aries on the way out

I've dated a aries man for several years off and on. we have two children. Our last child recently was born. we have had our ups and downs and in and outs of love sessions. we have had problems with mother of his other child. three weeks after having his son we get into a argument which is one of many. I ask him to leave. I have done this several times. he tells me he doesn't want to go and that I'm forcing him to abandon his kids. But I no longer can handle his lack of support.He just doesn't do enough. I'm a virgo. He decides to go but not empty handed. he takes my money before leaving. I haven't heard from him since and now this women he has a child by has been calling playing on my phone. she is aware he took my money from me also and laughed at me once she knew. I feel he had her do this. That is really cold? I mean can aries be so cold to strike back like this when hurt by someone? I know he wants be here with the baby and daughter but he don't understand he needs to do more on his behalf as a father.

Bab you are so right. I haven't heard from him since he is such a treetrunk. His first son we'll never know him. Due to this mistake. I will never trust him again. I thought aries was honest people and very giving. he appeared to be very sneaky,domineering. I can say I saw his pain in leaving and know he didn't wnt to leave. but why do something so repulsive as take from your kids. why have your ex, I'm assuming paly on my phone. I'm going pursue charges. all I could hear in his argument me,me,me. what about me?

wow.

first of all, it's very hard to say why people do the things they do according to when they were born. astrology just predisposes someone to a certain type of behavior.

that said....i am in love with a virgo. i am also in my mid thirties. i really believe this relationship would have never worked 10 years ago.

i don't know your age. you seem mature though.

your aries is pulling out all the stops to win this fight... and that my dear, is so unfortunate.

the truth of the matter is that when aries fights with virgo, it might seem that aries is winning or being the ugliest, or WHATEVER.

the truth of the matter is that you virgos are so pure and sweet and true with your love that when you withdraw it, it is utter devestation for us. with that, we go into "fight till the death" mode, and do horrible and nasty things that we will certainly regret in the future.

the things that sucks is that by the time we realize what we have done, it is often too late.....

a better relationship to be had between 2 mature and experienced adults, IMO.
than again...he may just be a schmuck. if so, ditch him and find yourself someone who is worthy of your fine virgo a $ $ .

Plh,

What you mean pulling all the stops to win his fight.... what is the fight? That's what i can't see. (Elaborate)

I can'understand why do things that will push people further away.

I wish I Knew his birth time to do his chart. I appreciate your words girl becuase this aries have me going through over here with two babies by his treetrunk of a @ $ $ .