WOMEN: if you were single would you allow a good friend to

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Straight women if you were single would you let an inexperienced guy friend who you were attracted to but wouldn't date due to obvious incompatibility practice his oral skills on you ?



Queer women if you were single and had a lesbian inexperienced friend that you were attracted to and were single would you allow her to practice her oral skills on you ?
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Posted by Impulsv
Wut wut ?


Straight women if you were single would you let an inexperienced guy friend who you were attracted to but wouldn't date due to obvious incompatibility practice his oral skills on you ?



Queer women if you were single and had a lesbian inexperienced friend that you were attracted to and were single would you allow her to practice her oral skills on you ?



Lol! ???
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Posted by MyStarsShine
No
How come ?
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No. I don't like receiving oral, at least from men. That's gross.
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Straight males would say yes I feel .


Interesting .


Gay males too .
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Posted by Whorpio
No. I don't like receiving oral, at least from men. That's gross.
But a hot lesbian or a bisexual girl ?


You wouldn't have to reciprocate


She purely wants to give to practice for her future spouse

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Not if she was an actual good and close friend. I'm not sexually attracted to any of my friends.


Now if it was someone I had feelings for and attracted to and we werent full "friends" then yeah I would.
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Maybe
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Posted by Whorpio
No. I don't like receiving oral, at least from men. That's gross.

But a hot lesbian or a bisexual girl ?


You wouldn't have to reciprocate


She purely wants to give to practice for her future spouse
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Oh hell yeah gurl ?
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Posted by nats
Not if she was an actual good and close friend. I'm not sexually attracted to any of my friends.


Now if it was someone I had feelings for and attracted to and we werent full "friends" then yeah I would.
lol are you not going to tell me about the sexual experience with the Pisces cap mars woman ?

And

What does full friends mean ?

Like getting to know them to the point in which you wouldn't want jeapordize losing them if someone caught feelings during the 1 sided sex sessions ?




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No
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Posted by CrimsonGirl
Yes
Where were you during my virgin years?


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Posted by Whorpio
No. I don't like receiving oral, at least from men. That's gross.
But a hot lesbian or a bisexual girl ?


You wouldn't have to reciprocate


She purely wants to give to practice for her future spouse

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It's a great thread that MUST make you think about...marriage!!! ???
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Posted by CrimsonGirl
@enfant_terrible but on a more realistic note I was also a small child during your virgin years ?
I don't think it's helping him...now! Lol
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Yes
Where were you during my virgin years?

Masturbating wildly, wondering why I was too scared to actually have sex with a dude.
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Those girls are always the best cuz they had a lot of time to mature and figure out what works so when the time is ripe, watch out!

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Posted by CrimsonGirl
@enfant_terrible but on a more realistic note I was also a small child during your virgin years ?
Yeah let's not do this thing "realistically" lol
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Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
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Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
LMAO


Interesting reaction


When you figure it out let me know?
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Posted by Arielle83
im not sexually attracted to any of my guy friends...


would be a turn off see his eyes above my muff looking up at me


trying his hardest to get me off when all I'm giving him is bytch face...



i have with a gf in toronto though
Like she asked you and you let her ?


How did that go ?


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Posted by Arielle83
im not sexually attracted to any of my guy friends...


would be a turn off see his eyes above my muff looking up at me


trying his hardest to get me off when all I'm giving him is bytch face...



i have with a gf in toronto though
Like she asked you and you let her ?


How did that go ?


fine...ive had 3somes with a few femme friends etc...


we were on ghb that time
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Oh that's stuff can kill you if tv has taught me anything lol

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Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
LMAO


Interesting reaction


When you figure it out let me know?
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Haha the thought of a guy asking if he could test drive me to polish his skills annoyed me ?
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Depends. I can't imagine it not being awkward, but if it wasn't, then yes.
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
im not sexually attracted to any of my guy friends...


would be a turn off see his eyes above my muff looking up at me


trying his hardest to get me off when all I'm giving him is bytch face...



i have with a gf in toronto though
Like she asked you and you let her ?


