what do you find unattractive

that most people find attractive?

state your venus and its house pls

Physical or behaviour?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Physical or behaviour?

both

in everything

Posted by nanorobot

I’m attracted the most to Aquarius men and they are usually tall and awkward IME, which makes sense because of gem Venus in the 11th, duh

I also like Gemini men a lot, who are notorious and widely hated by male and female alike.

But I see a lot of women posting and drooling for male celebrities on here and I’m just like, mehhh



Except for Henry Cavill because he’s a god. I have to give credit where it’s due when it comes to conventionally attractive god-like Taurus men

my venus is in the 11th too and i like the vibes of aqua men

overly masculine men

overly feminine women

virgo venus in the 11th house

Huge muscles bleh. I’d rather have a guy whose a little chub or just fit than have one that overdoes it to the extreme. I love a strong man but those big, veiny muscles are gross.

Overconfidence—I cant stand this. I really like a confident man, but also a humble one.

Lack of hair, and not talking about up top haha I love furry places on men to grab! I love playing with chest hair and tickling tummy hair, and a completely shaved dong is just gross. Like it looked prepubescent and that was NOT a turn on yuck! As soon as I saw it, I think he saw the light in my eyes go dark immediately lulz but just whyyyyyy all of it?!? Anyways, yeah I like MEN so I need some hair to smell and play with. I’m very sensual so it’s little things like this.

Taurus Venus in the 11th house

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by nanorobot

I’m attracted the most to Aquarius men and they are usually tall and awkward IME, which makes sense because of gem Venus in the 11th, duh

I also like Gemini men a lot, who are notorious and widely hated by male and female alike.

But I see a lot of women posting and drooling for male celebrities on here and I’m just like, mehhh



Except for Henry Cavill because he’s a god. I have to give credit where it’s due when it comes to conventionally attractive god-like Taurus men

my venus is in the 11th too and i like the vibes of aqua men

Yes! Huge sucker for them. My aqua ex looks exactly like Bo Burnham and I could not have been more physically attracted to a man 🤣🤣🤣

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lol he's a virgo though

eww

Confidence

Smooth (and or sweet) talkers

Scorp Venus in 2H

Hard pass on the dad bod fad.

Taurus ven 4th

Men who dont Ask Women Out

Cigar/Cigarette smoking

Short guys 5"5 and below

Detached people

Rudeness

Lack of empathy

Lack of desire

People who are unproductive

People who complain...repeatedly

Idiots

i really can't stand men who have way too many jokes

and talks too much, seems way too engaging and extroverted

(these are usually gossipy men i find)

Body builders

Beer bellies

Cold eyes

No humour

Unintelligent

Unkind

Non assertive

Doesn't like children and animals

Workaholics

Mainstream views

Scorpio Venus 7th

Venus/Pluto/Water dom.

Posted by FactCheck

Men who have a lot of women after them.

Men who have a high number of sexual partners.

Dominant, masculine men although I find them physically attractive we have personality clashes.

I'm too alpha and masculine. I might be gay.

Venus in the 10th.

lol i think it's the libra mars

if they're not understated enough, too independent and not cooperative enough or doesn't have a sweet-talking mouth,,,, that's irritating to me

like why is this man even talking to me?

People who are "kind " and " Good " to everyone and need to talk to every person they see. I find it disingenuous. Go with the flow types. None assertive people. Liars.

Aquarius 7th house

Posted by virgoOPPP

i really can't stand men who have way too many jokes

and talks too much, seems way too engaging and extroverted

(these are usually gossipy men i find)

Dude preach

Posted by Phantum

Posted by AbbyNormal

Huge muscles bleh. I’d rather have a guy whose a little chub or just fit than have one that overdoes it to the extreme. I love a strong man but those big, veiny muscles are gross.

Overconfidence—I cant stand this. I really like a confident man, but also a humble one.

Lack of hair, and not talking about up top haha I love furry places on men to grab! I love playing with chest hair and tickling tummy hair, and a completely shaved dong is just gross. Like it looked prepubescent and that was NOT a turn on yuck! As soon as I saw it, I think he saw the light in my eyes go dark immediately lulz but just whyyyyyy all of it?!? Anyways, yeah I like MEN so I need some hair to smell and play with. I’m very sensual so it’s little things like this.

Taurus Venus in the 11th house

Whoa. Me too. Taurus Venus in the 12th house

I'm not actually grossed out by muscle-bound men. It's just not my thing.

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It’s the extremity that grosses me out I think more than anything. But I also have a father who went through a mid life crisis and became a body builder at age like 45 or something—not to say I’m not very proud of him! It’s just not my thing...

