A VIRGO MALE thru this one at me.....

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by hopelessdreamr on Monday, March 6, 2006 and has 4 replies.
sorry about the misleading title but im going a different way with wat i want to post. i have a bit of a lingering situation. a gentleman ive associated with for the past several years has recently decided to bring it to my attention without saying so that i must have hallucinated him having ne types of feelings for me all this time or ever.Now, he hasnt sed this out loud but actions speak louder than words i feel like. he just acted highly agitated with me the last time i tried to pin down wat exactly was vexing him so i left it alone i figured it was something but, watever it was he absolutely is not telling me. i dont know where all this has come from but i assume its the end of ne relationship we could have because i asked him if he just wanted to leave things at this standstill and he didnt even answer me! so i took silence as agreeance and left him alone. weeks pass and he starts texing me as if nothing has transpired. he starts talking about some movie of mine he wants to return to me cause he keeps forgetting he has it... i told him keep it and call it a gift, he asked me y and TOLD me he was still coming to see me. i told him he wasnt and he didnt say nething. he seriously dumbfounds me everytime we communicate he'll try to inch n2 conversations and just leave me dry wen it comes to emotional Nething...it seems so classic but i cant figure him out for the life of me... y wait all this time to start acting on me, hes never had to lie before and we havent even had too many clashes but whatever...im not fooling with him sorry if i rambled, i started to vent smile
Maybe he finally realizes that he made a mistake. Maybe the timing is better for him now and he is in a better place to have a relationship. Ask him nicely why he has contacted you and what his intentions are. If you like him, don't give him a hard time and give him one more chance. If he messes up again kick him to the curb knowing that you closed that chapter.
Gslove, I was reading this advice posted by for someone else. Since now you are kind of in the same situation, you can maybe try this out yourself.

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