I'm a virgo and have had bad long toxic relationships where I hung on too long, or made a fatal mistake and tried to fix it, or fix their mistakes, or give up my whole identity and life to someone else and I keep repeating the pattern. I'm going to start therapy and codependent classes next week to face these issues but I'm so scared I'll pick the wrong guy again and try to love him and invest myself in him for him to change/open up. My favorite men are the ones that seem so lost and in themselves that seem like they need large amounts of TLC...always unfulfilling in the end. Feel used or misunderstood or taken for granted and I get too egotistical then. I have Uranus ruler of 7th too....
Can someone tell me the type of man I should look for depending on my chart, please? I'm very lost. Like what Venus, sun, mars, ect to look for in him? Thanks.
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Jan 11, 2011Comments: 21013 · Posts: 11558 · Topics: 83
No idea re the chart but us Virgos tend to do this. Let us know when you find out the why's lol.
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Oct 30, 2017Comments: 206 · Posts: 1368 · Topics: 16
All Virgo I know male or female are in toxic relationships. I started to feel bad for them until I realized they justify and sonetimes bully their partners. Virgo are always analyzing somebody to scrutiny. Why wouldn't i abuse someone who justify abusing me
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Nov 18, 2017Comments: 4 · Posts: 1588 · Topics: 129
The user who posted this message has hidden it. I know how you're feeling it's a virgo thing i think to stay longer then you should because you at least wanna try everything you can in your power so you can't say i didn't do anything for it afterwards and regret.
Thanks for all the responses. I feel like the worse the relationship is the harder I love and try to fix it no matter what. At the cost of myself I try and be perfect. I'm only happy when they recognize my love and give it back to me. The worse the problems the harder I fight for everything. Even if I caused the problems.
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Apr 07, 2011Comments: 1685 · Posts: 9901 · Topics: 213
Maybe its time you look into yourself rather than for someone else to fix your own issues? Who says you need to be with someone (right now)?