2 virgo men (2 extremes)

Hey guys I have 2 virgo men in my life Need some insight into the both of them...
One is a perfect gentleman, but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He doesn't really show it. He said he was interested in getting to know me better. We've gone out to dinner a couple of times and we talk alot which is one thing I appreciate. I guess he would be what one would consider a nerd. He doesn't smoke or drink, He's a vegan and kinda boring. Theres not much excitement with him, but he's still a good guy. Only thing is that I think he's a perfectionist and judgemental. I have a daughter and he has no children. When I told him I had a child he didn't ask her age or anything. Was just uninterested. He tells me about his past relationships and it sounds to me that he always gets taken for wanting what he can't have for lack of having "it"
Now this other virgo male is SEXY,well their both sexy but virgo # 2 knows it and knows how to use it. He's down to earth, but I can tell he's a player. At first he called me everyday until we got intimate, then the calls slowed down but he insists he's missing me and just busy yeah right! Virgo 2 makes me not want him for anything but a good time, but I won't even give him that anymore because he can't be upfront and honest. I also feel that he's selfish. Neither one of these guys are for the long haul. But I'm just interested in what you guys think

Seems that you are interested in playing too?!!


Then play.. what are you complaining about..??

you're so right MerciInAries. And yes I date and I openly tell everyone that. To me a player is someone who lies and can't tell the truth about his or her status.

Really..?

Are these guys aware of their existence in your life..?

If yes: then its no wonder neither of them taking you seriously.

And if no: then who is the player here..??

It is looking like you are kissing one while holding an eye on the other. So much for faithfulness and to be truthful.

Good Points!

Yeah those are good points, but if I openly tell you I'm dating and I don't have a staedy man in my life then thats as honest as I can be. I'm obviously open to dating and vice versa if I hooked up with these guys in the first place. I call a player is someone who also plays with someone's minds by telling them lies and professing their fidelity and love when that is not the case. I am kissing one guy, but I'd probably kiss the other too if he tried to kiss me. I think that when a man dates a woman then starts to really like her its up to him to try to be the "only one" if thats what he wants. Otherwise both parties will continue to just date. So I don't really get it QBone. Neither one of them piss me off in any way I was just asking if anyone had any insight on the 2 different personalities. Dating should be open and honest and unhurtful as possible. At least in my eyes

Cause I was interested in knowing.

Dating should be open and honest and unhurtful as possible. - I think I agree but somehow I can't do multiplrocessing in this area of my life. I can't date two people at the same time. I am sure it can create so much confusion..When I date someone, I give in my head,heart and soul to the relationship with full dedication and attention. Nothing half heartedly..

Thats also true caprigirlwithvirgo. You know different strokes for different folks!