a taurus
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ami_virgo19 on Thursday, August 10, 2006 and has 9 replies.
i really need help here and all comments will be appriciated!
about 6 months ago, i split with my girlfriend (for a month or so) in that space, i slept with a taurus woman, she told me that i was the 1st woman she slept with since her girlfriend passed away, i thought that was a pretty big deal! we spoke a little after that but only saw each other on nights out, nothing else happened! about 2 months ago she started going out with another girl. (heres were it gets confusing)
last weekend (fri 4th) she was out, without her g/f, we was dancing all night blah blah.........we ended up spending all night snogging then she asked me to come to hers, i went to hers, it was great we had a laugh we have the same humor & stuff! we was in bed, things progressed we slept together again, then we was up for hours chatting, she is still with her girlfriend so i said why did you do it? she said there is just something about me and she wants to take me home all the time. she also said to me what if next week you see me out with my girlfriend what will ya do? i was just trying to play it cool and i said nothing just we've had fun which is great! after hours in bed, we got up and she borrowed me her top and dropped me off at my house, i text her several hours later saying thanks for a good time. i then left it i text her the next day cause when we spoke about sharing a room for manchester pride but she didnt reply so im baffled by it all? WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????????????? coments please! xxxxx
about 6 months ago, i split with my girlfriend (for a month or so) in that space, i slept with a taurus woman, she told me that i was the 1st woman she slept with since her girlfriend passed away, i thought that was a pretty big deal! we spoke a little after that but only saw each other on nights out, nothing else happened! about 2 months ago she started going out with another girl. (heres were it gets confusing)
last weekend (fri 4th) she was out, without her g/f, we was dancing all night blah blah.........we ended up spending all night snogging then she asked me to come to hers, i went to hers, it was great we had a laugh we have the same humor & stuff! we was in bed, things progressed we slept together again, then we was up for hours chatting, she is still with her girlfriend so i said why did you do it? she said there is just something about me and she wants to take me home all the time. she also said to me what if next week you see me out with my girlfriend what will ya do? i was just trying to play it cool and i said nothing just we've had fun which is great! after hours in bed, we got up and she borrowed me her top and dropped me off at my house, i text her several hours later saying thanks for a good time. i then left it i text her the next day cause when we spoke about sharing a room for manchester pride but she didnt reply so im baffled by it all? WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????????????? coments please! xxxxx
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It sounds to me, judgeing from this post and the other one adressing the same situation, that these two girls (Scorp & Taurus), have both either found another woman, or want to move on to another place in thier life.
Ami, I would take that to mean that neither one of them are serious about you.
Taurus girl was with you and then hooked up with someone else and even told you that you might see them together out in public. If she's out in public with this other one then that is obviously her woman she wants to be associated with.
Scorpio girl does not want to get back together unless you stop going to bars and change your friends. If her priorities tell her that her principals are more important than your feelings, then . . .
Hypothetically, if I were the other women . . this is how I would process this . . .
Scorpio = She says she wants to be with me, but, goes to bars to meet other women. That's the hallmark of a cheater . . I would break up and move on.
Taurus = she knows I have a girlfriend to whom I'm attached, but, sleeps with me anyway, not caring about morals . . a piece on the side, for booty call.
Ami, it looks from your posts that you are having to realize that it's your loyalty and faithfulness that is the issue with these women. It's hard to tell from what just little you wrote, but, what you did mention is that you're not faithful to either one; or, you would go out for the hunt to look for another whenever possible. It's doubtful that you'll get either one, under those circumstances and perhaps it would be wiser to write both of them off . . take a look at your own morals . . and look for another after some self examination and adjustment.
Ami, I would take that to mean that neither one of them are serious about you.
Taurus girl was with you and then hooked up with someone else and even told you that you might see them together out in public. If she's out in public with this other one then that is obviously her woman she wants to be associated with.
Scorpio girl does not want to get back together unless you stop going to bars and change your friends. If her priorities tell her that her principals are more important than your feelings, then . . .
Hypothetically, if I were the other women . . this is how I would process this . . .
Scorpio = She says she wants to be with me, but, goes to bars to meet other women. That's the hallmark of a cheater . . I would break up and move on.
Taurus = she knows I have a girlfriend to whom I'm attached, but, sleeps with me anyway, not caring about morals . . a piece on the side, for booty call.
