Affair with a foreign virgo

I'm a pisces female and I started seeing a virgo male a little over a month ago. He is here from Europe on business and will be going home next weekend. For me, this was just supposed to be a fling or a pleasant distraction. I wasn't even attracted to this man when I first met him but he pursued me, called me nearly everyday, took me out frequently, paid for everything and treated me like a lady. We talk at length during our phone calls even though I get the feeling he is not a phone person and he's always asking to come and see me, which I let him often but not every day. I've (uncharacteristically for a pisces) kept a handle on my feelings and my display of them, holding back my affection at times. He's rather reserved and shy but he always attempts to put his arm around me or hold my hand when we are out. When we are in private, we let down our guards and let the affection flow. I didn't expect that we'd continue to see each other for this long.

The last time I saw him (2 nights ago), he took me out to dinner. We talked all night, came back to my place, cuddled and talked more. We kissed each other goodbye like we never have before and when he went home that night, I realized that my feelings for him were much deeper than I wanted them to be.

It's been almost 2 days since I've heard from him. I'm not worried just yet because he may call me tonight, but I wonder what is going through his mind. I've never dated a virgo before. He says he's not married and we've talked about his home and his family but we haven't talked about what will happen when he leaves. I'm afraid to be the first to bring that up. I don't know if this man really has feelings for me or if I'm just a fling to him too. All I know is that he was here with 2 other collegues from Europe (who have since left). They were out in the bars and clubs every night, hitting on every girl in sight, while my virgo was all about me. I'm falling for this virgo and I don't want to get hurt.

Errr??.!

Now that's new to me?. Any differences between foreign or domestic VIRGOS..??


lol

I think male European virgos are more virgo-esque than male American virgos. They're ?ber-virgos.

Take this with a grain of salt. This may very well be one of those things where I have my head up my ass. I spent 6 years of my 20's living (and loving virgos) in Europe and I'm just basing this on my personal experience.

If you bring up feelings .. he'll likely withdraw and then you won't see him again before he leaves. Virgo's tend to back away from emotional talks .. so, you'll have to wiegh that. What's more important at this time?

Having The Talk?

Or getting to spend what time he has left here with him.

I kinda had the talk with him last night. I knew that I shouldn't make it a heavy conversation but part of me really wants to know what's going to happen after he goes home because my feelings for him are very strong and i suspect that his are as well.

Yes this Virgo has displayed some very typical Virgo-like behavior and I'm not expecting him to be an emotional waterfall but I can tell that he cares. What I don't know is whether he is being super-nice to me before he goes back to Europe never to see me again or if he wants this to continue. I was waiting to see what he would say about all of this but my pisces mouth got the best of me and last night, i told him that I will miss him and that i know that he will forget me when he goes back. He held me tight, gave me little kisses on my forehead and told me that he will not forget me. He asked me if I wanted him to come back and I said of course. He saw that I was a bit sad so he took me out for a drink to "lift my mood" and all talk of him leaving ended at that point, which i was completely ok with.

How do you know when a Virgo really cares and when he doesn't? Is it wrong to tell a Virgo that you like him or that he makes you happy/laugh/smile/whatever? Do they like compliments at all?

Also I gotta ask because I read that Pisces and Virgo are not that compatible because they are too opposite and eventually Virgo will be scared off by what Pisces likes to do in bed because Virgos are "bread and butter" lovers while Pisces are "try"-sexuals...lol. Do you Virgos find this to be true?

Response to Qbone...

YES!! oh yes!! Well actually this is my first Virgo..domestic or foreign... but not my first foreign lover. I hate to sound biased but speaking from my experiences, i have not one bad thing to say about the foreign ones that I've dated. I think regardless of the sign, my foreign lovers had a finesse and an air about them that my "domestic" ones did not. I can't rag on American men completely however. My foreign girl friends seem to love them and think that they are better than the men from their own countries.

To each their own...