advice needed please

Posted by CluelessCancer
attempting to read that gave me a headache. jesus christ.

Posted by Taurusqueen15
so i met this virgo guy in high school, we were friends then...He wanted to get with me but i had a bf so i said no but still continued to be friends from a distance. lost contact with him...
Fast forward 5 years later
I seen him walking one day, not really looking for a relationship, just for old times friendship sake, i said whats up.... well we started hanging out and going out. to me, it was just hanging chilling not much.then he asked me out and i said yes...
i mean i knew i shouldn't had got with him cuz he didnt offer stability or security in a relationship and being a taurus that I am, thats important to me. but i said let me work with him and give him motivation. because i heard of love stories where it worked out. I gave it a try.... BIG MISTAKE!!!!!
AFTER so many months of passively asking him what is he doing to get his isn together and him just nonchantly giving me bs answer until finally i snapped.... told him he needs to get his ish together cuz times waits for no man. he knocking on 30 still ok with living at his moms house yada yada. he became furious and he said some isn i told hm about and threw it in my face....of course i get mad and we break up....we dont have no contact with each other for like 2 weeks...I initiate contact and we talk, don't get back together but gets physical. I wanted a relationship he doesnt give it to me so i cut him off again....we did this back and forth 3 to 4 times over like 6 months...everytime I initiate things and I stopped it....it been abut 3 months since we haven't spoke nothing but he still on my fb but doesnt say anything to me...I dont delete him off because I dont want him to feel like he has 1 over on me. according to my fb, im happy as hell....and when i was in a relationship with, I would get mad and delete him...but when I'm over whatever im mad about i request him back, he always accepts me so that why i havent deleted him....in this 3 months of not speaking to him, my friend runs into him he out on a date...of course she tells me and I'm in my feelings....my aunt fiance runs into him at his new job now , he talks to him, he tells him he is assistant manger at his place of employment and blah blah blah....of course he tells me....my aunts fianc? and him is cool so he tells my aunt fiance that he is going to come over his house and chill and my aunts fianc? says something to the effect that

Posted by TaurusBull1977
I actually read this entire thread. She's a Taurus. I wanted to get the FULL story.
Taurusqueen15--
It's a matter of stability & security vs emotions. You're conflicted, and your actions depict ambiguous displays of interest. Communicate. Dismiss. Argue. Dismiss. Over-Analyze. Dismiss. Show Interest. Dismiss.
You want him. But he's not grounded, and he's changeable, and not reciprocating. You're a Bull girl. You want reliability, loyalty and consistency. You want to be courted. You want an old fashioned relationship. You want him to take the initiative, to get his shit together, to get his life in order...
But obviously he's not about that life.
Virgos and Bulls can make a pretty good match if both parties are evolved.
...And no disrespect to you Bullette, but it appears as if the two of you need two grow up, separate, and re-evaluate your priorities in life.
I would have loved to give you more advice on this pairing (I have plenty of experience)
But....
Your type of relationship doesn't look healthy, and it doesn't seem to be going anywhere.
Good Luck to you....