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May 26, 2019Comments: 1553 · Posts: 3893 · Topics: 78
I have been a little vulnerable but only one person fully vulnerable. I look open, I share a lot but not the uncomfortable things except to the one who I know completely accepts me no matter what. I can show all emotions, I can share all thoughts, I can share how I really feel & call him out. Because he’s proven himself to be a safe place & with my moon that’s necessary.
I used to be completely closed down.. did it to save my marriage ( both times), but part of opening up, learning to be vulnerable was the healthy road. Tbh 2 Leo’s helped tremendously encouraging me to show emotions.. telling me they are allowed ❤️ And proving to me it was true by listening to my thoughts/how I felt no matter what. The third one seems to be the same way & this is one of the reason I love Leo’s!
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Apr 24, 2020Comments: 22 · Posts: 1516 · Topics: 17
generally i don't mind expressing and putting myself out there, but "vulnerable" for me is when i'm literally scared as shit but still exposing my feels and trusting someone with them.
i've been there once or twice.
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Mar 23, 2011Comments: 2 · Posts: 1142 · Topics: 24
Its difficult because I'd want someone to be sincere when I'm being vulnerable. Some people can't get deep enough to receive another person's vulnerability.
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Jul 28, 2016Comments: 4222 · Posts: 6474 · Topics: 83
I've let my walls down on some occasions and I've learned its the easiest way for people to hurt you with what they now know. This only happens when I've been completely emotionally unstable for a while, so to release a little burden makes it easier, but for the most part I tend not to let people in. I've not once been 100% vulnerable with one single person though. I never will be. Family and friends have always said im a closed book.
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Jul 26, 2019Comments: 0 · Posts: 399 · Topics: 13
I'm confused what that means. I think I'm usually very authentic to myself and I have no problem exposing my thoughts and feelings even when they are unflattering. I can have difficult conversations if need be.
But then again do I ever volunteer information that people could turn around and hurt me with? Never. And even when I come close, I always intensely regret it and it puts knots in my stomach even if everything is fine and nothing bad happens. And I just get mad at myself for stressing myself out with little to no gains. I'm sorry Brene Brown but I think being vulnerable in that way is a mistake.
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Aug 14, 2018Comments: 14363 · Posts: 2599 · Topics: 87
I'm a Leo with a Pisces moon... what do you think? Looool
Usually, Im vulnerable with my partners... but some have said I dont open up like they have wanted me to. Im like an onion with a lot of layers.
Last time I cried in front of someone was the Virgo about a year ago tho. I'm still a little embarrassed about it.