How did that go ?


fine...ive had 3somes with a few femme friends etc...


we were on ghb that time


Oh that's stuff can kill you if tv has taught me anything lol

its a good high in small doses
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Lol


I'm so square I only know about ghb because if everwood and queer as folk .


Love has also been my drug of choice


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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
LMAO


Interesting reaction


When you figure it out let me know?
Haha the thought of a guy asking if he could test drive me to polish his skills annoyed me ?
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But he's cute you just don't want to date him because let's say he's still a student and immature in a lot of ways but he's offering you free oral ....


You can't be mad cause you turned him down already


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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
im not sexually attracted to any of my guy friends...


would be a turn off see his eyes above my muff looking up at me


trying his hardest to get me off when all I'm giving him is bytch face...



i have with a gf in toronto though
Like she asked you and you let her ?


How did that go ?


fine...ive had 3somes with a few femme friends etc...


we were on ghb that time


Oh that's stuff can kill you if tv has taught me anything lol

its a good high in small doses
Lol


I'm so square I only know about ghb because if everwood and queer as folk .


Love has also been my drug of choice


cool, liberty avenue was actually the street i lived on in toronto....but its actually called church st
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You're familiar with the show. ?!?!?!!!!

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Definitely.
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Arielle83
im not sexually attracted to any of my guy friends...


would be a turn off see his eyes above my muff looking up at me


trying his hardest to get me off when all I'm giving him is bytch face...



i have with a gf in toronto though
Like she asked you and you let her ?


How did that go ?


fine...ive had 3somes with a few femme friends etc...


we were on ghb that time


Oh that's stuff can kill you if tv has taught me anything lol

its a good high in small doses
Lol


I'm so square I only know about ghb because if everwood and queer as folk .


Love has also been my drug of choice


cool, liberty avenue was actually the street i lived on in toronto....but its actually called church st


You're familiar with the show. ?!?!?!!!!

Yes it was filmed on my street when I was in my early 20s. I used to go to woodys on the wkds
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That's awesome .


There were some cuties in the show .


I'm planning on visiting Toronto ( for a concert on thanksgiving ) for the first time in November maybe next month too ( for a burlesque show )

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single or not single,

i am not testing lab.

so my answer is no.
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Teena
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Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
LMAO


Interesting reaction


When you figure it out let me know?
Haha the thought of a guy asking if he could test drive me to polish his skills annoyed me ?
But he's cute you just don't want to date him because let's say he's still a student and immature in a lot of ways but he's offering you free oral ....


You can't be mad cause you turned him down already


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Why would I do anything else with him if I already turned him down? Idc if he's cute or hot or stud or a celebrity(not like that's gonna happen but still nope) lol.

N wait, "offering"??? Doing me favor?? Lol at that!

That's not the way I connect with people in general. So I think this discussion is not for me really ?
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Posted by Teena
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
LMAO


Interesting reaction


When you figure it out let me know?
Haha the thought of a guy asking if he could test drive me to polish his skills annoyed me ?
But he's cute you just don't want to date him because let's say he's still a student and immature in a lot of ways but he's offering you free oral ....


You can't be mad cause you turned him down already


Why would I do anything else with him if I already turned him down? Idc if he's cute or hot or stud or a celebrity(not like that's gonna happen but still nope) lol.

N wait, "offering"??? Doing me favor?? Lol at that!

That's not the way I connect with people in general. So I think this discussion is not for me really ?
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Yeah not trying to convince you

I just want to point out I think

He is asking you because he trusts you and Is attracted to you and vice versa .


It's safer than just having sex with randos and Also again impossible to get better unless you get into a relationship and can have a consistent partner to grow secularly with ... but even then that partner could lie etc ...


