Open relationships and sex

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by hellosaggy on Monday, December 10, 2018 and has 26 replies.
It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She tells me her relations with other women and due to her feelings for me, I’m on a don’t ask, don’t tell policy. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc. but honestly I don’t think it’s fair. I’m open with my other female friends, only one at moment because the other dropped out. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

Now my main girl has a lesbian girlfriend who detests the male anatomy and the fact that she lives with me and we “used to have sex” makes her literally stalk her while she’s not around her to the point where she just comes over has sex and leaves.

So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. Some days they overlap but the only reason it’s happening is because the aqua is literally not around 23.5 hours a day.

She’s having lesbian unprotected sex AND an emotional bond so why should it be different for me?

You sound like a girl getting your emotions involved. If open relationship which stands for Fwb is a deal you signed up for. If you pay the bills well..................but any other scenario ask for a monogamous relationship and if it doesn't work for her switch to someone who is more accommodating.
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And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.
Ask for the std results. Those are the ones that matter.

Your dick should be more scared of herpes than bv, js.
Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.
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You sound like a girl getting your emotions involved. If open relationship which stands for Fwb is a deal you signed up for. If you pay the bills well..................but any other scenario ask for a monogamous relationship and if it doesn't work for her switch to someone who is more accommodating.
Open relationship and FWB aren’t the same thing
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Well that's your opinion.
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.
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Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
What a fucking mess. It's like a daily drama overdose 😴
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You sound like a girl getting your emotions involved. If open relationship which stands for Fwb is a deal you signed up for. If you pay the bills well..................but any other scenario ask for a monogamous relationship and if it doesn't work for her switch to someone who is more accommodating.
Open relationship and FWB aren’t the same thing


Well that's your opinion.
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Its not only an opinion - it's a fact. FwB - friends with benefits, usually with someone you already know as a friend or acquaintance. You already have an emotional connection with this person but it does not involve aspects that will develop into anything serious.

Open relationship - relationship with primary partner but allowed to have sex with others without emotional connection. E.g. Picking up people at a bar for 1 night, random faceless strangers.
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.
Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
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Dude you need to tell her before you have sex with the other girl w/o protection. I don't even understand why you'd even risk anything if it's just casual. Its not about fair or equalness it's about respect and possibly transferring something.

And correct me of I've misunderstood, but are you saying the lesbian girl is under the impression that you and the bi girl are not having sex, but in reality you still are?
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.
Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
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Yes there is a difference between a silicon toy and the risk factor of raw vageen.

If they are scissoring and your not cool with that, say something.

And maybe she'll be chill with it who knows.

Js to intentionally keep this information from her is LYING and she deserves your honestly. She asked you use protection with other females and is trusting you'll do so.

Tell her whats up then no harm no foul.
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.
Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
Dude you need to tell her before you have sex with the other girl w/o protection. I don't even understand why you'd even risk anything if it's just casual. Its not about fair or equalness it's about respect and possibly transferring something.

And correct me of I've misunderstood, but are you saying the lesbian girl is under the impression that you and the bi girl are not having sex, but in reality you still are?
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Yeah... in reality we still are. Like daily... the man hating lesbian is pretty cute, it’s a shame she’s not bi. And she’s a bowler so I would have liked her if she wasn’t so clingy to my aqua and they literally spend all the time together and when she is home she’s texting and FaceTiming her constantly... but it is what it is I guess that’s how women are.

The man hating lesbian is 29 lives at home with her parents and their gay 32 year old son, she has no job, she’s just cute and maybe cool I don’t know.

AQua is not crazy enough to be in a real relationship with her and split from me. It’s not logical or rational.

I’m like the mistress now, which is not how open relationships are supposed to work, I just find it crappy because now I have a two month side relationship going on that I’m not really interested in.

The Pisces and I agree on a sex based/fwb relationship and I’m thinking she wants more because she keeps telling me she’s not dating anyone else as she’s too busy working two jobs.


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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.


Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
Yes there is a difference between a silicon toy and the risk factor of raw vageen.

If they are scissoring and your not cool with that, say something.

And maybe she'll be chill with it who knows.

Js to intentionally keep this information from her is LYING and she deserves your honestly. She asked you use protection with other females and is trusting you'll do so.

Tell her whats up then no harm no foul.
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It’s idiotic to think that there is a difference in swapping fluids between a man and woman and two women... she just wants to limit whatever sex I have. Hoping it keeps her position as number one... she never said it was off limits to give the girl oral. I can get herpes on my lips hypothetically.
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She tells me her relations with other women and due to her feelings for me, I’m on a don’t ask, don’t tell policy. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc. but honestly I don’t think it’s fair. I’m open with my other female friends, only one at moment because the other dropped out. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

Now my main girl has a lesbian girlfriend who detests the male anatomy and the fact that she lives with me and we “used to have sex” makes her literally stalk her while she’s not around her to the point where she just comes over has sex and leaves.

