Are Virgos nosy ?

OK I'm a Libra Male married 20 yrs to a Virgo. ..so I'm a little bored so I'm stopping by this Forum for a question about my Virgo partner. She's a great gal but one of my biggest complaints is that she constantly needs to know what I'm up to when she is not around. She works every other weekend now so I'm solo during that time.We are on different schedules but I rarely go out without her (to aviod stress and fighting) and when I go do out she wants to know who will be there and when am I coming home. I've always been faithful and supportive of her but I get a sense that she worries when I am not with her, she is downright nosy at times.She needs to know EVERYTHING !
...she needles me until I get upset and tell her to back off and stop worrying .Is it a trust issue or is she just that insecure ? is this common in Virgo women ? she has a Libra Mars and Mercury so maybe that is where she gets her clingynes. And yes I'm a Libra man so I do some harmless flirting , but sheeeez !! any comments would be appreciated.

Insecurity. Not nosiness.

^Agree, she sounds insecure, not just nosy. I'm super nosy. Stick my nose in other people's business all the time. But I wouldn't keep constant tabs on a person if I was simply nosy. There's more to her than that.

wow

well what are you doing to re assure her dude?

Grow a pair and profess your love.

Posted by libragemmale

... married 20 yrs to a Virgo ...

... I rarely go out without her ...

... She needs to know EVERYTHING !

...she needles me until I get upset ...

Do Virgos ever wonder why they constantly fail in relationships?

Does the thought ever cross the mind that if you continue to doubt and not trust your partner ... that YOU are the one causing relationship stress?

20 years of marriage to a man and you STILL are insecure?


What the fuck do you want?


If a person gives you 20 years, and doesn't anywhere without you, for the desire of making sure you realize that there is someone out there just for you ... and that's not good enough to trust them?


The Virgo is notorius for being discriminative and discerning when it comes to picking the right person because finding a person to whom you can trust is imperative for you ... you can read about this fact in any book.

But, the truth is ... you never trust, even after 20 years of devotion, do you?

Let me ask .. do you ever check yourself with this, or do you live a lifetime believing this problem is always someone elses?



wow

thanks Roman ! I'll get back to you on this I have rehearsal plans for the night...

I agree with RomancingA on everything. I'd just like to add that after 20 years of marriage maybe she's scared. She may not feel like the prom queen anymore. If she has always acted this way for nothing it was your responsibility to tell her that she was being unfair to you. As a Virgo guy, if there is nothing but routine driving this woman you have spoiled her beyond all measure and have allowed her to treat you as a child instead of an adult. What if you want to all of a sudden drive to the bookstore and have a coffee you have to check in—Are you not allowed to grow as a human being and experiment and discover— I say you've made her too comfortable. She's not your mother and she never will be. You provide her with the respect, concern, and tenderness that all human being needs. It's your life @Libragemmale. You already know what the last 20 years were like. I say put your foot down and give her the business. And have a gift for her afterwards so she knows it just had to be said. That isn't something you should take so lightly. Love isn't a prison sentence. She's lucky to be with you because I'm certain zodiac sign has nothing to do with what is considered mutual respect and trust. Just think about it. Most guys go to the same places all the time anyway. Not on purpose. We just have strange methods to our madness.

Posted by libragemmale
thanks Roman ! I'll get back to you on this I have rehearsal plans for the night...

The girl is just simply stating what she would like a man to do for her (we know this doesn't hold true for all and RomancingA has her own selfish issues!)... but, you know your wife, take her in your arms and show her 😉

20 yrs, meh, one would be a fool to go anywhere else...

Sounds to me like you are being counselled by the dxp snitch to cater to her insecurities.


Careful dealing with this one .. if you say something she doesn't like, she goes on rampages, and doesn't even mind when she makes a fool out of herself.

I apprerciate everyone's advice and i am glad I asked here .Marrage can be hard work , at this point I am exhasuted. I have no desire to go into the deep details but I assure you I can look myself in the mirror. Libras are the sign of partnerships so maybe that is the force driving me to make it work.But I don't have all the answers and I am getting tired of te balaecing act.

hi
i think maybe that
there is nothing behind her
inquisitiveness
its just a way for
her to make
contact with
you
don't read
anything
into it

after 20 years
people become
annoyingly silly
for the hell
of it