A little explanation?

Well first off, I don't deal with virgos much so I really have no idea how that brain of theirs work. Maybe I haven't read enough into these boards but to start my virgo adventure off maybe you all can help as to whats REALLY going on with a virgo acquaintance. Although, in the past the virgos I've known are pretty straight forward and there isn't much going on either than what they mean but I just have to ask, I'm curious.

Where do I start? Okay, so we meet at work and we start really goofing off and we're really alike despite the fact that i'm a libra and she's a virgo. I think it's because of the libra in her charts. Anyway, after like a week of knowing her it's like we're best friends, like we totally hit it off (friends-wise). We go out a couple of times and we have these bonding conversations that totally make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

This is the part where it confuses me because its totally not virgo behaviour I'd expect at all. We make plans to go out one day. So come that day I call her to see whats going on, she picks up and tells me 'oh, change of plans'. So I'm confused, first why she didn't call me earlier to tell me at least and second I ask her why? she says she'll tell me later. In my head she owes me an explanation at LEAST. Days later she contacts apologizes but still doesn't say why she didn't bother calling me or canceling on me. I'm finding it hard to forgive her..

Like.. I don't get it.

Dear Diary, 🙂

Oh you're right, you're right! I know I should not have acted the way I did but I just couldn't help myself.. I just HAD to know why. She told me what it was, although it might have been a lie.. she apologized so I guess that's what counts, like you said.

Although I know how unhappy she would have been had I canceled on her, so its only fair I reacted that way. It's a good thing I'm good at hiding my true self or things could have got ugly.

I'm totally over it. BUT I did tell her I wouldn't be too happy if she did it again. It's all about meeting the middle.. compromising!

Oh btw, we're totally just friends!

Sincerely,
CM

ps. yes i had to sign off properly , thanks. 🙂

Intelligent, Generous, Dipomatic, Sociable, Convicted, (damn is it true...gotta be right regardless of what anyone says and proves it in spades....) Calm, Open-Minded, (when past the perfectionism/control phase of life some can't get over it and their intellect suffers for it) Affable (comes off as aloof or harsh at times but is well meaning and kind....sometimes it's kept hidden even at the Virgos detriment...) and Individualistic...(despises being one of the crowd....sometimes cuts friends short becuase of merging beliefs or ideas....Virgo has a need to firmly assert their differences becuase they despise merging and blending in: it compromises their boundaries and space.....that's why they are opositional to pisces in general temperment as well)

now for the good part....lol

know-it-all, stoic, secretive/mysterious (I've been known to be this way and a friend of mine who is a Virg to is this way as well we have a way of saying everything but leaving no personal information) Harsh, (doesn't know how to just reach a person without hammering away at the person mercilessly) cold-blooded, holier-than-thou.....

on the whole like Scorpio in someways depending on our childhoods, but rational, and logical....our mind guides our heart so we are usually very fair and open to seeing things from the other side....this is also in part becuase most Virgos aren't very selfish, and don't really know how to be but every now and again you'll find a Virgo that you'll hate (and chances are you'll start a bash board about them on here!! lol)....I'd give the shirt off my back to someone if I thought they needed it....

Basically, you'll find, that no two are alike, and are usually chewing each others ears off trying to get the other to see things their way....but like I said, they've got to be different.....gotta go against the grain so to speak....I bet I'll get a reprisal/tongue lashing for what I've said..lol 😛

From a different point of view indeed!

No I love virgos despite all those negative things you've said, they're so dependable and very stable.

gernerally we have a detatched cerebral flavor to us, but when we set our sights on something....well *VE imitates italian accent* fa'get about it! I'm pretty sure I said some good stuff too....but what we're REALLY all here for is the dirt on Virgos right? lol there ya be, but I'll let anyone else take the floor.....you'll probably be hearing from DY soon enough....😛

detatched and needs to be different, but has a need to be social, and exchange ideas to grow. Ask any Virgo: would you want a million dollars, or be a genius? most would choose the brain, but you'll get the one sarcastic one (as well are most of the time) wholl say they'd take the dough and K.I.M. (Keep it movin').