So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. Some days they overlap but the only reason it’s happening is because the aqua is literally not around 23.5 hours a day.

She’s having lesbian unprotected sex AND an emotional bond so why should it be different for me?



What is that keeps you in this relationship. Do you love her, are you happy together or is this situation about convenance for one or both of you? The fact that her other partner is a dyke(lesbian who hates men) and is not ok with the situation and stalkers her is bad news. That will blow up one day. I'm really curious about your relationship dynamic regardless.

So your side girl wants bareskin. The fact the agreement is protection only but she doesn't is true. That is 100% a double standard. The only difference is no babies lol.

You don't need to violate the agreement to make it happen just the right arguement. Amend the contract. The win win situation. You guys need to be exclusive if your worried about STDs. Keep your fluids (Pietry dish) between the 4 of you and birth control. The idea that lesbians don't get STDs is stupid. It's even more true because it's a straight body fluid swap without any protection at all. Only a matter of time before she or the dyke brings something in the group anyways. You will be blamed.

So if you don't want the rubber you need to be exclusive with both and come to agreement with your primary. Don't be surprised if she feels jealously though. I can see her feeling threatened. The other girl put real effort into sleeping with you bareback.
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Mmm... I’m leaving for the west coast at some point, being with the aqua is easy for the most part and the sex is above decent and constant, plus we are really good if not best friends.

When a vagina comes around she literally is oblivious to the world and it’s weird to see.

I’m not looking for anything serious and the aqua for the last year has been a pretty easy thing to do.

The Pisces I’m messing with is a freak and very intelligent, she’s just really not my type, super tatted and pierced, and her chronic depression is something I don’t really want to get super involved in other than casual.
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.


Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
Yes there is a difference between a silicon toy and the risk factor of raw vageen.

If they are scissoring and your not cool with that, say something.

And maybe she'll be chill with it who knows.

Js to intentionally keep this information from her is LYING and she deserves your honestly. She asked you use protection with other females and is trusting you'll do so.

Tell her whats up then no harm no foul.
It’s idiotic to think that there is a difference in swapping fluids between a man and woman and two women... she just wants to limit whatever sex I have. Hoping it keeps her position as number one... she never said it was off limits to give the girl oral. I can get herpes on my lips hypothetically.
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Whether it’s idiotic or not is a moot point. You AGREED to have protected sex. She is trusting that your not gambling with her health.

You need to tell her your gonna fuck the other chic raw.

Keep it 💯

And if your not comfortable with her swapping lady juices than say so. Basically communicate with her.
Oh and undeniably it’s a double standard. But you agreed to it...so 🤷‍♀️
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I’d switch to having protected sex with the main woman since she’s having unprotected lesbian sex with someone else. Tell her obviously.

Get a full panel STD test and obviously view your second choices test, then start fucking her without protection.

Problem solved. I don’t see how or why you’re allowing someone you barely see and spends no time with you to run your life. You’re not in a relationship or so it seems.

Stop thinking with your dick and ego. Do what you think is right but above all just be honest.
They live together so bare minimum that have a relationship where they split the bills.
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I’d switch to having protected sex with the main woman since she’s having unprotected lesbian sex with someone else. Tell her obviously.

Get a full panel STD test and obviously view your second choices test, then start fucking her without protection.

Problem solved. I don’t see how or why you’re allowing someone you barely see and spends no time with you to run your life. You’re not in a relationship or so it seems.

Stop thinking with your dick and ego. Do what you think is right but above all just be honest.
They live together so bare minimum that have a relationship where they split the bills.


Wow, lol well fuk what I said.

I “Aries read” this post which means I skimmed and thumbed a few posts.

I has no advice now 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Your advice is golden. Same advice as most people on this thread. Aka Be honest!
I thought for sure OP was like 19...scrolled up to see 34.

Live ya life, but damn....
protection all around for stds and pregnancy until you truly know someone and where and what they do when left on their own - that being said, do whatever you want to do - it's your life
What's the stalkers sign?
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protection all around for stds and pregnancy until you truly know someone and where and what they do when left on their own - that being said, do whatever you want to do - it's your life
For real tho. I tell my brothers all the time, just cause she tells you she's on bc or will take plan b doesn't mean she is telling the truth. Protect those swimmers unless your cool with being on the emotional/financial hook of parenthood for the next 18years.