I think a lot of people missed the part of the OP where they said these are things other people usually find attractive. Some of these answers I’m like... who thinks that’s attractive?! Okay done with this thread bc now it’s just people reading the title and responding.... that wasn’t the whole question tho lulz ok byeeeeee

straight men with feminine characteristics i.e ( men who act stuck up, don't do manly things because they don't want to get their shoes/ hands dirty, gossip like women, wear pants with holes in them, have too many actively sex partners, I can go on lol)

people who smack when the eat

fat & greedy ppl (don't mean to fat shame)

women who curse non stop

loud mouth people

people who lack common sense annoy me

lazy people

people who talk, talk, talk...

they aren't deal breakers but geez ...

virgo venus 2nd house

and people just list everything most people find unattractive

oh well i tried

Posted by Fleshpot

Confidence

Smooth (and or sweet) talkers

Scorp Venus in 2H

Ditto



I also find emotional unavailability attractive while dating and ownership/possession of making someone mine and vice verse. Claiming they're mine even if they aren't.

Scorp Venus in 2H

Being overly polite = fake

People pleasers

Long nails

Men w/ no body hair

Yards with no trees

Houses built really close together/cookie cutters

Suped up trucks/cars w/ loud exhaust systems

Ppl who bash moms who breastfeed in public

Scorpio Venus 4th

Loud, overconfident and in-your-face men who talk too much. Virgo venus in 10th

What do you think of men who close the fridge with their hip?

Posted by virgoOPPP

i really can't stand men who have way too many jokes

and talks too much, seems way too engaging and extroverted

(these are usually gossipy men i find)

Are we supposed to be listing what we don't like or what we do like? I'm confused now

Posted by Devil

Dumb women.

You like them?

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

Dumb women.

You like them?

Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.

So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.

I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.

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I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

Dumb women.

You like them?

Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.

So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.

I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.

I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.

Yeah but the intellectual is not going to let you have your way constantly. He's also prone to being snarky , sarcastic and downright mean sometimes. They wanna test what the know. Ya know.

Can the cancer moon tolerate the mouth that has even more shit than the LA sewer system?

I for myself can't imagine not arguing with any potential woman. I don't know what it is but arguing makes me hot and bothered.

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I don't need to have my way 🙂 I just post memes and stuff that I think is funny and bratty. I like letting a man lead and I need to be told no cause I like pouting sometimes too. I'm a brat.

Snarky and Sarcastic are fine, downright mean isn't but I will handle it well and then politely do it back. There's no reason to be mean, but I love surprising someone with how mean I can be back. It's a hidden talent of not giving a fuck 😆

I don't know how to argue or even keep on going, usually I try to be understanding. I get hot and bothered with it too but I just don't get upset often. I'm dating a Aries moon guy and I keep telling him we need to have an argument but he keeps saying no he likes the peace 😆

I don't know what to believe. 😢

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

Dumb women.

You like them?

Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.

So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.

I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.

I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.

Yeah but the intellectual is not going to let you have your way constantly. He's also prone to being snarky , sarcastic and downright mean sometimes. They wanna test what the know. Ya know.

Can the cancer moon tolerate the mouth that has even more shit than the LA sewer system?

I for myself can't imagine not arguing with any potential woman. I don't know what it is but arguing makes me hot and bothered.

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it's all in the mouth

Unadventurous, to overly fake cosmetically and definitely worrying about money all the time.

Scorpio Venus

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

Dumb women.

You like them?

Nah. I can tolerate them but I won't have any lasting attraction. I get bored with people too quickly if they can't stimulate me one way or another.

So unless we fucking every other day dumb women won't give me the stimulation I need to care.

I'd only hit them up for sex since that's the only thing that would keep my attention. I have ADHD and I wish I could not sound harsh but I just stop caring about people suddenly. It just happens.

I'm the same way. I fall for intellectual. I can't stand a nice looking guy who's an idiot. I lose interest quick and will not even look their way.

Yeah but the intellectual is not going to let you have your way constantly. He's also prone to being snarky , sarcastic and downright mean sometimes. They wanna test what the know. Ya know.

Can the cancer moon tolerate the mouth that has even more shit than the LA sewer system?

I for myself can't imagine not arguing with any potential woman. I don't know what it is but arguing makes me hot and bothered.

I don't need to have my way 🙂 I just post memes and stuff that I think is funny and bratty. I like letting a man lead and I need to be told no cause I like pouting sometimes too. I'm a brat.

Snarky and Sarcastic are fine, downright mean isn't but I will handle it well and then politely do it back. There's no reason to be mean, but I love surprising someone with how mean I can be back. It's a hidden talent of not giving a fuck 😆

I don't know how to argue or even keep on going, usually I try to be understanding. I get hot and bothered with it too but I just don't get upset often. I'm dating a Aries moon guy and I keep telling him we need to have an argument but he keeps saying no he likes the peace 😆

I don't know what to believe. 😢

I don't know. I'm just an attention whore. I'm not representative of all Aries Moon.

