Butthurt over FWB not turning into romance?

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
Chicks sleep with me, and I think it means they like me (as a person). Then they tell me that we should do it again, but that the sex doesn't mean anything. Which makes me feel dirty and used, and my self-esteem takes a hit, so I continue having meaningless sex to fill the void inside from not feeling loved. I get labeled as a player for having meaningless sex with these women, even though it's not my idea, so women use that reputation against me as an excuse to not take me seriously as relationship material. And to justify using me for commitment-less sex, because that's all I'm good for.
I'm viewed as nothing more than a boy-toy and it's like I'm stuck in the friend zone, only instead of never getting laid, I ONLY get laid and then I'm objectified. I've had "sluts" do this to me, I've had "madonnas" do this to me. And it's not that I'm bad at sex, because they come back for seconds, thirds, etc. They only stop coming (pun intended) when I suggest taking them out on a date. I've tried not rushing into physical relationships, but lets face it- women who REALLY need to follow that advice constantly fail to, and I have 3x testosterone as them, so when a woman asks me if I "wanna fuck?" unless I have a specific reason not to, I don't really have the capacity to say "Let's just take this slow..."
Even more than the chemical difference, is that fact that women who always have sex may be considered sluts... but men who TURN DOWN easy sex get their sexuality questioned. They get mocked, and bullied, because what straight guy WOULDN'T tap that, given the chance? Must be gay, asexual, have a small wiener... I get high fives from the fellas for my conquests, when the secret reality is that *I* am the conquest, and I just want a woman who will respect me as a man, and not as a dildo. Someone who will view me as an equal. I only agree to FWB because I think that maybe the female's oxytocin will kick in and she'll feel chemically compelled to love me. 'Cept nope, it doesn't ever happen. One day I had three women who were all using me for sex, take turns kissing me, joking about how I was a whore, and passing me around between the three of them. I let it happen because I felt like I didn't deserve better.
Some guys think that the feminism movement made it harder to get into girl's pants. I feel like it made it harder to get into their hearts.
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Posted by Damnata
WRONG
I'm a Virgo, what is this sex thing you people speak of?