Ami, it looks from your posts that you are having to realize that it's your loyalty and faithfulness that is the issue with these women. It's hard to tell from what just little you wrote, but, what you did mention is that you're not faithful to either one; or, you would go out for the hunt to look for another whenever possible. It's doubtful that you'll get either one, under those circumstances and perhaps it would be wiser to write both of them off . . take a look at your own morals . . and look for another after some self examination and adjustment.
but i really like this taurus and she said there is something special abotu me that she wants to take me home! i just dont know what to do, do i leave them both and look for someone totally different? get back with my ex, although that would mean moving out and stop going in the gay bars and just be with her! not sure if the post was accurate! xxx
a valid point there i know but i like her so much and if she did leave the other girl to be with me WOOH! i know she wouldnt cheat because im so lovable its just getting them which is the hardest part but hopefully she will dump her and we can carry on sleeping toegtheR!!! Thanks
To be perfectly honest with you, I get the impression that you think you are in charge of this, you're trying to decide whether to take one, or the other . . .
In reality, you're not in charge of the situation. One has a girlfriend, the other said she wants to call it quits. THEY made the decision . . not you.
One only wants to use you for your sex, apparantly.
The other must think you aren't faithful. Who's knows, except you.
But, the point is . . . this isn't your decision to make, whether you'll take them, or not. It's kind of funny . . . they've moved on and your sitting here hashing over which one to take.
Ami . . of course the one girl thinks your special and tells you sweet stuff . . she wants you to remain available for a piece of p.... She has a girlfriend.
I'm utterly amazed, really. Most Virgo's are swift, to say the least. They would look at all the angles, motives, trustworthiness . . everything about the other girls and themselves.
Take a step back and analyze the situation, instead of sounding so desperate. People are players and if they sense your desperation . . . then your gonna get tossed around and tricked.
You said, "do i leave them both" . . . ummmm . . they left you.
Hello . . . .
In reality, you're not in charge of the situation. One has a girlfriend, the other said she wants to call it quits. THEY made the decision . . not you.
One only wants to use you for your sex, apparantly.
The other must think you aren't faithful. Who's knows, except you.
But, the point is . . . this isn't your decision to make, whether you'll take them, or not. It's kind of funny . . . they've moved on and your sitting here hashing over which one to take.
Ami . . of course the one girl thinks your special and tells you sweet stuff . . she wants you to remain available for a piece of p.... She has a girlfriend.
I'm utterly amazed, really. Most Virgo's are swift, to say the least. They would look at all the angles, motives, trustworthiness . . everything about the other girls and themselves.
Take a step back and analyze the situation, instead of sounding so desperate. People are players and if they sense your desperation . . . then your gonna get tossed around and tricked.
You said, "do i leave them both" . . . ummmm . . they left you.
Hello . . . .
i know what the situation looks like i have looked at all angles believe me and i dont plan on sleeping with either of them again until i get something back from either one of them, and no i dont think im in control of the situation quite the opposite i know they have the control thats what i hate!!! i know i have the control with my ex cos i can be with her if i want to i just need to sort my life style out!!! i know what you mean she may have just been sayin she likes me for the sex reason alone i didnt think of that but i dont think she would because shes too nice! i obviously havent explained the situation well enough! but i have looked at the angles thats why im playing it cool and if shes out next week with her g/f or not ill just play like nothing has happened!
"i know she wouldnt cheat because im so lovable"
Wow, you're really naive if you believe that. She cheats on her girlfriend to be with you, yet, you're so lovable that she wouldn't cheat on you, yet, she doesnt' even want to be your girlfriend . . just your kitty.
lol, are you sure you're a Virgo?
Oh, I see . . the light just went off . . took me a minute . . .
You said, "hopefully she will dump her and we can carry on sleeping toegtheR" Your just looking for sex. You didn't say, 'have a meaningful relationship'. My mistake, you're just looking to get laid.
I got that. Good Luck, and you always have the bar you go to. I'm sure there's available p... in there, if you just apply enough alcohol.
Wow, you're really naive if you believe that. She cheats on her girlfriend to be with you, yet, you're so lovable that she wouldn't cheat on you, yet, she doesnt' even want to be your girlfriend . . just your kitty.
lol, are you sure you're a Virgo?
Oh, I see . . the light just went off . . took me a minute . . .
You said, "hopefully she will dump her and we can carry on sleeping toegtheR" Your just looking for sex. You didn't say, 'have a meaningful relationship'. My mistake, you're just looking to get laid.
I got that. Good Luck, and you always have the bar you go to. I'm sure there's available p... in there, if you just apply enough alcohol.
"ill just play like nothing has happened"
Play ??????
You play with fire, you get burned.
Play ??????
You play with fire, you get burned.
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