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Carlikins
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by Carlikins
Damn you Virgos!! But I wuv u so... = (



we wove our trines also..

you have to realize a robot's emotions are few and far in between.
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It's like trying to read a very difficult and unfamiliar manual... its not hard to understand given the context, but for some reason it still doesn't compute and you just stare at the text instead... it's simple yet complex, making you work hard to find the answer which could be right in front of your face the entire time.

I usual can read people well, but Virgos can be hard, they give you no answer or it takes alot of time...
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SelenaKyle
@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

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Posted by VirgoChyld
Posted by justagirl
I don't need help with Virgos, y'all are EASY to figure out.

I do need a body massage... 😛


I hope your right.... lol

A body massage.... you asking or telling?
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Hope I'm right about knowing Virgos? Yes, I do find them easy to understand & relate too. 😉


I also know what can trigger shit: move their items around, provide some unnecessary drama, usually in public, berate them.. make a mess (there is more I can list if you wish hahaha) 😛


It's when others place their own expectations or creates false illusion's to who the other person is that tends to create the issues. That can be with all signs not just involving Virgos. That's my theory anyway.

As to the massage, I wish I had someone around right now so I could ask!
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VirgoChyld
@VirgoChyld
12 Years500+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by justagirl
Posted by VirgoChyld
Posted by justagirl
I don't need help with Virgos, y'all are EASY to figure out.

I do need a body massage... 😛


I hope your right.... lol

A body massage.... you asking or telling?



Hope I'm right about knowing Virgos? Yes, I do find them easy to understand & relate too. 😉


I also know what can trigger shit: move their items around, provide some unnecessary drama, usually in public, berate them.. make a mess (there is more I can list if you wish hahaha) 😛


It's when others place their own expectations or creates false illusion's to who the other person is that tends to create the issues. That can be with all signs not just involving Virgos. That's my theory anyway.

As to the massage, I wish I had someone around right now so I could ask!
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I wouldn't blame you if you did, I tend to think we are simple

Yes certain things make us out of sync or crazy namely the things you mentioned, lol 😉

Yes illusions do play a part also they are not communicating their need and wants and expectations in the relationship

No one to give you a massage that sucks
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Shescomeundone
@Shescomeundone
12 Years500+ Posts

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Posted by Carlikins
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Carlikins
Damn you Virgos!! But I wuv u so... = (



we wove our trines also..

you have to realize a robot's emotions are few and far in between.




It's like trying to read a very difficult and unfamiliar manual... its not hard to understand given the context, but for some reason it still doesn't compute and you just stare at the text instead... it's simple yet complex, making you work hard to find the answer which could be right in front of your face the entire time.

I usual can read people well, but Virgos can be hard, they give you no answer or it takes alot of time...
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^^^^^^
+100000
My life..._?'——?_??_
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purplerain
@purplerain
12 Years

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Posted by VirgoChyld
Posted by purplerain
It's rainin' Virgos.... hallelujah. Thanks universe! 🙂


I am glad you find that appealing purplerain, not many others don't *shrug*
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Well...Virgo's (atleast mine) are pretty simple to me. I had a hard time understanding them at one time, but now I just love them. Can't imagine life without mine. If he criticizes me these days, I know his meaning and I dont get all offended. I love how everything is always in perfect order.. if he folds my clothing for me, everything has a perfect crease 😄
And last, when/if he wants alone time I go do my own thing and he always calls me back very shortly. Love you Virgo's!
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SelenaKyle
@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

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Posted by Damnata
Oh we all have the answers on Virgos..

It's just you see so many retarded questions on here, some answered time and time again.

Remember that chick who went about the Virgo not liking her jeans or smthg? WHAT CAN THIS MEAN?



oohh lordy.. tight jeans girl? I still stand behind what I said in that thread... "she" was a he trolling everyone.

As to the retarded questions, have you noticed the theme? Attention whores in the majority of those threads. I just laugh at them now. Guess my helpful side as grown cynical over the last few months.

Damnata I have a question...... will it happen? 😛
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SelenaKyle
@justagirl
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Posted by scorchedearth
Posted by PVandJelleh
Posted by VirgoChyld
We always misunderstood so no use trying to explain

But sometimes you're misunderstood because you don't explain... 😐



sometimes they do try to explain and it's like...

virgo: LOGIC LOGIC LOGIC LOGIC

you: feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelings

virgo: "...."

which is neither parties fault. it just is what it is. 😛
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It is fun to toss 'feeeeellllllings' to see how they react...

muhhahaahahahahah
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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by scorchedearth
i think that it's easier to just keep it logical/rational with them. i've thrown some spectacular tantrums with virgos and all i've gotten in return is a "lolwut?" look. my default setting with them is to just keep my feelings to myself.



