abusive

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by xoxoxome77 on Thursday, March 9, 2017 and has 6 replies.
I'm an Aquarius girl who just got out of dating a Virgo male. he was the worst. I thought this was just a he problem but then I realized so many Virgo men are like this! In the beginning he made me feel so special and wanted, then started to treat me like garbage. he was jealous, possessive, and clearly insecure. For some reason I was hurt when it ended I think mostly because I was missing him, but now I know I should be relieved to be without him. He was so perfect to me until I noticed how troubled he is deep down. He would never kiss me in public or even hold my hand because he hates to show affection. In bed he was good until he started to beat me and when I said stop you're hurting me he said I "deserved it" even though I did nothing wrong. Virgo men are the worst never again will I let myself fall for such a jerk. He didn't want to commit to me yet he wanted me to not talk to any other guys. possessive and controlling... even saying hi to a guy he would freak out. RED FLAG. Us Aquarius girls need a fun loving guy like our fun loving selves!
We must live in parallel dimensions. I'm a Virgo who was in an abusive relationship with an Aquarius male. Abuse isn't sign related, it's ones choice. The positive thing to take from this is you are out smile
Not sure if troll post

But troubled, insecure Virgos with issues they haven't resolved can be like that and project their insecurities onto their close ones. They'll be very critical and harsh because they're critical of themselves
Posted by LuckyLibra979
That's not something to troll with
Were you referring to me or the OP?
All men are great in the beginning. Not all stay that way.

^^^best thing to remind yourself when first dating someone^^^

This is anxious behaviour. It has nothing to do with astrological signs. It is a toxic kind of relationship. Avoid it. Let him deal with his own insecurities. Relationship are not here to heal anybody, especially that Aquas are a little bit (or more) avoidant themselves. Find someone that makes you loved and secured and don't compromise with your soul and instincts. Aquas are very intuitive.