as usual, again, have questions :)
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Miasma on Saturday, May 6, 2006 and has 7 replies.
hi y'all,
updating...
virguy invited me to one of his friend's birthday, so i met all his friends yesterday..well i was suprised bc some of his friends already knew details about me and they were like " we hear a lot about you". well, we are not going out but his friends made me feel like i am his gf.. again we were together all night long, later the night he took me to a place..we were alone (he told he loves that place)bla bla.. at the end he drop me home and kissed me before i left the car, he texted me after and this is it.
so guys i'm really listening advices.. i never called or texted him this week
i am trying to be patient and persistent
..and as a result:he texted me tuesday and invited me to this birthday friday
so now what, shouldn't i do something..still no action?
i think i am starting to get use to this waiting period but things are getting intense btw us and then comes a waiting period and expectedly things get cold..so we start all over again when we sea eachother and able reach to the exact point as the previous..can't go further
??
updating...
virguy invited me to one of his friend's birthday, so i met all his friends yesterday..well i was suprised bc some of his friends already knew details about me and they were like " we hear a lot about you". well, we are not going out but his friends made me feel like i am his gf.. again we were together all night long, later the night he took me to a place..we were alone (he told he loves that place)bla bla.. at the end he drop me home and kissed me before i left the car, he texted me after and this is it.
so guys i'm really listening advices.. i never called or texted him this week
i am trying to be patient and persistent
..and as a result:he texted me tuesday and invited me to this birthday fridayso now what, shouldn't i do something..still no action?
i think i am starting to get use to this waiting period but things are getting intense btw us and then comes a waiting period and expectedly things get cold..so we start all over again when we sea eachother and able reach to the exact point as the previous..can't go further
??
Miasma,
I would advice to still wait it out. Look what he did when you didn't contact him all week. You go girl. Please stay firm and not act like you are needing to be in constant contact with him. As I've found out myself, Virgos do like space and then they all of sudden pop up again. I don't understand this behavior at all but it's just the way it is.
Go on with you life and don't act too anxious with him. Let him come to you when he's ready. It's difficult to wait because then you think you're acting not interested. I used to think that also but I was wrong. This Virgo guy will take contact with you so don't you worry. Stay cool, calm and collected. Things will work out if you don't push too hard.
I remember reading on DXP that someone wrote they were so fed up with their Virgo that they gave up. This person realized that when she didn't do anything, Virgo would contact her. I think it had to do with she gave him space.
Just sit back and take things slow. You don't want to ruin anything by going to fast or acting desperate. This Virgo guy knows you like him. Therefore don't rush anything.
Good luck! Good for you standing firm and going on with your life.
Mystical
I would advice to still wait it out. Look what he did when you didn't contact him all week. You go girl. Please stay firm and not act like you are needing to be in constant contact with him. As I've found out myself, Virgos do like space and then they all of sudden pop up again. I don't understand this behavior at all but it's just the way it is.
Go on with you life and don't act too anxious with him. Let him come to you when he's ready. It's difficult to wait because then you think you're acting not interested. I used to think that also but I was wrong. This Virgo guy will take contact with you so don't you worry. Stay cool, calm and collected. Things will work out if you don't push too hard.
I remember reading on DXP that someone wrote they were so fed up with their Virgo that they gave up. This person realized that when she didn't do anything, Virgo would contact her. I think it had to do with she gave him space.
Just sit back and take things slow. You don't want to ruin anything by going to fast or acting desperate. This Virgo guy knows you like him. Therefore don't rush anything.
Good luck! Good for you standing firm and going on with your life.
Mystical
Miasma:
"i think i am starting to get use to this waiting period but things are getting intense btw us and then comes a waiting period and expectedly things get cold..so we start all over again when we sea eachother and able reach to the exact point as the previous..can't go further"
I meant to comment to this statement. All I can say: GET USE TO IT.
"i think i am starting to get use to this waiting period but things are getting intense btw us and then comes a waiting period and expectedly things get cold..so we start all over again when we sea eachother and able reach to the exact point as the previous..can't go further"
I meant to comment to this statement. All I can say: GET USE TO IT.
thank you mystical
i hope i will have that strenght
i hope i will have that strenght
You will have the strength. I've gone through something similar with the hot and cold games for a while. I've been up and down. Not to sound too depressing but I'm almost at my breaking point because it's so unsettling. Like in my case, I don't hear from the Virgo guy for a week and then he calls me at 1 AM this past Saturday morning like nothing had happened. The last time him and I had talked he was annoyed with me because I was honest with him. Therefore I figured everything was over with and gave up on the situation. Then he just pops up again. When he called me he's telling me he's popular with other girls which is fine by me. I have no idea why he's telling me this at all. He didn't get a reaction from me. I wouldn't give him the satisfaction either. As I've said before, I don't understand Virgos at all but they are very interesting to say the least.
Just sit back and wait. Let things go the way they should.
Mystical
Just sit back and wait. Let things go the way they should.
Mystical
Interesting to say the least..Mystical
I totally agree. It's been an interesting experience. I just hope it's something that will only happened once in lifetime because I got more than I ever bargained for.
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