Yeah, if you want drama, we're not a good sign for that.

We will understand your feelings but if you have the expectation we express ourselves theatrically in return, it won't go well.

Throw any tantrum at me..I'm like "lolwut?" indeed.

Express yourself in any other way except throwing a fit or trying to get a reaction...and I will be receptive and supportive with that.

It's not a problem of expressing one's self..it's about what you intend to do with that. And most of us see it crystal clear, for better or for worse.

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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by PVandJelleh
I don't know. I find Virgos are good at seeing everyone's faults but their own sometimes.



Wrong, we will see it but we won't express our findings to you because it's us dealing with us.

If you think we should, then you better check that ego. (ofc not talking about you pvaf, the general you but since you brought it up.. 😛)

There is NO other sign in the zodiac who sees their faults more clearly in the back of their minds and agonizes over this shit. I see it with fellow Virgos instantly.

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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by scorchedearth
Posted by PVandJelleh
Posted by VirgoChyld
We always misunderstood so no use trying to explain

But sometimes you're misunderstood because you don't explain... 😐



sometimes they do try to explain and it's like...

virgo: LOGIC LOGIC LOGIC LOGIC

you: feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelings

virgo: "...."

which is neither parties fault. it just is what it is. 😛
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I like and (somehow) endorse this.
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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by PVandJelleh
Posted by Damnata
Posted by PVandJelleh
I don't know. I find Virgos are good at seeing everyone's faults but their own sometimes.



Wrong, we will see it but we won't express our findings to you because it's us dealing with us.

If you think we should, then you better check that ego. (ofc not talking about you pvaf, the general you but since you brought it up.. 😛)

There is NO other sign in the zodiac who sees their faults more clearly in the back of their minds and agonizes over this shit. I see it with fellow Virgos instantly.

It not about ego. It's just when you point a finger at someone else, you have four pointing back at you. And often times Virgos tend to "fault find" and wanna tell you what "your problem" is. But when you point out their flaws...** crickets**... they don't wanna discuss that butter. 😐
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Like I said, let me repeat myself.

You will NOT see us talking to ourselves or acknowledging what you said. The whole process is mental..we take notice of it but yes, you won't see it on the exterior.
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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by tiziani
I think it's pointless to be the voice of criticism to a Virgo usually (not always) since they've likely already thought of their worst flaws a million times over before anyone else decided to voice it.

It doesn't help them since it only encourages them to wallow further into their greatest flaws... self-pity, self-flaggellation, giving up too easily and accepting failure too easily.



Yes. You're preaching to the choir though.
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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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To address scorched's "emotionally retarded" comment.

A Virgo will live up to whatever image you have of them, if they care about you.

They might stumble and tumble and not express themselves well but there will be a means of expression. If you dismiss this because oh your way of expression is SO much real/better/mightier...that's on you and not on us. People should navigate relationships by allowing people to GENUINELY express themselves. And if that expression either matches or can be understood by you..life is great.

I really like emotional people and I can deal with over the top feels..I have tolerance for that and I get it. Me expressing myself the way you wish me to.. is fake to me. At the end of the day I have only myself to account for and I will be true to myself to the end.

I never EVER met a Virgo who wasn't emotionally expressive towards their partner. If anything we take that shit over the board. You cannot mistake it..it's impossible to miss that.

do NOT confuse all this shit with a Virgo not giving a fuck. Those are bad apples and should have their Virgo cards revoked. Highly manipulative people also.
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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Yes on the double standard with criticism...I take it as good as I give but I know what you folks talk about and it's one of the problems with us.

We grow out of that eventually...

Bring your best criticism or GTFO 😈

I actually started liking criticism in the last years...helps me either to evolve or go "gee, this person doesn't get me at all. time for a little cleaning in my life"
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Damnata
@Damnata
15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by tiziani
How much emotional content do you make allowance for in a relationship usually on a week to week basis Damnata?



A lot..as long as they understand I might not match them in intensity or respond how they wish me to. I will respond but my way of expression is not that intense I think.

If they have issues with that, based on their ego "How dare you not show your feels to me like I bark mine from up the street?", I will be done soon enough. If they approach me with "I want to know where this is headed and if we're on the same wavelength emotionally", then I will joyfully do my best.

Bottom line..anything that is good for the relationship will be supported and encouraged by me. Everything that is an ego contest will make me run away.

I understand people have different ways to express themselves..I wish the other people would too.
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