A little insight

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Honeybunniie on Sunday, July 12, 2015 and has 8 replies.
My lovely virgo men... I need suggestions. How do you get a virgo men to realize that you want him to let go of you?

Back story summary. We have bn off and on for 8 yrs. he has cheated one me more than twice. I finally decided to get off this hellish roller coaster ride. I broke it off when him a year & some months ago. Unfortunately I can not stop communication with bc we have two beautiful girls together. I have voice several times that I just want to be cordial and just co parent. He ignores my wishes. He gets upset and try to be rebellious bc I don't desire to be sexual with him. He whines everyday about me not talking to him or texting. When he comes to my house to pick up the girls, he is searching my place to see if a guy has been there. Of course these things pisses me off so we stay in constant arguments. I dnt know what else to do. He really believes that we will get back together once he is settled financially. I keep telling him that I am done. He has an annoying Aries gf but he keep trying to confine in me when he is stress or unhappy. He ask me if I bn with anyone else and I told him yes. Im single and can do as plZ. He went crazy and started to do evil things like stop helping with the girls and etc until I was nice to him again. I feel trapped. Any advice would be nice. This is draining me.
you still love him ? because it look you still love him . He is jealous because he still have feelings for you . Are you 100 sure he cheated on you? . Many people not only virgos get upset when you don't go sexual with them , he probably thinks you still love him but you dont want to get sexual with him which is very confusing and frustrating for him . .
Yo need to tell him wht you tel us. be honest n open. Virgos are very nononsense and straight to th point.
Posted by mrwang
you still love him ? because it look you still love him . He is jealous because he still have feelings for you . Are you 100 sure he cheated on you? . Many people not only virgos get upset when you don't go sexual with them , he probably thinks you still love him but you dont want to get sexual with him which is very confusing and frustrating for him . .

I will always love him but I'm not IN LOVE with him. He destroyed that once he betrayed for the 3rd time. Yes I'm sure. He created another child with the girl and she was the one who exposed everything. He begged and etc for me not to leave him. I did anyway. I thought he was sincere once we took a break and stupidly agree to try one more time but he cheated again with the Aries girl( who is now his gf) and I told him that was the final straw. I have too much resentment and trust issues with him. I told him that there will never be an us ever again. he doesn't take my words seriously. I'm showing him through actions that I'be moved on but he is making it hell on me.
Posted by SuperMissMan
Yo need to tell him wht you tel us. be honest n open. Virgos are very nononsense and straight to th point.

I have almost every other day and he tries to turn the convo back on me and try and make me feel guilty
Considering you have two kids your f'd at that end.. without cutting proper ties your stuck till he is willing to move on.
be honest with him , tell him you just want be friends , tell him you have no feelings for him and your love has ended . tell him you can trust him no more
Thank u for your advice! I appreciate it!