When I say mean from my perspective it means mean like a little bot mean. Not adult manipulative asshole mean.

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Oh ok, I think that has to do with your Sun.

Cancers can be stubborn and mean! 😛

I'm still trying to find out the inner workings of an Aries Moon. But most of them need attention.

Posted by Devil

I'd call my girl fat for fun and then say it's fine because it makes it easier to hold on to you tight.

Those sound like fighting words!

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I'd call my girl fat for fun and then say it's fine because it makes it easier to hold on to you tight.

Those sound like fighting words!

It just means more activities are needed. Especially the kind done together. I'm ready to help. Make love not war.

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You’d be running your ass right out the door talking to me like that 🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Devil

I'd call my girl fat for fun and then say it's fine because it makes it easier to hold on to you tight.

Those sound like fighting words!

It just means more activities are needed. Especially the kind done together. I'm ready to help. Make love not war.

You’d be running your ass right out the door talking to me like that 🤣🤣🤣

The one that needs to run is you. How do you think weight is lost?

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Audiences!

Leo Venus 8th

promiscuous women

women who "try" to act overtly dominant

look awkward doing physical tasks

"have" to wear make up

cant cook

hobbies only consist of things that dont involve physical activity

no shame

curse too much

fake nails, hair, etc

I like widow's peak and receiding hairline on guys, aquiline nose, I also find buck teeth cute, especially when they barely open their mouth because of it.

Pale skin.

Chinless wonders too.

Venus Libra 12th house

Business men ... short hair and suits don’t do it for me

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Cap Venus

I don't like: pushy men, rude or sarcastic man.

girl same

coz i can tell there'd be no lovebombing there

Aries men

Venus in cancer in the 10th house

In the 9th house I mean

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Business men ... short hair and suits don’t do it for me

Long haired brick layers?

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Does he lay bricks?

Posted by blvckphvze

Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.

Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.

Cancer Venus in the 8th

Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.

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Posted by blvckphvze

Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.

Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.

Cancer Venus in the 8th

Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.

You doing okay, Jup? I wondered where you were.

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Yeah I'm doing ok. I just wanted to take a little break from this stressful site. And I'm thinking about taking a much longer break this time. It's for the better, trust me.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Posted by blvckphvze

Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.

Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.

Cancer Venus in the 8th

Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.

Aww I'm sorry!! I am water dominant. I don't mind some muscle, but some dudes I look at and think.. I couldn't even snuggle you in fear of your bicep crushing me.. Lmaoo

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You didn't have to apologise for that. I wasn't offended. You just going by what the thread is all about. You find musculy gym dudes unattractive whereas some find them attractive. I can respect everyone's opinions.

This thread is fun.

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Posted by blvckphvze

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Posted by blvckphvze

Muscles - I am not attracted to muscly gym type dudes in the least.

Too Flattery / Smooth talkers - This has always been a red flag for me. Don't want to hear your pick up lines dude.

Cancer Venus in the 8th

Yea it does seem like only fire and water sign women find big bulk muscular men like me attractive for some reason. Every other women I can't mess with. Naw naw uh-uh.

Aww I'm sorry!! I am water dominant. I don't mind some muscle, but some dudes I look at and think.. I couldn't even snuggle you in fear of your bicep crushing me.. Lmaoo

You didn't have to apologise for that. I wasn't offended. You just going by what the thread is all about. You find musculy gym dudes unattractive whereas some find them attractive. I can respect everyone's opinions.

This thread is fun.

I'm guessing since you are in shape you likely find smokers unattractive.. I'm a smoker, and a lazy stoner.. so we're even 😛 haha

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Ugh!!! Tell me about it. I used to smoke those fat cigars and I never realized how stupid and awkward it made me look and feel. My ex smokes cigarettes and I don't know but somehow it never bothered me in terms of how she look with a cigarette in her mouth.

I don't want to say smokers are unattractive. That's definitely not on my attractive/unattractive scale.

I’m oddly attracted to obviously loose men.....the ones you know might pass along an std.

Aries Venus.

I also like the idea of doing something risky but I’ll never follow through cuz Taurus mars.

I like the idea of having flings but I’m not just not build for quick romances....takes me a while to gauge safety and emotional issues, cuz Pisces moon.



Overall I won’t act on anything even if I’m attracted to them. I’m like one of those weird people that like emotional well-being and safety and reliability 🤓



—— what I do like that to know others don’t like——

I like someone who’s very tame and unbothered and isn’t emotional 🙃

Followers, carbon copies of the same personality, validation seekers, people pleasers, clingy people in general, and people who take everything personally and create problems for themselves and others as a result of that.

Also: Vain, physically attractive people who seem dispassionate about everyone and everything. If I feel attracted towards someone and I don't sense that they feel the same way about me I instantly feel deeply repulsed by them to the point that I can't even stand to have them anywhere near me. As if they had committed some sort of blasphemy.