The friend aspect / lack of relationship is supposed to be good in this sense because you would be free to give him honest critique so he can get better unlike a gf who might have reservations about hurting his feeelings


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Yes
Where were you during my virgin years?

Masturbating wildly, wondering why I was too scared to actually have sex with a dude.
Those girls are always the best cuz they had a lot of time to mature and figure out what works so when the time is ripe, watch out!

My kegel muscles are out of this world. I attribute that to 12 years of masturbation prior to actual intercourse
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That feeling when your dick feels its been through a steamroller lol


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I tend to not be sexually attracted to platonic friends, so it's a no.
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Nooooo.
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Posted by Dreamyboy
I need to figure out how to request this in a conversation ?


"Hey can I lick your pussy for fun?"
Step #1 Be attractive ( grooming , hygiene , body etc )


Step #2 Don't Be a Creep


Step #3 Select a female friend that you know is highly attracted to you but doesn't necessarily want to date you because of attachment issues and or she just genuinely doesn't like you for whatever reason


#4 hang out with this girl but when you do always bring a book on cunnilingus ( like the low down on going down ) with you



#5 the rest should be a piece of cake



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What the hell did I just read?
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Posted by Dreamyboy
I need to figure out how to request this in a conversation ?


"Hey can I lick your pussy for fun?"
Step #1 Be attractive ( grooming , hygiene , body etc )


Step #2 Don't Be a Creep


Step #3 Select a female friend that you know is highly attracted to you but doesn't necessarily want to date you because of attachment issues and or she just genuinely doesn't like you for whatever reason


#4 hang out with this girl but when you do always bring a book on cunnilingus ( like the low down on going down ) with you



#5 the rest should be a piece of cake



Ah man I can't do it lol it's just an awkward conversation in my mind
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I feel like you'd have to give her a good sample before she signs on like a free trial lol



Aka basically seduce her one afternoon


And during the hot make out session / foreplay ask her what she likes after you've teased her throughly ( should be at least 15 of 20 minutes before you go anywhere near the kitty btw )


Also legitly familiarize yourself with this book or she comes first which is a better book imo


And use one of the routines outlined in the book .



Before you dive in


Make sure you compliment her on how beautiful she is make her feel comfortable about how she looks and assure her that you have all the time in the world

There's no rush to make her orgasm


You enjoy it and you are happy to be there


then put in work


Until she climaxes at least once


You're a Pisces maybe with a cap mars ?


This is our domain bro lol





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No. That would only complicate the friendship and make things awkward as fuck.
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Posted by Dreamyboy
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Dreamyboy
I need to figure out how to request this in a conversation ?


"Hey can I lick your pussy for fun?"
Step #1 Be attractive ( grooming , hygiene , body etc )


Step #2 Don't Be a Creep


Step #3 Select a female friend that you know is highly attracted to you but doesn't necessarily want to date you because of attachment issues and or she just genuinely doesn't like you for whatever reason


#4 hang out with this girl but when you do always bring a book on cunnilingus ( like the low down on going down ) with you



#5 the rest should be a piece of cake



Ah man I can't do it lol it's just an awkward conversation in my mind
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Lol if you find the conversation awkward to have you probably aren't cut out for the actual main event.
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Posted by nats
Not if she was an actual good and close friend. I'm not sexually attracted to any of my friends.


Now if it was someone I had feelings for and attracted to and we werent full "friends" then yeah I would.
lol are you not going to tell me about the sexual experience with the Pisces cap mars woman ?

And

What does full friends mean ?

Like getting to know them to the point in which you wouldn't want jeapordize losing them if someone caught feelings during the 1 sided sex sessions ?




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Lol forgot you asked me for that story! I will def tell you.


What I mean is sometimes when I meet people I automatically know they're either going to be my friend and nothing more. I have no physical or sexual attraction to them OR I'm going to have them as a friend but there's an attraction and maybe something more will come out of it.


