Are Virgos Nice or what?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Aria on Monday, May 20, 2013 and has 5 replies.
I'm getting confused with my virgo ex. He's hot and cold. It's crazy.
Situation is this. Like I posted before, me and an aqua got in a relationship and recently got in a mess but we're ok now. I did not tell my virgo ex that me and aqua are trying to fix our relationship. So, lately, I find it weird that he is becoming a bit emotional again just like when I first met him. He was telling me over and over again that he is very open with me. That he tells me if he's sad or happy. That recently he saw a mental doctor and that I have to bear with his hang ups. He kept on joking around me as well which already stopped in the past, when I got in a relationship with the aqua. I wasn't paying so much attention to him other than being a comforting friend. I just wonder why he's suddenly like that. Showing his emotions again when he has hidden and moved away from me before.
What can I do with this virgo? Should I continue to be a "friend" to him and show that I care? Or would it be best if I avoid him just so it won't lead to things that we might regret? I'm afraid to open up to him about the aqua since he might get angry at me again or something....
Are you with Aqua? Why are you concerned about Virgo? It seems you are playing one with the other to have someone there if the other doesn't work out. That isn't fair to either guy. And a Virgo will sniff that out. I think you need to make up your mind who you want and leave the other person alone. If you want Aqua then be with Aqua. If not then you will really find yourself alone and could have hurt two people.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Are you that gemini who gave up on the Virgo to date an Aqua and was jealous of some capricorn?



I'm the gem with an aqua who is in the process of a divorce.. And he has a kid. And I did post here recently asking for a sensible advice on how to deal with it because his ex-wife recently surfaced bearing his last name. And yes, the virgo and I were in a committed relationship but fell apart because towards the first year of our relationship, we started arguing and I cannot take it so I broke up with him. Been single for a good 3 months then aqua came in the picture via a taurus friend.
Posted by TheLioness79
Are you with Aqua? Why are you concerned about Virgo? It seems you are playing one with the other to have someone there if the other doesn't work out. That isn't fair to either guy. And a Virgo will sniff that out. I think you need to make up your mind who you want and leave the other person alone. If you want Aqua then be with Aqua. If not then you will really find yourself alone and could have hurt two people.


I wasn't playing with the other guy. That is the main reason why I am asking if it would be fair to be distant to the virgo because although I do not want to assume but he seems to be acting the same way as when we first met. I want to fix my relationship with the aqua. In fact we are trying. I also want to keep my friendship with the virgo--without being misunderstood like we are getting back together. But you know how geminis can be misunderstood by the way we treat people. I'm trying not to. It's just difficult because virgo seems very vulnerable lately......
Oh yeah? She's involved with the same signs?? Anyway, this is crazy. Sad