Especially when its this vibe...suspect

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The Pisces and I agree on a sex based/fwb relationship and I’m thinking she wants more because she keeps telling me she’s not dating anyone else as she’s too busy working two jobs.


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What's the stalkers sign?
I don’t even know. I can look her up on her face book to see.

The weird thing about it is the aqua has lied to her like the whole time she’s known her about being a full time lesbian. I had sex with aqua last night. The girl called, text, and FaceTime like 8 times. She asked me to stop so she could text her back and then the girl kept face timing and she just was “like ignore it, I am.” It was like 5:30 in the afternoon. Then she half showered told me she loved me and then left.

I think the aqua loves me. But because my penis is permanent she’s thinking it goes against her gayness. I told her she’s still gay even if she loves me but I think it’s a mental tug o war going on. She likes the girl but she doesn’t want to let me go, but if girl ever found out she would probably dump her. So she’s in a paradox. I don’t feel guilty at all because, it’s not my fault lesbians go full on obsessive after sex. I keep my side relationships on the side.

She can’t afford to split bills. It would take half her salary as she’s in school and I know she’s started looking to move out but she’s apparently not in a rush. I’m moving next year so I have plenty of “peace out” material to use when I leave without inviting her.

If I stopped having unprotected sex with her I think she’d go batshit. She has an iud and we basically have been having unprotected sex a full year.

My birthday is tomorrow, Pisces wants to see me but I’m going to see her tonight, aqua said she told her girlfriend she’s hanging out with me tomorrow and so she’s spent last night and all day with her and basically just texted me saying she’s not coming home until the morning.

I think the lesbian is more concerned about her ex wife than me, especially because she’s at her house every night, but literally a little side of me enjoys sending her over there after having sex with her. I’m just annoyed with that whole permanent sleep over for last 45 days and obsessive behavior.
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It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She tells me her relations with other women and due to her feelings for me, I’m on a don’t ask, don’t tell policy. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc. but honestly I don’t think it’s fair. I’m open with my other female friends, only one at moment because the other dropped out. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

Now my main girl has a lesbian girlfriend who detests the male anatomy and the fact that she lives with me and we “used to have sex” makes her literally stalk her while she’s not around her to the point where she just comes over has sex and leaves.

So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. Some days they overlap but the only reason it’s happening is because the aqua is literally not around 23.5 hours a day.

She’s having lesbian unprotected sex AND an emotional bond so why should it be different for me?



What is that keeps you in this relationship. Do you love her, are you happy together or is this situation about convenance for one or both of you? The fact that her other partner is a dyke(lesbian who hates men) and is not ok with the situation and stalkers her is bad news. That will blow up one day. I'm really curious about your relationship dynamic regardless.

So your side girl wants bareskin. The fact the agreement is protection only but she doesn't is true. That is 100% a double standard. The only difference is no babies lol.

You don't need to violate the agreement to make it happen just the right arguement. Amend the contract. The win win situation. You guys need to be exclusive if your worried about STDs. Keep your fluids (Pietry dish) between the 4 of you and birth control. The idea that lesbians don't get STDs is stupid. It's even more true because it's a straight body fluid swap without any protection at all. Only a matter of time before she or the dyke brings something in the group anyways. You will be blamed.

So if you don't want the rubber you need to be exclusive with both and come to agreement with your primary. Don't be surprised if she feels jealously though. I can see her feeling threatened. The other girl put real effort into sleeping with you bareback.
Mmm... I’m leaving for the west coast at some point, being with the aqua is easy for the most part and the sex is above decent and constant, plus we are really good if not best friends.

When a vagina comes around she literally is oblivious to the world and it’s weird to see.

I’m not looking for anything serious and the aqua for the last year has been a pretty easy thing to do.

The Pisces I’m messing with is a freak and very intelligent, she’s just really not my type, super tatted and pierced, and her chronic depression is something I don’t really want to get super involved in other than casual.


Thanks for responding. You need to watch out for that Pisces.


Your aqua. Nothing wrong with being attracted to both genders. It's a blessing. You got more to chose from. "When a vagina comes around she literally is oblivious to the world..." That's just endearing and funny as hell to me. I personal wouldn't care so long as I am always number 1. I kinda think she is endulging in her desire for woman but wants you. She letting you be open as well to be fair.

Ya you want to move and that's important to you. A question for you though. How do you REALLY feel about the aqua and are you really ok with letting her go? There are a lot of good school on the west coast too.

