advice?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by vvlv on Monday, December 3, 2007 and has 3 replies.
So posting my "issue" may bring more confusion to my thoughts but I'm hoping that it will bring some insight to me... I try not to correlate a one's actions based on their sign but sometimes I can't help but to!
I have been talking to a Virgo Man, born 13-Sept, we've been talking for almost the past two months and things have been going great. He would always contact me almost every day just to see how I was doing, always really considerate and even though his job is very demanding (banking) he always made sure to text or email me to see how I was doing...
We get along really well, I'm a Virgo as well, always laughing, and on the same level, never argued yet... But the issue is, I haven't talked to him in almost a week. I know realistically it's not a long time, but the fact that I've talked to him almost everyday since we've been talking, makes a week seem a long time. I'm not sure if he's really busy with work, or really stressed out about something? I did send him an email 2 days ago just seeing how he was doing and if everything was alright but he hasn't responded yet... It seems unlike him to not make contact with me yet...
Am I just overthinking it?
I have been talking to a Virgo Man, born 13-Sept, we've been talking for almost the past two months and things have been going great. He would always contact me almost every day just to see how I was doing, always really considerate and even though his job is very demanding (banking) he always made sure to text or email me to see how I was doing...
We get along really well, I'm a Virgo as well, always laughing, and on the same level, never argued yet... But the issue is, I haven't talked to him in almost a week. I know realistically it's not a long time, but the fact that I've talked to him almost everyday since we've been talking, makes a week seem a long time. I'm not sure if he's really busy with work, or really stressed out about something? I did send him an email 2 days ago just seeing how he was doing and if everything was alright but he hasn't responded yet... It seems unlike him to not make contact with me yet...
Am I just overthinking it?
Have you tried making contact with him, maybe he stopped to see if you are as interested in him as he is in you.
One of three things: Either he isn't interested, caught up in his own analytical-worry war, or unsure about how you feel due to misinterpreting something you said or did and is trying to figure it out (through worry and analyzing).
One way to find out if a Virgo is not interested is to push them in a corner by trying to get further than they want to let you. If he's not answering the phone when you call, returning your call, emails, responding in a timely fashion then you can pretty much take that as not interested. We're a courteous bunch and so even if we don't like someone we are considerate of responding and addressing but after a while we stop feeling obligated or affected by the what ifs when we just don't "GAF" anymore and want it done and over with.
Now... I've given you some insight into the downside of things. Hopefully I am wrong. So, if he's interested in you then you will know by the time he puts in. I don't buy into the "too busy to communicate" theory. Everyone finds downtime to do something (check email, driving between points A & B, a minute between duties or chores). These are perfect opportunities to catch up on things you're neglecting like communicating with a potential mate. It's said that if a man is interested nothing will keep him away except (and not always) thinking you're not interested.
Best wishes though.
One way to find out if a Virgo is not interested is to push them in a corner by trying to get further than they want to let you. If he's not answering the phone when you call, returning your call, emails, responding in a timely fashion then you can pretty much take that as not interested. We're a courteous bunch and so even if we don't like someone we are considerate of responding and addressing but after a while we stop feeling obligated or affected by the what ifs when we just don't "GAF" anymore and want it done and over with.
Now... I've given you some insight into the downside of things. Hopefully I am wrong. So, if he's interested in you then you will know by the time he puts in. I don't buy into the "too busy to communicate" theory. Everyone finds downtime to do something (check email, driving between points A & B, a minute between duties or chores). These are perfect opportunities to catch up on things you're neglecting like communicating with a potential mate. It's said that if a man is interested nothing will keep him away except (and not always) thinking you're not interested.
Best wishes though.
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