If it's the latter then yes I'd let them experience it with me. If its the former then no because it's JUST a friend and I could never be sexual with my friends.


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No.


1) Awkward.

2) I don't want to be somebody's social experiment.

3) I can't relax and enjoy the experience without emotional intimacy playing a pertinent role, so it would be pointless for the both of us, anyway.






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I need to figure out how to request this in a conversation ?


"Hey can I lick your pussy for fun?"
Step #1 Be attractive ( grooming , hygiene , body etc )


Step #2 Don't Be a Creep


Step #3 Select a female friend that you know is highly attracted to you but doesn't necessarily want to date you because of attachment issues and or she just genuinely doesn't like you for whatever reason


#4 hang out with this girl but when you do always bring a book on cunnilingus ( like the low down on going down ) with you



#5 the rest should be a piece of cake



Ah man I can't do it lol it's just an awkward conversation in my mind
I feel like you'd have to give her a good sample before she signs on like a free trial lol



Aka basically seduce her one afternoon


And during the hot make out session / foreplay ask her what she likes after you've teased her throughly ( should be at least 15 of 20 minutes before you go anywhere near the kitty btw )


Also legitly familiarize yourself with this book or she comes first which is a better book imo


And use one of the routines outlined in the book .



Before you dive in


Make sure you compliment her on how beautiful she is make her feel comfortable about how she looks and assure her that you have all the time in the world

There's no rush to make her orgasm


You enjoy it and you are happy to be there


then put in work


Until she climaxes at least once


You're a Pisces maybe with a cap mars ?


This is our domain bro lol





I'm actually quite intrigued to try this now lol but yea nail on the head, Pisces + Cap Mars! My Gemini fb is starting to bore me. It's not sensual enough. Just straight to business and it's.... Ehh... You know what I mean?
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Fb ?


Friends with benefits?


And yeah I kind of know what you mean


My only sexual experience has been with my ex and she was like that too


Needless to say she didn't know how to please herself ....


We're still friends and she's told me she always learns from me things about sex ...her husband has even approached me for resources / guidance .


It Makes me feel good that I could be so instrumental in other people's lives and yet have so little practical experience .


I study this shizz though and verify everything I learn with my friends who are girls .


I just want to be the best you know ? For when I meet the one...


I don't know if it's a Pisces thing to want to first be a good person in terms of morals and having a positive impact on my local community


Second be a good partner which entails being an adaptive enthusiastic lover ..always aiming to please and always willing to learn about my partners wants and needs which change over time btw


And also being good parent If I have kids



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I need to figure out how to request this in a conversation ?


"Hey can I lick your pussy for fun?"
Step #1 Be attractive ( grooming , hygiene , body etc )


Step #2 Don't Be a Creep


Step #3 Select a female friend that you know is highly attracted to you but doesn't necessarily want to date you because of attachment issues and or she just genuinely doesn't like you for whatever reason


#4 hang out with this girl but when you do always bring a book on cunnilingus ( like the low down on going down ) with you



#5 the rest should be a piece of cake



Ah man I can't do it lol it's just an awkward conversation in my mind
Lol if you find the conversation awkward to have you probably aren't cut out for the actual main event.
Your probably absolutely right lol it would just feel weird for me to not be able to build a bond in the way I actually would want. I'm not cut out for casual sex/oral
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Poor Gemini moon ?
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Posted by nats
Not if she was an actual good and close friend. I'm not sexually attracted to any of my friends.


Now if it was someone I had feelings for and attracted to and we werent full "friends" then yeah I would.
lol are you not going to tell me about the sexual experience with the Pisces cap mars woman ?

And

What does full friends mean ?

Like getting to know them to the point in which you wouldn't want jeapordize losing them if someone caught feelings during the 1 sided sex sessions ?




Lol forgot you asked me for that story! I will def tell you.


What I mean is sometimes when I meet people I automatically know they're either going to be my friend and nothing more. I have no physical or sexual attraction to them OR I'm going to have them as a friend but there's an attraction and maybe something more will come out of it.


