after Divorce.


But..

Because I wasn't leaving my partner FIRST, before he left his partner, he got insecure, and waited More until I left First.

I mean sh*t!

What guarantee did I have that he will even leave her!? None!

So i suggested we Rent together so we BOTH leave our partners at the same tome.

But he said "I don't want to rent."

Yeah because he didn't want to pay out any money to be with me.


I was expected to give up everything for him, to put a roof over his head - just like his partner did - yet he won't pay out a small amount of money on rent Just to start our life together.!?


Basically he was trying to keep his cash for himself - like he did with his partner - while I subsidise Him!


He even used to call me to moan about his partner to me and he would literally say..

"My partner picks fights with me about Money!"


Err well Yeaahh!

She put a roof over his head and gave him security and a life while he keeps all his cash for himself.

Then he wanted the same deal with me.!


Life is Not a Free Ride!

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Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPisces females are certified evil for capricorn male in one simple quote !!!

Posted by pooface222

So..seeing as i wasn't leaving - because I suggested we BOTH leave together- he got insecure and VANISHED!

And so started the famous Pisces Disappearing Act!

Disappear/Reappear/Disappear/Reappear.


He disappeared out of insecurity because I wasn't leaving my husband!

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by MyStarsShine

....I can’t be with a man I’d lose respect for

Lose? This man would never have earned my respect with this type of BS.

Yes indeed

He doesn’t sound like he has a backbone and the fact he can’t make his mind up would prove to be a huge turn off for me 😏

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Posted by hydorah

Posted by ScorpArie

Posted by hydorah

Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

You might not realize it , but the first part of your post is just going to convince her that she has to fight for them.

You mean when I told her that that Pisces guy asked why I didn't fight for him? If so, I thought that too...

You gave three examples where they "dropped everything" for you once you decided to get more involved with them

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Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL

Posted by Undine

Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL

Posted by cake

Earth signs always with the uphill battle when it comes to romantic relationships.

Bah waste of time, but I’m not a capricorn male I’m a sag stellium

Nah, you are a broken record...

Stop projecting your bad day on me, let me live my life like I want, demon.


Pisces females are certified evil for capricorn male in one simple quote !!! But I’m not a capricorn I’m a sag stellium

No, you are a Capricorn sun; therefore, you are a Capricorn. But it's all good. I like Capricorns but I would hate to be one! They are so unlucky and retarded when it comes to love... But I still love you

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Posted by nanobotz

You actually sound extremely delusional. If he felt the same way about you and he felt like you were worth it too - he wouldn’t be with another woman right now.

He was with her when we met.

They were already in a long-term rship together.

And..he lives in Her house.

So..

What he was trying to do, was get me to leave my husband, family,home, life and security FIRST, while he moves out of Her house, into Mine - after Divorce.


Bear in mind that She (the partner), left her husband, family, home, life and security, for Him to move in to her house, after Divorce.


But..

Because I wasn't leaving my partner FIRST, before he left his partner, he got insecure, and waited More until I left First.

I mean sh*t!

What guarantee did I have that he will even leave her!? None!

So i suggested we Rent together so we BOTH leave our partners at the same tome.

But he said "I don't want to rent."

Yeah because he didn't want to pay out any money to be with me.


I was expected to give up everything for him, to put a roof over his head - just like his partner did - yet he won't pay out a small amount of money on rent Just to start our life together.!?


Basically he was trying to keep his cash for himself - like he did with his partner - while I subsidise Him!


He even used to call me to moan about his partner to me and he would literally say..

"My partner picks fights with me about Money!"


Err well Yeaahh!

She put a roof over his head and gave him security and a life while he keeps all his cash for himself.

Then he wanted the same deal with me.!


Life is Not a Free Ride!

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Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

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Posted by ScorpArie

So, I am not going to sit here and tell you what other people are telling you.

I am going to talk to you as a scorpio woman to a capricorn woman. I have a lot of experience with Pisces men. I did not fight for them nor steal them, per se... They naturally fell in love with me.

One kept it a secret that he had a girlfriend. Every night I would see him (with no girlfriend). This means he was not in love with his girlfriend, because they are very clingy in love. We got together and when I found out about the other girl, I ran... But he asked me why didn't I fight for him, because he didn't want to be with her anymore. Pisces men will stay with their other half out of duty, not wanting to hurt the other party, and wanting to remain the good guy. But if someone they are more compatible with shows up, he'll drop her like a hot potato.

I'll give you two more examples...

My baby daddy is a Pisces and he left his country and his wife behind to start a new life out here. Out of obligation they would still speak, but when he met me he cut her off! We were glued at the hip/ inseparable for years, but he started to loose his mind with possessiveness and started to hit me... that's not love, so I took our baby and disappeared.

My current boyfriend is a Pisces and we have been friends for 16 years, before we recently started dating. He always had a crush on me, but for me it was just platonic for the 16 years, plus, he had a girlfriend that I was friends with. About a year into our friendships the girlfriend recognized the signs that he loved me more than her, because of the way he was treating me and I decided to retreat and stop being friends with the both of them, but then I ran into the Pisces by himself and he convinced me to start speaking to him again, so we did speak as friends for 15 years and he would tell me he liked me, but I was always in some other relationship and I respected his girlfriend too much and I just didn't see the potential. Eventually, (recently), I started returning his flirtations and telling him I loved him... Guess what? He kicked his girlfriend out of his house immediately. We're planning on getting married...

Bottom line, the common denominator I had with all these guys (not just these three Pisces men), is that I was not aggressive, I was genuinely sweet, funny, caring, charming, and loving. I appreciated for who they were... There was no game plan. I was just naturally kind and they were drawn to the connection they had with me. Pisces men do not like to be controlled; therefore, if you are pursuing him intentionally, he WILL sense it and he won't like the idea of being with someone like that. It has to unfold naturally, like destiny.

I find another man who needs another woman to leave an already bad one a pussy.

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