And before you say she isn't really interested because she is investing in the other chick, consider the fact she maybe doing that because you are leaving not because she would not rather have you. She maybe looking at her long term circumstances and survival.

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And I consider her, but her movements really dictate my emotional responses. This is the second girl she's been enamored with in the last 4 months. As long as there isn't a woman around, shes a decent partner. But like I said, as soon as a bush arrives, she starts disappearing or banging my brains out, until I'm physical drained and then goes to spend time with the flavor of the week.

I get it, most women need the emotional stuff and its hard for lesbians the be fwb with lesbians because its like a permanent sleep over until the oxytocin wears off, but its funny and disgusting at the same time how fast these female relationships take off. for instance she skipped class and called out of work, to go spend workdays having a lesbi-thon with the girl for two days at the girls house and texting me between sex sessions, the girl being sleep, or her in the bathroom.

I want to sit down and explain women 101 to her sometimes, but shes all sprung on how much she "Likes her, she really really likes her". I had to blatantly put it to her its escapism and not deep feelings. I'm definitely not complaining about sex everyday, its how we were until a few months ago when it started being 1 - 2 times a week, but treating me like the mistress isn't going to happen.

Its making my side situation easy because I can literally spend hours having sex with Virgo, come home shower and not even see the aqua until the next day. but my side friend knows we are just fwb, she didn't even text me on my birthday.
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Posted by hellosaggy

It’s a real question. I’d like to pose.

I’m in an open relationship with a bisexual woman. She asked me to limit my sex life, use protection etc.


So I decided last week to just sleep with both of them however. I don’t think I’m breaking any code by doing it. And she’s been begging me to not use protection as she wants it that way and gave me her recent sti results.

You aren't doing anything wrong by sleeping with the other woman, per your agreement with your main lady. However if you fuck her without protection you are ABSOLUTELY doing something wrong.

You need to bare minimum let your girl know your intention to fuck other chicks raw. That was her one requirement for the open relationship. Otherwise you are being shady af.
Ehhhh I felt that way a few times, but really is there a difference? She’s eating this other girl and maybe sissoring definitely using a strap on. She tells me all her details... I don’t see the difference between my dick and a fake one.

And on top of that, our open relationship has shifted due to the dynamics of her lesbian relationship. She literally spends most of her time with her now. I don’t mind it because it allows me to skip around to my other friend, but the girl wants more sexually and after 2 months of sleeping with her like everyday and her getting a full sti I felt like I should oblige.
Dude you need to tell her before you have sex with the other girl w/o protection. I don't even understand why you'd even risk anything if it's just casual. Its not about fair or equalness it's about respect and possibly transferring something.

And correct me of I've misunderstood, but are you saying the lesbian girl is under the impression that you and the bi girl are not having sex, but in reality you still are?
Yeah... in reality we still are. Like daily... the man hating lesbian is pretty cute, it’s a shame she’s not bi. And she’s a bowler so I would have liked her if she wasn’t so clingy to my aqua and they literally spend all the time together and when she is home she’s texting and FaceTiming her constantly... but it is what it is I guess that’s how women are.

The man hating lesbian is 29 lives at home with her parents and their gay 32 year old son, she has no job, she’s just cute and maybe cool I don’t know.

AQua is not crazy enough to be in a real relationship with her and split from me. It’s not logical or rational.

I’m like the mistress now, which is not how open relationships are supposed to work, I just find it crappy because now I have a two month side relationship going on that I’m not really interested in.

The Pisces and I agree on a sex based/fwb relationship and I’m thinking she wants more because she keeps telling me she’s not dating anyone else as she’s too busy working two jobs.


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You're gross, and so is the Aqua. Btw if she's having continuous sex with you she is bisexual and not lesbian at all. I can't stand when straight men don't understand this. Your language is so freaking ignorant. You or your gf needs to inform the lesbian that she is being cheated on. Poor freaking girl, you call her obsessed and a stalker but you two are literally cheating, so she has a reason to be suspicious. And on top of that you have the nerve to have unprotected sex with the possibility you could give it to the lesbian girl.

This is a fucking mess and just makes both us Sagittarius's and bisexuals look so good. Thanks for perpetuating the stigma!😒
Posted by tiziani

so what did they do for your birthday? That's what really counts right
I spent Thursday with picses and Friday and Saturday with aqua. Aquas girl has a mental meltdown and drove to my house to speak to her and demanded that she move out of my place because it’s too much.

Aqua realized that was a crazy move on her Capricorn sun/Aries moon lesbian girl and said she’s annoyed. Then we went to dinner and had sex again 🤷🏾‍♂️.

So sex and dinner that’s about it