Making the first move...

Ever do it?

How did it work out for you and what are your feelings on being the one to make the first move with a guy, or another chick?

Posted by BlackCanary
I've done it a few times. I feel more comfortable letting the man make the first move but sometimes I'm a little too impatient haha. If I want you, my mind is made up, I have to have you.

All the times were successful. Probably could have had a lasting relationship with one of them if I didn't bore so easily.

awww sorry to hear that. But i get what you mean. Alot of men out there are boring as hell,so i feel for you ladies..... 😛

i was just discussing this and thought about it. Probably why alot of women are single. Too many men aren't stimulating enough (and i'm not talking about just talking to talk bullshit nonsense and pretentiousness and/or e= mc2 zzzzzz)

But what about the argument that as women become more financially independent and more confident in society than ever before, they are happy to make the moves which can leave guys confused?

In the good old days men were used to tipping their hat at the ladies and wooing them. Now its all about instant access and more women than ever approach men, some quite aggressively in this day and age. Where does that leave men?

Sometimes (1) confused as to whether to approach a girl in case they get a mouthful of abuse that they don't like them, or (2) lazy because if women are now making most of the moves why should men bother? Maybe that's what makes them boring?

Just sayin...

Posted by virg_goki
then tell us. what is considered interesting? We men can't read womens' minds for nuts. We need direct cues.

well you're a virgo, keep doing what you're doing. 😆

Posted by AriesGirl74
But what about the argument that as women become more financially independent and more confident in society than ever before, they are happy to make the moves which can leave guys confused?

In the good old days men were used to tipping their hat at the ladies and wooing them. Now its all about instant access and more women than ever approach men, some quite aggressively in this day and age. Where does that leave men?

Sometimes (1) confused as to whether to approach a girl in case they get a mouthful of abuse that they don't like them, or (2) lazy because if women are now making most of the moves why should men bother? Maybe that's what makes them boring?

Just sayin...

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men have always approached me or always made the first move. ALWAYS. in real life, i dont do anything really when i was single for a very short while, and also while i was married to my ex, and with my ex's, i never really had to do anything. But there are alot of women that are truly AGGRESSIVE. it's their nature. I honestly wouldn't care either way if they approached or not. It's not the end of the world. But it is very annoying when you're approached by alot of men and types of men you don't want approaching you. I'm guessing for men, they don't have this problem. They have to weed out women.

so i don't know about those women who are super independent and approach men. They are really brave.
AT LEAST they can "weed" out men. While women who don't approach or deal with men by doing anything--- and the man makes the FIRST move always, you have to deal with the bullshit. And you have to, as a woman "weed" them out, and if you don't like how they are, meaning they are BORING as fuck, and you can't deal because they are the most nauseating..... you need to break it off FAST. because you don't want to be with that type of person and make them crave you all the time. It's cruel.
i would NOT like it if it's on the other side of the foot you know.

Posted by virg_goki
Pfft leading me on eh leeb? 😉

To ass on to your post, i've observed leebs don't really have to so much. They just seem to attract men like flies to a fruit.

sorry im not a libra. and i know you know what sign i am but you like just fucking around with me.

And no, not all libras get men attached to them like flies on fruit and you know that. Alot of them are quite ugly, there's UGLY in every sign.

Plus, taurus and scorpio women get flies around them just sitting there.

and ugly also inside as well. (inner beauty counts, much more than outer in my book) so if you have both...well then, you're good to go.

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Posted by lisabethur8
and ugly also inside as well. (inner beauty counts, much more than outer in my book) so if you have both...well then, you're good to go.

Good lord, please don't be a cap or taurus...

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allright....

I knew you were fucking with me. Now this is going too far....

Stop with your mercury ways. *puts up the sign of the cross*

hey virgo, don't you have some girl to pick up out there??

go on now, run along before you miss out on your train.

Posted by virg_goki
She's busy today. So I'm here screwing people up today.

Lisa what if I told you I really have no idea? You may think otherwise but I don't really give brainspace to remember who's what sign here...

well i'm just mirroring you. You were fucking with me, so back atcha.

laterz, virgo....

people might think something is going on between us, if i interact with you too long.