If it's the latter then yes I'd let them experience it with me. If its the former then no because it's JUST a friend and I could never be sexual with my friends.


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lol still waiting for that PM with the story by the way


As for your last post this interest me because I met a girl , a Pisces with a cap mars , Venus on Taurus actually ( same placements as me ) who essentially friend zoned me


But flirted with me before and after I owned up to my attraction for her .. it was weird I remember her saying touching and attraction was okay between friends


I'm not attracted to any of my friends so idk .. it sounds like maybe she and you shared similar views


Lately I've been thinking about how

Before I blew things with her maybe a fwb situation was an option because she didn't want to date me for whatever reason but was still attracted to me


I only lament because even though I knew we were incompatible long term


The attraction was really intense and the sex was supposed to be out of this world ...at least according to every Astro book and website I encountered


It would have been nice to both verify what the websites and books said and to at least practice with her .


She was the first and only girl I ever wanted to legitly do things with .


Other beautiful women have come on to me before and also after we met but I haven't and don't feel any sexual attraction towards them. Sad


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Straight males would say yes I feel .


Interesting .


Gay males too .
Allow this omnisexual male to tell that:


If I were asked to choose between A) Sitting in some stuffy auditorium listening while Stephen Hawking reads War and Peace; sans omission OR B) Dealing with someone scraping the skin off my d*ck with their teeth paired with my genitals being drowned in drool, snot, and even possibly vomit... all in the name of education...


I can safely say I'd choose 'Option A' 9+ times out of 10.
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So you are saying that you are a male who doesn't like blowjobs? Aka you are a unicorn ?


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No.


1) Awkward.

2) I don't want to be somebody's social experiment.

3) I can't relax and enjoy the experience without emotional intimacy playing a pertinent role, so it would be pointless for the both of us, anyway.






Some people tend to have deeper emotional intimacy with friends than with Romaric interests


I also think that's the point


Two people would be willing to do this because of the trust established between them


....


That aside still could be awkward for some including you


So I totally get it


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Straight males would say yes I feel .


Interesting .


Gay males too .
Allow this omnisexual male to tell that:


If I were asked to choose between A) Sitting in some stuffy auditorium listening while Stephen Hawking reads War and Peace; sans omission OR B) Dealing with someone scraping the skin off my d*ck with their teeth paired with my genitals being drowned in drool, snot, and even possibly vomit... all in the name of education...


I can safely say I'd choose 'Option A' 9+ times out of 10.
So you are saying that you are a male who doesn't like blowjobs? Aka you are a unicorn ?


I'm saying I know the difference between quality and quantity, and that I've been around the block enough times to know there are plenty of highly experienced people out there who want nothing more from their life than the feeling of giving another mo'fkr nobbenschlobben. So, if nobbenschlobben was what I wanted... I'd not have to deal with educating someone to make that happen.


That being said... there are lots of dudes who aren't that interested in getting dome. That's not to say they don't like it; however, they just like other things more so they'd rather be doing that instead. It's far from a Unicorn situation.
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Still haven't convinced me that there a lot of guys who would turn down Free blowjobs from someone they are attracted to even if they would rather have vaginal or anal sex with the same person.

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Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
Note to self... Don't ask Teena... ?✏
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Not if you wish to be killed in the most brutal way possible ??️?

Use me to improve your skills n call that a favor to me marker!!?
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Posted by Teena
Idc if the guy is inexperienced or not or if I'm attracted to him or not, I won't let him "practice" his "skills" on me. Idk why this actually made me mad?
Note to self... Don't ask Teena... ?✏
Not if you wish to be killed in the most brutal way possible ??️?

Use me to improve your skills n call that a favor to me marker!!?
I'm kind of curious exactly how'd you kill me lol plz elaborate!!

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???


Ummm.. I pick "I spit on your grave" style ?
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