I'm a Aries female and i met a Virgo male this semester of college. We've been seeing each other for four months and it was fun at first but its painful now. Here's our story... We have a class together and we were in the same group we exchanged numbers then two days later at a party he saw me an approached me and made sure i had his number so he can contact me. I didn't call him that night but he called me and asked me if i was walking and i was like yes this is me walking i'm going to my dorm and he said okay can we hangout tomorrow. I agreed...i,m a fun girl i knew what he meant by hanging out and it didn't bother me so they next day we ended up having sex he came to my dorm then we went to his and they sex was okay there were two times when we have had sex and he has gone soft during sex and he was mad that he sat beside me and didn't speak for minutes the other times got better and better he started to satisfy me like no other. He's a football player and he always teases me and calls me a "regular student" and always says hes busy because hes a college student and that,s why he doesn't make all A's like me. I saw him again at another party and i had sex with him at the party in a room with two other people again i'm an aries i'm wild and it was fun to me i enjoyed it but i wasted alcohol on his white shoes and he was upset not angry but he was mad in his face. I text him great game after all his football games and he texts me back saying either thank you or appreciate that. Some night we would go out to my car and smoke and recently he told me not to smoke cigarettes again but my grandmother just passed and he smoked on with me i asked him to say something because i wanted to get my mind off my grandmother he said he didn't want to talk he asked me if i was okay because i was eating chocolates and he want me to relax. I helped him with his papers and he told me some things about his childhood and earlier years in life. We have discussed his goals and mines as well. Everything was good until thanksgiving break i texted him but he never responded. When we returned he was talking to me as usual and is nothing was wrong. I saw him at a party a couple days ago i walked passed him and didn't speak because i texted him the night before and asked him for some of his time he read my message but never responded and he has done that twice. He flirts with other girls and wants to have a threesome with me which i wouldn't mind because i have done that before and its fun but hes forcing it upon me and now he doesn't' respond to my calls or text messages and i'm confused because he told me once in October "ill never forget about you your a character" and i smiled because i believed him now i don't know what to believe because he has became cold distant and mean towards me and has pulled away from me . Where do i go from here... i'm an aries i can move on in a heartbeat but its something about that Virgo that intrigues me...makes me want him
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Aug 23, 2015Comments: 69 · Posts: 2006 · Topics: 56
I honestly cant stand girls who act like theyre just having fun and then look for more after sex -_-. You signed up basically for the booty call. Stay. In. Your. Lane.
Youre not made for this lifestyle. Stop now before you hurt yourself even more.
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Aug 09, 2014Comments: 17 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 35
I'm a "fun" girl well you should know that fun girls don't last. The lust is fading move on boo you know this was intended for forever.
I think having sex with him the first night and in a room off a party is really the problem. Most
men partake in easy and readily available men but do not have respect for such an easy conquest., especially a virgo. I'd try to have more self respect
And honor myself and my body. Otherwise I'd accept it as just that. It's a
One night stand. Which if that's what all you want then ok but girls
That are easy usually don't fair well with a Virgo man.